Reblogging this post will earn you a blocking, if you want to talk about it just @ me but since I disclose some personal info that I don’t fucking want around, don’t fucking rb it, or you’ll be blocked.
I need my feelings on Call Me By Your Name out though, hence this post.
I’ll start off by saying that everybody’s experiences are different, and people who are uncomfortable with the film or the book have all the rights to feel that and I’m not going to ask why or how. I don’t want to say valid, but of course your own feelings are your own, and you can’t control them. You can control how you act though.
I have something against people who take their personal life experience (or their country laws cough cough) as an absolute. If I had to use my actual personal experience as an absolute, then since I was abused by a person my own age, and when I dated someone 18 years my senior he was really good and respectful of my boundaries, I would rule out the possibility of age difference being a problem. But I don’t, because I don’t make my experiences an absolute.
About the age of consent that people get up in arms about: In Italy we have various ages of consent, but two are the ones that matter: one is 13 and it’s within 3 years of difference, and it’s meant for teens to start having sex with other teens. The other one, the general one, is 14, unlessthere’s an unbalanced power relationship.This means that when you’re 17 (Elio’s age) you can have sex with everybody you want, and even if your parents disagree–in case your partner is of age–the law allows for a 5 years age gap of tolerance so they can’t do anything within that gap. This can make you uncomfortable as much as you want, but it doesn’t change what’s the law in Italy and how consequently us Italians grow up. Literally. Italy is not the USA and this is how things are, and things in the USA are not inherently better. So please next time you think about bringing up the issue of legal age, just think about it.
And for the love of god, as an actual CSA survivor who was 7 years old when it happened, if I see the world pedophilia being thrown around I’m going to fucking flip out. It’s disgusting and devalues the word and the act.
Bottom line if you want not to see the film, just do it. Like I didn’t go to see W/onder W/oman because I really am not for people who write #weareright and #iloveIDF in their insta posts. I didn’t make it a big deal, and so can you.
ETA: thanks to @anulloamato bc i did mess up the age of consent law in italy but tbf since we are eased into adulthood, and people don’t pretend we’re kids one day and adults another day, it’s a very complicated matter and it has a lot of ages and stuff. so i forgot.
you've heard of Almost Every Other Ship now get ready for: shirogane takashi/matt holt,, , pl ease i cant be the only one aight
oh my mcfreaking god ur right
They literally spent months in a (probably) small spaceship while on their way to Kerberos. They had to have been friends.
Shiro instantly recognized Pidge the moment they mention Matt/their dad. Why? Because Matt told Shiro all about his family. Maybe because, lol idk, MATT WANTED SHIRO TO MEET THEM.
Mr. Holt and Matt probably squealed about the science they were going to do every day and Shiro thought an excited Matt was so cute.
Shiro is almost as deadset as Pidge on rescuing Matt/Mr. Holt? Hm I w onder wh y….
Can you imagine Shiro flying the ship and Matt sitting in the co-pilot’s seat (Mr. Holt is busy doing science) and just talking for hours… Looking at new stars together… Naming constellations together… Shiro points out one cluster and is like “Lol those look like your freckles” and Matt’s like “I gotta g o”
They both restrained themselves to only light/mild flirting bc Matt’s dad was literally three feet away at all times what a moodkiller.
They never got the chance to start something before everything went to hell :’(
The scene in the gladiator has 1000000x more meaning like! Shiro willingly hurt Matt just to save him. Shiro deliberately took Matt’s place, a position that no one had ever survived against the current Champion. Shiro was willing to die to buy Matt more time and a better chance to find his dad??
SUGAHINA, DAIHINA, ASAHINA, OIHINA, TANAHINA, IWAHINA, AND FUTAHINA
i h8 u
notp / not really / meh / I could / sometimes / maker, yes / my otp babbies
Who is the most affectionate?
suga for sure!!! not that hinata isn’t affectionate he loves cuddling and kissing suga but suga is just so in love with hinata he wants to be everywhere he is and always be touching him soMEWHERE whether it be shoulder or head or hand or cheek or… ot her places cc;;
Big spoon/Little spoon?
suga’s the big spoon and hina’s the little spoon. hinata argues that he could totally be the big spoon if he tried but rlly he lo VES being wrapped up in suga’s arms. most of the time tho they sleep with hinata attached to suga as he sleeps on his back (his hand on hina’s waist)
Most common argument?
probably suga’s insecurity towards volleyball. one time suga was having a really bad day bc of it and hinata sat him down and just. body worship. body worship everywhere. compliments not only about his body but how good of a setter he is. and how much he loves hitting suga’s tosses.
Favorite non-sexual activity?
cooking/baking bc. housewife hinata. y es yes always
Who is most likely to carry the other?
suga gives hinata piggybacks all the time
hinata doesn’t say it much to suga’s face but he calls him angel almost everytime he’s talking about it. whenever hinata d oES ssay it to his face tho, suga’s a blushing mess. suga always calls hinata by his first name and nicknames him along the lines of “sunshine, etc.”
Who worries the most?
as much as i love top!hina, i’m pre sure suga although they both rlly like it when hinata rides him
Who initiates kisses?
both initiate the same amount i think (maybe hina a bit more bc he rLLY loves suga’s lips)
Who wakes up first?
hinata!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! but he’ll often just stay wrapped up in suga’s arms a bit more before getting up and making breakfast
Who says I love you first?
suga says it and he’s so sincere and serious and just dead set on hinata believing him which causes hinata to become a blushing mess, stuttering the words out back to him
@kashitaro_ito: I can tell from everyone’s replies! I wonder why everyone has been worrying about me recently…! It’s not a lie or anything, right now besides being the healthiest I’ve been in my life, my singing condition is good too…! I’m really alright!!
((t/n: Mr Kashitaro, please control yourself www 腹筋 fukkin, sit-ups, stomach muscles or abs as you can tell has a really similar pronunciation as fucking. Never expected the day that Kashitaro would swear to come w)
(t/n: 横綱 yokozuna, is the highest rank in sumo 横綱不在 Yokozuna fuzai means that there is no sumo champion. In this case, it can be translated as “No Sumo King”, which you can tell has a very similar pronunciation to No Smoking. Once again, w onderful pun brought to you by Mr Ito.)
The recent stuffing really did w+ork its w+onders +on my preci+ous little Kanny! N+ot +only has he g+otten s+ofter, but his appetite has increase as well! He asked f+or a sec+ond breakfast t+oday and I have yet t+o sp+ot him n+ot either drinking +or eating whilst d+oing +other things. All I need t+o d+o n+ow, is make him relax a bit.