“(insert Character in an abusive relationship that did a few things wrong but was still the victim) was abusive too!!! They aren’t the victim!!!”
Really now? Really? Are they? Or are you just reenforcing the “perfect little victim” mentality and making it harder for real life abuse victims to get help for their abuse because they did bad things now and then so it couldn’t possibly be abuse?
Mutual abuse doesn’t exist. Just shut up and say you hate victims already if you think otherwise.