very dysfunctional

burningocean  asked:

Top 5 Soukoku moments ? 😎

Hi Ann, look at what you’ve done. Thank you for the pain. 

1. “I used Corruption because I trusted you”. All this scene is sort of heartbreaking. Chuuya trusts Dazai so much it physically pains me. He hasn’t used Corruption in FOUR YEARS, and then Dazai comes and says “let’s do it like the old times” / “yes, why not, I’ll just put my life in your hands like I did countless of times despite the fact that you betrayed me and I haven’t heard from you in FOUR FRIGGING YEARS and I could literally die in front of your eyes”. WHO DOES THAT????????? Chuuya Nakahara, apparently. That being said, I can’t believe my favorite skk moment is also the moment that makes me raging THE MOST. Of course I’m still outrageously bitter because Dazai literally called him partner, folded his clothes (yes, I’m bringing back the vintage receipts here), washed his face from the blood and then…left him there??? WHAT THE FUCK DAZAI???

2. When they pull the power couple aesthetic. When they actually work together as a team, they are mesmerizing to watch. You can see that the roots of their partnership are still there, that they know each other so much that sometimes they don’t even need words to communicate. They are not Soukoku for nothing, after all. 

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3. When Chuuya fake killed Dazai (aka, Soukoku in a nutshell). Ah this is such a powerful moment, the cherry on top of a scene where Dazai did everything he could to push Chuuya on the verge of murder, just to see him almost doing it. I can’t help but think how liberating this gesture must have been for Chuuya, he finally let out a little bit of his frustration (that’s why he was there in the first place. After four years he’s still bugged by him, he still wants some sort of revenge, he still needs a closure Dazai is not willing to give him). But that’s it. You can say you’ll kill him all you want, my little Chuuya, but will you really? I don’t think so, because you care and love him so much it’s almost painful to watch. And if you, Dazai, could stop toying with him every chance you get, I’d really appreciate it. Thank you very much.

4. Every time Dazai reminds Chuuya that he knows everything about him. Tell us more about those moves and those thrusts Dazai, we’re all ears. 

5. DORKS. First of all, I want Dazai saying “CHUUUYAAAAAA” as the sound people hear passing next to my grave. Second. I feel so robbed because in the manga Dazai actually laugh his ass off at Chuuya’s “little rich girl” impression. 

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- bonus: all the official art involving them is a blessing sent from the gods, I think that Bones ships them as much as we do if not more (remember the park date one? HONESTLY). But there’s one that has has a special place in my heart:

LISTEN. L I S T E N. I could talk about this art literally for two days straight because ??? You can try to convince me all you want, but this is made to be somehow romantic. Look at the way Dazai is tilting his chin up, it looks like he’s waiting for a kiss. And Chuuya is looking in our direction but if he was to look down he’ll be right above Dazai’s lips and ???? WHAT THE FUCK??? Not to mention what’s probably the most fucked up thing here that is THE FLOWERS. It’s a Camellia Japonica, or Japanese Quince, and they are the symbol of love, temptation, passion and deep desire. That’s it y’all. I’m out. I don’t even know what to say anymore. Soukoku might not be canon, but sure as hell they are baiting it…a lot. 

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i’ve been thinking about sam and trying to figure out why she’s… not a good person and i realized that i isolated her behavior to how she acts towards her friends and didn’t really look at the influences on her.

when i was thinking about the relationship between danny and his parents, i realized that sam and her parents actually have a very dysfunctional and abusive relationship. her parents want her to be someone that she’s not and refuse to respect her or relent their opinions despite the distress it causes sam. they attempt to control her life by trying to force her into clothes they like versus the clothes she’s comfortable in; they will actually harass her to the point that she has to physically remove herself from her home; and they try to restrict and control who she associates with (see control freaks, reality trip, and reign storm). danny and tucker have never been to her home even though they’ve been friends for years and when they are invited over, sam’s parents aren’t around. sam knows her parents will disapprove of her friends, so she never let them meet tucker or danny. because of this, whenever sam is at home with her parents, she probably is under a great deal of stress and feels extremely isolated. she always has to be on the defensive because she is being emotionally attacked and manipulated by her parents.

which is a problem because sam cares a lot. she cares about the environment, she cares about animals, she cares about individual rights and autonomy, and she really cares about the people who care for her. but the problem is that she’s so used to being aggressive and defensive about her interests and who is she, that she naturally lashes out and gets embarrassed or worried when she lets her guard down. she’s fast to judge harshly because it’s how she protects herself. and she drinks in every time she gets a “win” because it means she actually has control of something. that’s why she is probably so active in so many charities, works out, and is at fentonworks all the time - she’s trying to stay in healthier environments. (and also why she’s not an a-lister - they so similar to her parents)

i just… really want to apologize to sam now. you’re not a horrible person, kid, you’re just trying to get by the only way you know how.

The Seven Deadly Sins

“From the ashes a fire shall be woken…

… the crownless again shall be king.”

Born from fire and ashes, you’ve learned to equip an arsenal of weaponry. Humans have come to fear you, even though you can take human form, and dragons have learned to avoid you, despite you being able to transform into a dragon whenever you please. The only kinship you’ve found in your long life has been with Smaug. It was a friendship breed from your undying love of gold. Both of you are fiercely loyal and protective of one another to a flaw. When your friendship first formed, Smaug gave you one of his fangs as a symbol of faithfulness. You kept it on a gold chain for safe keeping. After his death, it became the only thing pushing you to be stronger. Now, any who know you fear you. You’ve become the greatest symbol of loyalty, power, and greed in all of Middle Earth.

“Maybe I am a monster.”

You were created from the mind of Tony Stark. He made you almost human, but not quite. Your first and favorite friend was Vision. Once, you dared to ask Tony about your emotions, he laughed but thoroughly explained the intricacies of love. For a long time, you were ashamed to say you were in love with Vision. When you dared to admit it to yourself, you were flooded with envy. Vision seemed to have his eye set on somebody else, somebody human. For the first time in your life, you wished you were something you weren’t. You felt inadequate and wanted to change, even though change was impossible. Violent thoughts ran through your mind, but you managed to keep them down. You were a monster, so you ran and never looked back.

“Short cuts make for long delays.”

As a recently made queen, you found some things a bit difficult. Of course, Thranduil was always by your side to help you with anything, but you couldn’t quite seem to rule the way you should’ve been. In your early days of queen, you had become a recluse, and often avoided contact with anyone outside of Legolas and Thranduil. You’d spend your time in the forest, lying among the trees. It took a lot of effort, but eventually Thranduil was able to get you out of your spell and working again. You soon became the queen he knew you could always be.

“At last we will have our revenge.”

Being a Jedi was not an easy feat, and it was definitely not something you were cut out for. When you were young, your parents were slaughtered. Those responsible were never punished. During your years training to be a Jedi, you’d never let that thought go. You were given a chance to take revenge and you didn’t back down from the challenge. The power that coursed through your veins felt good, it felt right. You became addicted to that feeling, leaving the Jedi Order behind to become something much better: a Sith. When Kylo Ren came around, you were assigned to train with him. At first it was like a game of cat and mouse, but eventually you both gave into the temptations. Kylo was as addicting as raw power. Now, nothing in the galaxy is powerful enough to stop the two of you together.

“Death cannot stop me, for I am death.”

As a seemingly immortal assassin, you’ve learned to appreciate the finer things in life. Of course, all of these so called “finer things” are edible, and taste damn good. Your life is composed of food, weaponry, and the occasional hookup. So, surprise-surprise when you meet the infamous Wade Wilson and fall madly in love. Opposites may attract, but people usually love themselves more than others, so who wouldn’t want to be with somebody exactly like them? It’s a very dysfunctional relationship, but you wouldn’t want it either way. Everyone knows enough to stay out of your way, especially considering the weapons stash the two of you own. Your absolute favorite date with Wade was the time the two of you broke into a candy store and ate all of it. ALL OF IT. You’ve both got some pretty bad habits, but hey, you’re happy, who’s to judge that?

“If you desire something, just take it.”

Lucifer is the very definition of temptation. Whenever he’s near, you turn into a completely different person. He makes you feel amazing, and vice versa. It’s an undefined relationship that was built upon lust, and has definitely added a deeper emotional connection. But for now, the two of you avoid emotional situations, sticking entirely with the lustful beginning. It’s like the two of you just can’t get enough of one another. His hands will be all over your body and you’ll still want him closer. Eventually, you know you’ll have to address the whole emotional situation, but for now, the two of you are happy with a simple agreement of sex.

“I can’t bow to any man and call him master. I believe in myself.”

You were born to a world of magic and took great pride in that. You were the only person that you trusted, that you could rely on. Unfortunately, Stephen Strange was the same way when the two of you met. There was enough ego in the room to fill the world. At first, you hated one another. You were two prideful creatures with opposing views. After Stephen had momentarily defeated Mordo, you’d had a moment of respect before crawling back to your prideful ways. Once Dr. Strange was named Sorcerer Supreme, you’d finally found kinship. You were, and still are, very prideful, but you’ve found humility with him. Eventually, kinship turned to a magical romance filled with chaos and sparks. He showed you the universe, and you showed him just as much.

PSA about PMDD

I just had to post this. I had to get the word out about something that needs to be more widely known and understood.

First of all,

PMS is not a joke. It is horrible and shitty to have to go through.

Second of all,

PMDD is different and is also not a joke.

Now let me explain for those who don’t know. PMDD stands for Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder. Let’s look at those words more closely. 

Premenstrual: Roughly speaking the two-week period leading up to a woman’s menstruation every month.

Dysphoric: Dysphoria is described as being “a profound state of unease or dissatisfaction. In a psychiatric context, dysphoria may accompany depression, anxiety, or agitation.” And can often indicate an increased risk for suicide.

Disorder:  many clinicians will describe psychiatric disorders as deviant, distressful, and dysfunctional patterns of thoughts, feelings and behaviors

NOW, lets break down disorder into those 3 parts

        Deviant: thoughts or behaviors that are different from most of the rest of a given cultural context

        Distress: a subjective feeling that something is really very wrong

        Dysfunction: when a person’s ability to work, and live is clearly and often measurably impaired.

These 3 things are what the field of psychology would like to call the criteria for diagnosing someone with a mental or behavioral illness. That last one in particular. Now that was a lot of info so how about I make this all a little bit more visual…

So now that you understand what PMDD means and that it is a real diagnosable illness, lets take a look at what it means to live with it.

PMDD was added to the DSM in its most recent addition in 2013, the DSM5 lists the following 11 symptoms as characteristic of PMDD

·      Marked lability (e.g., mood swings)

·      Marked irritability or anger

·      Markedly depressed mood

·      Marked anxiety and tension

·      Decreased interest in usual activities

·      Difficulty in concentration

·      Lethargy and marked lack of energy

·      Marked change in appetite (e.g., overeating or specific food cravings)

·      Hypersomnia or insomnia

·      Feeling overwhelmed or out of control

·       Physical symptoms (e.g., breast tenderness or swelling, joint or muscle pain, a sensation of ‘bloating’ and weight gain)

Speaking as someone who has been diagnosed with this by an actual doctor, I can say that PMDD is the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with, when I am not in the premenstrual period I am constantly thinking about how far away from it I am. I plan things around it because I can, because it comes every month like clockwork. All I can do is try and enjoy my self for the two weeks every month when I am not in absolute hell. And when it comes, everything is a struggle. I have to force myself to go to class, force myself to talk to people, force myself to shower, brush my teeth and do anything other than pull myself out of crying fits and into numbness, out of anxiety attacks and into the temptation to self harm. 

After it is all over I try and move on and recover and live my life to the fullest until it comes back but that is all I can hope for. A half life.

So let me reiterate, PMDD is not ajoke. If those symptoms or my testament hit a little too close to home, please share your concerns with a doctor and get a formal diagnosis and treatment. And for everyone else, all I ask is that you spread awareness and try to think twice the next time you think about accusing a girl of PMSing because ever since 2013 this has been a bona fide mental illness. We as a society can not claim that we are working towards reducing the stigma on mental illnesses if we are only doing so for a select few on a list of many.

Please reblog and spread awareness.

present me: I am going to create something! I have so many ideas! so many things i could do! endless possibility!

the me from 2 minutes in the future watching, chuckling derisively while slogging through the blue hellswamp of tungler.org: will this dumbass EVER learn

Jughead x Reader: Trouble in Paradise


Request:
Can you do an imagine were jughead says he doesn’t love the reader any more in a mean way and the reader attempts suicide and he goes to the hospital and realizes how much he loves her. If you’re ok with that👑👑👑


A/N: This prompt was hard to write because I have gone through anxiety and depression and have friends who go through these mental health issues as well. I know the character does not have these issues and just goes through an episode. I hope this doesn’t offend anyone, I am only writing about this because it was a request and sadly these scenarios actually happen in real life. I hope I did justice to the requestor’s vision. I know the request asked for Jughead to break up with them in a mean way, but I couldn’t vision that so I just like let it happen. I hope if you’re a reader and has these mental health issues you seek treatment and know that every day is a new chapter and there will always be a light in all that darkness if you search for it and I’m here for you and you are loved.
P.S: According to Cody you lose a women when you forget to cherish her (okay bye, hopefully you understand that and smile).  I added a list of songs there, that helped inspire this imagine. Also this one is quite long, but I hope you all love it!

Words: 2993

Summary: Reader parents are so complicated. Jughead and the reader are going through a rough patch in their relationship.

Spoilers: Somethings just deserve happy endings. :)

† WARNINGS! Depressing thoughts, signs of self-harm and drug abuse.   Please do not try these at home, if you ever need someone to talk to my inbox is open I love you and be careful.
Playlist:

Broken Home- 5 Seconds of Summer
Better off dead – Sleeping with Sirens
 Broken Ones- Jacquie Lee
 Is anybody out there- K’NAAN
 Broken over you- Grace Mitchell
 Dreaming with a broken heart – John Mayer
 Everybody Hurts- R.E.M
 Breathe Me- Sia
 Blackbird- India Jean-Jacques
 Between the Bars- Elliot Smith
 Drift- Emily Osment
 Invisible – 5 Seconds of Summer
 Get it Right- Glee
 Welcome to my life- Simple Plan
 Build You Up- Kim Taylor


Riverdale the town that was once your safe haven, the sign of hope and a new life. That was history. You arrived to the infamous ‘Town with Pep’ the year when you were about to enter fifth grade. At first you were mad at your parents for moving you away from your friends. You were a shy person, so the friends you had you were proud of making them. You knew the only reason you were moving was for your parents to get a fresh start. There had been problems with your parents’ marriage, and they decided to “fix” it by moving away from all the problems they said. 

You stayed in Riverdale ever since, you made friends with Archie, Betty, Kevin, Jughead and now Veronica. Though when you got there you were pretty lonely it was Jughead who invited you to play with them in the park. You lived right next to Jughead, so you became closer to him and he in return shared his friends with you. You were smitten with the brooding, mysterious writer. It wasn’t till the summer before your sophomore year where Jughead asked you to be his girlfriend. You accepted since you were madly in love with the guy and were surprised he actually returned the feelings you had for him.

Though sometimes life gets too good, you start wondering when it will come crashing down. You spoke too soon, it all came crashing down every second your parents never fixed anything between them. They suppressed everything and exploded, every night got worse and worse. Your parents started screaming,  and fighting again. They decided they were no longer in love.

How do you no longer love someone? You thought. Where does that feeling go? Will that ever happen to you and Jughead?

“(Y/N)? Hello?” your mother spoke across the table.

“Um, uh, yeah, what?” you spoke up as she distracted you from your thoughts.

“What your mother and I are saying” your father continued “Is that, we know this separation may not be easy for you, but it’s for the best” your father declared at the breakfast table while gently grabbing your hand.


“We tried to make it work, but once love is no longer there, you only do so much to try and repair a broken relationship” your mother confirmed.

“Okay, just if you guys keep fighting though, don’t include me, I want nothing to do with this and I am not leaving Riverdale or my friends and especially not Jug; I will not be your play toy when you end up fighting about who gets custody over me” you stated coldly standing up from your chair taking a toasted bread and an apple and left your home to get to school so you wouldn’t have to deal with them anymore.

“Hey Babe” Jughead commented as you climbed down the steps of your front porch.

“Hey Juggie” you cheered as you handed him the toast and he grabbed you by the hand.

“So what’s the verdict this time?” Jughead challenged since he saw your tired expression that didn’t budge from your face.

“They finally decided to get a divorce” you croaked with a single tear escaping your eye.

“I mean it’s for the best, I am just so tired of the cheating and the screaming” you stated boldly trying to hide the fact that it was breaking you apart.

How could they even stay together this long if they didn’t love other? What was going to happen to you? You weren’t ready to waking up to a more broken home? There was going to be only one parent you woke up to? No more screaming, No more fighting, No more love. If love runs out, when will your parents stop loving you, is Jughead’s love also going to run out?


“Hey sleepyhead” Betty chimed in at the sidewalk, you didn’t notice her ever joining you and Jughead “Rough night?” she questioned.

Rough Life you thought to yourself, but what came out of your lips was “Yeah, you know the usual” and Betty pulled you in for a small hug as you entered Riverdale High.

Every single one of your friends knew about your parent troubles and you didn’t know how you felt about that other than embarrassed. Though they were very comforting since dysfunctional families were a norm here at Riverdale.

Days passed and your parents finally made their divorce official and your father decided to stay at Riverdale, so he wouldn’t make things hard on you with the whole shared custody your parents agreed to. That day all your friends had a get-together at Veronica’s because they knew how hard it was for you that your parents were finally separating.

You all sat around the living room talking, laughing, eating junk food and watching movies. They were the best distraction you could ever ask for.
The day was done, and you had to face reality as Jughead and you walked back home together.

“So, are you going to be okay?” Jughead broke the silence.

“This night is so poetic” you stated ignoring Jughead’s comment “The gloomy sky, is crying, a symbol of a new beginning, no more faking happy family; now they’re finally done with each other and the only thing keeping them linked is me sadly” you continued because all that was running over your mind was his question.

Are you going to be okay? Should you tell Jughead that before they officially separated you were diagnosed with depression and were on medicine? You couldn’t blame your parents for not loving each other like they should’ve. But you blamed them for the screaming, fighting and sleepless nights they caused you. They were so into their fighting they never asked how you were. They never knew that your smile hid so much anger and brokenness. They made you into this ball of sorrow and you felt your light diming every time you tasted those pills, every time they made you hold in every word because you didn’t want to start another fight.

“I guess I am rubbing off on you” Jughead claimed with a chuckle and you smiled at him.

He had been your rock through all of this mayhem, and there was not enough words in the universe to thank him for being there for you.


“Thank you so much Jug, for being here, for putting up with all the stupid ranting, for-“ you were stopped as he grabbed you by the face and planted a kiss on lips, you were about to drop the umbrella as he let go.

“I will always be here” he promised.

Your father found another woman and your mother started dating. They moved on so easily you couldn’t believe your eyes. You’d go to Jughead and complain about everything they were doing to you. All the dinners they made you attend. All of a sudden you became a prize to be won.

The game of Who gets more time with our daughter started and you were the only one losing.

Things got soo bad you started self-harming with a razor you broke apart one night at 3am when you could hear your mom in her room with her new conquest.

You would wear long sleeves to cover your scars. No one knew, not even Jughead. Betty noticed a difference in you, but you lied.

You felt terrible for lying to her since she was your first go to when Jughead was too busy with his novel. Jason Blossom was murdered by Sweetwater River on, so your problems didn’t feel so big.

Jughead started investing more of his time in his novel, and since Jason was with Polly him and Betty would go sleuthing trying to find clues because we all lost trust in the grown-ups.

They offered you to come, but you didn’t feel like adding another problem to your life. You and Jughead became more distant. When you did spend time he was on his laptop typing away and you just sat there with him, drawing, and reading anything just wanting to be near him.

Since Betty would investigate with Jug, you had no else to be with. Archie was invested in music, Kevin would be disappearing to Southside claiming he was investigating things with his dad. Veronica became close to Cheryl and she just wasn’t your cup of tea.

Your parents stopped caring about you and spending more time their significant others.

You would argue with Jughead to make time for you not caring how needy you sounded and he finally broke. He couldn’t take your arguing and neediness he finally broke up with you. You couldn’t blame him.

Everyone you loved was leaving you.


It had been almost a week since he broke it off. Your mother left on a trip with a guy younger than her. You skipped school since you couldn’t bear to see his face. Your cutting covered both or your arms.

You wouldn’t have taken it farther if it wasn’t for a voicemail left on your phone.

“Hey baby girl, I’m probably going to be longer with Josh, also I don’t know if you got dad’s text, he got stuck in a business trip and won’t be able to take you out for your birthday, also I’m so sorry I won’t be there either, I really hope you can understand well you are 16 throw a party for yourself”

You broke down, you couldn’t take it. Everyone was gone. Your parents, Jughead, and none of your friends bothered to text you to see if you were okay.
You went to your bedroom opened your mirror and grabbed your anti-depressants and a bunch of pills and started one by one while chugging water, and grabbed a knife from the kitchen and slit your arms and as you fell to the ground as from everything you did to yourself your head hit hard against the tile you heard your door open. As you lost consciousness you couldn’t be sadder it was Betty that found you and angry it wasn’t your mother.

“(Y/N), I am sorry I haven’t been able to talk to you, Jug just told me you guys broke-” she discovered your body knocked out cold on the floor. She was shocked and sobbing as she called the hospital to come pick you up.

She was surprised over the empty pill container of anti-depressants and started sobbing more not knowing you were even on them, and shocked over all the slits on your arms even more tears flooded her face because she didn’t know how bad things had gotten for you.

The ambulance arrived and they took you and Betty to the hospital.

They contacted your parents and Betty called your friends.

“What Happened?!” Jughead croaked at Betty, his eyes puffy from the crying that happened when Betty told them to rush to the hospital.


Betty told them about how she found you, about the anti-depressants and the cuts that took place on your arms.

They all looked at her confused  and sad, and Jughead freaked out he started crying, he punched a hole in the wall and he was about to be escorted out of the hospital, but your father arrived and stopped them because he knew how much he meant for you, and he convinced them he would pay for the damages.


The doctor came to the living room and told him everything Betty had told him and how they were planning on fixing you.

“Mr. (Y/L/N) how long was (Y/N) on anti-depressants?” The doctor questioned your father.

“Since before we got a divorce, and she refused those group things because she said she already had her friends” He said softly trying to contain the tears, as your friends sobbed softly.

“Did you know she was cutting?” The doctor asked another question.

“No, she doesn’t live me, she lives with her mom” Your father stated as a tear escaped his right eye and your mother finally arrived.

“Oh my god, doctor what happened to (Y/N)?” you mom pleaded.

So they told your mom how they found you and she broke down not knowing you were self-harming.

“She started wearing long sleeve shirts for about a month, so I’m guessing that when it may have started” Jughead announced to the doctor and your mother continued sobbing on your fathers chest “I can’t believe I didn’t notice” Jughead mumbled under his breath.

“Thank you” the doctor claimed as he walked away.

Your father tried to calm your mom down and Betty and the gang sat down holding hands hoping they could fix you.

“If I would’ve known, if I was here and not with that guy” you mom sobbed.

“This is both of our faults (Y/M/N)” your father took responsibility “She was depressed, and we didn’t pay attention to her as she was screaming out for us to just be her parents” he continued.

Jughead walked to the hallway, and Betty followed him.

“Jug where are you going?” Betty addressed.

“Bets, this is all my fault, if I knew, if I would have listened to her and not be soo invested in this stupid murder, this- I- I love her Betty, I can’t lose her” Jughead bawled.

“Jug, this is not your fault, (Y/N) wasn’t well and we didn’t know, we should’ve noticed as her friends; but she hid that brokenness so well, you won’t lose her none of us will” Betty cried while pulling Jughead in a hug until the doctor came out again.

“Mr. and Mrs. (Y/L/N), (Y/N) is going to be fine, we have bandaged the arms and stopped the bleeding, the fall was just a small concussion and the drugs have been drained from her system, only the parents can go in right now” The doctor concluded as your parents made their way to see you.

“(Y/N), it us” you heard your mothers voice as you opened your eyes.

“Sweetheart, you had us so worried” You father added.

“I guess it’s true, people only care, when you’re dead or are dying” You huffed.

“All your friends are out there and Jughead” you’re mother implied ignoring your comment as your father grabbed a chair and sat next to you and grabbed your hand only to reveal you bandaged arms.

“Honey, I am so sorry for anything we have done for making you feel worthless, we were distracted fighting like cats and dogs and we didn’t see you screaming out for our love” you father sobbed.

“Love runs out, isn’t that right mom?” you stated coldly as a tears started escaping your eyes.

“Baby, you are so wonderful, we are so sorry for anything we have done to make you think you weren’t worth anything, we are so sorry for everything we made you go through” Your mother lamented as she reached for your other hand.

“Our love for you doesn’t have a limit, we will love you unconditionally and I’m sorry that got too distracted and left you alone” your father went on.

You and your parents talked about everything, you agreed for treatment and a therapist for as long as you needed it and they went to call your friends.

You were so happy your parents actually cared and loved you unconditionally. As your parents were talking to your friends Jughead interjected.

“Can I see her alone first” and your friends nodded as he walked over your room with your favorite flowers and a teddy bear he had put his beanie on it.

“(Y/N), I am so sorry for not being there for you? For not making time for you, I love you, I do, I love you so much, these days we broke up I felt like shit that the only light in my life was gone” Jughead spoke and tears started streaming off your face.

“Juggie, I love you too, and I am soo sorry I never told you about all my problems” you spoke as he came near you to put his gifts on the table near you as he sat down next to you and grabbed your hand.

“I am so sorry for not hearing you out, for being too invested in my novel” He sighed.

“No Jug, I was the one who chose not to tell you or anyone else, I felt like I couldn’t burden you all with my problems, and I know that when that novel come out, it’s going to be huge” you reassured as Jughead planted a kiss on your lips and you kissed back missing his lips your mouths moved in sync.

“You could never be a burden (Y/N). Please be my girlfriend again (Y/N), we will work things out together, you were always there for my family problems, I promise I will be there for yours as well; please be mine again, unlike your parents I still love you, (Y/N) love doesn’t run out people just get bored and stop working on it. I will never not work on our love” Jughead pleaded and you accepted.

“Is that the infamous beanie on the teddy bear?” you asked Jughead as he grabbed the bear to give to you.

“Yeah” he smiled.

“Give it!” you cheered as you placed it on your head.

“Looks good on you babe” Jughead declared.

“Yeah, but I don’t do it justice like you” you smirked as you placed it on his luscious black hair and soon your friends came in and they all gave you hugs and you all hung out there until visiting hours were over and you were dismissed the next day.

Your parents overheard what Jughead told you and they realized they wanted to work harder on their relationship and soon became re-married and there was fighting because every good relationship faces problems, but this time they didn’t wait for it to explode and worked on them head on. You and Jughead were happily dating and all was right in Riverdale, they even caught Jason’s Killer. I guess there is such things as Happily Ever After’s.


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What I’ll say is what I love about polyamory and the poly world, is that it allows us to question what we’ve been taught about relationships, because some people have been handed a very dysfunctional model for relating. For me, what’s important about polyamory is not how many lovers you have but having the ability to have conscious choice as to relationship structure and style. That’s something that I feel passionately – I’d like everybody to have that conscious choice.
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Sarah Taub

8/2016

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So, the whole family. 
1st row: Maroun and Sidor Taralindalen, the uncles of the Inquisitor.
2nd row: Aule Taralindalen an Lavellan and Dar’lin len’Lavellan, parents of the Inquisitor
3rd row: Inquisitor Spiridon Lavellan and Lena ‘Mace’ Andor, the first of the great bastards of the Inquisitor

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In the Dreamtime

When I first saw “Married,” I was confused and somewhat dumbfounded with Arnold’s dream, because from the start, not only do he and Helga look like their normal child selves, except for being much taller, but they were their wedding clothes during his entire dream, never anything else. However, it is just the opposite with Helga’s dream. She dreams that she and Arnold are grown up and look it very well, complete with Helga no longer sporting a unibrow and Arnold having his hair smoothed down, and they wear different clothes for the duration of her dream.

So what explanation is there on why Arnold’s dream features Helga and him looking so drastically different from Helga’s dream in terms of how they look and what they wear?

I think a lot of it relates to their personalities, including in what kind of imaginations they have and how much they think about the future. Helga and Arnold are both 9 years old, but Helga often acts a lot older than she really is, especially when it comes to her crush on Arnold. She loves Arnold to the extent that she wants to marry him. She sees him as a ticket to a better life, one where he loves her in return and they will live a successful, fancy, and happy life together. Since we know Helga wants to marry Arnold, she has lots of fantasies of what life would be like if they were together. She tends to imagine about how perfect and fancy her life with Arnold would be, so her dream is just an extension of her fantasies.

In Arnold’s case, however, it’s an entirely different story. Although the first season depicted Arnold as a heavy daydreamer, I don’t think he’s so much of a dreamer when it comes the future. Although Arnold acts mature for a 9-year-old, I think he is far more stuck on the present than Helga is. Because of this, he hasn’t really taken any time to think about who he will marry one day, how he will look as an adult (if he even thinks he and Helga will look very different from their current appearances), and what kinds of clothes he will wear. It may have just been a lot easier for Arnold to think he and Helga will be much taller than they are now while wearing the appropriate wedding clothes.

I think a lot of the dream differences also relates to Arnold and Helga’s respective personal lives and how they feel about it right now. In the case of Helga, she has a very dysfunctional family and unhappy home life, from which she is desperate to get away. So she dreams of a better life for herself, one with which she shares with Arnold because she believes she will have a happier life with him than she does with her family now. And of course, while Arnold’s family is dysfunctional and without his parents, he has a more stable and happier home life than Helga does. So I believe Arnold doesn’t think so much about the future because he is quite happy with his current life and doesn’t thoroughly consider about how much it will change for him one day.

Among other things, I have wondered if Arnold thinking he is still only 9 when his dream begins is a inside joke to the fact that characters never age more than year in a cartoon. In other words, since cartoon children never grow up, maybe Arnold thinks he will never grow up, either. 😉 Not to mention, cartoon characters seldom ever change their wardrobe, which also may explain why Arnold and Helga never change clothes for the duration of his dream.

Chris: The big thing to look forwad to is Mon-el return, he becomes the new Supergirl.(*) It’s a very tight spandex to fill but I think I’m just the man for her job. […] I think what was really great was how they started as completely hating each other and then they sorta loved each other, and they’re very dysfunctional. But they bicker like an old married couple!

Melissa: What was fun for me in terms of acting it was the humor we got to explore, that kind of moonlighting relationship dynamic, them butting heads and then finding what they have in common. A good old Romeo and Juliet story.

* not even joking, that’s what happened on s2

Me watching this mess:

my mom: are you sure you’re okay?

me, internally: after seeing the proshot of falsettos, i realize that whizzer’s last words are thank you. in this context, he is talking to jason about the bar mitzvah but since i am a slut for angst i’ve overanalyzed this to the core. in the beginning of falsettos, whizzer is this cocky man who seems to be using marvin for sex mostly. as the show progresses on, he begins to realize how much marvin has given up for him and how he is actually developing more feelings of love for marvin. as we see in making a home/the games i play, we see him analyzing these feelings himself after marvin has broken up with him as he is packing his clothes and moving out. the next time we see whizzer is at jason’s little leaugue game and he obviously looks like he has somewhat gotten over marvin and has had different boyfriends/sexual partners (hence the aids). but we still see him somewhat still thinking about marvin and they obviously they get back together. in what more can i say, we see that their relationship is more intimate than it was before. when whizzer dies, he says thank you to every single person in that room. without them, he wouldn’t have evolved into this more grown man than he was before. before marvin, he was probably with multiple sexual partners because it was usually how gay men acted in the 70’s. marvin has given him this chance to grow out of those habits and actually settle down (more act 2 marv than act 1) without him, whizzer would probably have died of aids alone, since usually families weren’t that accepting then and he would more likely than not not have a boyfriend. marvin has given him this very dysfunctional family but it’s his family. whizzer died with these 6 other people who care about him immensely and he just wants to say thank you to all of them.

me, actually: yeah i’m good

Captain America 76th Anniversary Celebration Post

The very first Captain America comic has a release date of March 1941, so in order to celebrate the 76th Anniversary of our beloved Steven Grant Rogers, I have asked Tumblr users to submit their favorite Cap comic panels, art, quotes, pictures, meta, gifs, and/or write-ups on what Captain America means to them. And here is what Cap’s fans have to say… (please feel free to reblog and add your own favorite Steve Rogers moments, etc. to this post).

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“Landline” Trailer Promises a Delightful, Very 90s, Dysfunctional Family Comedy

Director Gillian Robespierre and Jenny Slate proved to be a winning combo on Obvious Child three years ago.

The two thankfully teamed up again along with writing from Elisabeth Holm with a fantastic cast of Edie Falco, John Turturro, Abby Quinn, and Jay Duplass for Landline.

The trailer shows this movie is as much of a 90s period piece on top of following the lives of what looks to be a very well-crafted, fully realized dysfunctional family.  

See for yourself in the trailer.

Landline will have a limited theatrical release on July 21st, then expand to theaters everywhere on August 4th.

Hi, so, let’s talk about: whether mocking and mistreating Mick Rory is justified because of what he’s done in the past.

He’s not a good guy. That’s been established, and I have stated that many, many times. However. In Legends, he is not the same man as he is in Flash. It’s not quite as obvious in the first season, as he’s still clinging to the old version of himself, but it changes a lot throughout the show.

Has Mick killed people before? Yes. And he’s enjoyed it. 

Has he tried to kill people on the ship, or otherwise attempted to hurt them outright? No.

I can hear you saying, “but he did!!!” That is true. If you consider him as being himself while brainwashed, or his fights with Leonard. Or I guess letting Ray take that beating in the gulag, and there was the time he hurt Sara.

If you’re someone who says that Rip can’t be held accountable for his actions while brainwashed, then you must also extend that courtesy to Mick. As well you should, because while brainwashed, they cannot really be held accountable for what they are doing, as they are acting in the interests of those who brainwashed them.

Second. His fights with Leonard are something that the two of them have a habit of. Len has punched him more than once, and he has returned that. When they have issues, instead of having heart to hearts, they duke it out. Him hurting Len is not something to use as leverage for “he deserves to be mocked and mistreated”, because the two of them have a very specific, dysfunctional relationship that still works and is what is in general best for them to handle their problems. And it is worth mentioning that the times Mick hurt Len were usually provoked first by Len, or suggested: the fight in the cell was his idea, for example.

Third. The gulag was a prison and Mick knows how prison life works. He knew that trying to help Ray was going to get him nowhere. It would only get them both in trouble. And he DID try to warn Ray not to do what he did; Ray didn’t listen. Mick didn’t just let him fly blind, he did warn him. And in the torture session, there wasn’t much Mick could do. He was chained up.

Fourth. Sara. He hurt her right before he became Chronos. That isn’t quite as cut and dry as the other things, but he wasn’t exactly in his right mind there either. Not because of brainwashing, but because something in him by that point had snapped. Rip attacking him had been the last straw for him and he had just lost all control of his impulses. Again, this leads back to his mental illnesses: he has BPD, most likely, and we know he has pyromania. Depression. A lack of impulse control. All of these together caused him to lose his ability to control himself after what Rip said and the build-up of everything up to that point. That does not make it okay, but he wasn’t quite thiniking straight then either.

The truth of the matter is, beyond wanting to go home and as a whole ignoring the crew for the most part, Mick has never outright tried to hurt them unless he was under the effects of something: brainwashing, or a zombie virus whatchamacallit.

In fact, he has saved the crew memebers many times. He saved Rip when they were at the Oculus, even though up to date, Rip had given him zero reason to do so. He aided in saving Sara when she was younger. He aided in saving Jax. He refused to leave Ray behind in the gulag, ergo saving him as well. 

He has saved them despite them not giving him a real reason to do so. What he hasn’t done is hurt most of them, and certainly not while in his right mind. Even when he had a chance to. The only ones who knocked Rip around on the crew, for example, are Sara and Kendra. Mick hasn’t, despite having plenty of reasons to.

Yes, he can be a jerk sometimes. He’s blunt, he doesn’t care for beating around the bush, ,and he doesn’t have a good grasp on social skills. But he has never outright physically tried to severely harm another crew member.

So to say that he deserves to be mocked, insulted, and bullied in the midst of his mental illnesses being aggravated and his grief still being present, is a nonsensical thing.

Yes, he’s done bad things. Bullying him for his intelligence is not how you go about trying to resolve those things. 

If you continue to hold that view, despite knowing that Mick has mental health issues, is grieving, and hasn’t actually tried to kill the crew when in stable mental condition - you’re advocating for what is nothing more than lowkey bullying. 

anonymous asked:

Hi Sunny, I was wondering if I could ask you a question. You see I'm new to tumblr and having some trouble with asks, someone requested me to draw something for them and I would like to answer them with a picture. But It won't let me, I mainly use the app is that preventing me from answering a ask with a picture?

I never used the tumblr app but I heard it’s full of bugs and very dysfunctional so I wouldn’t be surprised if that was the case lol

anonymous asked:

This might sound odd but what do you think is the idea with Izuku's dad? Like we know he at one time he was there, he can breath fire (cool), is not around and doesn't seem to be around for much of Izuku's childhood (not cool) like do you have a personal theory about what happened to him? To me it just sounds like he walked out on them when Izuku was pretty young and Inko just works at night to cover expenses.

It’s an interesting question Anon, thank you for addressing this one to me. To begin with, families in BNHA, and adults in general, are a lot more present and active in their child’s lives than you would expect them to be in a manga like BNHA. I was really surprised when I saw how parents were different from each other, how they actually had their own characterization and ‘files’, and how families had their own different ways to function. Like, we actually know in what kind of environment most students from class A were raised in, and we even see a lot about their families and how accurate and real they are. Todoroki’s family is very dysfunctional and abusive, Yaoyorozu’s family is very wealthy, Uraraka’s family is struggling financially but is very loving, and I find hilarious that we actually know how Bakuparents ended up together. 

So in comparison, Midoridad (pft) being completely absent and Izuku living only with his mother is kinda baffling. We never saw Midoridad once, not even in a flashback. We do know he exists and has a quirk, but that’s all. It’s also canon that he’s working abroad so he probably send money to his family, but I find very suspicious how he never appears when Inko has a strong relationship with her son.

I also find odd how he’s referred to ‘Inko’s husband’ here but not as ‘Izuku’s father’, like even here, there’s absolutely not an once of relationship brushed between the two of them. Maybe it’s only to give All Might space to be this father figure to Izuku, but I find way too weird how we never saw him in comparison to the visibility and importance given to Inko and others’ parents. He is the main character’s father, so his non-attendance is quite peculiar. The contrast between how close Izuku is with his mother and how we don’t know anything about his father his meaningful, and his absence probably foretells something we are not to know for now.

Now it’s only me making suppositions, but for Midoridad to have never been shown, I guess there might be something with his appearance or relationship with Izuku and his mom we’re not supposed to see at this point of the story. If we saw his appearance, maybe we would establish links with others characters we shouldn’t know Izuku is related to, and Hori is keeping these revelations and plot twist for later. Maybe his relationship with Izuku is really bad; it’s possible he’s not proud, and even ashamed of his son for being ‘weak and quirkless’, like a parent would be with a disabled or even queer child. Maybe because of that he decided to distance himself from his family because he would fight with Inko on this matter. It would be very cruel, but it would unfortunately picture reality as well. If it happened, it probably hurt Izuku a lot and that’s why his presence doesn’t even seem to matter. Izuku doesn’t seem to miss his father, and never talks about him with his mom so they’re probably not very close. There isn’t anything in Izuku’s room that could suggest Midoridad send letters or anything to keep contact with him. I wonder if he even knows his child is currently studying, and doing really great at UA. Does it interest him at all? Izuku never heard a word about him on the matter, and doesn’t seem to either expect or want his father to be aware of that. 

On another hand, I also find interesting how despite his absence, Izuku is still doing really great and has grown to be mentally stable and strong. It also shows that Inko did great by herself, even if it must have been tough, and ‘fathers’ aren’t absolutely necessary in kids’ daily life (so I’m excluding All Might here as a father figure during Izuku childhood) and their development, especially ones of Endeavor’s kind. 

Those are only theories, but they wouldn’t be surprising, given how families have already been shown as abusive and dysfunctional in BNHA. If anything, the way he’s physically and emotionally absent from Izuku’s life, past and present, despite still being alive somewhere can, at least in my opinion, be seen either as rather suspicious, or either not at all. It could also contribute in picturing diverse families and prone diversity, as Izuku healthily growing without a father at home can attest.

Prisoners of Love Discussion Part 1: The Dysfunctional Fenton Family

Oh boy. This episode ended up being bigger than I realized. It was the first time Danny went into the ghost portal as well as the first time the trio explored the ghost zone, it saw the return of every antagonist from the previous episodes except Poindexter and Vlad, and it introduced a lot of things that would or could come into play later. I’ll admit I have some mixed feelings about it, but that just gives me even more to say about it.

So, I’ll just be breaking my thoughts into parts, and since I just finished my first lengthy post about Jazz, I think I should talk about the Fentons.

Plus bonus Aunt Alicia, I guess.

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Late Soriel week prompt: #Family!

Okay, so I’ve had this idea knocking about in my head for awhile about how the kids’ would react to Soriel, and I thought it would fit perfectly well for this prompt B) So as you can see, even with the inevitable tensions and hesitations, I think they’d all be pretty accepting as long as Tori is happy Asriel takes it the hardest though, undoubtedly. They’d be VERY dysfunctional at first, but I think they’d be a super precious ragtag little family (Papyrus included too, of course)~ <3 Chara and Azzy would NEVER call Sans “dad”, though; eventually, Tori would forgive/accept Asgore in her life again (the fact that their first child and Chara is alive in this AU makes it easier to forgive him lmao), and he’d actually take up the father figure in their little group, because we all know Sans is more of a cool uncle kind of guy (and c'mon he’s lazy as heck PSSSH though for his own kids, who knows 8D).

Also honestly, the thought of kids being little butts to Sans for dating their mom is kinda hilarious c’mon B)

Don Charles Spirit was a mass murderer who completed suicide after shooting and killing seven members of his family. Spirit has a long history of violent criminal activity, and the family unit had a very turbulent and dysfunctional past. One of Spirit’s daughters was in prison at the time of the killings, her children being left in his care.

Spirit shot and killed one of his own daughters, who was 28 years old at the time of her death, and his grandchildren. The children’s ages ranged from 11 years to only 2 months old. Prior to turning the gun on himself Spirit contacted the emergency services to report his own crime, stating;

“I just shot my daughter, and shot all my grandkids, and I’ll be sitting on my step, and when you get here I’m gonna shoot myself. Every one of them are dead,”