I'm getting an abortion tomorrow and I'm really really nervous/scared help
OMF IM SORRY I JUST WOKE UP!!!
WELL FIRST OF ALL i am sooo proud of you for doing what you feel and know is best for you. it is a very scary thing and especially with all the stigma around it, one of the hardest things to do. but you are doing it!!! amazing!!!!
god i think im too late anyways i’ll pretend i don’t totally suck and:
- most people experience relief after their abortion (x). along w other emos of course, but no matter what you feel, your emos are valid and normal. there is no right or wrong way on how 2 feel nerdo
- here and here are some infographics describing your procedure! here is another site for info about how it gonna go down/aftermat.
- know you will be safe (it’s safer than childbirth and one of da safest surgeries in general)
- you are not alone. 1in 3 ppl w uteri have abortions
- you won’t have long lasting physical effects (no increase in risk of breast cancer, no infertility, etc)
- exhale is a good after abortion talk line. so is connect and breathe and backline.
- if anyone gives you shit when you are getting your procedure done (like those piece of shit prolifers who even create FAKE abortion clinics, and it’s completely legal omf), you can report it to the clinic
- you are not a bad person. no matter what anyone says be it your friends or people on the internet or your family or your religion (if you have one), you are NOT a bad person. you are SMART for knowing what is best and doing it. you are STRONG for overcoming your fear and apprehension and stigma. you are RESPONSIBLE for following through and taking your future into your own hands. you will move past this eventually and will be happy with your choice aND I WISH YOU ALL DA BEST AND I LOVE YA AND MESSAGE ME AFTER YOUR PROCEDURE IF YA WANT, TOO :-)