since femslash february is coming up, take these from my hands and do what u will
ive been waiting YEARS to find someone who also thinks the single female character in this kids’ cartoon is cooler and wouldve been a better leader than any of the guys were, come yell with me about how great she is over drinks
i dont want to make any assumptions, but you seem pretty nervous about going into the bathroom, and my sister is trans so im used to helping her feel better about these situations if u want some support
ive been telling my friend all day that i think the butch/femme dynamic is unnecessarily gendered but you are the most butch woman ive ever met and im Really Into It
when you were drunk at my party you came over and petted my hair and told me that my skin was like a really long road with a sunset on it, and when i asked what the fuck that meant you threw up on my shoes, so welcome to my house, want some eggs for breakfast
the video of you beating the shit out of a guy who tried to steal your purse went viral at the exact time my video about me ripping a big chunk of wood in half with my bare hands went viral and now the internet ships us as a joke meme but youre actually really cute??
we both started doing femslash february for the same really rare ship and while im glad theres more content for it, i am aggressively competitive, meet me in the pit, for every drabble you write ill write two, come @ me motherfucker
im helping clean up after the pride parade and you are being harassed by a very confused elderly lady trying to figure out why there are so many rainbow patches everywhere, dont worry, ill help you out
theres this really annoying straight guy in our queer lit class and every time he speaks we share A Look ™ and it is honestly the most positive emotional interaction ive had in years
you were drunk and texted me instead of your ex on accident, but the only thing you were texting was really cute pictures of cats and i fucking love cats so i didnt stop you, uh hi?
you run a makeup youtube that i watch all the time for tips and i run a music youtube and youve downloaded all my songs, fancy seeing you here at the lgbt panel of this con, huh
Hey could you give me some fanfics recs? I'm new here to the fandom, luv ur blog btw :)
Sorry this took me all day to answer but I promised I’d answer it so here ya go! Here are people in general that I would recommend because their writings are amazing! I have attached their tumblr name cause you should defiantly follow them and I also put their AO3 accounts as well cause you really need to read all their works! Everything is amazing! Also at the end I attached some series of fics I am reading that you might be interested in.. Hope this helps you my love and welcome to the fandom! It is so great to have you here and please don’t be shy because I would really like to talk to you more!! Please go to the AO3 website and search “robron” because there are so many more beautiful works :)
~Disclaimer: Just because you were not tagged in this does not mean I think you are a bad writer! There are sooo many people in this fandom who are beautiful writers but I have only been reading fanfic for a few months now and these are the people I found and loved! If you know of any more people then I more than encourage you to tag them and let me and everyone else know about them! I love you all so much and thank you for everything you do!!~
hi! I was wondering if you or anyone have any tips on how to deal with sexual intrusive thoughts or if you've seen any helpful posts about it? I'm struggling a lot with seeing my worth due to these thoughts and I'm really sad at the moment :( love ur blog btw 💕
💕 intrusive thoughts are scary, and often make people feel embarrassed. try to remember that having an intrusive thought does not mean you want to do the thing that comes to mind.
• you have these thoughts because you don’t want them.
intrusive thoughts are actually found in non violent and gentle people.
they are the exact opposite of you. anxious thinking takes over and your brain flags the thought as dangerous because it’s against everything you believe in.
we often fear that we will commit the act we think about, but that is never the case. remind yourself that you have an anxiety disorder, not an impulse control disorder.
when you get an intrusive thought, label it as that. remind yourself that it’s an automatic response. don’t push the thought away, but do not over analyze it. start practicing breathing techniques. pay attention to your anxiety levels as you breathe.
allow the thought to come and go.
keep trying new techniques that help you relax during these times. I also came across this post yesterday that might be a useful approach for coping with intrusive thoughts.