I'm sorry to ask and I know it is not your job but can you tell me why it is wrong to say "I'm so gay for (idol)" or "idol makes me queston my sexuality" I've seen people get upset by those comments and I know its wrong but I don't understand why? I tried to look up the answer my self but nothing showed up on google. Thanks in advance.
It trivializes non-hetero identities and attraction. You can find someone attractive without having to say “They make me question my sexuality lOL!!!” bc being attracted to the same gender is just totally strange and worth questioning right? It’s almost like a big “NO HOMO AHHHHA” That’s how I see it.
It’s wrong for similar reasons of why it’s gross when people call their OTPs and fanfic of them ‘sins’