a) Exo Ls who claim to miss him but never try to look up what he is doing now. Trending #1yearwithoutTao on twitter but not knowing he released a song that very day? Mourning over him as if he died after leaving Exo.
The MV was released 8 months ago. Surprise?
b)Delusional shippers who claim he broke their hearts by ruining their imaginary ships… acting like they own him..like hello? if you love him so much did you ever care to look him up- about his life and projects now? Or were you too busy reading your angsty fanfics on wattpad?
c) 13 year olds making a fuss over him (or any idol) kissing girls or being with girls. Instead of appreciating a work seriously, all of you focus on the 10 second eye contact for the camera. Yes it hurts a bit, but please realize that you thinking “all he knows is to cry and be scared” and be an innocent angel is the biggest disregard for all the hard work and effort he has put into his music.
d) Random people judging him when they do not even read his interviews, are clueless about his solo work- all based on the headlines of unreliable gossip news websites like Koreaboo and All Kpop or just internet rumors.
e) Fake Tao stans who stan “EXO Tao” but have no idea about “Huang Zitao.” Sorry to tell you but you all are as fake as Kylie Jenner’s lips, if not faker.
f) People who absolutely do not care about zitao but use him merely to spill hate on exo. I don’t care whether or not you like exo or zitao but comparing between them and causing unnecessary hate when you are on neither one’s side is despicable.
g) And Finally this->
(I know this person meant it positively but…) STRONG? WE NEED TO BE STRONG BECAUSE HE KISSED A GIRL IN HIS MV? EXCUSE ME BUT Tao stans have always been strong. When he was being abused by netizens in korea, china and everywhere else after his debut, during fake rumors about him beating media personnels and kissing a girl, when he left exo and ‘broke his promise’,when #TaoSonOfABitch was trending worldwide on twitter, when he ‘ate his words by being a fake teary bitch’ in the sina interview, when he was bullshitted by media everywhere for being 15 minuted late to a fashion show, after “WuliTaoTao’ memes were all over weibo,after he was accused of copying Taemin on the basis of ONE Instagram post, when he writes out all his pain in his songs and everyone mocks him for being overtly dramatic.
And do you know why we are strong? Because of Tao. Because we trust him and he trusts us. Because we know that he is whiny, moody, sassy but a kind, sensitive and surprisingly wise and hardworking kid at heart.Because we know he has talent and he deserves our support and recognition.
In fact, I even want him to fall in love, get a girl who can take good care of him and make him happy. Let him kiss all the girls he wants, we are going to walk this Road with him together.
Jonghyun mixes drinks at the sailor’s tavern near the port, and listens. It’s been seven months, and still no word of the SS Seamint has come through. The last he’d heard from a chain of unreliable privateer gossip, the ship had been rerouted to deliver new cargo two countries south of its original destination, gotten lost in a tropical storm and then turned up at a harbor to the east for repairs.
Jonghyun hopes the ship- and, more importantly, its crew- is all right. He’s sure that some kind of news would have come through if the ship had been lost. All the same, he can’t help but worry, because while Taemin’s never been the best at keeping in contact while at sea, it’s also never been seven months of not hearing from him at all.
While I don’t intend to direct the following line to these two anon in particular, I think it needs to be said that; Kamiya’s private life is nobody’s fucking business.
Kamiya’s private life is nobody’s fucking business.
It’s “private” for a reason. For a lot of reasons. Maybe for no reasons at all. In the end it’s still no one’s business but his own.
Honestly I’m so not interested in discussing this issue -__-’’”” But apparently, my newsfeed and timeline across social media from morning through night are still swarming with this shit I just. (ꐦ°᷄д°᷅)!!!!!!!! Can’t people just post more pics of Kamiyan’s blinding smile than talking about useless stuff we have no rights over? Kamiya doesn’t owe anyone an explanation about the things he chose to keep private. So no, even though you—we, are ‘’’fans’’’ he doesn’t owe us anything. It’s a slim chance but I really hope no one pressures him to disclose thing he’d rather not discuss.
And about that information?
It comes from an unreliable source.
which is a Japanese gossip magazine.
It baffles me how a lot of people so readily absorbs whatever information and no matter how odd, accepts it, agonize over it, without questioning the credibility of the information source. It apparently escapes some people that the only source of information about these things that can be considered as sensitive, is the person themselves. If the information does not directly come from Kamiya; is it worth stressing over? I know very well being attracted to these things, this issue, is human nature, and especially as fans, you just can’t help it, but-
Kamiya’s private life is not your fucking business.
Unless you made it to be.
And FYI, this is not the only time these rumors have circulated. Similar gossips also happened several years ago. So, meh.
No, you don’t have to say bullshit like “I’m happy for him” or “congratulations for having a family” just for the sake of it, or you feel like you have to be happy, you feel obligated to; just because you’re a fan.
No one meant it when they said it anyway.
From all of the comments I’ve browsed on my social media accounts, literally no one made a noteworthy comment about who he’s “marrying,” (who, according to the very unreliable gossip magazine, is also a public figure) people are just freaking out with the notion that ‘he’s ‘’’married’’’ that’s it.
You dont support him because of his relationship status nor the existence of a child. You support him for his work. The rest is irrelevant.
It’s important to recall that;
The connections that we all have with him is the connection we have to his professional and never his personal life to begin with. We admire him because of his work. We fall for him and became a fan because he’s just that good at what he does. We admire his personality and is happy for his accomplishments. But beyond that; have you ever stopped to think that he’s also flesh and blood and very much human just like us? It’s easy for people to disconnect from that fact because fan activities are often objectifying and dehumanizing. But for the sake of your own sanity, let that sink in.
Kamiya’s private life is nobody’s fucking business.
So, I’ve stated my points above. The rest of this post under the cut is not important, but if you’re curious and have time to kill for this unreasonably long ramble, be my guest (don’t say I didn’t warn you).