unless its ok that i tell people

  • ❝  Come on, I’m not going to get anything killed with you lot holding me back.  ❞
  • ❝ I’m fine. I just need to die for a minute.  ❞
  • ❝ It was supposed to confuse him but it just made him peppy. Its not supposed to mix with anything. You think he’s taking prescription medication?  ❞
  • ❝ And zombies don’t eat brains anyway, unless instructed to by their zombie master. A lot of people get that wrong.  ❞
  • ❝ This tower was built by crazy people and I don’t think it’s holding up very well.  ❞
  • ❝ But I want you to know I did save you. Not when it counted, of course, but … after that. Every night after that.  ❞
  • ❝ It’s okay, I can be alone with you here.  ❞
  • ❝ OK, so you’re telling me I’m broke?  ❞
  • ❝ Easy, we burn the house to the ground and collect the insurance. Plus, fire? Pretty.  ❞
  • ❝ It’s not like it’s the end of the world… which is too bad, you know, ‘cause that, I’m really good at. ❞
  • ❝ Well, I know I’m back in America now. I’ve been knocked unconscious. ❞
  • ❝ I kiss all the time, not that I’m a kiss slut. Just with the lips and the pressing together and stuff. Hey, expert here!  ❞
  • ❝ You’re scared, ashamed of what you feel.  ❞
  • ❝ You can’t tell the ones you love, you know they couldn’t deal.  ❞
  • ❝ Uh, so, did anybody…uh…last night, you know, did anybody, um…burst into song?  ❞
  • ❝ Everything is turning out so dark.  ❞
  • ❝ Bunnies aren’t just cute like everybody supposes!  ❞
  • ❝ Do you think I’m stupid? I know you used that spell on me.  ❞
  • ❝ But I-I just wanted to make things better. Better for us.  ❞
  • ❝ We’ll get our memory back, it’ll all be right as rain.  ❞
  • ❝ Translate this for me, Spock. I don’t speak loser.  ❞
  • ❝ Nobody could do that much découpage without calling on the powers of  ❞
  • ❝ Who told you that it isn’t easy to love you?  ❞
  • ❝ I’ve been thinking about doing something in my room. I think the New Kids on the Block posters are starting to date me.  ❞
  • ❝ There is nothing good or clean in you. You are dead inside! You can’t feel anything real! I could never be your girl!  ❞
  • ❝ We do not joke about eating people in this house!  ❞
  • ❝ It’s dangerous, and so is all of us dying.  ❞
  • ❝ You want me to say I like seeing you in bed with that idiot?  ❞
  • ❝ And, before I knew you, I was like a completely different person.  ❞
  • ❝ I wish your intestines were tied in knots and ripped apart inside your lousy gut!  ❞
  • ❝ Things fall apart, they fall apart so hard. You can’t ever put 'em back the way they were. ❞
  • ❝ It’s a long important process, and… can we just skip it? Can you just be kissing me now?  ❞
  • ❝ In that case why won’t you sleep with me again?  ❞
  • ❝ We’re in custody. We haven’t been charged yet.  ❞
  • ❝ Bored now. ❞
  • ❝ You’ve never had any tiny bit of sex, have you? ❞
  • ❝ You really need every square inch of your ass kicked.  ❞
  • ❝ It’s about the power. And there’s no one in the world who has the power to stop me now.  ❞
  • ❝ You called me a rank, arrogant amateur. Well buckle up, 'Cause I’ve turned pro.  ❞
  • ❝ Sometimes the most adult thing you can do is… ask for help when you need it. ❞
  • ❝ World gonna end… where else would I want to be?  ❞
  • ❝ If you wanna kill the world? Well, then start with me. I’ve earned that.  ❞
  • ❝ I don’t want to protect you from the world. I want to show it to you.  ❞ 

I told my stepdad not to say the N word and he said ‘its not offensive unless you mean it offensively’ so i said ‘ok man but i’ve seen fifty thousand black people say that its always offensive always and I’m hearing one white guy saying it’s not soooooo idk I’m sticking to ‘No’ on this one’ and my mom pitches in to me like ‘careful honey, now you’re following the herd’ like???? Mom if five hundred people tell me ice is cold and one guy in a goddamned parka says it’s not and I’m skeptical of the guy in the parka that doesn’t mean I’m a sheep that means I’m capable of logical thought why are you like this 


Quoiromanticism is something that needs to be more known. From what I can tell, it’s a lot more common to be quoiromantic than people think.

Quoiromantic has multiple names other than quoiromantic, including WTFromantic, whatromantic, and there’s one that I’ll get into more later.

Quoiromantic is an inability or extreme difficulty telling the difference between romantic and platonic attraction.

How do you pronounce it?

It’s pronounced like “kwa” - romantic. “quoi” is french for “what”, and is pronounced “kwa”.

I really don’t like the term, what now?

There isn’t really another term for it (unless in a situation otherwise specified), so if the term is uncomfortable for you (just doesn’t feel right, don’t like the questiony implication, etc..) you could probably make a new one or just use arospec (aromantic spectrum) as your identity but the definition of quoiro as an explanation for your orientation.

I have {alexithymia/ASD/other neurodivergence} and I think thats why I can’t tell the difference. Am I still a valid quoiromantic?

Yes. Neurodivergence can affect identity and that’s still valid. It doesn’t matter if you wouldn’t be quoiromantic if you weren’t neurodivergent. You are neurodivergent. Now, there’s a term specifically for ND people that is similar to quoiromantic but with one thing added to the definition: inability or extreme difficulty telling the difference between romantic and platonic attraction due to neurodivergence. This word is Nebularomantic. This is easier for me to pronounce (quoi makes my mouth feel weird) which is part of why I like it so much.

I think I might be quoiromantic but I know I’m only attracted to {guys/girls/nb people/some combination}. How can I know that if I can’t tell the difference?

I know it’s weird, but orientations are weird and individual too. I’m quoiromantic and I know I’m gay. For me it’s because I can see myself with other guys and masculine nonbinary people, but not with girls or feminine nonbinary people (androgynous nonbinary people are kinda a coin toss). However, this is never person specific. It’s really weird.

So.. do quoiromantics just have ‘crushes’ on all their friends?

Well, it’s weird. There are various terms recommended for quoi “crushes”. The most common is “plush” but I find it kinda… :/ like it reminds me of kids toys and that seems kinda weird to me. One that was recommended was quoish (pronounced kwash) but it sounds kinda like crush anyway. I also saw quish (pronounced and spelled “squish” without the “s”) and that one seems pretty good to me.
Also, no. Some quoiromantics can’t even tell if they experience romantic attraction or just have really strong “friend crushes” (a “squish”).
We often get confused on whether or not we have crushes on all our friends. I always use outside variables. Not on how I feel about them, but more on ‘there are these that disqualify someone from me being in a romantic relationship with them’ (see ‘how can i tell im only attracted to {guys/girls/nb people/some combination}).

I saw something about how quoiromantic isn’t an orientation but just a modifier?

People who say this are the ones who say “you can be quoiromantic and arospec but it doesn’t make you arospec”. What they mean is “Must be This Sure to be Arospec™”. And it’s really just like “ok thanks! me, who cant tell the difference between romantic and platonic attraction, will just! check if I experience romantic attraction!” You can be quoiromantic and not consider yourself arospec (just like nonbinary people can consider themselves not trans). Quoiromantic is an arospec identity in the same way as nonbinary is a trans identity. Because of it, you are included unless otherwise specified.

anonymous asked:

please tell us how you tols your dad you got off on ow porn

Ok, storytime. 

My dad is the kind of person who tries his best to have a good relationship with his children by talking about their interests. However, unless someone will listen to at least part of my 7 hour long rant about symbolism in Ace Attorney, (which is not exaggeration in the slightest and there are people who can state that this is absolutely true) I don’t really want to talk in depth about my interests. So, he was attempting to prompt me to talk about Overwatch, which is something I am obviously very interested in. 

However, I wasn’t aware in the slightest that he was going to bring up this subject. The conversation went something like this.

him: So I hear there are a lot of people who get… crushes on these fictional characters.
me, jokingly because I have told him I can find fictional characters attractive (but not to the point of liking porn of them): haha me
him: Well I was reading an article yesterday about how Overwatch is one of the games in which people like to make quite a bit of…. pornography of
me: I guess that could be true (what else was I supposed to say???)
him: Yeah, I don’t know about you, but I’d rather see real people

Now this conversation has several horrifying implications

1. My father was willing to tell me about an article he read on Overwatch about how there’s a lot of porn of the characters
2. I wasn’t aware that was what he meant originally, so now my dad believes I like Overwatch porn. (which isn’t entirely false)
3. My dad was willing to tell me that he watches porn and prefers real people doing it than fictional characters

squidsquad24  asked:

Do you think art flop accounts are ok? I think they are absolutely not ok and are horrible but some of my friends tell me I'm overreacting and that people have freedom of speech. Idk I kinda wanna know your opinion on this just to see if I really am just overreacting??

aren’t those the accounts dedicated to making fun of “bad OCs/art”? if so, i don’t particularly like them either… if the original artist sees them its pretty disheartening cause its not constructive criticism, its just poking fun negatively 

unless the art/character is purposely a joke then yeah its funny but not when the person actually tried. it’d be better to give them tips on how to make it look nicer, if anything

anonymous asked:

hit me with some tien for the stuuf (if u wanna i mean u just ......... had a lot of these srry)

its ok i love answering these!!! :D

send me a character and i’ll tell you:

  • sexual orientation headcanon: bi with a big preference for dudes
  • gender headcanon: cis dude
  • mental illness / neurodivergent headcanon: i cant think of anything here im sorry <:0
  • 3 random headcanons: has a crush on yamcha but would rather die than admit it / talks with chaiotzu a lot about serious stuff they kinda use each other to vent / VERY shy especially around new people, he doesnt talk a lot at all unless hes with close friends

anonymous asked:

Hi, I don't know if someone already asked you this but what are your favorite drarry fics?

Heey, thanks for asking! To be honest, I have so many favourite drarry fanfictions, that’s crazy! I read as much in English as in French but as you asked in English I’m only going to recommend you the English ones: 

Twist of Fate by OakStone730: Draco asks Harry to help him beat the Imperius curse during 4th year. The lessons turn into more than either expected. (312 000 words. I LOVE this fanfic! The story is very long, awesome and just matches perfectly with the real events that happen in the books, which is why I adore it so much. It just gives the impression that Drarry is actually canon. It is really hard to explain why I love this story so much, but please just trust me and go read it if you still haven’t!!

Dragon Tamer by Jennavere: Desperate to avoid an arranged marriage, Draco convinces Harry to pretend to be his boyfriend. What follows is an epic romantic comedy involving scheming, snogging, silliness, shagging, snarky boys, superstars, singing, shagging, snuggling, secrets, sex gods, shagging, and a bunny named Draco Lucius Malfoy the Third. (160 000 words. OKAY, so this is one of the first drarry Fanfiction I read and let me tell you ONE OF THE BEST!!! However, careful, if the story is perfect, it is a story made to make you laugh like you never did! Trust me, you’re gonna love its Voldemort, Lucius, and absolutely every character!

Black Island by OakStone730: Most people would think that seven days on a tropical island would be a week in paradise, unless they were stranded on the island with their ex-husband. (About 25 000 words only, but the idea is very good and I just love how the events go. I’m not used to read drarry with the “ex-husband theme thing” but for once it is PERFECT!)

Turn by Sara’s Girl: One good turn always deserves another. Apparently. (Ok, as the summary is telling you anything, I’m just gonna sum up: imagine Harry is realising after years of marriage with Ginny that his life doesn’t please him anymore, that something is missing… And suddenly comes the opportunity to live another life. One tiny event can change a whole life… 320 000 words. You HAVE to read this story! You are going to love this Draco and you are going to love snakes. Please, read it!

The LipLock Jinx by Cassis Luna: It’s a jinx that renders the victim mute, unless he/she serves the purpose of the jinx and kisses the person that they desire. It’s just Harry’s luck that he’s in love with Draco. (This story is sweet, beautiful and melts my heart. 21 000 words of awesomeness. You won’t be disappointed, I promise!

Love Potion No 9 by blackdragonsghost: When a botched potion reveals that Harry’s not quite as innocent as everyone thought, all of Gryffindor takes up the challenge to figure out just who defiled their saviour… except that apparently, it’s not going to be that hard to solve the mystery after all. (You don’t have time to read a long drarry story? No excuse, this one has 1600 words and is great and funny and adorable! Also I don’t understand you if you’re still hesitating to click on the link! What are you waiting for?? CLICK

White Lies by Cassis Luna: Draco drinks a potion that makes him know if a person is lying, and Harry, apparently at fault that Draco is this way, is forced to ‘help’ him with the effects of the potion. For the first time, they deal with each other with no lies to hide behind. (180 000 words. I read it a long time ago so it’s going to be hard to say something specific, but I remember the story was very special and I read it in a very short time because it was great!

Then Comes a Mist and a Weeping Rain by faithwood: It always rains for Draco Malfoy. Metaphorically. And literally. Ever since he had accidentally Conjured a cloud. A cloud that’s ever so cross. (I find the idea very original and cute and I love how the relationship between Draco and Harry evolves. It is about 22 000 words, so just enough to spend a good hour before sleeping.

The list could still go on and on, so if you want more specific recommendations: just ask!! I can recommend Fanfictions in French and in English, and other ships as well (even though drarry is clearly my favourite). 

Guys with the marina joyce situation, its good that we’re trying to make awareness on what could be happening to her but we NEED to be more careful on HOW we do it. Unless the person behind it is living under a rock, there is a HUGE chance that they’ll be reading the comments and posts about it with people worrying about her.
There could be a reason why marinas telling people that shes ok. Maybe us exposing her subtle warnings are putting her in a more dangerous situation. Exposing the little signs like ‘she said help me’ could be exposing HER to the GUY.
I think awareness is really REALLY good but we need to think more of the position shes in and WHO we’re making aware.
So if you are bringing attention to things be careful where you’re posting it (not in the youtube comments where anyone can read it )
Idk guys sorry we just gotta be careful

anonymous asked:

I don't know how to respond to Iranians who think they hate Islam :/ I want to be understanding and courteous, but sometimes what they say is so ignorant, that I just get upset. Also it feels so fake to "educate" people about Islam. I wish I could teach by example but I'm not a worthy example, and anyways I don't always see them regularly. What's your advice on how to respond to people who think I'm an IRI spy? :p

Short answer: Just tell them that a few decades and a few men can’t represent 14 centuries of vastly diverse religious, cultural, and intellectual output. There isn’t one “Islam” that can be an object of hate. If you want to hate a regime, ok, but something as diverse and loose as an entire religion, that really doesn’t make sense (unless you are a bigot.)

Long answer: I think people in general tend to have very antiquated views on religion and its place in society. Whether we like it or not, the phenomenon of religion (however you may understand it) has always existed and will continue to exist. Even things which people consider “not religion” take on the structure of the dominant religions of their environment, like the New Atheism and popular science (especially in as much as they too, like many religions, rely on submitting to an ‘expert.’)

Anyways I think the main points anyone should make is:

1) It is problematic to look at 1400+ years of history through the lens of post-1979 Iran (whose story is still being written.) Furthermore, the Islam of an “Islamic state” is a very new phenomena, incredibly new actually given that its very existence relies on modern technology within the model of the “state,” a term that from its inception has come with its own theology of sorts. There is a lot to this but I really don’t have time to get into it. Also, the ascendancy of the legal scholars (the mullahs) as opposed to other forms of religious authority probably only dates back to a century or two ago.

2) When we speak about religions as unified wholes “(Christianity” or “Islam,”) we are not speaking about something that is real, but rather an abstraction that helps us talk about something. 

3) There are as many different “Islams” as there are individuals. There is no singular group called “Muslims” that thinks and acts the same way.

4) Most of the things people complain today are almost always things that people in the past have complained about. The only difference would be that people in the past usually blamed specific people or movements while people today blame the aforementioned abstractions. This happens with other things too, for instance someone asks, “Why is there such oppression in such and such a place?” Then some talking head throws out a bunch of words either blaming “capitalism” or “socialism” or “racism” etc. etc. 

5) Another major problem is that Iranians don’t have access to new research and are often far behind the cutting edge in history and other fields. They still read translated Orientalist fables about the conquest and conversion of Iran via modern nationalistic notions of what an “Iranian” is and what an “Arab” is, none of which hold historically. Iran (the classical area, not the modern nation state) has a lot of history and all of it is fascinating. But as a rule, mistrust anyone that paints ANY time in history as being “golden” or some utopian paradise. That has NEVER been the case. People, whether Muslim or not, have tended to be for the most part pretty crappy, with occasional exceptions. That doesn’t make the history any less interesting. The transition from Sasanian Iran to Islamic Iran is really fascinating, and full of more continuities than it is of ruptures. And things never remained the same, things always changed. We forget this about the past. Sadly, even in America, the state of Iranian studies is pretty sad, and the few people who try to save it from second-rate nationalist scholarship tend to face vehement criticism. It is difficult for those of us who are devoted to other studies to not feel a pull to enter into the arena and try to help the situation.

The Persian-speaking individuals in the past who left timeless legacies didn’t do it through priding themselves on their ancestors, they did it by being fully human. “Religion,” in the academic sense, is a human phenomenon, it is something we humans do. Even in the absence of a divine source, humans ritualize their actions and create elaborate cosmologies to live. We idolize even if the idols are not sacred. We turn men into saints even if we reject higher powers. Have you seen how people speak about Edison or Einstein? Or, on a more depressing note, have you seen how some kids talk about Miley Cyrus and Justin Bieber? 

I’m sorry this is way too long. I really don’t think we need to defend anything, certainly not Islam. You can’t erase Islam from Iran’s past just like you can’t erase Zoroastrianism, Mazdakism (though this almost happened,) Christianity, Judaism, Buddhism, and a billion other things. So much of what people love about our cultures (because there are many Persian and Persianate cultures) comes from the Muslim period. It is stupid to let a few decades change that. 

Also, in general, we need to start having people think of history on the global level, not the specific regional or national level. It’ll help put things in perspective. We also need to use these terms in a more sophisticated way. “Islam” doesn’t say or do anything, people do, in their own place and time.

Rant over. If you have more questions, send them and I’ll get to them eventually. Gotta do some work. 

(PS I don’t respond to reblogs. If you have a comment you want me to respond to, send it to my inbox.)

 “stop telling people that no one will love them unless they love themselves!! ur telling them they’re unworthy of love!!” ok yeah, the wording of that phrase is terrible. what I wish that phrase would say is that “you can’t have a good relationship unless you love yourself” meaning that if you aren’t content with who you are, getting into a relationship will be like trying to put a bandaid on a bullethole

it’s not saying you’re unworthy of love, its saying you won’t be very happy in a relationship if you don’t love yourself. you gotta work on loving yourself so you don’t depend on others to solve your problems and validate you. your happiness will start to solely depend on them. not only that, but you’ll constantly be worried about what your s/o thinks of you, you won’t be comfortable standing up for yourself, you’ll feel you don’t deserve them and you’ll eventually project these terrible feelings about yourself onto others. They could care about you so much and convey their feelings about you in genuine ways, but it’ll mean nothing if you don’t believe it. it’ll start to drain them and ultimately sabotage your relationship and hurt you in the long run. it can also be a destructive path if you don’t respect and love yourself, because you’ll also be susceptible to manipulation by others who are abusive and legitimately prey on those with low self esteem.

you gotta find consistent, stable joy in things other than the feeling of being in a relationship. loving yourself is an attitude you have towards yourself as a person without environmental influence. ultimately you can’t let whatever you’re battling within yourself dominate your being. i know it’s hard - believe me i’ve had my low points - and it’s a true struggle ESPECIALLY if you have a mental illness, but you can’t let pain and sadness you feel within yourself win. finding genuine love in pets, friends, hobbies and relationships will help you, yes, but it’s up to you to complete the circle.

anonymous asked:

STOP LEADING PEOPLE TO HELL. you tell people it's ok to like tv shows and movies and music? That's all SECULAR. you are literally walking yourself into hell and making people follow you! It doesn't matter how much you LOVE God. Unless you turn away from that JUNK you'll never be saved and you'll cry all the way into the fire of hell. THATS THE TRUTH MY FRIENDS. STOP TELLING PRIOLE TV IS OK IF IT PASSED A SCRIPTURE TEST. ITS NEVER OK.

We’ll have to agree to disagree on this one beloved, but I want you to know something, beyond our doctrinal differences you are loved. God loves you with an unfailing love. Your worth is so much more than what you do. All things are lawful but not all things are beneficial. God’s love for you is not on the condition that you stop everything. His love is unconditional. He wants your heart.

Now here is where we do agree. There are many Christians who like things that destroy their relationship with God. But fear is no way to help them see that. Fear is the worst motivator ever. You’ve gotta stop trying to scare people into good behavior. That’s not how God operates and that’s sure not what this generation responds to. God doesn’t want people changing because they’re scared of Him, he wants them changing because they love him.

Remember friend you’re loved and cherished. Rest in what he accomplished for you. There is no fear in love.

Be blessed
- Eriq

anonymous asked:

"like, let’s not pretend a mixed white-asian person doesn’t have more access to white privilege than i do, as a non-white person, whether they identify as white or not, and whether asians have made fun of them or not." OK, so white-passing privilege is one thing, but it's not like there's some sort of partial-white privilege?? If people can't tell I'm mixed with white until they ask exactly where is the access to white privilege?

Also not happy with the implication that as a mixed person I can “identify” as Asian but still not qualify as “non-white,” like yourself. Mixed with white =/= white.

okay so i obviously don’t know you, unless you want to send me your entire autobiography so i can sit here and get my ~checklist~ out and be like “yup, that’s white privilege there.” like having access to white privilege is not about whether you look white or not, although that can be one way of accessing it. you could, for example, choose to check off white on your college applications and not be subject to racial quotas. if you have a “white-sounding” name, you may receive more job interviews than people with identifiably asian names. maybe you’re able to trace your family tree back, which many black americans can’t because their lineages have been erased via the slave trade. or maybe you have white social networks that can get you access to more accumulated family wealth and property, which blacks and asians have historically been barred from doing, and which is actually a major factor of white privilege. like how the fuck am i supposed to just suddenly divine the ~exact~ circumstances in which you might have access to white privilege in ways that i do not???

and oh my god that last line is ridiculous. you are part white. acknowledge it. own it. understand that you are part of a larger social context, and that your identity does not separate you from this reality. yes, you may experience racism by virtue of being asian, and also experience things i don’t by virtue of being mixed. but at the same time, that does not mean you 100% cannot and never do have privileges that i don’t, by virtue of being white. like why are you so eager to be oppressed?


p.s. again, what about mixed race people who are not white and thus have no access to white privilege? are you just gonna whine about yourself or stand up for them as well?

Little reminder about my art please.

I would like VERY MUCH that people dont repost my art on tumblr. ESPECIALLY WHEN NOT SOURCED. It is very sweet that you like prucan but FOR THE ARTISTS SAKES PLEASE ASK FIRST AND SOURCE! 

I WILL BE SUPER HAPPY TO HAVE YOU PEOPLE IN MY INBOX IF YOU WANT TO USE MY ART FOR AMV/8TRACKS/ICON/AND EVERYTHING ELSE. (some of you came to me even after using it just to check if it was fine and yes it is. all i want is people to kindly ask me and tell me. unless its something like editing or reposting i will hardly ever say no.)



its ok if you just arrived to tumblr or just dont know about the issue. mistake happen and now you will know. but from now on be careful! reblog from the artists if you want it on your blog. (and NO the watermark is not a source enough!!!!!!)

anonymous asked:

As a Christian father I need you to stop telling these people it's ok to be gay. Leviticus 18:22 tells us homosexuality is an abomination. Even though God tells us homosexuality is an abomination you still support it. I don't know who's more disgusting you or those gays. I'm pretty sure you're parents are ashamed of you. God will punish you unless you repent. It's God or the Fags. I told my son the same thing. There's no faggots in heaven. Convert and I'm sure God will take a gay helper like you

Lol, bro your cult has been inboxing the fuck out of me today. Congrats you’ve earned a reply. Guess what? I don’t give a fuck. I promote love and equality for all people. Love is love. But I don’t promote hate. I don’t care what you believe in, if you’re a dick I’m going to call you out on it. And you sir are being a dick. I think this is funny because there’s nothing you can do. Gay people will be accepted and you’ll be bitter as hell with nobody to tell your woes to but your cult of haters. Love is love…and always will be.