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anonymous asked:

hi.. I’m not neurotypical, but i’m very afraid of being ableist (especially to other neurodivergents), especially because being unintentionally ableist has already ruined a very important friendship of mine. Do you have any advice about how to avoid being unintentionally ableist?

well ur asking the wrong person but it really depends what you said?

if you just used a word like “stupid/crazy” then it’s up to the person you’re talking to to make it clear they don’t want the word used around them.

By the way you type you don’t sound like someone who says the r slur or makes jokes in bad taste so just realise that no matter what you do, you’re always going to make some sort of mistake. I could give you all the advice in the world, you could follow it to the word and still say something ableist unintentionally. 

I think if anyone is bothered by something you say unintentionally, just say it was unintentional and try to move on. There’s not point telling people what to and what not to find offensive, if you are friends with someone and you care about them and you happen upon this disagreement and you know you only said something minor (e.g. “this headcanon is stupid”) then you’ve got to assess the situation, ask yourself if your conversational partner is worth talking to (for your mental health, assess this on the way they react to the MINOR thing you’ve said e.g. have they pointed out they’re uncomfortable or have they just cut to yelling at you?) and then after that either work it out or decide they aren’t worth the effort.

it’s always good to ask for opinions from ppl you trust too? If you have a friend who’s  unbiased and will tell you if you’ve fucked up then ask them, that’s literally all you can really do. 

Sunday Six

“Is there anything in particular you are craving?”

When he glances over the counter at the cowboy, there’s a gleam of mischief in the man’s eyes, something dark and suggestive in the slant of his smirk. The tips of Hanzo’s ears go pink as his pulse ticks up again, and he swallows around the tightness in his throat. That innuendo had been entirely unintentional.

Hadn’t it?

“I reckon I’ll try anything you think I’ll like,” McCree says simply, though the smirk stays firmly in place on his lips. Hanzo’s eyes linger there, on the soft swell of his upper lip partially hidden by the bristly hair of his mustache.

anonymous asked:

I have to say, I had been really....disheartened? Disgusted? By the level of larries left nowadays, but I am pretty entertained by *apelo*a today, she is going scorched earth on other big larries for "stalking" and using their insider info for fame, while at the same time making posts about how she knows for a fact HL are engaged, Azoff (who knows which one) has the band, and HL read her blog closely so she has to be responsible for what she posts. Hahaha I....wow. Even for her, it's stunning.

I know! It’s like a lack of self-reflection and unintentional self drag liveblog.

Coran disposes of the paladins’ rubbish?
Coran Coran the garbage man

Coran is asked for some cereal?
Coran Coran the raisin bran

Coran is obsessing over an idol?
Coran Coran the super fan

Coran is attracted to all genders, but no one knows?
Coran Coran the secret pan

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{From Star Wars: Poe Dameron drawn by Phil Noto and (I believe) written by Charles Soule . I don’t know which issue}

This exchange changed my entire perception of C3PO.

C3PO is the butt of a lot of the fandom’s jokes.  This usually comes from them being characterized as stuffy and because they are effeminate (<— And that being the crux of a lot of C3PO’s ridicule is some Grade A bullshit as we all know.)

But C3PO is the Mother Hen of STAR WARS.

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He’s Got You High

For @a-simple-rainbow. ♥♥♥

She wanted something based on this post: Kurt sends an email to his TA while high on pain meds after a wisdom teeth extraction.

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Blaine is in the middle of his theatre history class when his phone signals a new email in his inbox. Discreetly hiding the phone from his instructor’s view by keeping his hands behind a stack of textbooks on his desk, he goes to his email folder and checks the sender.

It reads, Kurt Hummel.

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Attempted to do some steampunk designs with Miu and Kiibo because it seemed like they fit the theme the best. 

Might post their full body refs if I’m not lazy and it doesn’t take ages to do. 

Because this took an unnecessary 16 hours. oh i feel very dead ha HA aA. probably not doing lineless art ever again