unforgivable things

Do not allow him to consume you. If he does not call, go to sleep. If he does not message, put your phone away and have a fantastic day anyway. If he acts distant when you are with him and refuses to tell you what is wrong, don’t wait for him, go home and do something you love. If he tries to insinuate you do not need your friends now that you have him, spend more time with your friends. If he tries to teach you a lesson through the silent treatment, ignore him completely.

If he plays with your feelings constantly, walk away from him. If he acts like your body is his entitlement when you are not ready, walk away from him. If he says terrible, unforgivable things and threatens to leave you after every argument, walk away from him. If he forbids you from doing anything you love, walk away from him. If he claims ownership of your accomplishments, walk away from him. If he demeans you or disrespects your being a girl and refuses to stop when you tell him it hurts, walk away from him.

I cannot stress this enough, you live for yourself first. He is a secondary character in the story of your life. Do not allow him to turn you into a secondary character in your own book.

—  Nikita Gill, Advice for Teenage Girls Finding Their Way Through Love.

i used to think love was a rough, unforgiving thing. i used to think it was bad, and i was scared.
then i met you, and you completely changed that. i love love. i love loving you.

Some Things Are Unforgivable

Anakin’s Force Ghost: [exhausted and disheveled, rubbing his eyes] OK…read what we have so far back to me. 
Obi-Wan’s Force Ghost: [putting on reading glasses] All right. “One - steal his mask and then tell him he doesn’t get it back unless he does what you say”, “Two - catfish him online and attempt to siphon away money from the First Order until it dissolves”, “Three - tell him that the light side has hotter ginger guys if that’s what he’s into” – awww…Anakin…
Anakin: [winks] 
Obi-Wan:  – “Four - kidnap him and send him to one of those cult-deprogramming places” –
Anakin: …wouldn’t have worked on me.
Obi-Wan: – and “Five” – well, actually the next 15 lines just say “kick his ass”, which I don’t think we’re allowed to do anymore. 
Anakin: [throws his pen at the wall] But why can’t we just go kick his ass? That kid is out there, sullying my name… 
Obi-Wan: …well in fairness I think you really got the ball rolling there – 
Anakin: …and concealing a full head of Skywalker Hair. ON PURPOSE!
Obi-Wan: [clenching his fist] The man is a monster. He must be stopped. 

some AUs i'll never write but definitely want to read
  • ‘we used to be in a band but you left bc you despise the music industry now we’re world-famous i wrote a song abt missing you i hope you get lonely when you hear it on the radio bc THAT’S HOW YOU MAKE ME FEEL YOU ASSHOLE’ AU
  • ‘we’re new roommates and someone told you i’m at the hospital you panic and then you remember i work at a hospital’ AU
  • 'you are a selfish, parasitic, amoral person who has done unforgivable things why did you give up your life to save mine’ AU
  • ‘you live across the hall and you’re in your underwear every time you open the door it’s so frustrating stOP SMILING OH GOD I CAN’T EVEN LOOK AT YOU IN THE EYES’ AU
  • 'we were childhood best friends who meet again and have to work together we used to be v close and i actually lov– hey why don’t you remember me at all did you get amnesia or something’ AU
  • 'you’re an atheist and im a conservative gay catholic you’ve never been a jerk abt my faith and u even wait for me outside the church every sunday i really appreciate it’ AU
  • ‘we’re both travelers and i hate how you speak the native language so well where are you staying btw do u want to make out’ AU
  • ‘it’s raining hard and i only have my designer coat then you, a savage person in a truck, came along and now i’m soaking wet do you know how much this coat costs’ AU
  • who am i??? what happened?? ??? well mate, i’m just a loyal bar patron and a total stranger whom you kissed and asked if i wanted to see your butt last night’ AU
  • 'i had a terrible day and i’m on the bus stuck in heavy traffic you’re waiting for your ride outside and we have a staring contest then u blink and smile like the big dork that u are i cant believe i smiled back’ AU

Instead of tv shows killing off queer women, why not have them exit alive and well in the most badass, majestic and fashionable way possible?

Also worth pointing out that in the books, Alana is a straight man who only just barely cameos in Red Dragon and Margot, whilst still one of the most interesting characters, is the epitome of the ignorant stereotypical portrayal of a lesbian woman.

In the show, Alana was gender-swapped and depicted as bisexual, having been in relationships with both men AND women which was done in a way that promoted sexual fluidity. Margot was written in a non-homophobic way and actually integrated well into the story, unlike the movie which cut her out completely.

Also they had an extremely beautifully and sophisticatedly filmed sex scene which wasn’t needlessly sexualised.

Unforgivable Things Howl’s Moving Castle did:
  1. Got rid of Sophie’s personality to make her sad frumpy woman
  2. Got rid of Howl’s personality to make him seem empty 
  3. Got rid of Sophie’s magic and how she saved the day not through the power of being in love, but by the power of simply being a badass and beating the antagonist to death and saving the day
  4. There aren’t that many women in the story as is, but the movie got rid of about half of them Including her second sister who was learning to be a witch, how the two sisters charmed the other to look like the other and they switched places from the school to the bakery
  5. The reason the witch targeted sophie was because everyone in the city was wearing her hats (imbued with strong ass magic) and the witch felt threatened. 
  6. Speaking of being targeted, the movie handled it pretty well, but Real Sophie was like “i’m just gonna be a cool ass old grandma now and i’ll just go take on the world cuz who cares?” and was grumpy and had EMOTIONS that which the entire movie is lacking of tbh. 
  7. Michael (Markl in the film) was a teenager and their personality is about the same so?? but he’s trying to date one of sophie’s sister and they actually, i think, get really serious and it’s sorta cute
  8. Speaking of sisters: Sophie thinks that howl is courting her sister at the magicians but in reality he’s impressed they switched places and he’s hanging out with her to get the dish on sophie 👀👀👀
  9. He dyed his hair pink on accident in the book and at first he was like “AAAA” but then he was so fucking into it. although this is p much the only scene in the entire movie that was almost synonymous with the book 
  10. The “black” setting on the door doesn’t go like back in time or anything, it goes to OUR WORLD. He has like  fucking corvette and takes sophie around in it, it’s goofy and like 0/10 the movie didn’t even mention that he’s like a bored college kid who pretends to be related to fucking merlin and figured out how to travel between dimensions
  11. Did I mention he pretends to be merlin? He’s a cosplaying son of a ho. He pretends to be like 6 different wizards not even kidding. 
  12. The queen lady wasn’t evil, she was very very nice and she helps sophie realize that she’s full of magic and helps her break the curse. Women helping women woo!!
  13. I mean seriously, I know ghibli is really good about female characters etc…but for real…there are like a grand total of 5 in the story and the movie cut out 3 of them, made one evil and made the actual evil one good?? Get it together. 
  14. Speaking of one of the cut out women: Fanny! Like…the movie really really glosses over how the witch of the waste basically sparked sophie into running away from essentially a really really abusive and exploitative situation where she was basically doing slave labor for her stepmom. 
  15. At the same time while it’s glossing over that it totally cuts out her rage at being left behind in a  dusty store room making hats and basically ONLY having these hats for company (which is how she charmed them!!). Sophie has a lot of personality and she was soooo so so sassy and charged, it sucks that the movie cut that to make her an oatmeal mush salad.  

“CON-I really tried to get over Glenn’s death throughout S7, but I couldn’t, so I decided to quit the show after 7A ended and I haven’t watched an episode since that. First off, Maggie was already plenty badass and independent enough to lead Hilltop with Glenn still alive, Glenn was sidelined post S3, and I feel like he had so much potential for a darker arc that diverged from the comics too. But the most unforgivable thing about Glenn’s death is that they made it about Daryl’s pain.”

So of all the unforgivable things Zinnia says there’s…

Thanking Ruby for causing his own childhood trauma

Reminding Steven he’s no longer Hoenn Champion

Implying that Sapphire is stupid/naiive for going along with a plan she knew nothing about whilst reminding her that everybody else (including Ruby) knew.

And calling Emerald “short stuff”.

This woman clearly has no soul.

It’s kind of annoying seeing quotes like “the right one won’t make you cry” or never give someone a second chance to hurt you again. I feel like it sends the wrong message and makes people think that relationships are perfect, you’re feelings will never get hurt with the right one because that’s how I felt. I went into relationships thinking if he loved me he wouldn’t hurt my feelings or walk away. Like that’s life. You hurt each other feelings, you make each other cry, you get frustrated and may second guess. But that’s a relationship. It’s not always flowers and sunshine. Shit is HARD. Of course you’re gonna hurt each other’s feelings and you’re gonna cry. You’re gonna snap at each other when you have a bad day. You’re gonna bicker about them not doing the dishes. Nothing is perfect and you have to work on it everyday. Nobody really tells you how hard relationships are. Some things are unforgivable but sometimes shit happens and one of you leaves, it hurts like HELL but makes you realize how much you want each other. I think sometimes you need to fall apart to be reminded of how much you love that person. There’s nothing wrong with giving someone a second chance if you want to because sometimes it actually works out the second time. Im living proof of that and so are many others. I just feel like society paints this fake picture of how relationship are and it’s totally different. You have your good times and pretty bad times. You both have to work at it everyday but I think the hard times makes it more special because you made it through all that and some come out stronger than ever.
—  A chapter from my life

but no oh my god this is literally the most genius thing because “tell them your darkest secret” and everyone’s gonna jump to like really terrible things like oh god he’s killed a man oh god he’s moriarty oh god he did this or that unforgivable thing, but it’s literally just. “I love you”. he’s just in love with john. his darkest secret is that he’s always had a heart. he’s never been dark, he’s always been soft, and now we’re finally seeing it.

I posted this on Twitter, and I feel it needs to be said here, too

Fellow Canadians, now is absolutely not the time to get smug or self-congratulating, we are absolutely not immune to this shit and we cannot drop our own vigilance now

There’s a lot of work to be done, even in our own country. We’ve allowed unforgivable things to happen to our own Aboriginal peoples, and that’s just for starters. We’re making great strides but we cannot afford to drop any forward momentum, even as living with our neighbours starts to become a lot harder.

Keep a very close watch on the Conservative leadership election in 2017.

Remember names like Kellie Leitch, a Conservative leadership nominee who openly supported Trump today.

This can happen here, and the responsibility falls on us to never allow it to.

Blanche DuBois in A Streetcar Named Desire knew everything.. when she said “deliberate cruelty is unforgivable, and the one thing of which I have never ever been guilty of” I was like….. wow she’s..ryt being mean on purpose is not forgivable and when she says “I have always depended on the kindness of strangers” it’s like that’s so true and when someone is a bonch u die because we all depend on the kindness and decency of one another when the line of decency is violated we freak out and become unhinged like Blanche did in Streetcar all she needed was someone to be nice to her but everyone was cruel……. Tennessee Williams is my mama

I’m Sorry

Hi everyone. So some things happened today… I’m bruised and exhausted and feeling bad. I did some horrible things… I did some unforgivable things. And I completely understand if you don’t want to interact with me or be friends with me anymore. 

I just want to say I’m so so sorry for everything. I’m sorry I didn’t listen to you all when you were right about the crystal all along… I just loved it so much, I was blind to what you were telling me. I’m sorry. Thank you for trying to warn me.

The crystal is gone now. I destroyed it. I feel a little lost without it but I’m okay. 

I won’t be answering asks today because I have a lot of making up to do with my friends. I owe them big time. And I really want to spend some extra time with Donnie too, he deserves all the cuddles. I should be back on tomorrow as normal.

Thank you for everything. Love you all <3

anonymous asked:

I agree with your Axel point. Sora took down and KILLED Organization XIII for his friends. (Granted they were "bad guys") Yet in trying to bring back his friend Axel didn't even physically harm Kairi (not seriously anyway) he literally was being gentle enough that she escaped. Boi coulda knocked her out cold but all he did was hold her wrist.

RIGHT! And people are saying Axel did an UNFORGIVABLE THING AND KAIRI SHOULD NEVER FORGIVE HIM! But if they honestly talked about it than I’m sure Kairi will be like ‘OH! You were being manipulated and had lost one friend *cough saix cough* already to this crazy organization that kills off unwanted things, so you kidnapped me thinking it was the only way to get back and protect your friend’. And i’m sure Kairi would be a rational person and come to the conclusion that ‘oh i get that! Sort of like how Sora destroyed org 13 to save me and Riku’. Simple enough. Sure there would still be hurt feelings, but here’s the deal! THE GAME AIN’T OUT YET. DON’T JUDGE SO HARSHLY. 

And thank you for agreeing with me. You took the words out of my mouth!