I saw a question asked on another page, "What one piece of advice would you give to someone just starting out unschooling?," and I instantly knew what I'd say.
Don’t expect your lives to look the way people on the blogs you follow do, or like that unschooling family you know, or like you imagined when you were daydreaming about all the cool ways you’d learn things. Your life and your experiences are yours and yours only, and they don’t have to fit into a mold of what (you think) unschooling “should” look like. Take inspiration from others, and from your daydreams, but don’t try and force your lives to take a shape that doesn’t really work for you.
I think this holds true whether you’re a teen leaving school, a young adult “uncolleging,” or a newly unschooling parent!