unbearably so

What Egoraptor thinks "cisgender" means
ocarina of time pt. 61
What Egoraptor thinks "cisgender" means

this is so unbearably embarrassing and I will never not think about how it’s really fucking funny that a person with such a massive queer demographic probably still pieces together his ideas of terminology from what he reads on gaming subreddits

THE REASON WHY THE GOOD TEEN TITANS IS NEVER COMING BACK

ive seen MANY times on my dash different posts either complaining about teen titans go ( and rightfully so tbh) or whining/begging for the original teen titans to somehow make a triumphant return

unfortunately no amount of petitions you sign, emails you send, or rants you post, will ever bring the original back bc of 1 reason:

THE CREATOR IS A FUCKING ASSHOLE

let me explain;

when i was in my starting year at SCAD i was going for animation (dropped that like a rock but thats beside the point haha). there was a special seminar at night where freshman could meet w professionals in whatever field they were planning to go to. i thought this sounded amazing bc i was so eager to learn so i went, and to my surprise i was the only student who went.

i talked to the animation and sequential art guys and it was amazing to have their complete attention!! i felt much less shy talking about how insecure i was about my art than i would have been in a group of many students.

the animation guy asked me if i knew of the show teen titans, and i said ofc and that i loved it and wished it hadnt been cancelled 

and then he told me something i would never forget 

“it got cancelled bc NO ONE wanted to work w the creator. it got so bad people were quitting left and right until the studio decided they had to let him go. it didnt matter how successful the show was, or how many ratings it got/fans it had. this guy was so unbearable to be around that even if his product was amazing no one wanted to be a part of it any more.

so dont feel bad about your art not being the best, if you are a kind, and genuine person then people will want to work with you. its not about how quality the end result is, its if you are a person people would enjoy being around.”

Something that may come as surprising to folks whose needs and comfort levels are already catered to by the world around them, is that “coping” is exhausting. 

There are a great many people who are perfectly capable of adjusting to certain situations, be it a matter of social interaction, or physical disability, medical conditions, or whatever the case may be. Through trial and error we have discovered tricks and methods that allow us to function in a society that wasn’t created with us in mind, and we’re very good at making it look like we’re getting along just fine. 

But it’s tiring. Always, constantly having to be vigilant and on-guard while everyone around us takes everything in stride, and then no one understands why, at the end of the day, we shut down. Because we were able to “get by” throughout the day, suddenly our unwillingness or inability to cope is no longer valid. 

It’s like carrying a 20 pound weight all fucking day long. Just because you can doesn’t mean you don’t need or deserve a break. And then when you finally put the weight down, everyone around you scolds you and chastises you, accuses you of being lazy, insists that you’re just “faking because it’s convenient.” 

This is why it’s so fucking unbearable living in a home where everyone chooses to disregard your limits and your comfort levels. Family members will say, “I’m not going to cater to your needs, because the ~real world~ won’t cater to you and you need to get used to that.” 

Consider: People who struggle and cope through everyday life are already painfully aware that the “real world” doesn’t give a fuck about us. This is why we develop coping strategies that allow us to function. This is why when we finally come home, when we are FINALLY through with the “real world” for the day, we just want some goddamn compassion. We just want the people we live with to place value on our needs, comfort levels, and limitations. We want the people who say they love us to demonstrate that love through doing whatever small thing they can do to ensure that when we’re in the comfort of our own homes, we can actually be comfortable instead of having to continue carrying around that weight that we’ve been forced to hold up all. day. long. 

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endless list of favorite relationships |→ sookie and rory

“Okay, I’ve got it from here, Sookie. I love you.

Can we kill the notion that only reluctant leaders are good leaders? The idea that Dany isn’t fit to rule because she believes she can and should, and Jon is the ~true ruler~ because he never sought out any position of leadership is so popular in this fandom, and it’s such a boring ass take. There’s nothing wrong with owning who you are and embracing being a leader, and feeling confident in that. Call her arrogant or entitled if you must, but when push comes to shove, she always shows up for her people, and so many are better off because of her.  Look I can go on for days about how fearlessly Dany takes on responsibility for  those under her rule, despite what a huge burden that must be to have the fate of so many people in her hands. I can go on about how she doesn’t even flinch at all that responsibility, and yet you have people arguing that she doesn’t deserve to rule because “she’s too full of herself.” 

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  • Blood Moon Hannigram AU ~ ABOverse

“You need me. More than you know. More than you’d care to admit.”

A young Omega trespasses into the rogue pack’s territory, only to be faced by their Alpha. In the heated confrontation, they learn that each have found their true mate in the other. With crippling fear the young wolf flees the scene, despite the Alpha’s best attempt to stop him. But little did the unwilling Omega know that the very scent of the Alpha was enough for his own body to betray him.“

So Good

Dating Archie Andrews Would Include:

  • Wearing his varsity jacket on chilly days.
  • Him serenading you in the pouring rain.
  • Lots of competitive banter and playful teasing.
  • Cheering for him at football games.
  • Helping him work for his dad on the weekends.
  • Steamy make out sessions in the music room.
  • Grabbing a milkshake at Pop’s Chock’lit Shoppe.
  • Laying with him in bed late at night.
  • Pillow talk.
  • Him constantly asking Betty and Veronica for advice.
  • Him always showing up at your doorstep with flowers and chocolates.
  • Adorable nicknames.
  • Rough and passionate car sex.
  • Him checking you out during practice, and you pretending not to notice.
  • Icing his wounds whenever he gets into fights.
  • Him walking you to school every morning. 
  • Body kisses.
  • You being a complete catch, and him not knowing what to say.
  • Hooking up in the most inconvenient places.
  • Getting into trouble with him on a daily basis. 
  • Tummy rubs and tickle fights.
  • His friends absolutely adoring you.

Dating Veronica Lodge Would Include:

  • Faux-Lesbian Kissing™.
  • A surprise bouquet of magnolias waiting for you in the office.
  • Trying out for the cheerleading team together.
  • “As my mom likes to say, ‘There’s no wrong the right cupcake can’t fix.’”
  • Her taking an immediate liking to you.
  • Her helping you pick out outfits for school.
  • Suffering through Cheryl’s unnecessary tirades during assemblies.
  • You and her in your bedroom, dancing around and trying on sexy lingerie.
  • Making Archie and Betty insanely jealous.
  • Hers-and-hers mani-pedis.
  • Intimate picnics in secluded forests with expensive champagne.
  • Pool hopping.
  • Witty remarks and lovey-dovey compliments.
  • Listening to her entertaining anecdotes about New York.
  • Nuzzling noses.
  • Her escorting you to fancy events thrown on by prestigious socialites.
  • Always being her partner during labs and group activities. 
  • Standing up for what you believe in and advocating for equality. 
  • You both giving Cheryl a run for her money.
  • Getting revenge on douchebags who deserve it. 
  • Her using you as a canvas to test out new lipstick colors. 
  • You and her being extremely touchy-feely in public.

Dating Betty Cooper Would Include:

  • Supporting her through anxiety attacks.
  • Taking her out to the movies every Friday night.
  • Jamming out to her old records.
  • Surprising her late in the evening with a basket full of her favorite things.
  • Gushing to Kevin about how beautiful and lovely she is.
  • Gentle, slow-paced kisses. 
  • Always taking artsy photos of her whenever she’s not looking.
  • Playing with each other’s hair mindlessly during class.
  • Bringing her a carton of Ben and Jerry’s ice cream when she’s sick.
  • Stargazing.
  • Laying in her bed under an archway of fairy lights.
  • Coaching her on how to be assertive.
  • Black lace and fishnet tights.
  • Her always picking up after the first ring.
  • You two both wanting to adopt a dog. 
  • Watching the sun rise after a restless sleep.
  • You straightening her cheerleading uniform before every game.
  • Spending hours alone by the river together.
  • Keeping dream journals and picking flowers.
  • Taking spontaneous midnight drives and waking up in a new place each morning.
  • Doodling designs on every inch of her body. 
  • Wearing oversized sweaters and knee-length socks.
  • Crying over delicious peach cobblers and vintage Polaroids.

Dating Jughead Jones Would Include:

  • Editing his posts on the school’s website. 
  • Helping him through writer’s block. 
  • Hanging out with him under the bleachers.
  • Mentally cursing people who are assholes.
  • Being very overprotective of him. 
  • Wearing his beanie on certain occasions. 
  • Dry humor.
  • Playing detective.
  • Rooftop dates.
  • Him being flustered when you prove him wrong. 
  • Him tutoring you after school, even though you don’t need it. 
  • Nervous hand-holding.
  • Him checking up on you every second of every day. 
  • Long, endearing conversations.
  • Lighthouse adventures.
  • Him unable to stop bragging about you. 
  • Obsessing over literature and Star Wars.
  • Him being a stubborn butt during social gatherings, and you having to pull him out of his comfort zone. 
  • Sneaking around the campus after school hours.
  • You distracting him by being so unbearably cute. 
  • Soft touches. 
  • Cleaning up his work space whenever it gets too messy. 
  • Falling asleep with him on his old, worn-down mattress.
  • Forehead kisses.
Missing someone is so unbearably painful
—  Tenari Ioapo // the hours turn into days, the days turn into weeks, the weeks turn into months and the months turn into years.
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