unable to relate

The signs as emotions we feel but can't explain

Aries: Kuebiko- A state of exhaustion inspired by acts of senseless violence.

Taurus: Mauerbauertraurigkeit- The inexplicable urge to push people away, even close friends who you really like.

Gemini: Onism- The frustration of being struck in just one body, that inhabits only one place at a time.

Cancer: Sonder- The realization that each passer-by has a life as vivid &’ complex as your own.

Leo: Hanker Sore- Finding a person so attractive it actually kinda pisses you off.

Virgo: Jouska- A hypothetical conversation that you compulsively play out in your head.

Libra: Adronitis- Frustration with how long it takes to get to know someone.

Scorpio: Exulansis- The tendency to give up trying to talk about an experience because people are unable to relate to it.

Sagittarius: Rückkehrunruhe- The feeling of returning home after an immersive trip only to find it fading rapidly from your awareness.

Capricorn: Opia- The ambiguous intensity of looking someone in the eye, which can feel simultaneously invasive &’ vulnerable.

Aquarius: Monachopsis- The subtle but persistent feeling of being out of place.

Pisces: Liberosis- The desire to care less about things.

The Signs as Unexplained Feelings
  • Aries: Rubatosis- The unsettling awareness of your own heartbeat.
  • Taurus: Altschmerz- The weariness from the same old issue you've always had.
  • Gemini: Adronitis- The frustration with how long it takes to get to know someone.
  • Cancer: Kuebiko- The state of exhaustion inspired by senseless acts of violence.
  • Leo: Kenopsia- An eerie, forlorn atmosphere of a place that is usually bustling with people but now is abandoned and quiet.
  • Virgo: Ellipism- The sadness from never knowing your destiny.
  • Libra: Occhiolism- The awareness of the smallness of your perspective.
  • Scorpio: Exluanis- The tendency to give up talking about an experience because others are unable to relate to it.
  • Sagittarius: Onism- The frustration of being stuck in one body that inhabits only one place at a time.
  • Capricorn: Lacheism- The desire to be struck by disaster.
  • Aquarius: Nodus Tollens- The realization that the plot of your life doesn't make sense to you anymore.
  • Pisces: Mauerbauertraurigkeit- The inexplicable urge to push people away, even close friends and family.
Zodiac Signs as... Emotions People Feel but Can’t Explain.
  • Aries: Lachesism– The desire to be struck by disaster – to survive a plane crash, or to lose everything in a fire.
  • Taurus: Chrysalism– The amniotic tranquility of being indoors during a thunderstorm.
  • Gemini: Onism– The frustration of being stuck in just one body, that inhabits only one place at a time.
  • Cancer: Liberosis– The desire to care less about things.
  • Leo: Anecdoche– A conversation in which everyone is talking, but nobody is listening.
  • Virgo: Rubatosis– The unsettling awareness of your own heartbeat.
  • Libra: Nodus Tollens– The realization that the plot of your life doesn’t make sense to you anymore.
  • Scorpio: Opia– The ambiguous intensity of looking someone in the eye, which can feel simultaneously invasive and vulnerable.
  • Sagittarius: Rückkehrunruhe– The feeling of returning home after an immersive trip only to find it fading rapidly from your awareness.
  • Capricorn: Exulansis– The tendency to give up trying to talk about an experience because people are unable to relate to it.
  • Aquarius: Monachopsis– The subtle but persistent feeling of being out of place.
  • Pisces: Énouement– The bittersweetness of having arrived in the future, seeing how things turn out, but not being able to tell your past self.

why do Mercy fans act so goddamn persecuted

Mercy ships make up literally ¾ of f/f works on AO3, and every OW femslash tag on tumblr is flooded with Mercy content

but as soon as woc criticize the disproportionate amount of attention Mercy gets, Mercy fans dogpile on them with accusations of misogyny, homophobia, even racism (which is a fucking joke, given the fact that Mercy is a blonde haired, blue eyed, angel themed white hero. like give me a break)

Mercy is the most popular female hero in this game. and it has everything to do with white fans being completely unable to relate to woc – both fictional and real.

why else would the vast majority of fandom content fixate on one single white hero in this ensemble cast of characters if not because the other characters are considered unrelatable.

Mercy has become every white fan’s self insert, and they use her to project their racist fantasies onto the woc she’s shipped with. hence the disgusting amount of servant, slave, and colonialist AUs the Pharmercy fandom is rife with.

Mercy doesn’t need protecting. and the fact that so many white Mercy fans feel the need to protect her from the big mean woc is pretty damn telling.

The Types’ Obscure Sorrows

ESTJ - Onism: The frustration of being stuck in just one body, that inhabits only one place at a time.

ISTJ - Énouement: The bittersweetness of having arrived in the future, seeing how things turn out, but not being able to tell your past self.

ENFP - Anecdoche: A conversation in which everyone is talking, but nobody is listening

INFP - Vellichor: The strange wistfulness of used bookshops.

ESFJ - Sonder: The realization that each passerby has a life as vivid and complex as your own.

ISFJ - Opia: The ambiguous intensity of Looking someone in the eye, which can feel simultaneously invasive and vulnerable.

ENTP - Adronitis: Frustration with how long it takes to get to know someone.

INTP - Monachopsis: The subtle but persistent feeling of being out of place.

ENFJ - Jouska: A hypothetical conversation that you compulsively play out in your head.

INFJ - Exulansis: The tendency to give up trying to talk about an experience because people are unable to relate to it.

ESTP - Lachesism: The desire to be struck by disaster – to survive a plane crash, or to lose everything in a fire.

ISTP - Occhiolism: The awareness of the smallness of your perspective.

ENTJ - Mauerbauertraurigkeit: The inexplicable urge to push people away, even close friends who you really like.

INTJ - Ellipsism: A sadness that you’ll never be able to know how history will turn out.

ESFP - Vemödalen: The frustration of photographing something amazing when thousands of identical photos already exist.

ISFP - Chrysalism: The amniotic tranquility of being indoors during a thunderstorm.

the ending of portal 2 always makes me cry ;_;

to have this iconic antagonist just singing to you through proxy as you leave, unable to relate her feelings directly, is very touching–and when translated from italian, the song is a shameless confession of love, respect, and caring, as well as best wishes for the future. the whole climax/ending is a wild ride that pushes the storytelling capabilities of the source engine to its absolute limits (and this being valve’s last narrative-driven game for many years, it also serves as the swan song of that era of remarkable games and the famous engine itself, touching in its own way) but the turret opera really took the relationship between chell and glados to the most interesting place it could have possibly gone

it’s rly important to note that mclain improvised some of the italian lyrics on the spot. it’s apparent from interviews and commentary that she understands the story on a very deep level and has a lot of feelings about glados. mclain is an opera singer and a complete outsider to gaming, but she became enchanted by the story and put everything she had into the role.

idk i have a lot of feelings about this Cake Meme Game… its a lesbian love story about an abusive murderous AI and a mute badass who completely steals her heart and i love it

anonymous asked:

what placements can make someone awkward or self-conscious and have a lack of confidence? (btw love your blog Xx)

Capricorn placements, or inner planets in aspect to Saturn. Such as with Venus (social urges) aspecting Saturn one has a hard time relating and connecting with others, or with sun (ego) in aspect with Saturn one has difficulty expressing themselves comfortably with others, which comes off as awkward, and they are generally not confident in themselves due to their constant inner criticism and self-doubt. Saturn in the 10th or 11th makes someone painfully aware of the ways of the public and therefore self-conscious when they’re presented to the public. 

The moon plays a part in public as well, the mass consciousness as Isabel Hickey states, and so an afflicted moon can suggest similar themes; being unable to relate well to others, insecurity and painful self-consciousness. 

Aquarius placements or Uranus contacts may have a feeling of awkwardness, a need for belonging but unable to relate to conventional life. such as with uranus aspecting moon one will not feel like they belong. 

Pisces/12th house placements or neptune aspects can cause low confidence because neptunian energy dilutes and dissolves what it touches. So with the sun, the identity is diluted and thus unclear to others and the individual. This person would then have trouble asserting their identity confidently.

-Dia

Signs as emotions people feel, but can’t explain
  • Aries- Anecdoche: A conversation in which everyone is talking, but nobody is listening.
  • Taurus- Opia: The ambiguous intensity of looking someone in the eye, which can feel simultaneously invasive and vulnerable.
  • Gemini- Adronitis: Frustration with how long it takes to get to know someone.
  • Cancer- Kenopsia: The eerie, forlorn atmosphere of a place that is usually bustling with people but is now abandoned and quiet.
  • Leo- Nodus Tollens: The realization that the plot of your life doesn’t make sense to you anymore.
  • Virgo-  Chrysalism: The amniotic tranquility of being indoors during a thunderstorm.
  • Libra- Exulansis: The tendency to give up trying to talk about an experience because people are unable to relate to it.
  • Scorpio- Mauerbauertraurigkeit: The inexplicable urge to push people away, even close friends who you really like.
  • Sagittarius- Rückkehrunruhe: The feeling of returning home after an immersive trip only to find it fading rapidly from your awareness.
  • Capricorn- Altschmerz: Weariness with the same old issues that you’ve always had – the same boring flaws and anxieties that you’ve been gnawing on for years.
  • Aquarius- Énouement: The bittersweetness of having arrived in the future, seeing how things turn out, but not being able to tell your past self.
  • Pisces- Onism: The frustration of being stuck in just one body, that inhabits only one place at a time.
Emotions #1
  • Aries: The eerie, forlorn atmosphere of a place that is usually bustling with people but is now abandoned and quiet
  • Taurus: The amniotic tranquility of being indoors during a thunderstorm
  • Gemini: Frustration with how long it takes to get to know someone
  • Cancer: The tendency to give up trying to talk about an experience because people are unable to relate to it
  • Leo: The unsettling awareness of your own heartbeat
  • Virgo: The strange wistfulness of used bookshops
  • Libra: The frustration of photographic something amazing when thousands of identical photos already exist
  • Scorpio: The ambiguous intensity of Looking someone in the eye, which can feel simultaneously invasive and vulnerable
  • Sagittarius: The frustration of being stuck in just one body, that inhabits only one place at a time
  • Capricorn: A conversation in which everyone is talking, but nobody is listening
  • Aquarius: A sadness that you’ll never be able to know how history will turn out
  • Pisces: A state of exhaustion inspired by acts of senseless violence

I drew this almost a month ago… Seems fortuitous since after the recent chapter, I feel completely unable to draw SanjixNami-related things. Or anything Sanji-related. :( 

(I’m probably overreacting to the chapter, but I always was an emotional reader…)

Although it isn’t exactly comforting to me right in this moment, hopefully it’ll cheer up some other SaNa fans?

you don’t know how important it is that Peridot has autistic traits, like breaking down, using extreme logic over feelings, hyper focusing and missing social cues

it’s important because kids learn people who do this are still valuable and have worth, that even people who have verbal tics and breakdowns aren’t less than people.

it’s important for autistic people because it validates us and shows people we can still connect and feel emotions, things that are constantly denied that autistic people can do.

it’s important because it normalizes our behaviors and even makes these behaviors acceptable: such as Garnet valuing Peridot’s input on her shipping and comforting her when she was breaking down.

The Gems are treating Peridot very carefully: they’re not infantilizing her behaviors and not demonizing her either. They are helping her learn how Earth works. They don’t get onto her for not having enough empathy in certain situations, such as when she drawls on and bores Steven being unable to relate to him. They actually encourage her.

This is a huge thing thing. It encourages kids to be more accepting of autistic people and makes me so, so happy that a character who finally acts like I do is on television.

I’m so glad Peridot is coded autistic. I really, really am.

anonymous asked:

How would a Virgo/Pisces interception work? How would lack of these qualities manifest, would a person maybe be selfish (lack of serving/sacrifice) or possibly unable to empathize, relate, understand others? I might be completely off the mark, I'm grasping at straws here, sorry.

Both. I actually have a guide to interceptions here where you’ll find your answer!

the signs as emotions people feel, but can't explain
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  • Aries:
  • Adronitis- Frustration with how long it takes to get to know someone.
  • Taurus:
  • Altschmerz- Weariness with the same old issues that you’ve always had – the same boring flaws and anxieties that you’ve been gnawing on for years.
  • Gemini:
  • Liberosis- The desire to care less about things.
  • Cancer:
  • Occhiolism- The awareness of the smallness of your perspective.
  • Leo:
  • Kenopsia- The eerie, forlorn atmosphere of a place that is usually bustling with people but is now abandoned and quiet.
  • Virgo:
  • Jouska- A hypothetical conversation that you compulsively play out in your head.
  • Libra:
  • Sonder- The realization that each passerby has a life as vivid and complex as your own.
  • Scorpio:
  • Mauerbauertraurigkeit- The inexplicable urge to push people away, even close friends who you really like.
  • Sagittarius:
  • Nodus Tollens- The realization that the plot of your life doesn’t make sense to you anymore.
  • Capricorn:
  • Kuebiko- A state of exhaustion inspired by acts of senseless violence.
  • Aquarius:
  • Énouement- The bittersweetness of having arrived in the future, seeing how things turn out, but not being able to tell your past self.
  • Pisces:
  • Exulansis- The tendency to give up trying to talk about an experience because people are unable to relate to it.
B.A.P and Your Old Love

They discover a box that contains mementos of your past love.

Yongguk – Gukkie may not lose his temper often but it doesn’t mean he doesn’t get angry. And this would really piss him off. He doesn’t seem to have positive feelings towards his exes so he would be unable to relate to you wanting to hang onto memories of an old flame. He gives his all in a relationship and lives in the moment. Passionately and completely. There is no room for a ghost between you. And deep, deep down Yongguk fears he isn’t enough. This would touch a nerve he really doesn’t want to admit is there. So he’d probably leave to cool down a bit. But once he returned, he’d insist the box has to go. It would be uncharacteristic for him to make demands in your relationship but this would bother him greatly surprising both of you.     

Himchan – His reaction would be fairly complex. Initially he’d be rather stung by the discovery but he’d come to terms with it on his own. Himchan understands that holding on to the past doesn’t always threaten the future. After he thought about it and settled his feelings he’d confess he found the box. You’d have a long talk about it and what it meant. Point blank he’d ask about your feelings regarding your ex. Did you still love them? Did you want them back? Were you happier with them than him? Himchan is very good at reading people and would watch you closely as you answered his questions. If you convinced him of your sincerity, that you’d moved on, he’d accept your word and let it go although he wouldn’t be thrilled.

Daehyun – This would mess him up. Daehyun is a walking emotion. If he’s conscious he’s emoting something. Despite this he wouldn’t tell you what he found. Choking the knowledge down his insecurities would skyrocket. His behavior would become somewhat erratic. Sometimes he’d be very affectionate because in his mind he’s competing with your ex. Other times you’d catch him looking at you mournfully when he thought you wouldn’t notice. His smile would seem too forced at times and if you asked him why he’d blame work but have tears in his eyes. But you’d only tolerate the unusual behavior from him so long. Then you’d verbally, maybe even physically, corner him. His normal boisterous self would be subdued as he explained. You’d have to get rid of the box to even begin to rebuild the damage that had been done.

Youngjae – He’d confront you. Loudly. He’d be so shocked and hurt he’d carry the box to you directly and start firing questions at you. Youngjae is a romantic in a relationship but not overly sentimental. So once it’s over he may have tender feelings for that person but his logical nature wouldn’t desire to hang on to physical mementos. So like Yongguk, he’s not going to understand your motivations and feel threatened. You’d have a lot of ruffled feathers to soothe as you explained yourself. He’d actually want to know the significance of some of the items which would do him no good in the long run. Inevitably you’d have to pitch the box if you wanted to get back on course with him.

Jongup – Would probably be the most understanding out of the group but it doesn’t mean he wouldn’t be effected. It’s not that he’d storm up to you with the box. You’d probably notice he’d been gone for longer than you thought and find him just sitting there, contemplating the contents. Sitting next to him, he’d be quiet and want you to talk first. Finally you’d realize that and start the conversation. You’d talk about it calmly but you’d be able to see he was down. It would make him question his importance to you. If he had surpassed your old love or if you’d rather be with your ex. He’d try to see it from your point of view but it’d be best to get rid of it.

Zelo – Junhong is maturing and gaining confidence by leaps and bounds. The Zelo of a few years ago would have never told you he found the box and brooded until he made himself sick. Now I think he would still brood, but he’d get snippier with you and you’d know something was up. Eventually you’d want to know what his problem was and everything would come spilling out of him. It had been building for a while and he’d hold nothing back. You would get a very clear picture of how hurt and angry he was as he tells you how he’d felt that past few days. Eventually you’d get him calmed down and resolve things, especially if you agree to dump the box. It wouldn’t take long for Zelo to be lovey-dovey with you again but there would be a small part of himself he’d hold in reserve for a while.​

anonymous asked:

By your logic (white girl who may or may not have faced shitty parenting or gang violence can't relate to moonlight) many gay or bisexual black men can't relate to Moonlight either because they haven't experienced gang violence or poverty or abuse. If you have to be all things a character or story is to be able relate, then there's no point in anyone writing stories because we'd only be able to write ourselves as characters, being unable to relate to anything else.

Do you not get there’s a difference between saying you relate to something and you can empathize with something? Most people can empathize with characters and those that can’t usually can sympathize, but those two things don’t mean you have a connection to the characters like saying you relate to them does. Wording is important here.

Furthermore I do believe that people can relate to parts of a character to a certain degree but not the whole if they share some identities. A Black gay man who wasn’t raised in poverty can relate to a certain degree to Moonlight definitely not all the way because like I said the poverty aspect of the character changes the experience.

That being said there is literally no way in hell a white asexual woman has a connection to the story of Black gay/bisexual men. There is no fucking way.



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