When you meet two of your favorite voice actors and you find out they have been talking about how good your cosplay is before you met them and also tell you that you have an amazing voice and should go into voice acting.
Literally everyone knows how much these two love one another, even strangers. Colonel Phillips, Dr Erskine, Peggy, the doughnut man at the enlistment center, Gabe, Falsworth, a whole bunch of soldiers…they are that obvious. I imagine that all of Bucky’s family knows as well and Steve’s mother knew before she died.
I don’t give a fuck! She can be bi! She could be pan! She could be struggling with internalized homophobia! And also I have 0 emotional attachment to a character I have never met who believes his wife is dead! I have no desire to know more about him and I think I’m allowed this one simple goddamn pleasure in my life!