nah, we were best friends for 4 years and we went to the road last night to "celebrate" our 16 months anniversary. The thing is... The whole driving there thing was my idea as always. There is NO romance. He is not romantic as he used to be. And I know that if he stopped loving me he'd tell. I dont know what to do anymore to encourage him to feel that "Aw man I want to surprise her with this" or something. Is it a good idea to make him feel like he is losing me (which he is)?
its not my place to say this or anything, but maybe you’re like, too close to be in a romantic relationship? i honestly dont know what to say though considering i’ve never had anything involving love and romance happen to me. and i really dont know but i wouldn’t do anything drastic. the best thing to do is be open with him and tell him how you feel about the relationship and that you think that you’re giving more than he is and that relationships should be a balanced thing with two people involved, not just one x