A friendly tip from someone who cares: if you’re being sent horrible messages from people on anonymous TURN OFF ANONYMOUS.
I get you like being sent asks and it’s fun to answer questions and all that. But if you turn off anonymous even just for a couple days, those couple days of not being sent anything horrible, really help you to feel better. So please next time it happens just turn it off, give yourself some time to be happy without those horrible messages. Take the initiative to help yourself when you can.