You may have realised that my blog has become the virtual
version of tumbleweed rolling through a desert in recent weeks/months. I
noticed on checking my blog recently that I have had an influx of new followers
which I think is predominantly thanks to a shout out from Shirley (@destieldrabblesdaily) which I am infinitely grateful for because I consider
her one of the best blogs in the SPN fandom. It is for that reason among others
that I feel pretty damn bad about not being around recently to share in your
speculation, meta and general love for the show.
I haven’t said much since the finale, or even about the
finale. I never wrote an episode review for any of the last 3 episodes of
season 12. (still haven’t seen 12x21 and don’t plan to) I guess I just want to
In the past few months SPN has been losing its grip on me, I
guess I always thought this would happen one day as it always has in the past
with other things that I have falling in love and obsession with until I just…
well… get over it. Usually its when a show finishes or movie franchise ends
though, rather than whilst it’s still going on. I haven’t felt that itchy
desire to constantly check my dash, or write meta or obsess over speculation
for the show lately at all. I tried re-watching season 12 and I just couldn’t
maintain my concentration. I instead started watching other shows – American Gods
is fantastic – and getting out a bit more as well. Tumblr kinda sucked me into
this pit where my social life pretty much dried up and became non-existent.
Though in all fairness, tumblr also got me through a pretty nasty stint of
I keep hoping that this will be temporary, that perhaps when
season 13 comes to our screens that I’ll jump right back in, but I’m not so
sure. I guess I’ll watch it, but I don’t know how much I’ll participate in
fandom in the future. I want to, I still have that desire to get involved but I
don’t have the energy or desire to write meta about the actual show right now.
I guess I kinda feel like everything is already being said by the other
fantastic meta writers on tumblr and my opinion isn’t really needed.
The thing is, I am tired of SPN. I am tired of the game they
are playing with us. I say this, knowing full well that they are dangling
destiel in front of us like a carrot dangled in front of a donkey, so close but
still so far. Eventually we will get our carrot – of this I am almost certain –
but they sure as hell will continue to put us through a bunch of utter crap
before we get there.
This is what I am fed up with. I did start re-watching
season 12 and I just can’t fathom some things that drove me crazy. Like why
when we were first introduced to the British men of letters, it was two strong
women who ruled the screen, but by the end, it was another two generic white
men to add to our already generic white guy cast. They could have written it in
so many different ways to how they did.
Billy’s death pissed me off, so did Alesha’s and Tasha’s. By
the time they took Eileen from us I was fuming. Then when they went and wrote
off Rowena with an off screen death only told to us in description form I had
On top of this they continued to write scenes of non-con,
scenes of violence against POC and women that could easily be avoided whilst
maintaining suspense and drama, a dodgy plot point centering around a women
fighting her right to choose against the white men trying to take that choice
away from her, and on top of it all, fucking Lucifer still being a big part of
the show when his character should have died at the end of season 11. His
entire story this season was so boring I wanted to skip most of his scenes. I
hated HATED his character.
I’m sorry to be negative. The show did some wonderful things
this year that I am so happy about. Dean’s story arc was wonderful. His
confrontation with Mary in 12x22 had me in tears and I screamed FINALLY out
loud as he opened up and admitted things that he has kept inside for his whole
life. Dean held this whole season together he really did. The emotional plot
was wonderful, it’s what kept me around until the finale because I could see
Dabb’s plan for the characters emotional development so clearly in the subtext
and later text. Well, until 12x19 for Cas because after 12x19 I don’t
understand a fucking thing Cas did and I bloody hope he really has been mind
wammied by Jack all this time because otherwise it doesn’t make a lick of sense
for his character development.
Ultimately, what season 12 did that was GREAT was threefold:
It built up Dean’s emotional development to its
climax where he has finally let Sam ‘go’ and admit the years of abuse he suffered
under John, as well as admitting that he was a parent to Sam rather than a
brother. Dean’s entire story throughout the whole series has been building to
this point and it was WONDERFUL to see.
It built up Sam’s story in the same way, in that
he was able to finally break free from under Dean’s wing and accept his own
responsibility and place in the world as a whole – as a leader and hero –
rather than something tainted and wrong. Season 12 signalled the end of
Winchester toxic co-dependency and I was HERE FOR THAT.
It gave us destiel. Now, I say this with
certainty guys, although I know it is still contested. Consider it my parting
gift to you. Destiel is real and we are going there. Season 12 basically gave
it to us because it did things that it cannot now backtrack on. I have never
been more certain. Even AFTER 8x17, after Dean’s confession, after “He’s in
love… with humanity” and “it was all about saving one human” even after 11x19
and our Hunting Husbands, I still had a whole bunch of doubt on the topic. Now though? I don’t see how it is possible to watch 12x10, 12x12,
12x19 and now, the end of 12x23 without being like “hang on a freaking second –
what the hell actually is going on with these guys?” Destiel is gonna happen.
This is my speculation for you. Cas will be brought back but he will be brought
back wrong and probably under Jack’s control and will walk away from Dean –
still crying at his feet – all cold and emotionless as if Dean was nothing to
him. Dean will then stop at nothing to get him back. I predict that will happen
around the mid-season finale and it will be a big moment for destiel. Another 8x17
but more intense perhaps? Another ‘crypt scene’ but this time with a love
confession from both sides? Guys I see it. I can’t not see it now. The one
thing season 12 did was take away my doubts. Destiel is real and it is
happening and I am pretty sure we will get there by end of season 13.
The problem is, this is no longer enough for me. Even if
Season 13 starts with Cas coming back to life in some spectacular beauty and
the beast moment which ends in a kiss and a cut to their wedding day… its still
not enough anymore. I can’t watch this series just for a ship. I can’t keep
going for the fucking carrot dangling in front of me when my hoofs are bleeding
and raw and my back is breaking from the weight of all the shit I’ve been
forced to carry. The carrot isn’t worth it.
I used to adore this
show. Not for destiel, but for the stories, the mythology, the characters and
their colourful world of Supernatural things. Now, the characters are slowly
reaching peak development and I am getting fed up of watching them get beat
down. I want them to have their peace, their happy ending. The stories are no
longer fresh and exciting. They are Lucifer
and his ridiculous Nephilim baby/not baby.
I am also so fed up of Cas’s story not making sense, of him
being controlled or brainwashed or forced to do things he hates. Of his absence
when it makes no sense (like when Claire is involved and not a word is spoken
about him) or of writers writing him so off key that he comes across idiotic.
(thanks Bucklemming). I can’t keep watching the writers butcher this character
I adore with all my heart.
I am so so happy for Wayward Sisters and I will support it
with all my might. If only because these writers need to UNDERSTAND that they
cannot keep killing off the female characters on this show like they mean
nothing. Its just heartbreaking to think that we will never get Charlie,
Eileen, Rowena, Billy, Alesha or any of the other female characters who have
been wrongly killed off in Supernatural join the female cast of this spin off. I’m
excited for Wayward Sisters more than I am for Supernatural right now, because
Supernatural is just a massive disappointment for me.
I am sorry I feel this way, its been eating at me for a
while. I think it’s the reason I have taken this break. I just can’t put all my
time and energy into something that feels toxic to me. I live in fanfic at the
moment because it is the characters I adore without the awful truth of canon –
even if occasionally canon does still give us those fanfic moments – it’s the other
moments that are the issue.
I’m sorry. Part of me desperately wants to hold on with all
my might, to come back and throw myself into speculation and meta and all the
stuff you guys are so awesome at, but another part of me is so so bitter its
preventing me from feeling any joy from it.
Maybe when season 13 comes on I’ll forget this post and just
start this blog up again. I certainly miss talking to the bloggers on here I
consider my friends, I just feel that without contributing to anything I have
no purpose on Tumblr, and I don’t want my negativity to affect anyone else. So
in the meantime, this is goodbye. I may still visit and reblog stuff occasionally,
but I won’t be writing anything for a while. A long while probably.
It’s been fun Tumblr, but from now on consider this an
extended hiatus. Perhaps I’ll see you in the Autumn… perhaps this fleeting
romance is over for good. I won’t know until I know. As for Supernatural, I
have said my bit. Expect Destiel along with a side of bitter disappointment.
Wayward Sisters will be amazing though. So long as they don’t let Bob Singer or
Bucklemming anywhere near it that is.