trying to show a lot more to their relationship

‘Mine.’

They’ve been together for years but sometimes they meet up in a club, pretending they don’t know each other. Levi gets a lot of attention and Erwin marks his property, shows the crowds that Levi is his and his alone.

I’ve had this reference for a while and wanted to try out some new colours, a bit more pinky green this time and I’m a total slut for hair pulling. Also I haven’t done an eruri in a while, so here we go!

a lot days i don’t notice or maybe i just try not to notice but jesus fuck, i am so alone. jesus fuck, it used to be you i spent all of my time on. now i just binge watch tv shows and do my homework early and try to forget that you were the only person i loved deeply. all of the relationships in my life are empty compared to our fire that used to burn through me. now i coop myself up on weekends and nobody tries to break down my walls. i sleep a lot more and eat a lot more and sometimes it feels freeing, but mostly it feels lonely. it feels lonely i feel lonely i am lonely and i am yearning not to be. when you don’t know how to get close, everything feels empty.

I want to talk about this for a quick second, because this is one of the purest things that Lukas has ever done for Philip. 

Philip is such a giving person, he puts all he has into his relationship with Lukas and we have seen time and time again that he will put himself through hell to help make Lukas more comfortable. And while Lukas clearly cares for Philip, he doesn’t know how to show it and deal with his feelings and ends up taking more than he gives a lot of the time.

But this, Lukas was so ready to have some wet, wild fun with Philip and is clearly disappointed when Philip won’t get into the water, but instead of guilting him or trying to manipulate him into going swimming, he simply goes and sits next to Philip.

What really makes this moment beautiful to me is that Lukas doesn’t question Philip or press him about his reasons for not wanting to go into the water. Lukas has to be curious (I know we all are), but he can tell that Philip feels seriously about it so he simply accepts it.

And that is why it is so pure and selfless

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I’m looking for that ‘I want a show about Space Captain Nog’ text post and I can’t find it so I’m just going to write my own! I Want A Show About Space Captain Nog, and here are some things I want that show to feature:

- the Federation trying to use Nog’s relationship with the new leader of Ferenginar for shady political purposes

- Jake Sisko, Ace Space Reporter, constantly hanging around to shamelessly utilize his friendship with his bff Nog to gain information and then blithely publish things that make Nog and the rest of Starfleet furious, and then they have a lot of arguments about journalistic ethics/sensationalist reporting/national security which Jake then puts verbatim into his Great (Terrible) Magnum Opus Novel and then forces Nog to read drafts of it, which makes Nog even MORE furious, rinse repeat

- Captain Nog’s first officer being a Vulcan guy with an awful, excruciating crush on Captain Nog due to his horrifying discovery that Ferengi economic logic is the hottest thing he’s every encountered

- all of Quark’s exes – including Cross-Dressing Ferengi Ex, Ruling Queen Klingon Ex, and Head of the Cardassian Resistance Ex – are somehow recurring guest stars and it’s the most embarrassing thing that Nog has to deal with, except for Jake Sisko, Ace Space Reporter, who is somehow even MORE embarrassing

- probably there are more things this show should have but these are the things that I dream of most

Daxam Culture

I read a post somewhere about how making Mon El be ok with Sanvers and having him be a frat boy doesn’t make any sense because the Daxam culture can’t be non-homophobic and misogynistic at the same time. So I just wanted to clear up a few things.

1. Having a non-homophobic planet makes a lot of sense, Daxam is planet of the party-ers, ‘the more the merrier’ and Mon-El is definitely not shy about sex (Eve) so it makes complete sense that they would most likely be pansexual/bisexual/fluid-sexuality/polyamorous. Because more people just means a better time. And also Mon-El did seem somewhat flirty with Winn…

If anything I’d think Krypton is slightly more rigid, especially with the way Kara reacted. I’m not trying to put her down because I love the Kara/Alex relationship is the most important part of the show, but it definitely seemed to me like she was reconciling what was okay on Krypton and what was okay on Earth.

2. I don’t see Mon-El in particular as misogynistic. I know he’s the biggest fratboy in the universe and also ‘arrogant dude-bro’ but he also readily admits that Kara is the ‘most powerful woman on earth’ so he definitely respects women. And it’s not like he really strings women along, he turned down that one alien girl when he realized he had feelings for Kara.

Now given that I’m not sure about Daxam in particular because Mon-El was about to say ‘on Daxam if a woman wants to please a man..’ and we don’t know what came after that. But it is possible that there’s a give and take relationship on both sides for men and women on Daxam. 

3. Mon-El doesn’t seem all that prejudiced. When he was captured he seemed pretty resigned to the hate Kara had but he never particularly started an argument. He always just let her lead.

So yeah, planet of the party-ers doesn’t necessarily mean they don’t have manners and basic decency.

NCT U REACTION: To them finding out their gf/ significant other was getting harassed and/or bullied because of their relationship

Taeil:

In this situation he would try to appear calm, when in fact he’d be as angry as you. But Taeil’d be more concerned with finding a way to show you how much special you are to him and that the two of you’d fight together against those people.

Taeyong:

He’d feel guilty, thinking that everything was happening because of him, his career and his past. It would hurt him a lot, but he would try to be strong for you.

Doyoung:

“You’re my girlfriend! I can’t understand it! Love is beautiful! We’re really beautiful together!”

Ten:

“Aigo … Don’t mind with what they’re saying, all that matters is what WE want and WE feel! The bullshit they think shouldn’t make any difference to us, baby!”

Jaehyun:

Frustrated, Jaehyun’d try to find a way to cheer you up, with food or movies, he would be focused on taking care of you and not letting you believe in things that others say about you. And he would always smile for you, hoping it would give you strength.

Mark:

Mark would be devastated by the situation, not knowing how to solve it or how to cheer you up. However he would try to make you feel better and ask his hyungs for advices on how to act.

~ADM Misso

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I’m still wondering if Chris’s performance was /intended/ to be over the top and to make the audience (us) uncomfortable.

Like I feel like there’s something to be said about how Chris was /positive/ that his “mature eros” was better than Yuuri’s “innocent eros”, but it actually just left a lot of us repulsed.

And perhaps we’re repulsed because Yuuri’s eros is more subtle, but still impactful. And we’ve only seen Yuuri and Viktor interact with each other in that same subtle-but-still-obviously-there way. The animators didn’t build their relationship through throwaway innuendos or exaggerated seemingly sexual touches (besides Viktor trying to get Yuuri to understand what eros is, but even then, Yuuri wasn’t comfortable with it). They’ve been building it by showing Yuuri’s growing trust in Viktor and how he finds comfort in him now. Chris’s performance contradicts this greatly, as it shows him /already/ having an end goal and purposely using his sex appeal to get there, instead of allowing a natural maturation of a relationship.

Or maybe I’m just reading too much into it lmao

anti-sjw-garnet  asked:

Oh boi, here I go. Before I rant I wanna say its a long one so will send multiple ones and that I actually love Pearl but for the character who gets plenty of eps and screen time she doesnt get development at like all still. Like how amazing would it be for a ep where all the crystal gems vent to each other and all like yknow a fucking team?? Instead we get Pearl magically feeling better even w/o venting or anything really. And we hardly know anything about her like we know 1/?

God you’re so right, for all the Pearl angst eps, not a lot has really changed? At least in Mr Greg she and Greg settled their differences. But we still know nothing about her past OR what her relationship with Rose really was, I really hope we actually learn more about Pearl soon.

I get that the show is trying to build suspense, but because of the weird pacing in this show, among other things, it just feels like they’re withholding information for no real reason.

variative  asked:

3, 5, 17, and/or 20 for Sev? B)

3. Sleeping headcanon

He sleeps curled up in a fetal position or flat on his back, depending on how bad his nightmares are that night, or sitting up if he’s on a mission.

5. Bathing/showering headcanon

It’s his one indulgence, whenever he has the chance.  It’s one of the only places he doesn’t have to worry about officers.

17. Soft spot headcanon

Delta.  He cares about his Squad, even if he’s kind of terrible at showing it most of the time.

20. Relationship with/thoughts on _____ headcanon

  • Atin: A mess.  They are a disaster that turns into a slightly less destructive disaster once they stop actively trying to put each other through a wall and figure out that they are a lot more similar than they think.
  • Fi: Not terrible.  Sev continues to be terrible at softer emotions (for good reason), but he respects and likes Fi, and Fi likes him right back.  Things are awkward, but they work.
reality/canon compliant fic rec

or fics that follow the boys’ lives to some degree or are based off of them

And Then a Bit (158k)

(aka Harry and Louis fake a relationship for publicity. Eventually it becomes a lot less fake and a lot more real.)

i hear it all in the center of my heart (you are the love of my life) (4k) !!ONE OF MY ALL TIME FAVS!!

Getting married has turned Louis into a properly whipped sap. Harry may or may not want to punch him in the face.

I’ll put up a sign in the clouds so they all know that we ain’t ever coming down (I’m trying so hard not to let it show) (10k)

Harry’s antics on stage, flamboyant wardrobe and resulting social media commentary have made Louis think. Probably too much, as usual. Time for action.

Prompt: “Another idea is feminine!Harry with Louis unsure of how to deal with it at first but of course it’s Harry so he adapts and is fiercely protective and wonderful and lovely”

I Wish I Could Bubble Wrap My Heart (8k)

non au; in which Louis files for divorce and Harry doesn’t know how to live alone again.

Today and Every Day (6k)

Five times Harry proposed, and one time Louis definitively said yes.

Every Arrow That I Aim Is True (24k)

“I can see you don’t believe me,” Harry says, pretending to be stern. Louis chuckles a little but doesn’t get out of the bed. “Anyway, I texted Liam and told him you’re with me. He said to stay here as long as you need, and he’ll deal with the show over there until you want to come back, all right?”

Louis doesn’t say anything again so Harry whispers, “Just stay here with me for a while, yeah? I’ll take care of you.”

Louis is quiet. He never picks his head up, but Harry can see the pillow move from where he’s nodding and his fingers tighten around Harry’s. “Yeah,” Louis says. “Yeah, all right.”

For Better, Worse And Mischief (I’m All Yours) (37k)

The One Direction PR management team decides that Harry needs to get married. Harry doesn’t want to. Louis comes up with the perfect solution to the problem.

we could be happy forever and after (7k)

There are six Tomlinson children. Which means six beds, six seats in the car, six school bags, six Christmas stockings and six stars on Harry’s right arm.

The Tomlinson’s also include two husbands, a dog and a cat. But the kids outnumber everyone else.

This Is Where I Sleep (3k)

Harry and Louis go camping while on break and make some memories.

all those chandeliers of hope (or, four shit christmas presents harry received, and one that turned out alright (8k)

Harry’s friends keep surprising him with terrible Christmas gifts. He’s less surprised that Louis is the reason.

down and dirty, you’re loving me so loud (5k)

Harry’s finally twenty and there’s a few things he wants.

I Don’t Want To Need You (231k) *log in

After the car accident that leaves Harry paralyzed from the waist down, the boys of One Direction come together to try and help pick up the pieces. With so much changed, Harry can’t help but question every aspect of his life; including his feelings for his best friend.

Feel It All Over Now (And I Feel Loved) (3k)

Louis thinks Harry’s in LA, but he’s actually the mascot who keeps throwing random shapes.

Slow It Down (56k)

Harry’s a little bit broken and Louis’ a little bit oblivious. Or, where no one sees Harry’s cracks until he disappears in the middle of the Australian leg of their tour. Because in order to create a new masterpiece, the old one has to be washed away. And nothing does the job better than the sea.

Who Would’ve Thought (44k)

The idea doesn’t come to Louis until they’ve been at the bungalow for a couple of days. Harry has no idea that he’s going to pop a knot. He’s been living his life with the expectation that he’s going to be a beta, and Louis isn’t going to tell him otherwise.

Louis is an omega, though, and most omegas want to be filled up with a knot, fucked the way their bodies are made to be fucked, and Louis is no different. In ten years he wants to have an alpha waiting for him at home who will hold him down and fuck him exactly the way Louis wants to be fucked without worrying that they’re going to expect him to stay at home, open a joint bank account, raise a litter of babies, cook and clean and, most importantly, be submissive. For that to happen Louis needs an entirely different kind of alpha.

And so the plan is born.

For a foreseen invocation (32k)

(Or, the one where Harry and Louis haven’t had an easy time co-existing as band mates since their breakup right before the release of Take me home and have no desire to give into the insistent pressure put on their shoulders by the universe to pry open old wounds.)

I have the stage but the only light I see is in your eyes (27k)

The year is 2027 and Harry is away, letting Louis alone with the kids for two months

Untangle Me (103k)

Or the one where Harry and Louis finally get it right.

Makes Perfect (8k)

“What if you practiced on like, a mannequin?” Louis presses. “Or one of those blow up sex dolls? Or even just like, I don’t know, a pillow or something. Whatever it’d fit around.”

Harry tilts his head thoughtfully, curls catching the light so entrancingly that Louis finds himself reaching up to push his fingers through them. “It’s different, though, innit? When it’s a real person. A pillow won’t snog me.”

“Why should it?” says Louis. “You can’t even take its bra off.”

like a timebomb ticking (31k)

Louis loses everything. Harry’s still there.

(Sounds Like You) When I Close My Eyes (10k)

a non-au where harry and louis never got together, but both of them wanted to. they get it right eventually.

Never Too Late (9k)

After a serious car accident, Harry struggles to come back to himself. And to Louis.

Then, Now, and Forever: Part 1 (35k), part 2

Three and a half years into their relationship, Louis and Harry have never been more in love. But the years of lying and pretending are beginning to catch up to Louis. He can feel the anxiety building in him and tries to deal with it in some unhealthy ways. Harry does everything he can to keep Louis centered, but the constant pressure on both boys is slowly wearing them down.

In flashbacks, Harry and Louis are at the very beginning of their relationship. They deal with everything that goes along with the start of a new relationship, including fumbling first kisses and first sexual experiences. They also, of course, must deal with their rise to fame and hiding their nonconforming love from the world.

God Only Knows, But You’ll Never Leave (11k)

Louis and Harry get a week alone in Los Angeles at the end of the American tour, and it’s more than enough to remind them what they’re in this for.

Feeling Alone (12k)

Harry and Louis are broken up. But it’s Niall’s birthday party, and they don’t want to ruin it for the boy. So the only solution is to pretend they’re still together, right? It all gets very complicated.

I Had The Life Of Ordinary, I Spat It Out (22k)

Harry Styles falls asleep a sixteen year old boy nervous about his upcoming X-Factor audition that could make or break his career. He wakes up a twenty-six year old man with a husband and two children, and no recollection of the past ten years.

anonymous asked:

I just love how open and real Louis is with us. He doesn't hide his relationships away and never has done. I like how down to earth he is and how lacking in pretension. The snobby Larries should go stan someone who loves gourmet food, designer clothes and top secret relationships.

Unfortunately I do think he’s tried to alter how public he is about himself because of Larries.

It’s hard trying to show the things that mean a lot to you when you have a fandom baited to bully and mock and laugh about them.

But I agree with you, Louis is normally very honest and upfront. I think part of why he enjoys his Adidas/junk food is that it’s really normal and unpretentious and I don’t think he idealizes or fantasizes about living some more uptight posh life. I think he finds a lot of that obnoxious and just not him.

BTS reaction: you not being jealous

I hope I understood correctly, otherwise you can just send an ask again, and I’ll try to fix it. Thank you for requesting, dear! xx


Jin: He would simply be happy that you trust him enough to not get jealous. A relationship is built on trust, and he would feel so relieved that he won’t have to deal with your jealousy. Especially since he’s going to work with a lot of people, and that would be difficult if you were the jealous type.

Originally posted by sunshine-hobi


Suga: He’d be very relieved. He seems like he’s got quite a temper sometimes, and if you were always jealous, there’d be a lot more fighting, and I don’t think he’s the type to stay in a relationship where you can’t handle him being around people you see as potential threats. And I think he’s quite possessive, but he’d try to show you the same respect and just trust you.

Originally posted by syubbie


J-Hope: He’ll feel great, because you trust him, and he won’t have to worry about his job forcing him to do something that might make you jealous. You trusting him completely, will help him trust you as well. But, something happens that he would have expected would make you jealous, like someone else flirting with him, and you don’t get jealous, I think he would doubt how much you actually care. Just momentarily though. He’d then just tell himself that it’s fine. If that happened often though, he’d probably explode because of pent up doubt and you’d have to reassure him that you do care.

Originally posted by holdmettightbts


Namjoon: He’s going to be just like Yoongi. He’s glad that you’re not the jealous type, because that makes everything easier because of his job, and just life in general. But he’s a bit on the possessive side as well, so he might get jealous. But, he would of course do his best to trust that you can handle yourself. They are both very similar in this aspect.

Originally posted by vubbletae


Jimin: He’d really appreciate it. I don’t think he’d really be good at handling jealousy. He wouldn’t really know what to do if you were very jealous, so this was much easier for him. But he’d be like Hobi in the sense that if you didn’t get jealous in certain situations, he’d start to worry. The difference would be that it would take a lot less for Jimin to explode because of it. He strikes me as a bit more sensitive.

Originally posted by fyeahbangtaned


V: He’s not the type to be jealous, either, so he would probably be the one to appreciate it the most. Your relationship would be so peaceful, and the only fights would probably be about who has to take care of the dishes and stuff like that. You trusting him is going to mean a whole lot to him.

Originally posted by hugtae


Jungkook: He’d thank the heavens, because he’s another one who wouldn’t know how to handle you being jealous. Now he can feel at peace. But he’s going to be more jealous than you are, and unlike his two possessive hyungs, he’ll struggle with hiding it. But at least it wouldn’t take a lot to make him calm down. Since you are so trusting, he’ll believe you when you say that it really was nothing.

Originally posted by jecn

eene-fangirl  asked:

What is your favorite thing about Edd's friendship with Eddy? How does it differ from Ed?

I love that despite the fact they’re different in their end games, they still have fun with each other. Like in that nowhere but up episode they both get into the groove and have a lot of fun together. When it’s just them things are a little more calm and they can see eye to eye on certain levels. They even play off each other in some ways one would consider flirtatious. Eddy is more mellow when Edd’s being neurotic and Edd can be the sensible one when Eddy’s having a meltdown, they both try to chill the other one out in their own ways and it’s a great way to show how well they balance each other out.
The difference with Ed’s relationship is probably the fact Eddy’s a little more coherent and in there than Ed, who can be totally out of the loop sometimes. They both somewhat understand each other more and it can sometimes be all business whereas with Ed it’s more emotional and involved in comic book fantasy. That isn’t to say Eddy and Ed’s relationship isn’t emotional, no way, it’s just when They need a shoulder to cry on its the Ed/ds who are there to comfort one another

What about John’s mother?

Thank you Anon for this fascinating question! =) I always love looking deeper into John’s past and family; we don’t know much about him, and it’s always exciting to search for clues and try to understand more about his background (and it explains so much of John’s current issues).

You’re right, I’ve talked a lot about John’s father, Harry… but what about John’s mother?

John’s mother is a very mysterious character. It is very important to note that John’s mother is never mentioned in the show, not even through foils/mirrors I could recognise… even if Mrs Hudson acts as John’s (and Sherlock’s) second mother and their relationship tells us much about John’s mother (parallels & contrasts).

This silence around John’s mother is interesting if you consider that Harry Watson is mentioned several times on screen and there are multiple foils for John’s father (military men, Major Reed) and clues around him (Hamish, importance of words).

However, I believe there are lots of indirect clues we can take on consideration to learn more about John’s mother… And it is fascinating to see the influence she most likely had on John’s life.

Please note that this meta can potentially be distressing; tw: death, abusive household, trauma.

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anonymous asked:

do you think karam*l will be endgame?

honestly? i dont think so. the show has always been trying to humanize kara, and is there anything more human than a bad relationship? i mean, everyone falls for some jerk at some point in life, at least once. as far as i know, kara has never had a bad experience when it comes to dating. her “breakup” with james was really smooth, no one was crushed or in a bad place. maybe kara needs something that will really hurt her and i know - she has been hurt a lot, but can we really say all of the bad stuff that happened to her happens to any ordinary person? her planet exploded and she lost her family in a comic book kinda way. that doesn’t happen to everyone. maybe kara needs to have her heart broken, romantically speaking, so she can grow as a person, because, really, a bad breakup always teaches a lot.

i like to think this relationship will end by the season finale. those aliens after mon-el will show up eventually and she will most likely break up with him for lying and putting the whole planet in danger. if i’d have to guess, i’d say mon-el wouldn’t be back for s3, cause i’m pretty sure this will be his chance to prove himself as a hero. he will turn himself in for those aliens to protect the earth and to redeem himself for every mistake. maybe he’ll even die for this cause - is there anything more heroic than dying to save the world?

i don’t think this relationship holds this much of importance. perhaps it’s important for kara right now, because every relationship is important somehow, but i wouldn’t say it’s important enough for us to think they’re soulmates and all that shit, cause frankly? besides losing their planets, what do they have in common? cause that whole opposites attract thing is bullshit. we don’t want to be with someone who’s so goddamn different. what would we talk about? how could we connect? how can we really understand each other? it’s nonsense. all they do is point each other’s flaws and i hardly think that’s what a healthy relationship looks like.

of course i could be wrong and everything i said is a load of crap, but i still have faith that this is still the show about female empowerment and how women shouldn’t lose themselves so they don’t lose a man. supergirl was sold as a feminist story and i hope the writers still remember that.

//So there was this post I saw a very long time ago that I felt was so simple yet enlightening. It said something to the effect of:

Instead of saying “I’m sorry,” say “thank you”. Chances are you don’t actually need to feel guilty. Instead of saying “I’m sorry my reply is so late,” say “thank you for waiting on my reply.”

That simple change feels so refreshing to me.

I actually started doing this more irl and have been trying to stop constantly apologizing here in rp as well. It is amazing how much it’s helped me get out of self-loathing and unnecessary guilt. It’s helped me try to show my gratefulness for a friendship and rp relationship without beating myself up in the process.

Idk… I’ve just noticed a lot of rp’ers apologize so much (myself included). It’s not that sorry’s never have a place, it’s that (I think) they can hurt you if they’re overly used.

Like, I don’t want to spread negativity for the people who just want to enjoy a show and be passionate about it bc that’s perfectly good! But some of you really hold kubo up to some godly standard of representation above all else despite the creepy shit she tweeted in the past and then turn around and say her word can’t be held to the same standard as before because she’s “messy talker”… it’s just kinda ignoring the problem which has been shown on more than one occasion… idk feel free to love the show it’s just kinda being wilfully ignorant to say she messes up in interviews… But it’s entirely fine to ship viktuuri still, just don’t try and create development where it was lacking because the communication in their relationship just seemed very… absent for a lot of the show.

Finally watched Yuri on Ice a couple of days ago, and honestly I’m still not sure what I think of it.

Like, I enjoyed watching it, and it’s a fairly competently crafted story, but I’m…not sure how much I like it? Like, it’s a good show, but the visible shortcuts in the animation, the way the writers trip all over themselves trying to avoid defining Yuuri and Victor’s relationship, what feels like it should have been a more important character suddenly appearing in the last few episodes, etc…

There’s a lot of things like that that I wouldn’t be bothered by usually, but they really seem to stand out here. And it’s not even because the show was overhyped, because I never actually had any interest in it; I just watched it because I had nothing better to do.

Oh well, at least I’ve watched it.

anonymous asked:

We've seen TLK between two Soulmates. We've seen TLK between parent and child (which we can extend to siblings, aunts, uncles, grandfathers, grandmothers etc). Do you think there'll ever be a TLK of Friendship? That doesn't sound silly, does it?

No, it doesn’t sound silly. In fact, I’d love to see a TLK of friendship. I’m just not sure that OUaT would ever do that. For a show that started out being all about family–and still is in some ways–they’ve put a lot of emphasis on romantic relationships in more recent seasons.

And if they ever did feature a friendship TLK, I’m trying to imagine which non-familial, non-romantic relationship on the show is strong enough to make a friendship TLK believable. My top candidates would be Regina and Emma, and I’d be very happy for my Swan Queen friends if that came to pass. 

But at the same time, I hesitate to define Emma’s and Regina’s relationship as just a friendship. And I’m not trying to trivialize friendships by saying just a friendship, but I really feel that Regina’s and Emma’s relationship is more complex than that. They’ve been enemies, and gotten past it. They’re co-parents, bonded forever by their mutual love of Henry. They’re magical partners, accomplishing magical feats that neither of them could do alone. They have further relationship ties through Snow White, making them distant step-family even without the Henry link. There are so many layers between them, could a TLK for them–even one clearly presented as platonic–ever be based only on friendship?

Like I said, I’d love to see a friendship TLK. Anyone else have any candidates for it?