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insecure | jughead jones (riverdale)

Originally posted by netflixuniversity

request: could you do an imagine where the reader feels insecure and distances herself from jughead and it’s all cute and fluffy at the end when he’s convincing her he loves her and stuff. love your blog too x

it was the first time you were meeting your boyfriends friends and you were beyond nervous.

you’d live in the trailer next to the jones’ your whole life and you knew what the town thought of the folk from this side of the tracks so you were left to wonder if jughead’s friends would be so kind to a south side serpent.

you found yourself chewing your lip, what you did when you felt anxious and insecure. you stood in front of your wardrobe trying to file through something to wear that didn’t scream south side.

“knock knock” you turn on your heels revealing your boyfriend slumped against your door wearing his signature denim jacket and beanie along with his famous jones smirk.

“hey juggie” you smile softly anxiety carrying in your words as you turn back forward jugheads arms snaking around your waist at some attempt to comfort your nervousness

“c'mere” he mumbles into you hair as you lean back into him sighing as you allow your eyes to close feeling the warmth of his strong arms around you.

“your going to be fine, i promise” he places a kiss on your forehead as he spins you to face him, your eyes looking up into his.

“i don’t think i can do this” i whisper pushing yourself away from the boy trying to put as much distance as you could possibly muster

he sighs slipping his hands into his jean pockets “im feeling a little-” you pause producing a small and hardly believable cough “sick”

he sighs rolling his eyes “i think i might just stay in bed maybe i can meet them some other time?” disappointment grows in his features as you move toward your bed laying yourself down

he never knew how to help you when you felt insecure so he just nodded moving toward your bed to kiss you his hands lingering on your hair

“i’ll bring you back something to eat yeah?” you nod blinking away the tears building up in your eyes smiling softly at the brunette “ill see you later jug”

he pauses at the door turning around to face you “i love you (y/n) and i know you think they’ll judge you but i promise you it doesn’t matter to them- it doesn’t matter to me”

and with that he turns and see’s himself out of your small trailer regret in his steps as he leaves his girlfriend in bed and makes his way over to pops to break the bad news to his friends

after several minutes of flicking through channels on the tv trying to find something decent to watch until jughead came back with burgers your phones buzzes from your night stand

it was a photo from jughead, it was a selfie of him on his walk going cross eyed as his tongue hanging out of his mouth.

a giggle falls from your mouth as you type a reply setting your phone back up on your night stand focusing back onto the tv

you fiddle with your blanket contemplating getting out of bed until you finally throw your covers off changing quickly and grabbing your phone and purse before starting your journey to popular diner

you enter the small diner your leather jacket catching the red neon lights as the bell dings, you glance over to see your boyfriend to engrossed in his laptop to even notice you walk in

you glance to the older man behind the till “i was hoping you’d show up, he seemed unhappy when he showed up stag” i give the man a smile sliding a $5 bill into the tip jar before moving over to the booth occupied by jughead and his friends.

you didn’t even get half way when jughead looked up and caught your gaze jumping from the booth and rushing over to engulfing you in a hug “you came” he smiles into your ear placing a small kiss underneath it

“for you” you whisper back taking his hand as he walks you toward his friends, we stop in front of the booth anxiety swallowing you whole as they all look at you

“guys this is (y/n) my girlfriend-” he pauses smiling at you “and babe this is archie, betty and-” he’s cut off by the raven haired girl.

“veronica lodge, and i love your jacket” she smiles sweetly sitting back down in the booth “thank you veronica” you smile glancing to jughead as he ushers you into the booth sitting yourself between the red headed boy and your boyfriend

you were lost in conversation when you felt jughead’s eyes on your pure love left in his eyes and he watches you smile and laugh with his closet friends

you sip your milkshake turning to your boyfriend leaning into his chest happiness swelling in your heart as your anxiety starts to fade feeling more and more safe as you sit in your booth with jughead and your new found friends

it didn’t matter that you lived on the south side, it didn’t matter that your dad was a serpent like jughead’s. nothing matter anymore and that was the closet you could ever get to being worry free

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Jesse Williams files for divorce against Aryn Drake-lee.

Last month there was a blind item where someone caught them cheating

“We walked along with them for almost three blocks in Saint-Germain-des-Prés. They were trying to be incognito. He was wearing a hoodie and she was wearing a cap but I recognized them immediately. He looked a little tense and was trying hard not to be noticed. She looked very happy and content. They were holding hands and being very romantic. They were definitely acting like a couple! “

And that blind item was a month before the divorce, which is why people are shook about the divorce now. The cheating rumors are related to Minka Kelly.

The rumor is gossip, but he was actually seen hanging out with Minka a few months ago in paris, so the hanging out part is true, so it might have something to do with their. Although we still don’t know the reason

anonymous asked:

cosplaying as a poc or wearing poc symbols (i.e. bindis, henna, dreads etc.) as a costume is generally pretty offensive. it's nice to see people try go learn more about our cultures but wearing it because it's cute or wearing it without knowing the cultural significance is when it gets to be appropriation.

Ephemeris is very sweet, although she may not look it thanks to the dramatic stripes that run along her wings and down her back. The trident she carries around doesn’t help her image either; it only provides conflicting messages when compared to the dainty laces and silks she loves to wear. She’s working on trying to give off a more friendly aura, with trying being the key word. Thanks to her friends’ purposeful misinformation, her definition of friendly means bulking up on muscle and growling at passing strangers.

disconcerto #119348

anonymous asked:

I stopped binding about two months ago because it was hurting my chest and back and shoulders to the point where I was crying because it hurt so bad. Lately I've been wanting to bind because dysphoria is so bad that it makes me cry. I know I probably shouldn't bind because of my health but the dysphoria is so bad. Help?

Wow yeah you definitely shouldn’t bind again.
You could try wearing sports bras that would flatten your chest a bit more?
Or layering up clothes to reduce the appearance of your chest Also dark clothes really help make you look flatter I hope it helps, and please stay safe 💙

We need a fic about Julian internally fanboying about the flash, hovering over the suit, getting distracted by how good Barry looks while wearing it and trying not to stare because hot damn, that’s a tight package!

anonymous asked:

i'm new to fairy kei and japanese street fashion in general and i really want to try it butttt the problem is.... clothes i usually wear are dark or white, and i feel like it would be weird if will suddenly wear these clothes... what do you think?

You can build up your wardrobe! Gradually increase the amount of pastels and “kawaii” things that you wear, perhaps starting with a cute printed t-shirt with your regular jeans, or even a cute necklace!

This will help you feel more comfortable wearing pastels, and if you’re worried about the people around you, they’ll become used to seeing you in them!

I hope that helps!

moriarticacid  asked:

matchup req.! my self esteem is 2 levels: im a worthless piece to shit and worship me peasant real quick, but ik im not rlly attractive. Usually alone w/ phone or book. I cry at some night from overthinking. Im really self conscious sometimes even tho i already decided not to give a shit abt it. Make up is my thing. It boosts my confidence along with pretty clothes and other expensive stuff. Im smol with shoulder length hair (black) and have a resting bitch face

I ship you with: Seven!

Originally posted by hissorihaka

Self-esteem is not really Seven’s thing either but hey you guys can work on it together. He’ll be like “yes, girl work that shit” whenever he sees you wearing make-up and trying new clothes. But to be honest, you don’t need all that to look pretty because you’re already in his heart (aww). And sometimes he will tease you about your resting bitch face, and even challenge you to see who has the best look. You may want to hit him for that.

hope you like it! sorry if you didn’t get who you wanted :-)


anonymous asked:

I'm so self-conscious that I wear what I think everyone else will wear. What I wear doesn't affect how I feel. I just try not to attract attention and don't wear make-up. I can't put stuff on my face. I don't know why I'm self-conscious; I think about what people might think or say and think it'll make me feel chagrined but in reality whenever people have have made comments about me or my appearance whether brilliant or abysmal (both happen) I suddenly just don't care what they think anymore.


anonymous asked:

Any tips on being body positive?

The thing that I have found about being body positive is that it really isn’t about your body at all, if that makes sense? It’s not about your body or the way that it looks or your weight, not really. A small part of it is, yes. But it’s mostly just about feeling comfortable and safe inside of yourself.

That being said, I have had such a long ride trying to figure out how the FUCK to be comfortable and safe in my body. Only in the past year or two have I been truly recovered from my eating disorder and have felt truly okay with my body.
The way that I feel positive about my body now is… ok, please bare with me bc I’m half asleep and my thoughts might be a lil scattered but imma try my best !

- wearing clothing that makes me feel comfy. idk if any of u have this experience but when I’m wearing an outfit which I don’t feel totally comfortable in I literally obsess over it and it makes me feel bad in my body. As long as I feel like I look good, and I FEEL good, then that’s what matters ! And some days I am like… bitch u better wear the biggest sweater and sweatpants possible to hide. And that’s okay too bc that’s what makes me feel comfortable that day.

- this is gonna sound so fuckin cliche but eating well and drinking lots of water genuinely does make you feel better about your body. Just knowing that I am eating well, and that I’m keeping myself healthy helps me feel more comfortable in my body. Plus, when you eat healthy for a consecutive amount of time, ur tummy hurts a lot less. I have lotsa tummy aches all the time and they lessen when I eat well, 3 meals 3 snacks , healthy choices, etc.

- this is something I have an incredibly hard time with & am not really…. I can’t really say that it’s something that I do, but it’s super duper important to have bras n undies that make u comfy .. for me it’s esp bras. I have a hard time w/ my boobs it’s a whole thing & when my bras don’t fit right or whatever it’s so bad and makes me feel so incredibly awful in my body. It’s so important to find ones that fit and feel good and safe and okay and good!

- comparing ur body to other people’s is honestly so dangerous. It is so hard to NOT compare trust me I’ve been there. But anytime I find myself comparing my body to someone else’s I just … now it’s easier so when I say this just know that it took a lot of time to get here and it’s not like an overnight cure type thing. But I just tell myself that I literally am at the perfect weight for my height & even tho I don’t weigh myself I know that it’s true bc I eat the way i need to and I excercise the way I need to. So I just remind myself that I’m healthy and that if I wanted to look like the people I’m comparing myself to, I’d have to go back to my extremely unhealthy ed behaviors which honestly :Lsjsjskdjdjd having an eating disorder is honestly one of the worst things man it’s so annoying tbh. It’s exhausting ur constantly hyper focused on food but also not bc ur brains all fucky and everything is distorted and havin 2 puke everything is so god damn irritating! Like now I’m like.. god purging is such hard work lmao why would I wanna work so hard to do something so miserable like?? No thx. HAHA ANYWAY!!! Point is that I just basically tell myself that where I’m at is exactly where I should and need to be ! And If I want to get thinner it would mean I’d have to get rly sick again and I genuinely don’t think I could ever do that like I think back n I’m like how the fuck did I ever do any of those things like shit that was a ride ! (Wow this is LONG IM SO SORRY)

- it takes time to be body positive mannnnn! You just have to do a lot of self care, take care of yourself ,,!!!! Do face masks or paint ur nails or take a bath or anything else that comforts u and makes u feel good about yourself ! and buy clothes that u like and wear those heels even tho ur already 5'10 and dress in all black even in 90 degree weather !! Just do u . That’s the best way !! Just remember that life is so god damn short and there are so many things to do and to focus on besides weight. I know how annoying and cliche this is gonna sound but it’s honestly so true - when ur on ur death bed are u rly gonna be thinking “shit man I rly wish I had lost more weight when I was 20 (or whatever age u r)” ?? Nah. ! Bc who fuckin cares!!!! Anyway this somehow turned into a post abt eating disorder recovery I feel like? Idk I love u I hope this at least gives u one or two ideas lmao I’m sorry god I just go on 5ever ! ! !

i like to imagine that clark kent’s search history is mostly normal but then there’s stuff like “improved superman costume concept art” because he wanted ideas

remember when ten year old edward elric bit his brother, ate two ants then had an existential crisis all within the same minute
A note from the Indivisible Team
A note for all of us who feel defeated after Sessions from the Indivisible Team: This is the long game.

A note for all of us who feel defeated after Sessions from the Indivisible Team: This is the long game. We are going to lose a lot. We are going to get good at losing. We are going to lose cabinet votes for terrible nominees. We are going to lose bills that are offensive and appalling. But while we are losing, something else is going to happen. We are going to keep raising our voices and slowly our representatives are going to start listening to us. We’ve seen it happen. 

It won’t happen because of next week’s call to action. It’ll happen over months, where you keep showing up, regularly. Then, we are going to start winning. It’ll sneak up on us. We won’t understand why we are winning. But it starts with losing in a particular way- where we raise our voices and call it out when we aren’t listened to, where we get close but not quite there.

The first 100 days of a President’s term are the honeymoon period, the moment when he’s most likely to get his agenda enacted. Trump is spending his first 100 days mired in controversy, scandal, and backbiting - and that’s because you haven’t for a moment let anyone in Washington forget just how unpopular he is.

Every time we change the narrative, every time we delay, every time there’s a newspaper story about a member of Congress avoiding his or her constituents, that’s a win. And it matters.

You have already made history. You’ve delayed the confirmation of Trump’s cabinet picks longer than any time in recent history. You stopped the gutting on the congressional ethics office. You’ve made Republicans so nervous about the repeal of the Affordable Care Act that it’s been pushed further and further down the road. You caused an uproar of historic proportions over Trump’s Muslim ban and saved lives and reunited families in the process. You’ve inspired people who have never before taken action to make their voices heard and learn how to do things like check how their members of Congress voted and call them out for it.

We’ll never even know about some of the victories - because those will be the fights that this Administration considered starting and then realized it couldn’t win.

We’re in this together. Every visit. Every call. Every loss. Every win. That’s just what friends do. #StandIndivisible

In solidarity,

The Indivisible Team