As much as Mars in the 12th House could indicate an individual who hides their sexuality and has trouble expressing unfiltered, raw energy, Mars in the 12th could also point to almost the complete opposite of that — an addiction to sex as a means of escapism, being overly sexual and consumed with sex so that they don’t have to focus on anything else. The 12th House is associated with addictions after all. Mick Jagger of The Rolling Stones was/is known for struggling with promiscuity and went to treatment for his sex addiction, and he has Mars in the 12th House. Of course this is only just one example, but I thought it was interesting to take note of how polarizing these manifestations could be. It’s not limited to these things, but it’s true nonetheless. So even though many people with Mars in the 12th House could have problems asserting their sexual nature or discussing sexual matters, or even allowing their sexuality to be out in the open, many people with Mars in the 12th House could also over-do it and have issues controlling that.
Idk man no matter how many other gay people I meet I always just think of myself as "not normal" and idk if that'll ever change. Lots of people - straight & not- have asked me "if you could be straight would you" and my answer is always yes and i cant ever imagine not feeling that way.