I don't even have the mental energy to go into all the son vs daughter thing. My mom tried to be equal, but I still got asked to do chores more. And in situations like I cook, he should do dishes i have to dry them. And he also tried to say we should put a food I disliked in the food I helped cook and buy :| but he also has always whined my mom favors me and that other people have even seen it. (1/2)
If we fight and mom yells at both of us to stop, he’s said she’s taking my side. Honestly, she didn’t protect me from his abuse(not purposefully but yeah) through the years if anything. I’ve come to think he and perhaps the others he speaks of are just seeing she doesn’t put son over daughter as much as society says to and that’s me being “spoiled” and “favored”
I’m sorry anon, I was told a lot by some people that I was spoiled in comparison to my brothers, but that wasn’t hte case behind closed doors or looking at it objectively.
Did you know there’s a gender gap in chores? Girls spend 40% more time doing chores than guys!