Okay so I'm trigender-fluidflux (demigirl/demiboy/agender) and like my attraction mimics omnigay but I'm not fully gay as I still kinda feel a bit of attraction to other genders like "meh these are okay buT THIS RIGHT HERE IS GOOD AF" And unless I am demiboy at all, I don't feel romantic attraction to guys. I use queer but I don't know of a better term? And also I'm like "I'm nonaligned" but also "yeah I'm kinda aligned to both" and idk if I'm also wlw/mlm and enby or aligned or not? Help??
You can use biflux/triflux/polyflux/panflux to say “I’m attracted to multiple genders, but my gender preference fluctuates”. (Biflux has other known meanings that are relatively popular, though.)
You can also use novo to say your attraction changes according to your gender.
You can also use omnigayflexible, I guess!
Or just some kind of multi label (such as bi or ply), after all you are still attracted to multiple genders.
“Enby” is short for nonbinary, so if you are nonbinary you can use the word for yourself.
If you feel like you are wlw/mlm/both then you are. If you don’t feel like it fits your gender experiences, you don’t need to use these labels. You can be toric/quadrisian/nblm, trixic/orbisian/nblw, diamoric or enbian/nblnb regardless.
In case you don’t know what these mean:
toric/quadrisian/nblm is for nonbinary people who are attracted to men, regardless if they are attracted to other genders or not
is for nonbinary people who are attracted to women, regardless if they are attracted to other genders or not
diamoric is for nonbinary people who feel like their nonbinaryness is relevant to their attractions, regardless of the gender(s) the diamoric person is attracted to
enbian/nblnb is for nonbinary people who are attracted to nonbinary people, regardless if they are attracted to binary genders or not
and with regards to alignment… again, just identify with what feels best.
you can be both male-aligned and female-aligned, regardless of your current gender.
you can also only be one of those.
and you can also be none.
Personally, I don’t use gender alignment because it feels like it’s more for nonbinary people who don’t mind being seen as a certain gender for any reason, which isn’t my case. But I know not all people see it this way, so idk. If anyone wants to add something, since my answer is kind of lackluster especially regarding this subject, feel free to.