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En ny transgender blogg

Hej!

Jag blev inspirerad att göra en Svensk trans community blogg på tumblr då det finns många på engelska, och har stött på folk som inte läser eller förstår engelska så hemskt bra, och sedan blir det väldigt specifikt då det kommer bli på svenska och då handlar det om sverige och hur vi är emot våran fina community. Sedan så har jag för mig att folk kanske har lättare att skriva ut vad man känner och beskriva det på svenska så det är lätt för dem att bli förstådda.

anonymous asked:

If a person does not want to enter a relationship a trans person, is it transphobic, or a preference?

Hi and thanks for your question :)

It depends on if it’s a lack of attraction towards a transperson or if the person feels uncomfortable with the concept of trans. If it is the latter it’s transphobic but otherwise it’s a preferance like some bi/pan/lesbians prefer butches when others prefer femmes. 

It can also be that being with a transperson is against the personal romantic or sexual orientation. Say a gay guy not wanting to be in a relationship with a transboy with a vagina because of their sexual orientation. In this case it’s neither transphobic or a preferance.

Hope this helps, and if you have any more questions don’t hesitate to ask :3

killjoy.dk
Årets laks er rådden
Det er et tomt symbol, når LGBT Danmark giver en pris og et skulderklap til Folketingets Sundhedsudvalg, der ikke har gjort noget for transrettigheder. Politikerne er derimod medskyldige i diskriminationen af os, mener Transpolitisk Forum

LGBT Danmark høster i dag (bl.a.) kritik for at have uddelt “Årets Laks” til Folketingets Sundhedsudvalg. Prisen uddeles ifølge foreningen til »…en person, organisation eller andre, som svømmer mod strømmen. For at komme i betragtning skal man gøre en forskel for at bringe verden et bedre sted hen«.

Transaktivistgruppen Transpolitisk Forum mener ikke, at det “arbejde” udvalget har lavet bør hædres, da det ikke har ledt til reelle forbedringer for transpersoner. Og det leder til bekymringer om, at prisen bliver en sovepude frem for en opfordring til at gøre mere, når den gives til et hovedsageligt uengageret sundhedsudvalg i stedet for f.eks. Amnesty eller nogle af de transaktivister, der har lagt massive kræfter i en kampagne for transkønnedes ligestilling i sundhedssystemet i år #sygtsystem.

Kommentaren er også udgivet hos Modkraft.dk.

Et uddrag:

“Blandt dem som bidraget til kampen, er Amnesty International, der de sidste seks måneder har kørt en kæmpe kampagne, hvis primære formål var at få diagnosen flyttet. I denne kampagne har indtil flere organisationer og transpersoner lagt et kæmpe arbejde i form af medudvikling, uddannelse og personlige kræfter.

Disse personer har stået frem med egne historier i medier, på skoler, foran aktivister osv. De har med andre ord været dem, der er gået mod strømmen, og dem der har gjort en forskel.

Hvis »Årets Laks« skulle gå til nogen i forbindelse med flytningen af diagnosen, ville det have klædt LGBT Danmark at give prisen til nogle af disse organisationer eller personer.

Det ville samtidig have vist, at LGBT Danmark er solidariske med deres eget miljø frem for med de politikere, som i praksis kæmper mod reelle ændringer af vores rettigheder.”

blossomcupbubbles  asked:

Your my favorite . I respect how you stick up for the fact that we as trans girls are not sissy's . Or some strange fetish .. that we are exactly who we say we are .. girls .. Keep going sister . Your words carry more impact than you think Abbi

I believe that it’s very important to make it as clear as possible. “Transgirls” are just as much girls as any other girl, we simply had some pretty bad luck when it came to our bodies.
The fact that some people have this as a fetish is okay, but once they start assuming that every transperson is like the ones they see in the pornos they lost track of what being trans actually means.

It’s just delusional.
It’s actually really simple. We are girls.
Most people would not assume that every girl they see is a slut or stuff like that. But for some reason alot of them do if it’s a transgirl. Which I just find to be disgusting and I believe that it’s important to show that we’re kot all like that.

enasroterfaden replied to your post “Can I get some feedback on a writing dilemma?”

Random suggestion - while being Trans is normal in your setting, it might still “show” in a young characters actions. So maybe have a younger trans male side character casually ask for help binding his biologically female breast. Or a young transgirl who still hasn’t come around to learning how to properly shave or wax. Some of these kind of small “biological issues” a transperson might face especially if they only learned they were trans a short while ago. :)

@enasroterfaden - That is a brilliant idea! I don’t have a spot for it in book 1 (seriously, that book is only my five dorks for 90% of the thing), but it would work *great* in book 2! I could very easily have a young carnival performer asking Firedrake for help since they’re nonbinary, or I could have someone asking Blythe for help since she’s a healer. It won’t help me show this in the first book, but it will help me establish that it’s normal early into the series at least. :)

anonymous asked:

hei, jeg er en cis lesbe og lurte på en ting ang. det norske trans-samfunnet. Siden du er den eneste nordmannen jeg vet om som ikke er cis, hva mener du om å bruke ordet transvisitt? Selv har jeg inntrykk av at når ordet først blir brukt (av folk som er cis), er det mange som gjør narr av det og bruker det nærmest som skjellsord eller comic relief. har transene i det norske lhbt samfunnet tatt dette ordet tilbake eller er jeg helt på villspor???

jeg har aldri hørt en transperson bruke “transvestitt”, det (sammen med “transseksuell”) er et utdatert ord og de eneste jeg har hørt bruke det ordet ukritisk/uironisk er cispersoner som enten ikke vet bedre, eller (som du sa), bruker det som en vits eller skjellsord. det riktige ordet er Transkjønnet eller Transperson (transkvinne / transmann), eller bare Trans som adjektiv

Hey guys so I know it’s rare that I post personal stuff but I’ve been seeing things in the LGBTQ+ community that’s been bugging me. Expecting a lesbian or gay person to have sex with a preop transperson (and calling them transphobic when they don’t) is really shotty. Some people don’t like penises.
Some people don’t like vaginas. I don’t know how that idea got lost over the years. Like it’s really not that hard. Not everyone is attracted to both genitalia. So if you think that everyone should have sex with someone regardless of their genitalia you can fuck off and unfollow me. I’m lucky enough to be pansexual. Not everyone can feel what i feel and I respect that. Other people need to learn to do the same. Also apparently people think vagina or penis fetishes are a thing which is just the dumbest shit I’ve ever heard. You can’t have a fetish towards genitalia. It’s just sexual attraction. There’s a difference.

So yeah be kind to “monosexuals” because they’re people too and can’t be forced to like both genitalia.