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On a part of all transgender people, I would like to say a few thing:

  1. Just because we’re friends, that doesn’t mean you have any, any, excuse to be transphobic or make transphobic jokes. Just because I like you doesn’t mean you can use me as a free pass for your disgusting jokes. I’m a transgender boy, not an emotionless robot.
  2. Transgender woman and men are more than a fetish. We are more than your fantasy. We are more than your porn preferences. We are not your sick idea of a living kink.
  3. If you’re going to write about trans people, DO YOUR FUCKING RESEARCH!!! Starting T doesn’t mean you are automatically fully biologically male. Dysphoria is fucking awful. People who are meant to support us can just make us a joke. Bullying is real and scary.
  4. Mental illness and being LGBT are not the same thing.
  5. No LGBT person in popular media represent us all. We’re all unique and different, because we’re all fucking human??
  6. No, my name is not a nickname. It is my name. Whether it is my birth name or not is irrelevant.
  7. Teachers, you can be the most supportive and amazing people ever and I’d like to take a second to thank my English teacher for being so supportive.
  8. Stop using us as jokes. Like, I really fucking hate it. Just don’t.
  9. We’re normal! We’re nothing scary, we’re not going to attack you for being cis, and we don’t want anything more than your support and love!
  10. Teach your kids or siblings or parents or whoever these rules. They’re simple, easy, and can make a trans person’s day when you follow them!

Sorry for being so angry. I’m just sick of people calling me a lesbian.

hey can everyone on this website remember that (most of) us trans boys or transmasc people or male aligned nb people feel really uncomfortable when you refer to us as ‘soft pastel boys such cuties uwu omg!!1!1!!!!’ okay thanks

Shout out to native mlm whose tribes aren’t accepting of their sexuality ✨

Shout out to native mlm who constantly have to deal with being told “you don’t look native!” ✨

Shout out to native mlm who do look native and are discriminated for it on top of being mlm ✨

Shout out to native trans mlm who don’t want to cut their hair for spiritual reasons ✨

Shout out to native trans mlm who don’t want to cut their hair just because they like it ✨

Shout out to native trans mlm who do want to cut their hair short ✨

My native boys out there never get any love so shout out to Native mlm!!! Feel free to add more!

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Some art for my trans boy Jay fic Boys Aren’t Meant To Cry.

Trans boy Jason Todd is just so important to me,,,, :’)

A sort-of sequel to this

“That character can’t be trans, because ____”

“They have a higher/lower pitched voice!”
Voice pitch doesn’t indicate gender. Some boys/men have higher pitched voices and some women have lower pitched voices, whether or not they’re trans. Trans people, usually adults, can also go through vocal training to make their voices higher/lower. Another thing to consider is that for younger characters, all voices are pretty high pitched. Young boys can often sing soprano in choirs and there’s a reason young cartoon boys are often voiced by teenage girls.

“We’ve seen them shirtless/in a bra!”
Shirtless trans boys: If they are younger, puberty might not have kicked in yet, so they have a flat chest. For older boys who would have gone through/are going through puberty, they could just have small breasts, took/are taking puberty blockers, or are taking T. Any boy who is 18+ may have gotten top surgery.
Trans girls with bras: This mostly applies to teenage/adult characters. They could be wearing a water bra/stuffed a bra/bra with padding. Again, they could also be taking hormones or have had top surgery done.

“They’re too young/too old to be trans!”
You are never the wrong age to realize you’re trans. Young kids can know as soon as they are developed enough to actually think/process things. For older people, they might have not realized what they were feeling was something significant/not just a random thought or that it is okay to be trans until recently. It could also be that they transitioned some time before, maybe when they were young, maybe not. This is a really weak argument.

“The creator said they weren’t trans!”
It really doesn’t matter. If the creator of a show says they’re not trans then they aren’t trans in canon, but that won’t stop us from imagining these characters as trans. Part of being in a fandom is recreating the characters and showing them to others in a new light, that might not be canon, but honestly who cares? A lot of artists and writers can show our favorite characters as trans in a good/cool way while not making that the whole idea of the work. As long as the original traits of the character aren’t lost, it’s fantastic. Getting upset for this reason is like getting upset because someone colored a person’s hair the wrong shade of brown.

“I don’t want my favorite characters to be trans!”
Congrats, you’re transphobic. 
I’d also like to point out that just because you don’t really agree with/can’t see a character being trans doesn’t really make you transphobic. In fact, I even have trouble seeing some characters as trans. But if it makes you cry cis tears/makes you mad to see trans people have fun/don’t like the idea of rubbing our little trans hands all over it, you are transphobic.

Any other bullshit reason
I don’t give a shit, any character can be trans and we don’t need reasoning to think that.

Also take into consideration characters who haven’t realized their trans/haven’t come out yet and don’t present as their actual gender 

Terf is just fedora politics For Her™

And terf bangs are just neckbeards Just For Girls™

anonymous asked:

Oh My God! You love Dear Evan Hansen! Yesssss. Since I'm seeing a lot of trans love in your blog (#fuckyeahtrans), you should draw some trans!Evan, Connor, Jared (gayming son), or Zoe!! I love you and your art sm!

hanging out with your tf (tree friend)

NOT👏🏼ALL👏🏼TRANS👏🏼PEOPLE👏🏼CONFORM👏🏼TO👏🏼THE STEREOTYPES👏🏼OF👏🏼THE👏🏼GENDER👏🏼THEY👏🏼IDENTIFY👏🏼AS👏🏼

Not all trans men are masculine
Not all trans women are feminine
Not all nb people are androgynous or genderless

Not all trans men are masculine
Not all trans women are feminine
Not all nb people are androgynous or genderless

Not all trans men are masculine
Not all trans women are feminine
Not all nb people are androgynous or genderless


This has been a PSA from a fed up trans guy

hey guess what

polyamorous hypersexual people? valid. amazing. good. you’re not enforcing negative stereotypes for being yourself.

trans hypersexual people? valid. amazing. good. you’re not enforcing negative stereotypes for being yourself.

hypersexual wlws? valid. amazing. good. you’re not enforcing negative stereotypes for being yourself.

hypersexual mlms? valid. amazing. good. you’re not enforcing negative stereotypes for being yourself.

hypersexual bisexuals? valid. amazing. good. you’re not enforcing negative stereotypes for being yourself.

hypersexual pansexuals? valid. amazing. good. you’re not enforcing negative stereotypes for being yourself.

hypersexual gay boys? valid. amazing. good. you’re not enforcing negative stereotypes for being yourself.

hypersexual lesbians? valid. amazing. good. you’re not enforcing negative stereotypes for being yourself.

i rlly just saw someone in discourse say that cis lgbp people don’t challenge gender roles and like…. yeah they aren’t challenging the societal expectation to be cis but are y'all really going to pretend that butch lesbians/feminine gay men/androgynous lgbp people aren’t challenging roles or that it isn’t an expectation itself to date someone of the opposite gender (ex: as in it’s one of women’s roles to find a husband and have kids)