trans app

If you’re one of those people who will say shit like, “I don’t date cis men,” you had better not try and date trans men, either.

We aren’t here to be your ~soft boifriend~ who is “better than real men” because we weren’t socialized as oppressive, patriarchal males. Seriously, hearing this sort of rhetoric makes most of us run the fuck away because we have more respect for ourselves than dating people who won’t even allow us the basic courtesy of recognizing us as men.

Fuck right on off with that bullshit.


I’d like to tell you all about the app REFUGE RESTROOMS :) This app is for my fellow transgender and gender nonconforming pals to find gender neutral / unisex restrooms!! As you can see, there aren’t too many downloads!! I love this app though and it is extremely helpful!!! You can log new restrooms as you find them to help your transgender and gender nonconforming pals!! Please help out!!!!!!


Happy trans day of visibility!! (She/her)
(Guest star: my mom’s dog Snowy, named after Tin Tin’s dog)

Why do no gender neutral pregnancy apps exist? I’m sick of being called a pregnant woman or a ‘mom to be!’. Fuck that. I’m a transgender man there needs to be more options for queer people who are pregnant. I also really hate that they all assume your partner is male (sure, mine is, but for others it’s not!) Or that you have one at all!

I wish I knew enough about app building to kick-start my own.