Hi I just really need to let this out. My bestfriend (for nearly 7yrs) & I are miles away from each other since college started. Lately or should I say for the past 2 months, we haven't said a single word to each other and i really dont know why bc we did not fight or anything. Everything just suddenly stopped?? I don't see any reason for this to happen. What should I do? I really want to talk to her but I'm really worried that she already got annoyed/tired of me. I really miss her :-( sorry.
Hi! Don’t apologise, that what sleepover saturday is for!! That really sucks, especially when you’ve been friends for so long. Honestly, it might just be that she is really busy. I keep in touch with my friend, Katy, from England who I met in year 7 of high school and we’ll message pretty regularly. Sometimes it will be a week and a bit before we get a chance to reply just because we send lengthy messages and we both have commitments. I never see it as her being rude or ignoring me because I know she has a social life/uni/work/etc! Maybe send her a message just saying that you’re missing her, you’re sorry you’ve not had a chance to make more of an effort recently, ask her what she’s up to, etc! You could maybe send her something cute like an e-card or a moonpig.com (you do it all online and it prints to send to her) and just say that you’re missing her! Hopefully if you make the first move, she’ll be really happy to hear from you x