too lazy to make this properly

People like to identify with labels because it makes it easier to find terminology to explain what we’re experiencing, and it opens us up to a world where we’re not the only ones who feel this way. It’s not a way to be special, it’s a way to understand and belong.

you know, it makes me real mad when parents use getting fat as a means to coerce or shame their children. “go play outside, you’ll get fat sitting indoors” just gives children the idea that fat people should be shamed and treated as lazy. “don’t eat candy, you’ll get fat” only reinforces the idea that fat people somehow lack control or that fat people are greedy. don’t use fat as a punishment or a caveat; it shouldn’t be seen as either. don’t teach your kids that fat people are inherently unhealthy, or lazy or greedy, because that’s just not true. parent your kids properly; instead of using the traits of others as a threat (which btw is super dehumanising) try actually explaining WHY staying indoors all day can be bad, that candy can give you cavities and make you sick if you eat too much. you can be thin as a rail, eat candy all day and have a lot of dental issues compared to somebody who is fat, eats a balanced diet and has perfect, well-looked after teeth. my brother is 6'1, weighs like 115lbs max, and his teeth are rotting out of his damn head, but he assumes he’s perfectly healthy because he’s not fat. besides, who are you to police anybody’s diet? if somebody’s fat, it’s not your business how they got there, be it through cake or just naturally being built that way.
there are fat people out there with more energy than thin people, and basing your assumptions of somebody’s energy levels and “laziness” on their appearance is both unwise and inherently ableist.

people don’t exist to be made an example of.

save--me--from--my--self  asked:

Do you have any tips on how to gain followers without asking for shout outs? Asking for shout outs makes me feel needy and pathetic idk why

okay so tbh across all my blogs (i have many side blogs of varying interests on other accts lol) i always somehow manage to get a decent number of followers and the best way is to

1) have one focus on the blog (like i have a separate b&w and color blog for example)

2) make your own posts. whether it be posting photos, edits, or even text posts. once smth even get’s like 50 notes ppl click on the source a lot

3) tag ur stuff! i never used any of the pro tags and im too lazy to properly tag now, but back when i started i used to tag for relevancy so when ppl searched the tags they’d come cross my posts

4) reblog those follower train things (like those posts that say someone has to follow some sort of blog) and just in general follow ppl. For me at least seeing someone so often in my notifications makes me more likely to follow

5) post rlly often. if u can’t be on often set up a queue! i still majorly run on a queue, but how active u are rlly helps ur blog get noticed

i hope this helps. it’s mostly general stuff tbh but i never asked for a promo or didn’t add self-promos on posts that weren’t mine so yup :)

So this is the Papyrus version of this https://messedupessy.tumblr.com/post/156664876864/at-last-art-so-this-was-just-supposed-to-be which for some reason took like forever to finish, finally done now though 8D btw the one with the Sanses have been slightly updated as I have added some minor stuff on Swapfell Sans there

I am srs in love with swapfell Papyrus vest hoodie thing, it’s so damn fluffy!

Also UT Papyrus is 207 cm aka 6f 9i tall, making him the shortest of them all C:

Edit: changed swap Pap shoe info or whatever on the pic, realised that he would totally walk around in those strap sandals or whatever they’re called or even crocs 8D

Now time for headcanons under the cut:

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TEW Celebration Week - Day 3: Favourite Scene or Favourite Quote

I know who you are, Seb.
i know what you crave, what you fear.
Will you be able to live with yourself knowing what I’m gonna make you do?
Poor little Joseph couldn’t.
Too bad they dragged you into this. But either way,
You’re mine. To do with as I please.

That whole scene. Ugh, utter brilliance. I didn’t ship Ruviseb until after completing the game, so it’s not really about that. But this scene just really showed Ruvik’s presence, and I loved it. So much. I’m terrible at describing but hopefully that made sense haha.

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Get to know me: Fav male characters [1/?](in no particular order)
Oikawa (Dorky Overlord) Tooru - Haikyuu!!

How come a lot of ppl dislike Oikawa? I mean look at this loser and all the dumb faces he makes. How can you dislike him? This dorky grandking is just a gigantic dork bby :’) Reason why I don’t understand how he ended up as being no. 11 meanest character

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My sister sent me pictures of my finished charms! They turned out super well although the colors are a bit washed out (understandable since I didn’t use the illustrator swatches and also general printing woes). Will definitely fix the colors up if I make another run of them.

They were all taken on the same background but I was too lazy to fix the colors properly so AUTO WHITE BALANCE IT IS

I’ll be selling these at AX so if you’d like to own one and are also going to AX, come find me!

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HoooHoooHooo!

 Happy holidays everyone! I wish you all a Merry Chirstmas and Happy New Year!

I suck at follow forevers. I’ve done it once and it was messy and it took me forever, so this time around I’m going to list all the blogs I follow and bold my favorite ones. I follow 157 amazing blogs (I unfollowed a bunch that were inactive when whilist I was doing the follow forever) that make my dash full of fabulousness. Hopefully next year this number will increase!

I really hope you have an amazing holiday and spend a lot of time with your friends and family, and enjoy the last days of 2014.  

Enjoy!

i divided the blogs in categories according to the alphabet but they aren't organized properly bc i’m too lazy y'all sorry

TOP 5 MOST LIKED & REBLOGGED

nephlium | finnicksjingleballs | everddale | marashawx | mockincjay

A | B | C | D

50shadesoftobias | arons-warner | albuspottre | azkabah | allisonarqents | blaiszabini | bellblakex | crrestas | clacelightwood | chrisargant | cmbrbatch | capitalrebellion | clacing | clarisawayland | clahrissa | clockworkdamphir | christmasstiles | dievrgente | deathlyhalow | derekihale | dylanbrians |deadlysickdrxco | diconiangelo | demi-l-o-v-a-t-o

E | F | G | H

everddale | erewdite | enobariah | firstjumper-tris | firnickodair | frostyodair | foxfacie | frostedfinnick | ganseys | gotdynamlte | | galli-fray |  herimione | herondaleinstitute | finnicksjingleballs |  felicitysmuak | hollandrodhen | hijackedmellark

I | J | K | L 

itsdemonpox | itsgrangerdanger | illwriteyourname | junesday | jemsdrug johanhamason | katnisspearls | lydiargnt | liqhtwould | lannistes | ladyisabelle | lilyehvans

M | N | O | P 

mockingday merryravenclaw | misslilycollinssmalira | mockhinjay | mockiengjay | mcgonogall | mockingkiss | marashawxmharadyer |  noaehshaw | noahshawm | noahxhaw |  neonvats | octavhiaodaenerys | omg-demetria | ofmellarkandmen | ozeira |  odailr | obllviate | odairry | oliveresqueen |  peetamellarkc | paneem | pascalspedro | pnryns | peetamellakr

Q | R | S | T

quartrequell | ravenchlaw | sassymccal | sasnastarks | skywalkeers | stlinsiki | sydnieysage | stilestilinskih | sydriansex | scottiemccail | stormborni | snowmanniecresta | taylorswift | thesparkignited | tommysglue | teddvlupin | tessacrstairs | thehuntersrune

U | V | X | W | Y | Z 

vanishingcitylights | wayland | weliveandbreathewords | wessaswhoismaradyers | wayiand | winterkatniss | woelfsbane

Thank you!

Kisses

- Jess 

HAIR RE-COLOUR TUTORIAL FOR PHOTOSHOP

THIS CAN BE DONE WITH ELEMENTS VERSIONS OF PHOTOSHOP, WHICH IS WHAT IM USING SINCE CS6 COSTS TOO MUCH. GOOD FOR BEGINNERS HOPEFULLY.

hair re-colouring in photoshop can seem complicated and can look real weird if you don’t know how to do it properly. BUT!!! I’m here to give you a hopefully useful tutorial which will fix the following problems people have when they first re-colour hair:

1. MAKING IT NEAT- you put all that time selecting that fucking tiny strand of hair and when you re-colour it it looks like garbage and you have to start over again. FUCK THAT!! we’re lazy here, i don’t have time for fuckin around we can do this shit EASY!!!!

2. MAKING THE COLOUR LOOK HOW YOU WANT- sometimes the colour you choose comes out dull on dark hair and and entirely different colour on dyed hair… NO MORE!!! very easy and obvious fix or this you’ll fucking shit your PANTS when you see this shit.

USING A FILL LAYER:

1.

open up the picture you want to re-colour. this one is especially good to use as it’s a nice clear picture. get the selection brush and roughly go around the area you want to recolour, in this case hair. 

2.

right click the selection and select ‘layer via copy’. this will copy the area you selected into another layer without removing it from the layer it was copied from.

3.

hide the layer you copied it from so you’re left with something like this. now it’s time to get your precise ass mouse skills into action. Put a mask on this layer, take a eraser tool (make sure it’s set to brush) and erase all of the areas you don’t want to recolour,

ALRIGHT COOL CLOSE ENOUGH. now, apply the layer mask (right click the mask and press ‘apply layer mask) so now the hair is all nice and neat-ish, WE CAN FIX THE ISSUE OF RE-COLOURING LOOKING WEIRD BECAUSE OF DYED HAIR!!! 

4.

ensuring the hair layer is selected, go to enhance, adjust colour and remove colour.

WOW FUCKING AMAZING! now we have a nice plain base to work with, we can make the original image a visible layer again:

WOO HOO YEAH!! now unless you want to age this person by 40 years you’re going to want to do the colour part.

5.

get your trusty selection tool again and roughly select the hair again. yes it’s this bullshit again but this is easy ok.

go to layer, new fill layer and solid colour. you’ll be presented with a window where it asks you to choose a layer name and a mode. call it what you want but make sure you choose ‘OVERLAY’ as the mode!!! ok lets go

6.

pick the colour you want and press ok and BOOM BAM IT’S VIBRANT AND FUN WOWOWOWOW!!!! but it looks messy as fuck, which is why we’re getting our friend the eraser tool out again. with the colour mask selected, use the eraser to erase the colour in the places it doesn’t need to be. this is much easier than getting fiddly with the selection brush and filling a selection since the selection brush is a piece of shit.

WOOO BOI IT LOOKS NEAT AS FUCK!!! AND THIS SHIT WORKS FOR ANY RECOLOUR, NOT JUST HAIR!!

USING THE COLOUR REPLACE TOOL:

this is much easier but is more  suitable for brightly coloured hair, but it gives a really cool effect.

1. REPEAT STEP ONE OF THE FIRST TUTORIAL (ROUGHLY SELECT THE HAIR AND COPY IT TO ANOTHER LAYER)

2. 

with the copied layer selected, go to enhance, adjust colour and replace colour.

3.

you’ll get this window! use the eyedropper to select the colour you want to replace. then go to the second colour box thing and select the colour you want to replace it with. (mess around with the fuzziness until all the colour is replaced and use the + and - eyedroppers to add or remove colour from certain places.

OK COOL UR DONE!!! PRESS OK AND UR DONE AMAZING WOW THIS IS A LONG POST IM SORRY

TWO EASY WAYS TO RECOLOUR HAIR WHICH I DIDNT EXPLAIN VERY WELL HOPE U ENJOY