too emotional to make this good

Do you ever think about how good Check, Please! is and cry?

There’re lots of dark, gritty stories out there. Stories where hate and sarcasm and pain are the norm. And I’m just too tired of them. Because they don’t make me happy, they leave me feeling heavy instead.

But Check, Please!? Check, Please! is nothing like that. It’s premised on friendship, on growth, on healing, on hope. It’s one of those stories that make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside and put a smile on your face even after a particularly bad day. ([Jack voice] If there’s anything on my face, you put it there.)

And don’t get me started on Bitty and Jack. I love reading about their love, because it’s not every day that you find such a healthy relationship. They talk and they laugh and god, they really would do anything for each other, wouldn’t they? For their bestfriend and boyfriend, the other member of their lovely little team. They’re just too precious.

Ngozi is an amazing storyteller and artist, and she puts so much love and effort into every single panel she draws ♡♡

what i’ve learned is that if you’re gonna engage in a romantic relationship during your young adult years, it damn well better be with someone who makes your insides explode with nothing but positive emotion. someone who takes the time to be kind, patient and understanding, more often than not, and who is as warm with their words as they are with their touch. life is too short to be focused on people who do not have your growth and best interest in mind. the right person will love you in a way that makes you feel completely free and accepted within your own skin. they won’t attempt to hinder your development out of fear or insecurity that your new experiences might lead you into the arms of someone else. good lovers will desire to see your personal success just as much as you do, and they will support and respect your decisions. stay away from people who make you feel guilty about desiring the best for yourself. they don’t love you for you, they love you for what you can provide for them. and that is not love.

How to make good eye effects:

One color. Simple and recognizable shape. Proportionally still the size and location of pupils compared to the rest of the eye. Enhances the emotions the face and body is expressing to make the emotional context more clear.

How not to make good eye effects:

Too many colors, or too many details. Improper size (too big) and location make the effect not look like pupils anymore. Doesn’t add anything to the emotion the body and face is making, and instead is used as a substitute for facial and body expression.

bad feelings of the moon signs
  • *use your Moon Sign (duh)
  • Aries:the feeling of having too much energy for your own good, needing to let it out somehow, feeling actual rage
  • Taurus:the feeling of wanting to let go but you just can't, when you want to be spontaneous without commitment but there's a big part of you that won't let that happen, feeling as if all the problems in the world are your fault
  • Gemini:the feeling of being okay with talking about emotions but struggling to actually feel them, the feeling of having literal chaos running through your head
  • Cancer:the feeling of needing people too much, trying to protect them too much, being too selfless for your own good
  • Leo:the negative feeling of self awareness, when something that's wrong with you literally becoming a nightmare
  • Virgo:feeling desperate because chaos is driving you insane, the anxiety of not knowing how to make peace last, feeling worthless
  • Libra:the feeling of loneliness, not being able to cope when you're alone, hating yourself for depending too much on people's opinions
  • Scorpio:the feeling of when emotions get out of control because of the smallest things, feeling as they take over, starting to cry because they're so overwhelming
  • Sagittarius:the constant need for freedom, the feeling of extreme fear of attachment, feeling caged
  • Capricorn:the terrifying feeling of not being in control of a situation, when things get out of hand and you can't seem to find a solution because you're human and you forget about that too often
  • Aquarius:not feeling emotions, being trapped by detachment, the feeling of not wanting to do something because it's trendy
  • Pisces:feeling as if the whole universe is inside of you, therefore it becomes too overwhelming on a daily basis, crying because you're confused, feeling your emotions smother you slowly

Getting to physically hold my cosplay variant cover for the first time. I’m overwhelmed with emotions. To everyone who ever cheered me on, thank you. To everyone who ever felt discouraged by bullies, told that their features were ‘too Black’ to cosplay, don’t give up. Don’t you ever let them make you feel like you’re not good enough. You’re beautiful and you can do anything. We can be heroes too.

The signs as I personally know them-
  • Aries:Strong as hell, emotionally & physically. Will not hesitate to put you in your place. Is also very sensitive underneath their thick skin, but is embarrassed when people see that side of them.
  • Taurus:Will do anything to make someone laugh. Is extremely smart when they apply themselves, but is the best at procrastinating & being late. Loves their friends more than their family, and acts out when they don't feel loved enough. Extremely loyal, and very blunt.
  • Gemini:Very sweet at first. Funny & too smart for their own good. Tries to do everything to make other people happy, but often forgets about themselves. Hates straying from habits & likes to be kept in their comfort zone. Good actors... Oh! & lies out of their ass.
  • Cancer:Too emotional & moody. Is always heart broken in some way, and will do things for others to make themselves feel better. Making people happy is their one goal. Very creative & likes to take charge, but not take credit for doing so.
  • Leo:Complains about people complaining. Can be a huge piss baby when things don't go their way. Likes to pick fights only if they know they will win them. Very smart, but lazy. Is sweet to people close to them, but cold when they treat them badly. Blows things out of proportion.
  • Virgo:Very poetic. Great writers. Gets passionate about everything they do. Sarcasm is their second language. Complains a lot because they like it when people feel bad for them. They need a lil attention to feel better about themselves. Great speaking voices.
  • Libra:Craves attention & seeks it out in the wrong way. Will not stop until they get what they want; in a good & bad way. Loyal friends, always cute & funny. Very flirty & charismatic. Will always show you an adventure.
  • Scorpio:Comes off as ditzy, but is actually really smart under all those great looks. Puts their all into everything. Very emotional, but very bad at showing it. Their friends are their everything. When they love, they love hard. Cutest laugh & is surprisingly poetic.
  • Sagittarius:The most creative. Is never afraid to make fun of themselves. Procrastinates, but always ends up getting everything done superbly. Is nice to everyone they meet, even if they don't particularly like them too much. Is very good at easing a situation.
  • Capricorn:Very stubborn but so intelligent it'll knock your socks off. Funny in a sarcastic dick kinda way, but still charming. Very easy to talk to & has great music taste. Isn't good at showing feelings, mostly because they have none. But when they do, man do they.
  • Aquarius:The most beautiful, with the lowest self esteem. Tries so hard, but doesn't need to. Their cries for help are subtle, but when they get to a breaking point, they break hard & loud. Very mixed emotionally. Can be very funny when comfortable around people. Often gets mad when people don't know what they're thinking. Has no clue what they want to do in life, but are determined to do something.
  • Pisces:Great taste in everything. Quiet, but loud when they're around friends. Easy going and knows all the underground music & stores. Hip & will never admit it. Coming off as confident, they're mostly insecure. Will never do bad to a friend.

The biggest test for if a man is the one for me is how he deals with my feelings Some men will dismiss the emotions you have and see them as a problem. They will dismiss how you feel or ignore you or try to placate you with gifts and sex to shut you up and circumvent the problems. The reason why that’s dangerous is because over time you begin to think that problems in the relationship are your fault. You’re too emotional. You’re too impatient. You’re a nag. You’re ungrateful. Slowly but surely you begin to shut up and when things don’t improve you continue to put all the weight on you and he gets to act like it’s all good. A man that’s truly after my heart cherishes me enough to take time to make me happy. I have had times when me and my guy aren’t on the same page and he will drive over to see me to have a face to face conversation because over the phone isn’t working. I have had times when I say “never mind” when I’m clearly upset and he’ll say “sweetheart speak your mind.” A man who loves you will not treat your feelings like a burden. And if there are things to fix in a relationship he will happily work with you through the frustration because he wants you both to be happy. Don’t allow yourself to become a mouse when it comes to how you feel just because a man doesn’t have the emotional capacity to have empathy or the communication skills to talk through things. The problem is him, not you. And you have to know you deserve better than that


For a good time, ingest several of Natasha’s tweets per day. Take each tweet with a grain of salt and wash down with a sense of humour.

WARNINGS: If you find yourself experiencing extreme feelings, please stop taking her tweets immediately. Tweets are not to be taken if you are overly sensitive, emotional, or take things too seriously. If you do not understand sarcasm this medication may not be for you. Unhealthy side effects may include: making assumptions, irrational hashtags, and exploding diarreah. If any of these symptoms occur, please lower your dose of tweets, or end your prescription. You may also want to talk to your doctor about alternative medications such as chill pills or Taylor Swift.

The Signs When Flirting


Super sweet and flirting lots of touching and hugging.


Taurus is a pretty good At flirting since they’re ruled by venus, they’re sweet and cute and they always make you feel wanted.


They flirt with their words.  enough said.


They are likely to toy with your emotions, and flirt with their emotions too.


Body language says it all.


With their innocence 


They alway are complimenting you it’s great.


It’s all in the eyes with them.


These guys are the sweetie pies of the century.


They are smart asses in a flirty way.


Can you say lip biter? These cuties though


Welcome to the sarcasm zone… cause thats what your in for. In a sweet way of course. 



The fact that Lexa was the one fucking dying. She was the one that had just been shot, and she was bleeding out and dying on the bed, and she was the one to tell Clarke not to be afraid. You can tell by her voice that, despite what she has said in the past, she is terrified, and yet the first thing she says to Clarke is ‘Don’t be afraid’. The first thing she says to Titus is to make him promise not to try to harm Clarke again. She has just been shot by this useless motherfucker and she just wants to make sure that Clarke is safe because she knows she won’t be there to make sure. She was trying to comfort and protect Clarke literally with her last breath.

Lexa was too good for this entire fucking world I’m still emotional about it.


“Art isn’t about survival. It’s about transcendence. Being more than animals. Rising above.”
“We can’t do that anymore?”
“I don’t know.”
“I sing. I still sing.”

I’m so sensitive to the language of masculinity especially when it comes to my romantic relationships with men. I always felt like there was something wrong with me growing up because when I would have (specifically) men infatuated with me and ask them why, nothing they would tell me would make me feel good about myself. I always hear things like “You make me feel this X quality, which I normally don’t”. Is it so selfish that I would like to be liked because I am a good person? Not because I make you “feel like you can be yourself” or because I “make you feel young again”. I have been made to feel too much my whole entire life just by existing and being so deeply empathetic and passionate in my emotions and instincts because I don’t want to accept empty infatuation based off of the fact that someone thinks I am beautiful and I make them feel good about themselves. Love bred out of thinking that someone makes you better is selfish and in-genuine. What does that have to do with me? There’s a big difference between having a person be so magnetic and special that they inspire great things in you and thinking you need to possess someone mentally and physically in order to reach your full potential

Self-Care Saturday Challenge: Make or Print the goal sheet provided, and fill it out. Set realistic goals toward helping your emotional self for the following week (activity ideas here). It doesn’t have to be every day of the week, and you don’t have to succeed the first time you try so don’t worry! I’ll be doing this too!

<3 Have a good saturday everyone! <3

Finnish proverbs

Kuka kissan hännän nostaa, ellei kissa itse?
“Who will raise the cat’s tail if not the cat itself?”
Nobody but you should show your skills or make yourself proud.

Kattia kanssa!
“And a cat too!”
That’s a lie!

Ei auta itku markkinoilla
“It’s no use crying on a marketplace”
Feeling strong emotions isn’t a good thing in the hard word. You don’t always get what you want and even crying wont help it.

Ken kuuseen kurkottaa, se katajaan kapsahtaa
“Reaching for a spruce, one falls on a junipe”
Don’t aim too high in your life, you will just regret it.

Katosi kuin pieru Saharaan
“Disappeared like a fart in Sahara”
Something is gone for good

Eteenpäin, sanoi mummo lumessa
“Forward, said a grandma in the snow”
You should always go forward no matter of your age or the weather

Olisihan vintillä leipää, mutta lapset söi rappuset
“There is bread in the attic but children ate the stairs.”
You could’ve achieved something but some stupid mistakes ruined the whole thing or you just waited for too long.

Kaikkeen tottuu paitsi jääpuikkoon perseessä ja sekin sulaa pois
“You can get used to anything but an ice stick in your ass and even that will eventually melt away”
Nothing is so bad you can’t get used to it and the worst things will go away.

Kyllä sopu sijaa antaa ja rakkaus reisiä levittää
“There’s always room for peace and love spreads legs”
It’s always easier to be with people peacefully and it’s easier to get laid if you’re in love.

Ei voi kauhalla vaatia, kun on lusikalla annettu
“You cannot demand with a ladle when you’ve been given with spoon”
You cannot expect a stupid person to think wisely.

Ho ho ho, Classic Rock Fandom! Christmas is coming and so is The Secret Rocker Santa project! I started this project back in 2013 and it was a prosperous start. Almost 500 classic rock fans have joined, made new friends and shared good emotions together. Last year the project was even more successful, so I feel motivated to keep this tradition going and I hope that you’ll help me to make it big this year too.  

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Are you in love with the Beatles? Or you are a Led Zeppelin fan? Can’t live without listening to Queen? David Bowie is your icon? It doesn’t matter which Classic Rock bands or singers you are into. If you are looking forward to making new friends who are in love with classic rock or just want to make someone happy, sign up and make it happen, this is your chance!

What is Secret Santa?

Secret Santa is a tumblr-wide “match-maker” where you will anonymously compliment/befriend a tumblr user who is randomly assigned to you and in turn, you will be assigned to someone else.

How it works:

  • From now until November 25th, message me saying you want to participate in Secret Rocker Santa. (you can’t do it anonymously)
  • I need to know your age and favourite bands/singers (Your list can contain 5 or less favourites). However, if your bands/singers are not very popular in this fandom, it’s possible that your pair might not share the same interests.
  • If you are older than 20 years old, you may be paired with someone with different interests or age, since most of the people who sign up are 13-22 years old.
  • Your blog doesn’t have to be classic-rock-related, you just need to be a fan. 
  • During the last days of November (the 25th through the 30th) I will be randomly assigning people to their Secret Rocker Santas. You will receive a message from me telling you their information, but it would be extremely helpful if you could message me first to find out who is your pair, that would help me to reduce the tumblr messaging limit problem. You might get a message from my second account daenerys-drogon-targaryen, so don’t be surprised, you can trust the information.
  • You will start messaging your pair ANONYMOUSLY on the 1st of December and continue until Christmas (December 25th), which is when you will reveal yourself and (hopefully) have made a new friend.
  • You can send your pair whatever you want (as long as you do not reveal your identity), your job is to make your pair feel happier! (Some ideas: lyrics, pictures, facts, play games, chat and of course do things that are not only associated with Classic rock).
  • Be careful - make sure you are messaging your pair anonymously.
  • Some people might get more than one santa or will be assigned to more than one person, since many unexpected things can happen and I want to make sure that everybody will have a pair. So if you are not able to be a secret santa for two people let me know. (You can also let me know if you’d like to be a santa for two or more people)
  • Please tag messages that you receive from your secret santa and related posts as #SRS, so your santa will be able to find your answers easier. (If you don’t know how to do it - message me)


  • If you’re not committed to messaging your Santa at least few times a week - DO NOT SIGN UP. I want everyone to have a good santa.
  • If your Santa has not contacted you in over a week, message me and I will gently remind them or find you another one.
  • DON’T BE AN ASSHOLE. Mean people will not be tollerated.
  • Answer all of your santa’s messages and do not ignore them.
  • Let me now if your santa is being rude.
  • Let me know if you think that I’ve made any mistakes.
  • If you are not already following your pair’s blog, you probably shouldn’t do it right away, because they might understand that you are their santa.
  • It’s useful to have an easy-to-find “about me” page so that your Santa will have something to talk to you about.
  • Please try to keep a note of who you’re assigned to! You’ll also get a personal number which you will have to remember. There will be a record of it but I do not want to remind you every day.
  • It might take few days for me to answer all of your messages, don’t be surprised, stay patient.
  • IF YOU CHANGE YOUR URL DURING THE PROJECT PLEASE LET ME KNOW. If you don’t let me know about your new url, you will no longer be a part of the project.
  • If I find any blogs with closed askboxs they will no longer be a part of this project as well. 
  • Also let me know if you are having any difficulties and you can’t participate in this project any longer or need to take a break. 
  • Pleaso do not be mad at me if I make any mistakes, because this project requires plenty of time, emotions and work. I try my best to make everything go smoothly, but I am just a regular tumblr user.  
  • You don’t have to follow me, but keep an eye on the updates. 

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If you have any questions or want to ask for advice, do not hesitate to message me!

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