tomboy things

Yooooo this has helped me so much.
I realized my love language (what makes me feel loved the most by my partner) is words of affirmation and physical touch so that’s how I show love as well but that’s not my girls love language. So honestly I haven’t been loving her right this whole damn time in her terms of love. Her love language is acts of service so instead of always being so mushy I’ve got to do more shit and help out to show here I love her a lot cuz that speaks more to her heart then me saying some shit where as me idc if I come home and u cleaned the house like I’d appreciate it but I’d melt if you just grab my face and shower me with love and tell me u missed me and kiss me all over like a puppy Lmbo. So figure out ur partners love language trust me it pays off.👌🏾

@powerpuffobsession replied to your post “Hey Bug! There’s one scene in the episode Los Dos Mojos where an…”

And how Buttercup rubs her hand (paw?) to calm her down warms my heart. Back when Buttercup was a girl.

I was gonna write that it was “a nub rub” but I immediately regretted thinking that, and now I actually regret still deciding to share that. :’D

But yeah, it was a sweet moment! Maybe a little uncharacteristic for Buttercup (it worked for the joke though!) but, yeah, it was done in a simpler time, when she wasn’t a mondo radical cool dude who never has a cow, man.

Pidge likes loose t-shirts and jeans and coding and robots

Pidge also likes dresses and headbands and wearing her hair long

These things don’t have to be mutually exclusive?

“Tomboys” are allowed to like “girly” things, and “girly girls” are allowed to like “tomboy” things.

It doesn’t have to be one or the other.

can everyone stop acting like “strong female characters who are badass and can still be feminine!!!!” is somehow revolutionary…. i wanna see strong tomboy female characters, strong butch female characters, female characters saving the day with hairy armpits and dirty sneakers and ugly cargo shorts. of course feminine strong female characters are great bc theyre still strong female characters, but praising their femininity in particular is so odd when female characters have only ever been feminine, theyre expected to be and not accepted otherwise

once i saw people get pissy that a lot of people considered buttercup from the powerpuff girls a trans boy because its saying that all tomboys are equivalent to men or smth and its toxic and i get it but like

a lot of transmasculine people are read a tomboys when theyre little, yknow? i personally identified wth buttercup and i didnt know buttercup was supposed to be a girl for years. shes a tomboy, but i felt a deeper connection to her other than the tomboy thing

im older now and understand my gender identity and seeing the trans boy buttercup stuff made me feel really nice but like apparently trans boy buttercup is too toxic to feature on this site who CARES it perfectly fits the self discovery trail for a lot of trans masc people

anonymous asked:

I read in one of your posts that Iris likes Pokemon. Do any of the Neo Winx girls have a favorite Pokemon female companion (e.g. Dawn, Serena)?

(If you’re talking just the main girls from the games, then okay. I’ll probably end up mixing in some anime elements though, just ‘cause :P)

-Sera likes May (since she can relate to how she started off unsure about battling and living up to great and noble parents (Norman for May, and Bloom for Sera).

-Carina likes Hilda (since she’s got that rugged tomboy thing going on, which Carina can really dig)

-Saphira likes Serena (since she’s got quite a classy, yet playful feminine air about her)

-Iris likes Shauna (since she’s energetic, curious, and willing to go out exploring with her friends just like Iris)

-Tetra likes Leaf (since shes technically the female counterpart to Red (a quiet, mysterious character with hidden skill/smarts), Tetra has naturally been drawn to her from the start)

-Matty likes Dawn (since she loves her style, somewhat sassy demeanor, and how she likes to just focus on contests and doing her own thing instead of following the popular route of just strict gym/Pokémon battles)

-Persy likes Lyra (since she’s just SO adorable, and has a funny nosy matchmaker-like personality in the anime that Persy can relate to)

-Lilly likes Bianca (since she’s a bit clumsy and skittish like her sometimes, but still noble-hearted enough to stand by as a true loyal friend)

-Elsa likes Lillie (*heh, talk about ironic namesake* -But yeah, she really relates to the little blondie’s family struggles and how she grew on top by the end of her story)