okay so,,, i’ve seen A LOT of ppl using a thai idol’s real name as if it’s normal (esp in fanfics) and as a person who grew up in thailand and is thai,,, that is actually very awkward. a thai person is born w a first name, last name, and nick name. the nick name is the name you will be called by throughout your whole life and many of your friends would prob never know your full name tbh. your full name is only used in official papers and business type situations. for example, in school, the teacher would call you by your first name and your nickname (it depends what they’re saying,, if it’s roll call or smth like that it’s your first name!!) i’m going to use ten as an example, so bare with me. if you’re friends w ten, you would never call him ‘chittaphon’. not even his family would call him ‘chittaphon’. it’s really just used for MAINLY official papers. please just call your thai idol by their nickname (which is most likely their stage name). i’m sure this is hard to understand bc different culture,, but i’m honestly rly uncomfortable w it??? it’s okay that you’ve been ignorant to this, but i hope you guys learned something new!! feel free to msg me for any questions!
Like ppl do realize that the misogynistic thing abt the trope of women always ending up w a man even when they express that they’re not interested in them? Is literally the idea that women are dependent on men and need men in their lives. Like if a girl is a loner and then ends up w a woman it’s not the same as her ending up w a man? It’s not more progressive for a woman to stay alone than it is for her to end up w another woman bc either way a man is not involved which like is the whole fucking point lol it’s entirely useless and just a poor disguise for ur lesbophobia to say that women should stay single for ‘empowerment’ or whatever instead of be w another woman