sometimes its better to just like try to make it clear that youre repeating things that the affected group has said about themselves???
that makes a lot of sense and suddenly criticism of the hank green video is more understandable because positioning it as educational without immediately expressing something like that can totally give a “let the white guy tell you what’s up” angle
i will make a point to do that in the future thank you bobie <3
speaking up is fine as long as you make it clear that what you know is a result of your experience interacting with people who do experience what it is you’re talking about!! i mean i made a post about otherkin the other day and my otherkin friends