I'm scared my sd is trying to harm me. Lately after we have that awful sex, he always says he wants to get me pregnant like what the fuck is wrong with this bitch. We use condoms of course but I'm scared he will try to poke a hole in the condom. I don't want to lose Jim because he is great and he is on time with the 3.5k allowance but that pregnancy talk scares me. But money ain't everything if it starting to scare my safety. I just don't know what to do.
Ugh I had a POT like that, dropped him real quick. It’s a fantasy for some guys and it’s scary. It’s attacking your rights on your body to bring up something like that.
He may try something with the condom, be careful and consider a second contraceptive method if you absolutely can’t drop him immediately. Depo shots will give immediate effect but please ask a family planning specialist first. Pills are an option but they don’t take effect immediately. Search for another SD and drop his ass.
And girl, if you mean ‘harming you’ as in violence please stay away from him without a second thought. Please be safe.