time being wasted

When I hear cishet people in real life talk about how they would kill trans people if given the chance, even if they think they’re “joking”, it makes me remember how much time I wasted being annoyed at people saying things like “all cis people are awful.”

In the real world, that stuff doesn’t matter at all. They’re no real threat. Makes me kinda regret all of that.

shoutout to george, fred, and especially ron weasley for realizing that harry was stuck in abusive and unhealthy household and, in spite of the massive trouble they knew they could get in, taking immediate steps to personally see him removed from that environment, something no adult in harry’s life did.

You look at me and there isn’t anything left for you to say.
Because really, what more could be said?
I know you don’t love me.
I know that.
I know that.
So when silence fills the room,
I don’t try to fight it.
I let it linger and you hold up your fingertips to it, try to make out something of what is left.
Didn’t they ever tell you that you can’t make something out of nothing?
Either way, I pretend not to notice.
I take the weight of not being loved like I deserve and I don’t say anything else.
I don’t try to fix anything.
I don’t waste time being hopeful.
I don’t ask you to be friends.
I don’t promise to keep in touch.
I let you leave and I let the high hopes for the future fall all around us.
Even then, it doesn’t break the silence.
I don’t expect it to.
—  I don’t expect it to / @thewordsyouneverunderstood

Types of people I just can’t stand

1. People who don’t respect time.
Cancelling meetings and plans at the last minute. Never being on time. Wasting my time because they can’t manage theirs.

2. People with a great sense of entitlement without having done anything to have one.
Not like that would justify the poor behaviour and attitude but at least that’s marginally less irritating.

3. People who aren’t straight when it comes to matters concerning money. Everyone works very hard to earn the money they have (or at least their parents do). I’m not a bad person if I want to keep the accounts straight and ask for the money you owe me. Nominal amounts are forgettable but not beyond a certain limit.

4. People who exercise their authority without accepting the responsibility that comes with it. Authority means nothing if you only use it to prove that you have authority.

5. People who are super intolerant to people who have different opinions and ideas than they do. People don’t have to conform to your beliefs for you to be nice to them.

6. People who are opinionated to a point where they shove their opinions down other people’s throats. Just because you believe in something you can’t pass a universal statement and except everyone else to believe in it too.
Exhibit A: everyone should be a vegan.
Live and let live, yeah?

7. People who think that being mean is being funny.

8. People who think that sarcasm is humour. While it may be one of the forms of humour, it definitely doesn’t equate to it.

9. People who are phsycially violent and aggressive.
There’s no excuse. Never.

It goes without saying that sexists, racists and homophobes aren’t on the list because it’s implied that I just can’t stand their kind. What kind of humans can?

WHAT MAKES THE SIGNS UPSET?
  • Aries: Passive-aggression, beating around the bush, being helpless, having things not meet your expectations, having to wait for things to happen, wasting time, being ignored, being left out, being underestimated, assuming you know how they feel, admitting defeat or failure, giving up.
  • Taurus: Disrespecting boundaries, obnoxious and rude people, being placed in an aggravating situation, too much pressure, too much stress, being convinced to change their minds, fast-paced environments, being unable to think through things themselves, having their steadiness and deliberateness interpreted as a weakness, "fakeness", artificiality.
  • Gemini: Always doing things by the book, inflexibility, anything too conventional, anything too repressive, mental inactivity, dullness, feeling bored, feeling "stuck", feeling inhibited, too many regulations, bureaucratic nonsense, menial work, taking things too seriously, not having a sense of humor, having to slow down for someone, possessiveness, feeling suffocated.
  • Cancer: Insensitivity, being taken for granted, being manipulated, having their kindness being taken as a weakness, lack of depth, lack of loyalty, shallow people, disrespecting privacy, disrespecting personal space, forgetful people, people who don't remember the past, people who aren't connected with their emotions, excessive criticism, too much conflict, instability, insecurity.
  • Leo: Pettiness, cruelty, mean-spiritedness, the mundane, menial tasks, penny-pinching, lack of excitement, put-downs, deceit, lying, being forced to be dependent on others, not being respected, not being admired, lack of attention or admiration, forced to take orders, being taken as a joke, being laughed at or seen as "lesser".
  • Virgo: Condescension, being treated as inferior, being treated as incompetent, being unprepared, being disorganized, being surprised, having their helpfulness mistaken for subservience, being underestimated, not having their intelligence appreciated, vulgar behavior, carelessness, crudeness, uncertainty, people who don't put any effort, insincerity.
  • Libra: Rudeness, hyper-aggressiveness, people who can't appreciate the finer things in life, uptight people, people who don't know how to relax, violence, injustice, unfairness, being misled, being misinformed, admitting they're wrong, harshness, stressful situations, being pressured to make a decision, conflicts, people who can't apologize, confusion.
  • Scorpio: Betrayal, superficiality, shallowness, arrogance, bragging, pretentiousness, people who put themselves on a pedestal, hypocrisy, disloyalty, manipulation, two-faced people, distrustful people, harming their loved ones, being taken advantage of, people who make a joke out of everything, compromising, unemotional people, aloof people.
  • Sagittarius: Lying, deception, being kept secrets from, being restricted, hypo-criticism, disrespecting their philosophies, disrespecting their beliefs, constraint in their freedom, having too many restrictions- too many rules, too much regulation, too many obligations, being judged or disapproved by others.
  • Capricorn: Pettiness, wastefulness- wasting time, wasting energy, wasting money, wasting emotions on people who don't matter, being ridiculed, being publicly humiliated, having their private thoughts shown in public, making a big scene, losing control, unreliability, encroaching on their personal time.
  • Aquarius: Disrespecting their ideas, ignorance, narrow-mindedness, being too straight-laced, overly rigid people, attempting to control or manipulate them, dishonesty, being forced to conform, being forced to pick a choice, subservience to anyone, having an excessive ego, hyper-aggressiveness, rudeness, not keeping promises.
  • Pisces: People who can't read between the lines, know-it-all's, lacking creativity, lacking imagination, lacking intuition, having things not meet their expectations, being forced to face reality, being unable to make their dreams a reality, negativity, nitpicking, people who are unable to see the bigger picture.

why is my girlfriend the most adorable person ever

The signs and their dislikes
  • Aries: being ignored, physical restriction, being placed less than first, feeling hungry, anyone who preforms better than themselves, old things/secondhand stuff, having to wait, bland food
  • Taurus: being disturbed, change, lending things, being told to hurry up, sleeping in strange beds
  • Gemini: listening to endless complaints, regimentation, not knowing what's going on, wasting time, being kept waiting, making irrevocable commitments, being defeated, fixed ideas, having to concentrate on only one thing for a long time
  • Cancer: any criticism of the home, having to handle a crisis, pressure to take part in conversation, anyone who refuses their cooking, people who forget names and dates
  • Leo: physical hurt, sedentary activities, being ignored, being backstage, lies and deceit, being laughed at, being told something they don't know
  • Virgo: crowds and noise, vulgarity, people who whine, sitting still for a while, disrupted schedules, lids left off boxes/tops off of toothpaste, being obligated to others, hipocrisy, weakness/failure
  • Libra: loud arguments, confused situations, sloppiness, ugly places, being pressured to make up their mind, being told it is up to them to make a change
  • Scorpio: being analyzed, being asked personal questions, people who know more than they do, too many compliments, having to trust a stranger
  • Sagittarius: disproval from others, making promises, being too safe/secure/confined, administration, tight clothes, having their honesty doubted
  • Capricorn: untidiness, being teased, familiarity, surprises, new ideas, loneliness, being made to feel useless, being embarrassed in public
  • Aquarius: emotion and intimacy, people who show off, being taken for granted, being pinned down in any way, violence and fighting, making loans or borrowing, authority, extravagance
  • Pisces: bright/noisy/crowded places, dirty/ugly objects, being told to get a grip, stiff clothing, authorities, people knowing too much about him or her

✧* KNUCKLE *✧ (hunter x hunter)

I drew this for Niki (baysalt) and wasn’t really gonna post it publicly, but here you go.  Hope you like Knuckle, because I sure do.  Have a good weekend, my friends ♥

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‘You wanna go? Fight me!’

‘Yeah! Let’s go, let’s totally go!’

Some Inspirational Quotes
  • “It takes nothing to join the crowd. It takes everything to stand alone.”  
    Hans F Hanson
  • “You are much more than what you’re going through.”  John Tew
  • “My only regrets are the moments when I doubted myself and took the safe route. Life is too short to waste time being unhappy.”  
    Dan Howell
  • “Be yourself. Don’t worry about what other people are thinking of you, because they’re probably feeling the same kind of scared, horrible feelings that everyone does.”  
    Phil Lester
  • “The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one.”
    Elbert Hubbard
  • “The final forming of a person’s character lies in their own hands.”
    Anne Frank
  • “Life was meant to be lived, and curiosity must be kept alive. One must never, for whatever reason, turn his back on life.”
    Eleanor Roosevelt
  • “We meet no ordinary people in our lives.”
    C.S. Lewis
  • “It’s the little details that are vital. Little things make big things happen.” 
    John Wooden
  • “If we all did the things we are capable of, we would literally astound ourselves.”
    Thomas Edison
  • “We build too many walls and not enough bridges.”
    Isaac Newton
  • “A small body of determined spirits fired by an unquenchable faith in their mission can alter the course of history.”
    Mahatma Gandhi
  • “I am still learning.”
    Michelangelo

Don’t waste time being angry about your problems. Instead, use that energy to find solutions. Pray for Allah’s guidance. He’ll find a way out! It’s natural to feel frustrated when you don’t see the results you want. Please take it one step at a time. One day at a time. You’ll get there insha'Allah

Craiglist (or whatever similar site) Masterpost

I finally found this really informative post, been searching this for weeks. This is from an awesome longtime SB with really great advice posts @itsnecolbitch, whom already deactivated her account few months ago. Enjoy!!


Are you ready to give craigslist a try? Here are some ads that I have used in the past that worked for me. Pick any of them to choose from.

1. Undeniable Moments- (Insert City Here)


Would you like for me to spice up your night? Lets go out to dinner and lets have a great time. I have went on a few dates but I felt not only something was missing but also my time being wasted. Have you ever felt that way before? Would you like to meet a woman who is exciting and that you hit it off with mutually?

I would like to be spoiled.

2. It’s Never Too Late For Happy Hour- (Insert City Here)


You’re in the middle of a hectic project and you would like to go out for an evening or two. You are in fear of going alone. You don’t have to be afraid anymore as this is when I come to the picture. Your personal social butterfly is here to rescue you. Do you accept this challenge?

3. 777, Jackpot- (Insert City Here)


I am an attractive young lady. My goal is to meet a gentleman and I just hope that chivalry still exists. He must be well traveled as i love to talk about different destinations. I am interested in art, golf, and trying the best restaurants that (insert city) has to offer.

What you’ll learn about me is that I am an elegant individual with a sense of style.

Please be at least 35-55, as I prefer my men older.


4. Lonely Lunches & Dull Dinners- (Insert City Here)

I enjoy to be your oasis, you can forget the issues of everyday life in. I will be happy to experience times of adventure with you, and discover new worlds with you. When we are together, I’ll make you the center of your universe. I will be devoted to satisfying your desires. Just let the rhythm flow through your mind, body and spirit.


I’m not opposed to refreshing yet exciting experiences that make me grow as a person and evolve my professional possibilities. My primary goal is to find a gentleman who is sincere, honest and charitable.


5. Fountain Of Youth- (Insert City Here)

My ideal gentleman is someone who is financially secure as well as intelligent, older and knows how to keep a woman happy. If you are interested in leading more about this exciting opportunity let’s go out for drinks.

6. Discrete Daddy Wanted- (Insert City Here)

A little bit about myself, I am nice, have a bubbly personality, not to mention, I am a spicy, sassy, sweet, sexy petite mixed creature. I would like to be taken care of. Does it sound like you? If so, please email me. Gracias!

7. Establish An Agreement- (Insert City Here)

I enjoy the company of ambitious, successful, gentlemen. I thrive when expectations are clear and well defined in the beginning letting the rest take care of itself as it all unfolds.


I am seeking a gentleman who desires the benefits of companionship, without the entanglements of a traditional relationship. I would like to be spoiled and pampered.


8. The Ambiance- (Insert City Here)

People tell me I have an exotic look. Natural beauty by day, and dressed to the nines at night. I love the finest things life has to offer and will not settle for less. I am ready for fun and ultimately looking for one person to share my life with. I am attracted to powerful men. Honesty and loyalty are very important to me. I love black tie events, the opera, movies, both domestic and international travel, exotic/luxury cars, golfing, skiing and shopping. I believe in chivalry, romance, and sensuality.

I know what I want and when I find it, I will be off the market.


I spend my free time searching for the man of my dreams. He is worldly, educated, classy, fun, and sexy. A man that enjoys taking care of himself and the woman he is crazy about. A man that loves to travel, both planned and spontaneous.

9. Intelligence Is The Ultimate Aphrodisiac- (Insert City Here)


Don’t open the bottle of wine just yet. Just wait. Aren’t you missing something? No, I’m not talking about the appetizers or the main dish. You are missing, me.


My world is rich and diverse. My standards are high. I reserve the right to say no to invitations when appropriate.

I am most definitely not opposed to seeking an arrangement with a gentleman who is diplomatic, refined, exceptional and a philanthropic. You be will be impressed with my confidence along with my presence. I can’t wait to meet you.

10. Dinner With A Beautiful Woman- (Insert City Here)


I am a woman who enjoys having a man truly be a man and a provider. I like spending my time with a mature individual who knows how to treat a woman, and he knows how to make the most of each moment we spend together.

I am seeking a successful man who is interested in exploring a relationship that is mutually beneficial. I want to meet an individual who is open to new things and enjoying quality time.


After you have posted your ad, it’s time to play the waiting game.

You’ve got a response! What’s next? If it sounds intriguing, you can either do two things:

1. Send a personalized email about yourself and what you are looking for OR you can use my example spam message but of course you would have to reword it and it goes like this:

“Thank you so much for responding to my ad. I would love to get to know you better and hopefully you’ll give me the opportunity to do so. I hope you don’t mind my age as I am _____ years old, however I do consider myself as a young face with an old soul, therefore, I am comfortable in any setting. If you don’t mind me asking what exactly is your occupation because I do consider myself as an entrepreneur. I can’t wait to hear back from you.”

After you send that and he replies again, that means you are in there for scheduling a date. Remember to agree to meet at a public place.


Bonus tips: You are allowed to post at least 5 ads a day, so please post, never feel discouraged when they flag it.


1. Be very firm when they ask you what exactly you are looking for. When they ask, do not be shy. Tell him exactly this: At this time, I am looking for a gentleman who isn’t opposed to exploring a relationship that is rather mutually beneficial to as I have done something like this before and the experience was great to where I would like to try again. If he doesn’t know what that means, do not delete his email. Explain to him that in other words you are seeking a sugar daddy/sugar baby arrangement.


Good luck ladies!