The reverence on Tormund’s face when he said “You know her?”. Like I’m sorry but I genuinely believe Tormund’s has nothing but respect for Brienne. If she doesn’t return his feelings then fair’s fair. But him saying he wants to make children with her and gazing at her isn’t him intentionally being gross he’s in awe of her and sees her as an equal.
Okay so he’s a little lovestruck and obviously very oblivious to Brienne’s lack of response but wildlings are different to regular Westerosi people. Their customs and traditions are different so they probably have different strategy/approach when it comes to a potential mate. Tormund is a sweet character who hasn’t done anything intentionally misogynistic or importunate to Brienne.
Literally, you do not have to ship Tienne/Brienmund but please stop needless vilifying this character or this ship because it’s not your taste. Also please keep any negative comments out of the tag. Thank you.