I'm ace, my partner isnt. We have a healthy sexual relationship. The thing is everyone we know makes jokes about my asexuality being celibacy instead. Comments like I wouldnt understand or I just "don't do that sort of thing", making both my partner & me SUPER uncomfortable. We have a great relationship in every aspect- & sharing "uh actually we do have sex thanks" has a trigger fear of being "tmi" or opening a can of worms that ace=/=celibate. but the jokes from everyone are getting annoying.
URG that would be the worst. I’d hate it either way. I’d tell them firmly ‘hey, we don’t like those jokes, please stop.’ If they value your feelings they will work on stopping those sort of comments.