those are my happy little tags

We had a bought of hate on my blog a few weeks ago, and it has spurred me to promote self love even more than I already do. So that’s what we are doing today! Here we go!

  • Basil - courage & confidence
  • Rosemary - happiness & peace
  • Marjoram - love 
  • Lavender - love
  • Cloves - releasing negativity
  • Ginger - confidence
  • Rose (if you have it!)

Okay my little cuties, like always, light the candle you’re gonna seal up your jar with before you start, state your intention. I usually suggest taking some time to meditate or clear your head, to get yourself in a good mental state before you start this. But this time, I have a few other suggestions. If you’re like me you might find it hard to love current you, may it be because you’re not happy with who you are, where you are, etc etc. I think sometimes in situations like this, it’s a good idea to take time to think of yourself as “little you”, or the childhood version of you when starting out with this. This quote is something that helps me with this (I literally wrote it out and had it taped to my mirror for several years with a photo of 5 year old me) —

“Picture yourself when you were five. In fact, dig out a photo of little you at that time and tape it to your mirror. How would you treat her, love her, feed her? How would you nurture her if you were the mother of little you? I bet you would protect her fiercely while giving her space to spread her itty-bitty wings. She’d get naps, healthy food, imagination time, and adventures into the wild. If playground bullies hurt her feelings, you’d hug her tears away and give her perspective. When tantrums or meltdowns turned her into a poltergeist, you’d demand a loving time-out in the naughty chair. From this day forward I want you to extend that same compassion to your adult self.” - Kris Carr.

It helps me to think about little me, it makes me easier to love me, and then to love current me.
With that in mind, it may also be helpful to take time and write a letter to yourself, a letter of love and encouragement to either past you or future you, a letter overflowing with encouragement, compliments and love. Love the way you would love your best friend, your mother, your daughter, etc. Someone you love unconditionally, but let that person be you. Tell yourself all the amazing things about you, allow yourself to let go of all the things that you dislike, the things that aren’t relevant, because you’re actually fucking rad. You’re fucking amazing, you deserve to be showered in love, 10/10. You rock.

After you are feeling fucking amazing because you ARE, go ahead and layer in those ingredients, take some time pouring all that ooey-gooey self love into this jar, believe each of those layers and intents, honey!

Close it up, seal it up with wax (I have an easy tutorial here if you want to check it out!)

Take a bubble bath, make some hot coco, make some art, do something to make yourself feel loved and taken care of (because you fucking deserve it).

I want to see your recreations of this jar if you make it (you can @ tag me or tag witchy-woman in the tags, I check both!)

And if you want to see my other jars you can find those here.

I love you guys so, so, SO much. I hope you love yourself as much as I love you, because you deserve it, you are worthy of love, and you have the right to be loved and to love yourself. Anyone who says otherwise is a liar.

Have a beautiful day, my little witches. Happy crafting. <3

So I’ve reached my one year blogiversary! - I made this side blog due to a persistent need to draw these two idiots, mostly due to a certain bench scene and hair perfection (see my first post here). It’s been quite a wild ride since then but I’ve had a lot of fun becoming part of this little community of fans. Thanks to everyone that has encouraged me in my drawing and given me requests and comments and reblogs and likes and comments. Thanks especially to those of you who flail in the tags. That’s always a lot of fun for me to read. 

In honor of my first year here, I give you a back hug and happy Robron, god knows we need a little bit of that right now as we head into hell week. Perfect time to celebrate! Haha!

college! au shidge

I may not yet be in college but I am however still a student and really I just pulled these from my butt and accidentally ended up writing a fic ok anyways

  • shiro’s staring dumbfounded at his best friend’s little sister who managed to jump three whole years into his grade like H O W
  • them at the library and pidge cursing her smolness and shiro just hoists her up on his shoulder to the right shelf
  • for some reason they have a lot of classes together. A LOT.

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When Nightmares Come a' Knockin

Dean x Daughter!Reader

Warnings: The Big Bad Wolf

A/n: I’ve got so many daughter fics stacked up in my head. So prepare for more.

Forever Tags: @Freaksforthewin , @thewinhunter, @cambriacaneatnoodles, @brokennoone , @youtubehelpsmesurvive , @chrisevansthedoritobastard , @winchesters-favorite-girl , @we-know-a-little-about-a-lot @godh8salyssa @dean-baby-Winchester @straightasdeanwinchester@animexchocolate@fabulouslycassie@lizbeth-loves-bobear @nicolesyneah25 @lemonadegazeelle @i-am-an-outcast


It was a dream. Not one of those happy dreams little three year olds should be having, it was a nightmare. One where you were running so quickly your breathing picked up. Causing your chest to rise and fall heavily.

Just as the monster was closing in on you, you let out a screeching noise in fear inside of your dream. Yet somehow the noise manage to come from your sleeping body, sending your panicked dad rushing to your bedroom.

“Y/n?” Dean ran into the room, flipping on the light with a small pistol in his hand. The moment he saw you were passed out and had a look of fear on your face, he set the gun down.

He merely took a few seconds to regroup from thinking the worst. Rubbing his calloused hands over his face in relief before making his way over to you.

“Sweetheart, hey open your eyes baby.” His hands rubbed over your face gently, waking you up as easily as he could.

Two tear filled eyes shot open while your arms grabbed tightly onto Dean’s neck.

“The munsters was gon’ get me, Daddy.” You cried out in a muffled tone. Talking with your mouth against his shoulder.

“It was just a dream, there’s no monster.” Dean rubbed your back with one hand and held the back of your head with the other.

No! Munsters are real, Daddy! You an uncle says so!” Pushing away from Dean’s touch, you looked him right in the eye. “The big bad wolf was gon’ get my toes.”

“You remember what Uncle Sammy and Daddy do right?” He asked, wiping the tears from your crystal green eyes.

“Beat up munsters with Cassy.” You half sniffled, moving little strands of your brown hair out of the way.

“Daddy wouldn’t ever let any monsters get his little Princess.”

“Never ever never?” You asked, tilting your head to the side for reassurance with small puppy dog eyes looking up into his.

“Not ever. And Daddy’s got weapons to beat the bad guys and monsters up with.” Dean raised an eyebrow and nodded slightly.

“Like what?” You asked curiously. Your voice only barley hoarse from crying.

“Like these right here.” Balling up his fists he moved it forward a bit, making you giggle. “Now give me knuckles.” Just as he did, you balled your fist up as well. Pushing it to his.

As soon as you did, two hands scooped around to your sides. Tickling your ribs.

“If you see any monsters, what are you gonna tell em’?” Dean stood from your bed, covering you back up with your blankets.

“Daddy’s gon’ kick your butt!” You giggled with the most innocent of smiles.

“That’s my girl.” Bending down he placed a kiss on your forehead. “I’ll go take care of the big bad wolf for hurting my little girl. You get some sleep.” You nodded with a determined look on your face.

Turning off your light, Dean made his way to the kitchen to make some coffee. Sure it was only 1am, and he only got a few hours of sleep. But he promised he would make sure the monsters wouldn’t get you. And he meant it.

*Don’t delete text.* —December Challenge!!

September Challenge was amazing and I’d like to do another one before the year ends. If I get enough participation, it’s going to run throughout the entire month of December. Here’s how it goes: Each day I will be posting a work featuring the request of one follower —the content could be a song lyric, a quote or meaningful words; credits with link will be added on the description box. 

To be included, all you have to do is to:

♥ Be following me

 Message me what you want me to make a lettering of —whatever floats your boat but I will only take requests that are relevant and please don’t send me a paragraph.

You may include your FB and IG username (if you have one) only if you’re okay with me tagging/crediting you should I choose to likewise feature the work on those social media. 

I have never published an artwork on every single day of a month so this is definitely a challenge. I may fail or succeed but I aim to do my best and this is my way of saying thank you and spreading a little happiness to all my lovely followers before 2015 ends. <3

Leave Your Mark

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Pairing: Jeon Jungkook/Park Jimin (Jikook/Kookmin) (Side pairings: Namjin and Taesobe) 

Word count: Ongoing

Genre: Alpha/ Beta/ Omega dynamics. Romance. Smut. Alternate Universe: Future. 

Tags: Possessive Behavior. Smut. Fluff. Mating cycles. Sexual tension. Scent Marking. Breeding Kink. Pregnancy Kink. Mpreg. Beta turn Alpha Jungkook 

Rating: EXPLICIT

Author’s note:  Hello everyone!! I’m happy to introduce a little something that I’ve been thinking on since September of last year! I bet those who have been keeping up with my other fics are probably scared that I will abandon my other stories, but no fear!! I have a very clear plan! I will still be working on my other stories while working on this one too, so, unfortunately, this one will take longer to update because it’s only 7 chapters long! But, I still hope you will keep up with this one because this has been in the works for a while!


For betas, violence isn’t a necessity. For an omega, it’s their only solution to survival. You’re either strong or you’re either unfortunate. If you’re the latter, you’ll most likely find yourself forced on your knees in a dingy alleyway with a beta fucking you with a cock that’s gone unwashed for months. If you’re the former, you’ll land in a few punches, grab your pants before you make a run for it, and live another day before the cycle begins again

In a city where realistic goals are an intangible feat and dreams are extinct, Jimin doesn’t have many options. He doesn’t have much luck with strength or fortune, he’s a delivery boy. A delivery boy born with a small build, a pretty face, and a fully functioning womb, which apparently is the only attractive feature to betas trying to fit in alpha shoes. Strong or weak, Jimin lets no one touch him without his fucking consent. And maybe he gets into too many fights, maybe he’s looking for one, if that makes him strong, he sure doesn’t feel like it.

okay but imagine suburban dad sirius 

  • DAD JOKES BECAUSE SIRIUS PUNS WEREN’T ENOUGH ALREADY
  • at the same time he would be so torn in between “i’m dad” or “i’m always sirius” 
  • eventually he settles for a combination 
  • “are you serious” “I’M DAD SIRIUS!! GET IT? DAD SIRIUS” “you set yourself up for that one harry” 
  • he would exchange cooking tips and recipes with the suburban moms. and declare the slow cooker is the holy grail. anyone who says otherwise can fight him. 
  • his brownies would be the bomb. he dominates the bake sales every single time. remus and harry would try to filch a few before the sale but he glares at them and tells them to put it back very sternly 
  • he would also make harry eat his vegetables and scold remus for sneaking him chocolate 
  • the embarrassingly proud parent at soccer games 
  • seriously he would stand up and cheer and scream and clap the longest whenever he sees harry out there 
  • the game wouldn’t have even started yet 
  • MINIVAN DRIVING SIRIUS WHICH ACTUALLY HE LOVES.
  • he still has his motorbike which is his other baby but remus refuses to let him take harry on it 
  • he wouldn’t let harry sleep in his own room until he was 5 because his favourite thing was waking up in the morning to see little harry curled into remus’ arm and both of them sleeping with similar open mouths
  • basically a modern wolfstar au where they raise harry in a suburban muggle neighbourhood and they were worried about sirius standing out too much but he just happens to fit right in 
  • sirius didn’t ever dare to dream that he would ever be this happy. but he is, with his quiet life and little family. and he hopes james and lily can rest peacefully knowing their son is safe and loved. 

i never write headcanon posts, but this has been sitting in my drafts forever and i finally finished it! thank you to @merrymaraudering for helping me on this (all those months ago if you still remember) 

So I hit 4k followers, I’m so grateful that anyone follows me let alone 4k people so thank you all! Since this is another milestone for me I thought I’d do a little follow forever to show my appreciation to some of my faves on here and to shoutout some amazing blogs that keep my dash oh so lovely. ^.^ (mutuals are all bolded):

special mentions to my all time faves:

  • @rootsameens: One of my favorite people EVER. I don’t know what I’d do without this one. We talk everyday and I kid you not, every. single. day. If we don’t talk, something is wrong. I’ve never connected with someone so fast and easily like it still blows me. Anyways, Kelly > everyone. Facts only.
  • @evocatiio: Oh my gosh, where do I start with Sarah??? Probably my other half tbh, what don’t we agree on? We’re such dumbasses always talking to each other through tags and then get right on twitter and talk there too like…. we’re special lmfao. I wouldn’t trade you for the world, my fave always. Shaw Elitists till we die!!1

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This month marks one year of art journaling! These pages aren’t as good as those shown in previous posts imo because I’ve been busy with university lately and I’m low on inspiration. Hopefully once I’ve graduated in the summer I can get back into it. 

Thank you for all the tags on previous posts I read them all and they make me so happy <3

Happy Peeta Sunday!

Here’s a little Peeta eye candy to brighten your day!

That Jaw

Those Eyes

Dear Lord, The Hair 

Those Arms

That Stare

The Shy Smile

The Total Package

Borders

Chapter 1 - maybe? I’m trying this out, I saw a post a little while ago from @jackburtonsays asking about Loki fics where the OC is strong and doesn’t take Loki’s shit. But he’s still Loki, so he’s still a shit. And they slowly become friends, because Loki is a persistent fuck… and the romance/smut takes a while. Anyhoo… I was intrigued and wanted to give it a try. Let me know what you guys think, and if this is something you would like to keep reading! :)

As always, let me know if you want on/off my tag list :) 

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i finished  “The Hug”! óuò i kinda went a bit crazy with this i guess..but the scenes kept popping up in my head so yeah.. <:D i really hope you can read everything.. >_< sry if it’s too cheesy but..that’s just me. i need this.. úuù

also, THANK YOU ALL SO SO MUCH for all those notes <3 it makes me so happy that you love my little hug thingy so damn much! óuò i read every single tag and smile like an idiot because of your kind words and reactions <3 and thanks for following me! <333 i got a whole bunch of new followers and it’s just overwhelming that so many of you like what i’m doing <:D so..Welcome! i hope you enjoy your stay and i hope you like this comic just as much as i do! <:’D

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Happy Valentines Day!!

Well, since everybody else is doing it, I thought I might as well hop on the bandwagon too and give a shoutout to some pretty amazing people on this site that are very special to me and those who have made my experience on here better than I could have ever imagined! 

@purekagome (who else would be first other than my adoring wife?) WOMAN. I LOVE YOU. When we first started talking, it was all omg you’re so amazing, thank you, and aWWW YOU’RE SWEET and now you drive me fucking crazy and you make me wanna pull my hair out but you’re so freaking important to me and just I’m so glad we’re married and let’s make a baby. Right now. Thanks for putting up with my bullshit and cheating ways and general bitchiness lol love you babe! 

@inunanna HEY GIRL HEEEEYYYYY Nanna! <3 I remember before we were close when we would talk for hours about Inukag and Edwin headcanons and make up fanbabies and their personalities and ahhh it was so fun and all those conversations gave me so much inspiration and it created a relationship that I will cherish for the rest of my days! I love you sweetheart! <3<3

@vividxdreaming aahhH!!! Omg I’m so glad that we’re such close friends and just just just AAHHHHH you’re so importing to me! The first time we really talked I think was after I made that chocolate oneshot that you requested and our relationship just blossomed from there and then you became a part of our group chat and it’s the best decision that has ever been made. I love you girl!! <3 THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU AND BEING MY FRIEND!!

@grapefruitwannabe So we’re talking right now and I’m doing you in the chat and it’s so amazing BAHAHAHAH. and you liked it. and you even said it was great. SO AMAZING. But anyway Grape I LOVE YOU SO MUCH and you art so well omg and you even make fanart for my trashy fics and I’m just so faltered and honored and just. I’M SO GLAD WE’RE FRIENDS <3 I remember the first time you made fanart for me I literally freaked out and just. Yeah lol. <3 Thanks for being the awesome friend you are, Grape! ^_^

@bananacreamphi AAHHHH when you first joined our group chat, I didn’t know you very well, and I only knew you from a stream we were in together, but now I know you’re the sweetest person, you’re sincere, and I’m so blessed to have you as a friend I love you!! Thank you for being my friend!

@kuddle-cakes MY KUDDLES!!! <3<3<3 To be honest, I don’t even know how our friendship started XD but I’m so grateful to know you and you’re so freakig sweet and your sMUT IS AMAZING bahahaha! Okay seriously, I love you very much and just. I’m so blessed to have you in my life, thank you for being my friend darling! <3

@mmhinman Where do I even start?! My fellow Queen of Collab! :D Omg tho but your art is just SO AMAzING and god I just love it so much and I love youuuuu aahhhh you’re so important to me!! I love our little collars we do, we make beautiful music together XD Thank you for being my friend lovely! I love you! <3

@ryupioupiou !!!!!!!!! *excited noises* CROISSANTS. XD Man that still cracks me up lol Man I don’t even know how we became friends, but I’m so glad we did and you’re just so special to me and I freaking love you and our stupid inside jokes! You’re funny and sweet and just NEVER CHANGE I love you!!!!! <3

@dreamer-of-the-wandering-suns Girrrrrrrllllll where do I begin? You’re just the cutest, sweetest little thing and I just wanna squeeze you and never let you go <3<3 Remember I am always here for you if you ever wanna talk and I’ll do my best to help in anyway I can! You’re so important to me and I love you so much and just. Stay strong, beautiful! You got this, and keep being amazing! <3

@blacksteel-art ;LAJDFKALJKALJFALIJFALFJAAFJAF BECAUSE WE YELL GIBBERISH AT EACH OTHER AND FREAK OUT OVER EVERYTHING AND JUST YOU’RE SO AMAZING AND I LOVE YOU SO MUCH?!?!? AND I’M A HORRIBLE PERSON I STILL NEE TO FINISH YOUR ONESHOT BUT I WILL GET IT OUT I PROMISE! I LOVE YOU BABYGIRL <3<3

@meido-zangetsuha DOGYASHA IS MY SALVATION AND I LIVE FOR THAT FIC XD Okay seriously lol you’re so fun to talk to and I ADORE GNOCCHI OMG I LOVE HIM SO MUCH ALDJFALIFJLAIDJF I want to cuddle him heheheheeh But I love you too, Happy valentines day darling! Give Gnocchi love for me! OH AND YOUR NEW PUP KURASI!!! 

@inuyashaforlife Dude. my go to person when I can’t figure that stupid game XD Hahahaa. Well I’ll be honest, I don’t know you very well, but I do know you enough to include you in my close knit group of friends and I hope it stays that way! Love you doll! Thanks for being my friend! 

@kagomeforever AHHh You tag me in so many cool memes and stuff and I absolutely love filling those out so thank you for that! Also you’re such a sweetheart and I get so happy whenever I see that you tag me in something because it’s like “OMG SHE THOUGHT OF ME YAY I FEEL SO SPECIAL” and just tHANK YOU DARLING! I love you with all my heart too! <3

@artistefish Your art brings me life. Your aus. Just. OMG. NO words. You’re an amazing artist, and one of the sweetest people I know, and I love reading your sometimes random little posts about your everyday life and how excited you get over the Inuyasha stageplay (WHICH I ALSO CANT WAIT FOR OMG) and you’re amazing and I love you <3 Thanks for putting up with my fangirlingness XD 

@gypsin I LOVE YOUR STORIES SO MUCH AND I GET SO EXCITED WHENEVER I SEE AN UPDATE AAHHHH!! So I’m not gonna name names *coughgrapefruitcough* but I heard through the grapevine that you enjoy my fics and I know you’ve mentioned be before as a favorite author *INSERT FANGIRL SQUEALING HERE* and I just wanna say HOW FLATTERED AND JUST HAPPY I AM TO KNOW THAT AND I LOVE YOU OKAY!!! <3<3<3 THANK you for the quality fanfiction and for being so amazing and sweet! 

You are all so very, very special and dear to me and I hope you all know how much I adore each and every one of you. You’ve made my experience here on this wretched site so much more enjoyable than I thought it would be, and you’ve made me feel so welcome, loved and appreciated! Honestly, I really had no idea how amazing people I would meet and how all of you would become so special to me! Every day one of you do something that just makes me wanna cry because it just makes me so happy and just. SO MANY FEELS. ALL THE TIME. I LOVE YOU ALL SO MUCH YOU DON’T EVEN KNOW THANK YOU FOR PUTTING UP WITH MY WEIRDNESS AND  AND AND JUST. YOU’RE ALL AMAZING <3<3

I’m also gonna give a shoutout to some people who I don’t talk to as much, but I see in my notifications all the time and that I occasionally converse with and they’re people you should definitely check out! 

@coquinespike @jeanbeannie @nebula1701 @adorableears7 @kibitoshinkai @inukag-4ever @simply-zerah @inusgirl @brokenangelwings83 @rikareena @shardetector @morphinetune @lilifire @theroseangel321 @xkoiinu @blackwingguardian @dark-havoc-priestess @vixenfoxpaws @inuyashaeienni @inu-yaasss-a @sinuyasha @stoatsandweasels @wenchster @batmandy-lover @kaze-ranna @justafewsmallsteps @mustardyellowsunshine @akiza-hades-rose

I apologize if I forgot anybody, but please know that I love you all very much and I hope you have/had a great Valentine’s Day full of love, support, your favorite chocolate and wine and many many hugs and kisses from me!!! <3<3<3

It’s almost here! Samhain is next week, can you believe it? Time is flying on my end. I’ve been meaning to post this for over a week now, but am just now finding the time! Samhain is seen by some as the end of the “witch’s year” and bring this year to an end means letting go of this year and embracing the new! This jar focuses on letting go and making peace with your year and setting up your new intentions and preparing for your year to come.

  • ground ginger - welcoming adventure and new experiences
  • black pepper - banishing and releasing negativity from this year
  • sage - self purification for a blank slate 
  • anise - aide in finding happiness
  • cloves - for help in gaining what is sought

Like any of my jars, I recommend starting out with meditation, lighting the candle you will seal the jar with and taking time to clear your head and focus as much as you can on this. If it helps, I would also write down all of what you want to let go of, you can burn this or bury it if you want to. I also would recommend (witch or not!) to write out your intent and goals for the year to come so you have a physical reminder to meditate with and look at daily to keep yourself focused. Visualize these things while you assemble your jar and take as much time as you need! Seal your jar up (I have a tutorial here if you need help!) and meditate with it when you can to refocus your goals!

I know Samhain is usually associated with the fact that the veil is thin during this time, so spirit work is popular, but for those of us who don’t work with spirits, I wanted to bring something else to the table! (But I do have a divination spell jar if you do!)

I would LOVE (as always) to see your recreations, just tag me as a mention or a regular tag. All my other jars and originals can be found here. I hope this is helpful, and I would love to hear what you let go of/or your goals for the coming year if you want to share! 

Love you, little witches! Happy Samhain, and stay safe! 

xox

Witchy-Woman

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sufjan: Hello My Little Aubrey Drake Graham Cracker

drake: hey babe! i’m loving those wings

sufjan: Thank You I Painted Them Myself Using Pixie Tears

drake: so how’s your soundcheck going? sing me something!

sufjan: I Fell In Love Again, All Things Go, All Things Go, Drove To Toronto…

drake: ha! i love it

sufjan: Yes I Thought You Might Enjoy That Minor Lyrical Modification

drake: i do, i do… but hey, you don’t seem happy! what’s wrong?

sufjan: Well It Seems That This Effort To Document Our Improbable Yet Pulchritudinous Romantic Relationship Is Aggravating The General Populace

drake: what do you mean?

sufjan: The People Tag Our Dialogues With Phrases Such As “Delete This” And “I Am Screaming” and “This Is Literally The Worst Thing I Have Ever Seen”

drake: oh… sufy… babe… those are all good things, actually! i mean, i think? it’s just, uh… the cool thing now is to say the opposite of what you mean. like, if you see a funny joke, and you like it, you go, “i hate this! this is the worst!” 

sufjan: Oh! I Understand! So I Would Say - By Way Of Example - “Aubrey, I Hate You, You Are The Worst Thing I Have Ever Laid Eyes Upon, I Scream At You”

drake: there you go, haha… you’re getting the hang of it

sufjan: Thank You For Explicating This Strange Trend I No Longer Feel Morose

drake: no worries, babe… and remember, you can always come to me if you’re feeling sad! there’s never a bad time or place to talk about your feelings! remember: we run through the six. with our woes. together.

sufjan: Oh Aubrey… Delete This

katsa-the-graceling  asked:

Hey! I have a question for you. I currently have a story up on AO3, it's kinda angsty, and it doesn't end happy - meaning the two main characters don't get together. I don't have it tagged as unhappy ending or bittersweet or anything because I don't want to spoil the ending, and someone left a comment telling me it was really rude to not have that tagged. Do you tag to avoid upsetting people? Even when you spoil your own fics? I kinda don't know what to do. ❤️

Hey there! Tagging is one of those difficult things, in my opinion. It’s such a delicate thing, and everyone’s opinions seem to vary. Some people never want to tag while others tag every little thing, and a lot fall in the middle. I’m not very good at tagging because it’s something that really only started happening in fic archives in more recent years. I remember when we’d only warn for the Big Things, such as rape/non-con, incest, character death, etc. If something was particularly smutty/kinky, there’d be warnings sometimes if it wasn’t the standard kind of kinks (or more common kinks). So I still tend to think of the big warnings whenever I tag or warn for a fic I’ve written, and there are times when I might not tag something that turns off a reader. 

I got a rude comment once for having a reference to Scott/Lydia in a Sterek fic, which was a brief mention in one sentence, and not an actual ship in the fic, but it was assumed that I should have tagged because one reader disliked that ship. In cases like that, my general attitude is honestly fuck it. There are chances we take as readers when it comes to the content we read, and fanfic writers already provide a lot more warnings than you get in published fiction, where sometimes rape or incest or character death just happens with no tag/warning at all. I think warning for the most common things that might trigger someone is totally appropriate, but sometimes there’s going to be something that only a few readers might be offended by that is more of a personal squick/trigger that no one could really ever predict needing a warning. I mean, I have some random ass squicks, myself, and I can’t really expect authors to tag for those things that likely wouldn’t bother anyone else.

That being said, something that is an unhappy ending is more of a common squick/trigger for fandom, in general. A lot of people use fanfic as a nice escape from whatever RL world they want to forget for the length of an awesome fanfic. Unhappy endings for a ship can be like character death, in a way. I know that I will usually skim to the last paragraph of any fic that gives me hesitation on it being happy just to ensure the two leads end up together & no one dies or breaks up. 

When I’ve written a story that has a plot twist or something that I don’t want spoiled in the tags, I’ve added a tag that basically says ‘check A/N for spoilers if you have any squicks/nopes’ then I put a note in the Author’s Note part that states what the spoiler is. In Livejournal times, it was easier because you could hide the spoilers and those who wanted to make sure nothing was included that might bother them would just highlight to read. That way, you could warn for unhappy endings or bittersweet or hopeful endings without spoiling it for the readers who don’t care. 

In this case, I’m really sorry you experienced a rude comment! Those are always tough to deal with, especially in a situation like this where it’s sort of gray when it comes to tagging/warning for an unhappy ending. You might consider adding a spoiler note in the author’s note section then tag for a spoiler if you’d like to avoid spoiling the ending. You can also use some keywords like Angst and Bittersweet because those not accompanied by a ‘happy ending’ type tag tell me as a reader that it’s not likely going to be a happy ending without outright tagging unhappy ending.

I’m sorry if my ramble doesn’t help at all but I’ve got my fingers crossed that maybe it will! I hope you don’t take the rude comment to heart and let it bother you, though. Just keep writing & enjoy what you do because that’s what fandom’s supposed to be about! <333

anonymous asked:

question: why do you reblog so much whitewashed mccree art? it's really not fuckin cool

I’m sorry you feel that way, friend.

I went through and looked at my blog and out of the most recent bunch there’s maybe three or four pictures where he’s not darker than Hanzo to some degree, but I hear what you’re saying. Y'all know me and how I feel about McCree’s race, and how in my head canon he’s either Hispanic, American Indian, or a mix of those. However, I try my best to share with y'all the highest amount of McCree, Hanzo, and McHanzo content I can. As such, I just kinda dig in the tags and go through people’s blogs reblogging everything I can. So if there’s posts that don’t quite fit that standard, I’m truly sorry! My goal here is quality while also bringing in a large quantity, so sometimes things aren’t all perfect.

So I guess what I’m sayin is I’m happy you felt like you could talk to me about it, if maybe a little more polite, but I can see why you’d be upset so it’s totally justified. I’ll try to hold work to a higher standard but I’m just one person so it may still slip through, so please try to be patient with me. I appreciate you lookin out for the blog!

anonymous asked:

HC that after Beka and Yura were done eating Katsudon they just flopped over and fell asleep. Unconsciously they started cuddling and drunk!Viktuuri took pictures of them and that's why Yura was screaming bloody murder and throwing pillows at them~

Sweetness of this just killed me~
Perfect! Yura would be so pissed, but can you imagine giggling Viktuuri, not even little bit sorry?? And Beka would have no idea if he should be happy or awkward so he would just look at them <3