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So I replied to another post regarding the topic, I might’ve misread it actually >>; but nonetheless I wanted to point out a small thing.

That hey, yea, we artists tend to follow the same formula for creating appealing characters, and it’s totally still going on, it sells, and it’s hard to argue with that.


I honestly might not draw many varieties for a while since I’ve fallen for the appeal trap too, (If I ever get around to doing stories or such I’ll definitely try for a variety!) but just remember that outside of this artist problem, that looks don’t truly matter yakno. So I don’t want anyone thinking about trying to ‘perfect’ yourself to be like those characters or those people advertisements that are totally photoshopped.

So long as you’re proud of how you are and how you look, others will think so too. Love your body everyone~ For after all, it’s worked hard to be there for you no matter what … !

(I couldn’t really remember a lot of genetic/permanent-changes for drawing up the 3 character designs ehheh; but I tried to go for a bit of variety - Removed jaw, anorexia, visible bones, gigantism, scars, stretch marks, burns, missing limb, excess body fat, etc. Anyone wanna adopt ‘em btw?)

school is so lonely!!! and isolating!!! and depressing!!!!

ok i have an honest question

we all know about the horrible tweet abcfpll made where they not only mis-gendered charlotte but also called her “it” which is probably the grossest thing i’ve ever seen, but is it wrong that characters, before knowing charlotte’s backstory, mis-gendered her? like when hanna said “him her it bitch” or whatever. hanna was not aware of the situation, so does that make it offensive? i’m cis and i don’t feel like i’m in the place to say what’s offensive or not, and i certainly don’t want to let something offensive on the show slide by unnoticed. i honestly don’t know how to feel about this. so what are y’all opinions on this? if a character is unaware is it still offensive to have them say something like that? hopefully no one gets horribly angry at me for this post, i’m genuinely trying to understand. thanks.

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took THREE MONTHS for this shit to arrive but hey I GOT A TAEMIN PHOTOCARD 

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Jace and Alec - edit for paraboyfriendbatai

“’But the day you asked me to be your parabatai, I knew you meant that you trusted me enough to ask me to help you. You were telling me that you weren’t the lone and self-sufficient warrior able to do everything alone. You needed me. So I realized that there was one person who didn’t assume you were better than me. You.’”

drabble: steve/natasha

Rating: PG-13
Word Count: ~1,600
Characters: Steve/Natasha
Prompt: Imagine your OTP slow-dancing to a love song, with Person A quietly singing the words in Person B’s ear.

A/N: So much fluff it will smother you. Seriously, there’s no plot to be found.

Excerpt:

She smiles, because she hasn’t really been able to stop all day. It’s the cheesiest thing in the world, but whatever.

It’s fine. It’s her wedding day.

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anonymous asked:

i love stydia so much, but i honestly don't think that lydia has feelings for stiles right now. what do you personally think they both feel for each other?

I think it’s been there for a while I just don’t think she knows it. Maybe it’s just how Holland plays things but the way she looks at him sometimes makes me thing that she does she’s just not aware because this isn’t like every other time.

 Every other time there has been physical attraction, flirtation, and then whatever it becomes (we can see this by how Lydia reverts to season ½ Lydia every time she talks to Parrish). 

With Stiles it is slow. Very slow. So slow that she’ll be half way in love by the time she realises.

A Few Thoughts About The Ashley Madison Hack

First, as a starting point, this article: The Dark Side of the Ashley Madison Hack That Nobody’s Talking About

Full Disclosure: I once signed up for an Ashley Madison account as a fictious female so I could gather data about their profile options for gender and sexual identities.

I’m generally okay with exposing hypocrisy of public leaders.

I’m generally not okay with exposing the personal details of anyone else without their permission.

And I’m generally all about encouraging and empowering adults to love each other and have sex with each other in whatever mutually fulfilling ways they want.

And while I don’t generally support cheating, I also definitely don’t think anyone should ever be put to death for it. Or face criminal charges at all.

Ashley Madison is marketed at cheaters, but as a dating website focused on discretion, it also appeals to all kinds of people who want discretion. Folks who are marginalized for all kinds of reasons around sexuality often want discretion around dating.

This includes LGBTQ folks!

This includes non-monogamous folks! (Yes, including cheaters, but also including ethical, honest non-monogamous folks!)

This includes folks who are into kink, BDSM, fetish, or other sorts of consensual, unconventional sexual desires!

This includes sex workers (and those they work with)!

This includes HIV-positive folks!

When we condemn or punish people for wanting discretion, we further marginalize people who wanted discretion because they were marginalized already.

imbluestarshine asked:

bunny, sure u know this, but after seeing a previous question, thought i'd tell u blight is more appropriate. plight is a dangerous situation or pledge. blight, however, is be a plant disease or a state of neglect/rundown condition (usually of a city). the song specifically says "own". most people don't put themselves in dangerous situations. at least not on purpose. my guess the "blight" being talked about is a personal state of neglect or harm, i.e. someone going down a self-destructive path?

Either work, so it’s totally fine. :) I think I flip flipped beforehand, so the finality is almost alien to me. The work for me, just keeps changing after its set in stone for you guys. But, whatever it is on the album…and I’m not quite sure because bs and ps sound the same…is good.
Guess you’ll have to listen to the album and see why I chose the words I did.

You Catch Him Staring/How You Met. (Kai)

Hi! I’m B, and I just started this account. I finally got the courage and the time to make a fan account, I’ve loved EXO for a few years and they literally made me push all the other fandoms I’m in away and just focus on them. I don’t know what it is but, its the affect they have on me. 

So if you guys want to request anything just click HERE! I do imagines (not personal), and scenarios/preferences (whatever you like to call them :) )

ENJOY!

Y/C/N- Your Country’s Name


Originally posted by yourbiaslikesitrough

You walked into the lobby of an hotel, you were only here for a little get away, a ‘trying to find yourself’ thing. You packed some of your favorite clothes in a small suitcase and left with no one knowing. 

Luckily in your case while you were in high school instead of taking Spanish or French like everyone else, you took Korean. (Sorry if this is wrong let me know if there’s any errors) You learned as much as you could within those four years and now here you are, in South Korea. You were talking to the man at the front desk, until he told you that you would have to wait just a little bit, as the maid was cleaning the room you will be staying in. 

You sighed and sat down on a couch, they were strangely comfortable. You closed your eyes and rolled your head around, stretching your neck from the long flight. 

After having your eyes closed for a minute or two, you felt somebody watching you. You opened your eyes and looked forward, no one. You began to slowly look around. There was barely anyone here. Then  you spotted them, well him

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ziegsden In regards to this post since my original response was eaten by tumblr mobile…

I am so sorry to hear you had to go through this, Ziegs. I know I am a person who knows nothing about the entire situation and that I am far away from you. I just want to wish you well, to take great care of yourself, and to stay safe. This should not have happened. You should not have lost friends in this way. It is really disheartening to hear that your last encounter with Cry appears to have ended on a sour note. A note that should have been handled better.

I must say I have been irritated and disappointed with Cry ever since you left. I am well aware I am only a viewer who should overall not have much say in the lives of the past and current LNC members. However, this particular set of issues has arisen on numerous occasions and a significant portion of the LNC followers can smell it. Given Cry’s past of being somewhat receptive to criticism and conflict resolution, I thought he would have given you the decency of a fair sendoff.

I understand how Cry tries to keep his personal life and Internet persona separate. We, as viewers, only catch a glimpse of what he allows us to see. There comes a point, however, when you can no longer compartmentalize your personal life from your livelihood of streaming video games with friends. A certain image and atmosphere is put in place, which includes who you associate with and how you treat others. What is occurring on the LNC streams and behind the scenes is bad practice in conflict resolution and business. It is something that is damaging Cry’s name and the content he creates. How he chooses to resolve this in the future is entirely dependent on him and it is something I do not want to see him have to choose between.

I wish happiness for Cry and Cheyenne just as much as any other member of the LNC (past and current). I have tried to give Cheyenne the benefit of the doubt. Life is tragically complicated after all and I always and still think she has so much more going on than we all realize. There are nice moments on the stream when she is present, such as the ending of Phoenix Wright. But this absolutely does not excuse how the atmosphere she takes part in influenced you, Ziegs, to be driven to suicide ideation.

Even more a stab in the heart, by your account it sounds like Cry did not care enough to acknowledge your misery. I admit I know not his thoughts on the matter. What disturbs me is how he seems to not take this matter seriously, which contrasts glaringly to his thoughts on the subject of suicide and depression. Any follower of his content should be aware of how he reacts to this subject matter as seen in the end of the Heileen stream as well as Beyond: Two Souls.

This is not a sustainable situation. All relevant parties involved need to come together and work out a resolution privately. Ignoring these issues is only going to allow them to fester with more problems created that will need to be answered for in the future. I do not want to see this happen.

I am still loyal to the LNC for reasons I will not get into, but I feel compelled to write this after hearing some leveled advice several streams ago from msf-actual.

Ziegs, I wish brighter days will come your way. You are brave for coming forward and you are loved. Take care and hopefully I’ll see you on your own streams.

anonymous asked:

It's Oliphen ladies and gents! He's so cute and the squinting makes it hard to believe he's not talking about the same person.

Stoliver! Yes, his love for Felicity is strong, but “pretty” and “sexy”… those comments are about someone else, you know…

I think he actually loves blurring the lines, he always says things like: “There’s obviously something that, you know… that certainly makes her attractive to me”. And then he’s like “oops… I meant “to Oliver”… whatever”

swampseer-main asked:

Shit// tell me what I need to know! I'm so ready

Doing this one right now because I can SO WHATEVER. 

Blockage / Self-Spirit

WHOAH, WHOAH, WHOAH. Okay. Tell me why I named these like this because it makes it SO MUCH HARDER TO READ THESE CARDS. ALTHOUGH LET’S BE HONEST HERE. WHAT DOES ACE OF SWORDS MEAN WITHOUT TAROT CONTEXT. SOME DUDE IS STANDING THERE WITH A SWORD, WAITING FOR YOU TO UNDERSTAND WHAT HE MEANS. BETTER BE CAREFUL ABOUT TEN OF SWORDS, THAT GUY IS JUST DROPPING MEDIEVAL WEAPONRY ANYWHERE, YOU HONESTLY SHOULD BE CONCERNED ABOUT WHY HE COLLECTS THOSE AND WHY HE HAS THEM ON HIS PERSON CONSTANTLY. ALSO, EIGHT OF CUPS? WHO WAlKS AROUND WITH EIGHT CUPS? 

I digress. ANYWAYS I PULLED TWO CARDS BECAUSE I LIKE YOU. DON’T READ INTO IT. OR DO. WHATEVER FREE COUNTRY. YOU NEED TO KNOW THAT THERE IS SOMETHING IN YOUR WAY AND IT’S GOING TO AFFECT YOU PERSONALLY. WHAT IS IT? DAMNED IF I KNOW. I DON’T HAVE A CARD FOR THINGS THAT ARE IN THE WAY OF OTHER THINGS. IT WOULD BE RATHER CONVENIENT IF I COULD JUST DRAW A CARD AFTER ASKING, WHAT IS IN MY WAY, AND OUT POPS THE ‘DOOR’ CARD AND I CAN JUST GO, HEY SWAMP WATCH OUT FOR THAT DOOR. OR HEY SOMEONE IS GOING TO BLOCK YOU INTO A PARKING SPOT. OR LIKE YOU WILL BE SLIGHTLY INCONVENIENCED THIS MORNING BY SOMETHING YOU LEFT OUT ON THE FLOOR LAST NIGHT. 

I SHOULD MAKE A DECK LIKE THAT. WOODEN DOOR. GARAGE DOOR. ARCHWAY. VAULT DOOR. CABINET DOOR. I’M REALLY CONSIDERING THIS. 

Send me feedback cause I know you will. 

People of Orlando,

Hi.

If anyone goes to UCF or SSC or even Rollins, honestly come say hi. I’m a pretty chill art geek/geek of other natures and a pretty awesomely weird person, but cool to hang with. There’s so many concerts coming up I want to go to but need new friends who like the same music as me! I’m always down to go hang at Austin’s and get tea or go for a burger somewhere. Sushi date with friends? Count me in. Want to go see a play? HOLLA at your girl. Whatever is good. Netflix marathons? Count me in. Doodle sessions while we get coffee? That’s my kind of night. That or just straight hanging! Won’t bite, I promise. I just need more people to hang with in this city. ****Not trying to date, just looking for friends.

Today at school some kid was asking my teacher about test results and he told the guy that the person with the highest score got x grade, whatever. Anyway, it eventually got to the point where my classmate asked “is the person who got that grade a boy or a girl?” and my teacher responded with “I don’t know what they identify as, c'mon guys. It’s 2015.”

The world is changing so much and honestly that one comment by my teacher made me so happy. People are becoming more aware and educating themselves, and it is just amazing

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happy birthday yessenia (ofsmackle​)! so, yes, i suck at those and you already know that, but hey, you’re sixteen! which, i’m still convinced, is a big lie because you’re 5, but whatever. so i just want to say that i love you so much and i haven’t gotten attached to a person i met online as i got attached to you in such a long time and i’m really happy i could get to know you. you’re definitely one of the most important people to me, probably since the moment we met, because we started getting along so quickly. this is probably not going to be some long ass post, but mostly because i never know how to put things in words, but i’m willing to say i got pretty damn lucky to have you. and hey, remember when you told me that i should gif you one day? well, uh clearly i just did. so yeah, HAPPY BIRTHDAY and just keep being the biggest ray of sunshine i know and just stay being positive and you deserve everything that’s the best for you and you should definitely become the goddamn actress. i’m also really hoping we can meet in person one day, i’m pretty sure i’d annoy the hell out of you, but you’d love me anyways! te quiero, desde el fondo de mi corazón.

Okay, I just thought of something. I’ve known people who are on very different sides of the debate, so I’d like to hear from types of people who tend to be more on the side of “language is malleable” or, for that matter, whatever you believe about English.

Reblog this post if you personally are okay with people using the world “literally” as a colloquial adjective (as a word before verbs, like “literally dying”). 

Like this post if it annoys you when people say “literally” when in context what has happened, is happening, or will happen is not literal at all. 

Like and reblog this post if you have no idea what all the fuss is about and grammar isn’t terribly important to you. 

Moving This Week

After serious new developments, and much back and forth discussion with some family out West, it was finally decided today, that this next Wednesday I’ll be flying out.

I can’t get into much detail, out of respect for privacy, but it may be that I end up selling nothing, but just getting rid of everything ASAP. One person in my family will be staying behind to wrap things up where I am now, and move out with whatever can be loaded into our one car later.

During that time, my phone will be with them (they don’t have one of their own) so I won’t get to be in touch with a lot of you for some time, until I get my phone (and family member) back.

TO MY GUILDIES

Thank you SO MUCH rhovinthorne and azerothiantales for giving me the time to have such a GREAT month with you and camilluscactus and auorora and duskbladed and everyone!

Some of you know that Idry offered me another month of time. Initially I didn’t know if I wanted to say “yes” or “no,” because there were some things about being back in the game again that I felt I just needed to take a breath away from after my time was up; that even if I said “yes” I would still need a bit of a break for a while before using the time.

NOT that I ever want a break from any of YOU. *tighthug* You’re all the best, it’s just the GAME I’d need a break from for a bit. Big difference there.

In any case, I told Idry yes, but it looks like even regardless of anything else, it will be a while before I can use the time. Have to get settled into my own place out West and get to a point where I’m in a new daily routine, so to speak, before I can sit back and chill with all of you in Azeroth again. It may be months before I even have my own computer again. (At least I’ll have my phone back soon enough.)

I’ll be in touch as often with all of you as I can, I promise. WISH ME LUCK!

anonymous asked:

I'm a little confused here...whose being selfish Regina or Emma?? And why would Regina be selfish she is trying to change I don't think being selfish helps at all...I think Emma is the selfish one because she wants to be free and do whatever she wants with her life right??

Again, I wasn’t there so I don’t know what happened. But I don’t think Emma is a terrible person for being a little selfish. My hashbrown captainswanouat has some thoughts about this too lol

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