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anonymous asked:

I've recently ended a relationship with a girl who identified as a lesbian. I'm not a lesbian- I'm bisexual, but this always seemed to be a bit of a problem for her. She would always make barbed comments about how I'd been with men before I'd been with her, and now it's stung me so much that I can't help but feel that in the future, I should just tell girls I'm gay instead of bisexual in case it happens again. What should I do? I hate thinking that I should hide who I am.

No. You definitely should not do that. You should be open about being bisexual. If someone is with you because you told them you were gay, but they wouldn’t want to be with you if they knew you were bisexual, why the actual fuck would you want to be with them anyway? You should be with someone who loves you for you, not a lie you told them. People who won’t date bisexual people, or as I and many others like to call them, assholes, aren’t worth your damn time at all. Being bisexual is a fucking wonderful thing, your sexuality is a wonderful part of who you are and there are so many people out there that will see that; you shouldn’t give those that won’t any of your time. 

anonymous asked:

You are sitting here complaining about people who are telling you that bashing someone else's life and bringing them down is awful and hurtful. But you talk about your anxiety. If you have anxiety and know how it feels, why in hell would you put someone else in the position to feel that. Briana, Eleanor, etc. what "antis" are saying is that you are ruining someone else's life just for your own benefit but don't seem to care or realize that. It's absurd. It's hateful. It's bullying.

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What are five things that make you want to get up in the morning?

My two cute yet annoying dogs, my friends, food, checking to see if BTS or SVT have tweeted anything, and food.

What food makes you the happiest when you’re able to eat it?

Any kind of food makes me happy honestly lol

Would you rather spend the day relaxing at the beach or have an thrilling day at an amusement park?

Considering that I hate the heat I’d rather spend a day at an amusement park. There’s a lot more things to do at an amusement park than at a beach anyways.

How would you cheer up a friend that’s feeling down?

I usually listen and try helping them the best I can by telling them some funny stories that have happened to me in the past stuff like that.

You’re feeling down; How would you want someone to cheer you up?

I’d want them to do the same thing and distract me of the things that are upsetting me.

What’s your favorite animal and why?

I really love dogs like I’m the type of person that’ll squeal of joy when I see one walking in the streets. Like no matter the size or breed they just bring me happiness lmaoo

What’s your favorite color?

Neutral colors are my fav

Are you an early bird or a night owl?

Mostly a night owl

Do you prefer the daytime or the nighttime?

Nighttime

Do you want kids in the future? If so, how many?

I don’t want kids but if I do happen to change my mind I just want one.

What is a snack you would be caught sneaking at midnight?

Chips, hot cheetos to be exact. (Reason why I never have clear skin sigh)

What is your ultimate goal or aspiration?

My ultimate goal in life is to work in the broadcast media field. I really enjoy directing and script writing.

Would you put a friend before yourself if they were in need? How would you help them?

Of course I’d put my friend before myself. I would help them in anyways possible.

Are you a problem solver or a shoulder to cry on?

A shoulder to cry on.

How would you show a friend you care about them?

I’d always answer their calls and always be there for them.

List all the hobbies you’re most passionate about.

Writing and photography

Name your top songs that are on repeat all day.

GFriend- Distance

Snuper- Polariod (Day Ver.)

Boi B ft Rhythm Power- 호랑나비

Sonamoo- Closer

Lovelyz- 1cm

List five things you love about your bias.

His gummy smile he’s honestly such a smol.

When he bites his bottom lip bless.

How selfless he is like he seriously made gifts for his fans on his birthday.

His passion for music.

How good he looks with a denim snapback.

What is your favorite TV show?

Show Me The Money, Unpretty Rapstar, How to Get Away With Murder, Grey’s Anatomy and Weekly Idol.

Dedicate a song to a friend or lover.

Can’t Help Myself by Eric Nam would be a song I’d dedicate to my crush.


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anonymous asked:

1, 30, 41, 12 Ur pretty cool btw

NOOOOOOO YOU ARE COOL ^~^

1- tell me the truth, what made you start liking the person you like right now?

It started with a beautiful friendship, so… all the talking and secrets whispered at 4am calls on summer

30-  when was the last time you talked to one of your best friends?

today actually! this reminds me I should answer her message tbh

41-  if someone liked you right now, would you want them to tell you?

hmmmm, to be true, no. I’m in a happy relationship, so I wouldn’t be able to correspond the feelings

12-  is there something you would like to say to someone?

some evil things ^~^i don’t know how to say to someone that i hate her, but it would be amazing if i could hahahahahah

THANK YOU FOR ASKING 

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anonymous asked:

This is a weirdly specific question. have you ever been in a situation where someone has said that they hate one of your relatable characters (e.g. Armin) and they hate the character for reasons that you can relate to the character. how do you like handle that situation? I was just wondering since i find myself in a similar situation myself. It makes me feel personally insulted when someone hates a character for certain personality traits, but I also have those personality traits.

Sorry for the lateness of this reply! D: I haven’t been doing so well at keeping on top of my asks lately. ‘OTL To answer your question, I can’t say that I’ve faced that exact situation myself, however I definitely know how it feels to have someone insult a character that they know means a lot to you. I think it’s ok to calmly but firmly tell them that you’re hurt that they would insult a character that they know means a lot to you and provides you with comfort, and to say that while you respect their opinion, that it’s not nice to say those things in front of you. I’ve had this happen with entire series as well, where bullies in school would bad mouth cartoons which they knew meant a lot to me right to my face, and that’s how I’ve learnt to deal with it. I hope that helps! ^^