Fours are self-aware, sensitive, and reserved. They are emotionally honest, creative, and personal, but can also be moody and self-conscious. Withholding themselves from others due to feeling vulnerable and defective, they can also feel disdainful and exempt from ordinary ways of living. They typically have problems with melancholy, self-indulgence, and self-pity. At their Best: inspired and highly creative, they are able to renew themselves and transform their experiences.

  • Basic Fear: That they have no identity or personal significance
  • Basic Desire: To find themselves and their significance (to create an
  • Enneagram Four with a Three-Wing: “The Aristocrat”
  • Enneagram Four with a Five-Wing: “The Bohemian”

Key Motivations: Want to express themselves and their individuality, to create and surround themselves with beauty, to maintain certain moods and feelings, to withdraw to protect their self-image, to take care of emotional needs before attending to anything else, to attract a “rescuer.”

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to my new followers.

You’re probably here because of that graphic I made. Just know that things like that rarely happen around here and I am seriously side eyeing your judgement right now. But otherwise hello, lovelies!

Now bulletpoints!

  • I’m Heather.
  • 21 (almost 22).
  • Too attached to fictional characters, they make me feel feeeeeelings.
  • I post a lot.
  • A lot.
  • As in more than than just Harry Potter.
  • Which is probably why most of you are here.
  • jsyk. Enjoy the ride.
  • This would be more witty if it was socially acceptable to drink during the daytime.
  • Welcome to the lovely adventure that is my blog.

lenalasirena asked:

4. do you like your name? is there another name you think would fit you better?

I like it!! I don’t hear it very often and I feel like I make it my own, if that makes sense. I don’t always think of myself in relation to my name, though–I’m an “I” not a “Helena” and if I think of myself as “Helena” too often it gets chewy and strange in my brain. I always thought Naomi would suit me as well and that was the pretend name I used when me and the other girls in my girl scout troop pretended to have different names to fool camp leaders