this wasn't bad. it was worse

anonymous asked:

I just don't feel quite so strongly about the ep as most seem to? I mean, it wasn't a good ep and yeah it was shitty to kill Eileen on top of just being bad writing. But it seems that each season has "that episode." I choose to look at the season as a whole. I'm vastly enjoying the season overall and i'm just not having a hard time shrugging this off as a bad ep by bad writers. I too wish they wouldn't keep doing this, but if i was that tired or focused on the bad i'd quit watching.

(cont) That probably came across worse than i meant for it too:P I just mean that that’s my personal attitude and coping mechanism. If i know realistically nothing’s going to make me stop watching the show, I have to process things different and have a certain outlook. Does that make sense? Again, sorry if I sounded rude!

Hey there! And no, that doesn’t sound rude at all. I mean, that’s the attitude I typically take as well…

And I would absolutely NOT have objected to literally anything else in that episode. I would be standing up for every other bit of it… IF THEY HAD NOT KILLED THE BADASS DEAF HUNTER IN THE FREAKING COLD OPEN.

I’d been willing to overlook the grossness of 12.02 and 12.08 (same writers!) with Sam’s sexualized torture and the skeevy noncon of Lucifer impregnating Kelly like that. I’d rolled my eyes at the time travel fuckery in 12.13 (same writers!) and I thought 12.17 was a mostly solid episode aside from Kelly being a two-dimensional character (not the actresses fault, the idiotic writing).

I’d found things to defend in all of those episodes, because the subtextual through-line of the entire season stuck… 

But honestly? Eileen’s death served one narrative purpose: Tearing down two seasons worth of subtextual through-line.

Like, completely negated the entire point of all of it.

It didn’t serve to tell us that Ketch was a Very Bad Man. WE ALREADY KNEW THAT.

It didn’t serve to tell us that the BMoL were terrible people. WE ALREADY KNEW THAT.

There was A LOT of similarity to 10.21, in that it required characters to be idiotic in order for the surface layer plot to work. AND THAT IS SHITTY WRITING ALL AROUND. And I usually find at least ONE thing to defend, because I do try to stay positive, too. I’m sorta notorious for it.

But consider:

HOW MANY REMINDERS HAVE SAM AND DEAN HAD ALL SEASON THAT THE BUNKER WAS NOT SAFE FROM THE MOL?

  • Toni let herself in in 11.23 AND SHOT SAM AND BANISHED CAS
  • Ketch showed up there in 12.14
  • Mick let himself in in 12.17

And even after Mick told them IN ACTUAL WORDS That every MoL safehouse around the world used the same key, and there were theoretically hundreds of them floating around out there… WHY THE FUCK DIDN’T THEY CHANGE THE LOCKS?!

WHY DID THEY KEEP GOING BACK THERE WHEN THEY KNEW THE PLACE WAS NOT SECURE?!

WHY DID THEY TAKE TONI BACK THERE AFTER GOING THROUGH ALL THAT TROUBLE TO KIDNAP HER?

EVEN AFTER THEY DISCOVERED A LISTENING DEVICE THERE?!

Like… Why didn’t they take her to some skeevy motel or something? What was the point of bringing her to the bunker?

Then one of the things Ketch did during their quick jaunt to trap Toni was to disable ALL the electric, water, and ventilation systems AND CHANGED THE FUCKING LOCKS.

Good job guys.

Obviously they weren’t expecting Mary to have been brainwashed and that kinda caught them wrong-footed in that respect, but SHEESH.

And Crowley… I mean, good for him jumping into the rat, but WHY THE FUCK DID HE EVER THINK HE COULD KEEP LUCIFER ON A LEASH IN THE FIRST DAMN PLACE?

AND WHY WOULD ANY OF US EVEN CARE?! I was happier when I thought Amara killed Luci back in 11.22. I’ve tolerated his presence in the narrative this season because there did seem to be a point to it, up through 12.07… but really. I just do not care about Lucifer.

Crowley working with the BMoL smacked of the deal he’d attempted to make with Dick Roman back in s7. I figure he’s the source of a lot of the BMoL’s actually GOOD intel, because in every other respect their intel has absolutely sucked.

Toni scored a hit on Mary with her description of John’s parenting of Sam and Dean tonight, and I assume that came from Crowley. He’s probably been slipping them tidbits from the Supernatural books here and there…

I’m having a hard time believing he’d have slipped the info about the Colt at Ramiel’s house to them, because he KNEW it would blow back directly on HIM if anyone bothered any of the princes of Hell… Seems like a risky move to send the BMoL after him and stir up that nest of hornets.

But at least Sam and Dean know the truth now, that the BMoL are wiping out hunters. That they killed Eileen, and all the rest.

BUT SHE DID NOT HAVE TO DIE.

Really, all Sam and Dean needed to hear were two things, and that would’ve been enough to convey the same level of upset:

  1. That Ketch killed Magda, as well as the soldiers in 12.09
  2. That Mary’s mission at Ramiel’s wasn’t just to hunt the demon, but TO STEAL THE COLT

That’s it. Just TELLING them both these two things (and honestly Sam already knew point 2, but it would’ve infuriated Dean) would’ve inspired the right level of outrage in each of them.

They showed us Mary brainwash-edly killing Random White Hunter Dude and FINE OKAY, but really Ketch and his hellhound could’ve picked ANY “hunter” to kill in the cold open and it would’ve served the same purpose.

The fact that it was a disabled female character pretty much universally beloved by the fandom who was a successful hunter and a friend to Sam (SERIOUSLY?! SAM MAKES ONE (1) DAMN FRIEND AND YOU HAVE TO KILL HER?!) even leaving out the wild rash of Saileen shipping and excitement that Sam might have something with her in canon someday, it’s just sickening to me.

Anyway, I’ve got a headache and I think I’m losing coherency. I think I’ve run through all my steam. 

anonymous asked:

He wasn't fazed by Sakura getting warped into another dimension because he knows his wife is competent enough to handle herself. And are you seriously going to compare that to Naruto getting stabbed (where it obviously looks more life threatening than Sakura's case)? You SNS fujoshis always absolve your gay ship of it's glaring flaws, but never neglect to mention how abusive SS apparently is. Newsflash: your ship is bad, if not worse than SS. And at least I can acknowledge the flaws with SS.

Sasuke himself has had to save her plenty of times. He can’t be sure of her safety. AT ALL. Either way, if he really loved her as much as you claim…he would have been seriously worried. 

You seriously think this had literally ANY chance of KILLING NARUTO??? Naruto himself had no reaction but a frown, that’s it. It didn’t pierce his heart, lungs, neck, etc. You know, places where he might actually be at any serious risk. That would not kill even a normal person and this is Naruto, for fuck’s sake. Sasuke knows that Naruto has survived MUCH worse, before he even went through puberty. Sakura was in a much more dangerous position. They could have easily killed her, before help arrived. 

As expected, you want to call me a fujoshi but don’t even really know what that means. If that was the case, my blog would be full of porn and there’s no way I would make an actual analysis post. Actually, I’ve made TONS of analysis posts. That’s why I made this blog, to prove you fools wrong. Still, you’re all a bunch of children and don’t know how to make a decent argument…so, you resort to insults that have no basis in reality. From what I’ve seen, the SS shippers are much more fixated on sex. Whenever I’ve had the displeasure of looking at one of your blogs, I’ve found NSFW content within a few scrolls. 

ANYWAY, when have I ever denied that SNS has flaws?? Obviously, I’m aware. However, SNS has infinitely more material that supports it than the dumpster fire that is SS. Sasunaru has mutual feelings, if nothing else. I base my ship on silly things like their actual compatibility, as well as statements and actions toward each other. I know that’s an unfamiliar concept, for you. 

I will never let anyone who thinks this ship makes even a shred of sense tell me that my ship is worse and illogical. SS is literally the most nonsensical, toxic, charmless, dysfunctional GARBAGE that has ever cursed my eyes. 

Sasuke has made it abundantly clear who is more important to him and it isn’t Sakura. Think again before you hit my inbox with this dumb shit. 

starter sentences for enemies
  • "I want to be there when you get what's coming to you."
  • "One day karma is going to bite you in the ass."
  • "How could you do this?"
  • "What do you want now?"
  • "If you are going to be two-faced, at least make one of them attractive."
  • "Fuck you!"
  • "Oh, what? Sorry. I was trying to imagine you with a personality."
  • "That was a low blow."
  • "You're truly a disgusting person."
  • "Don't bring my [relative] into this!"
  • "I would unplug your life support to charge my phone."
  • "What do you think you're doing?"
  • "Have you lost your mind?"
  • "Do you have anything to say that won't result in me punching you in the face?"
  • "Tread carefully."
  • "Two wrongs don't make a right; take your parents as an example."
  • "Get off my property."
  • "Stupidity is not a crime so you are free to go."
  • "Leave me alone."
  • "So what?"
  • "You look like a before picture."
  • "Don't be a coward. Say it to my face."
  • "You're so fake."
  • "Apologize before I deck you."
  • "This means war."
  • "I'd like to see things from your point of view but I can't seem to get my head that far up my ass."
  • "Can't we compromise?"
  • "Go to hell."
  • "Hating me won't make you pretty."
  • "Can you try not annoying me every 30 seconds?"
  • "I wasn't born with enough middle fingers to let you know how I feel about you."
  • "Fuck off!"
  • "I thought we settled this."
  • "I'm glad to see you're not letting your education get in the way of your ignorance."
  • "Stay classy."
  • "You are not as bad as people say. You are much, much worse."
  • "Your sarcasm detector needs tweaking."
  • "Get off me!"
  • "Do you kiss your mother with that mouth?"
  • "Name one reason why I shouldn't walk away right now."
  • "Is this making you angry?"
  • "Karma takes too long. I'd rather beat the shit out of you just now."
  • "Shock me and say something intelligent."
  • "Ouch. That one stung."
  • "That's cruel."
  • "I didn't think I was capable of murder until this conversation."
  • "Truce?"
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PERSONALLY i happen to think that heroes shouldn’t barge into a lady’s house and cut her head off just because they don’t like how she runs things, but who cares about my opinion.

i lace my fingers round the things that hurt me:
the way he looked when all my words desert me
we weren’t bad just young, that only makes it worse, he
said love does not compel; it converts me.
oh love does not compel, no, it converts me.

lucia-ik  asked:

omg drunk keith is so cute. what would happen if keith got drunk for the first time infornt of the kids when they are teen. Somehow I think lance would have blast/could not believe that this is his daddy. And would it escalate if Shiro wasn't there?(Keith doesn't seem to have any impulse control when drunk) btw I love the little knb picture when I go to your askbox it's adorable!

LMAO Yes! Drunk Keith is worse than Shiro tbh. XD 

[The Voltron Family]  Shiro was away to attend one of those conferences for doctors outside of the state and Keith was missing him so bad. It has been 8 days now and Keith didn’t wanna be clingy but sometimes he just missed Shiro’s kisses and cuddles.

The kids were at a party of a friend of theirs and it was only 9pm but Keith drove there anyway to pick them up, despite saying he’d pick them up at 10, they were teens now after all. They earned it after acing all their exams. Keith arrived at the party and he entered frowning. Ugh. Teenagers are too rowdy at parties. Back in my days…crap, I sound like an old man.

He went looking for his three kids when some dude came up to him.

Some Dude: *offers a cup of beer* Whoa. You’re a new pretty face. Might I offer you some beer?
Keith: *glares* I’m a wine type of person and I’m old enough to be your father.
Some Dude: *chuckles* Right. Of course. I’m guessing you’re about 25 or 27 by the looks of it? *gives Keith a once over* *points at the leather jacket* *whistles* Nice.
Keith: *ignores* Where’s Lance, Pidge and Hunk? *looks around*
Some Dude: They’re by the library last time I saw them. 
Keith: Thanks. *leaves*
Some Dude: Hey! I have wine. Can’t have a guest walking around without a drink of their choice. *smiles*
Keith: *stops* Do you have 1947 Cheval Blanc?
Some Dude: *blinks* What? I have no idea what you’re talking about but we could check it out by the bar? *points at the bar* The bartender might know. *eyes Keith* You looked so stressed, man. You okay?
Keith: *sighs* I am the epitome of stress. 
Some Dude: Awww, sorry for hitting on you, man.
Keith: It’s fine.
Some Dude: I’m Leonard. Finals are over but you’re probably the type to stress over results, huh? Forget about it tonight. C’mon, let’s get you a drink. You need it. *places an arm around Keith’s shoulder*
Keith: Oh boy, do I. *rubs temples* 

Lance, Hunk and Pidge were about to leave the house to wait for their Daddy Keith to arrive to pick them up when Pidge spotted something.

Pidge: Oh sweet baby mac and cheese. Is that Dad by the bar?
Hunk and Lance: *turns around and sees Keith*

Keith was drunk and he was ranting and ranting to their poor friend Leonard who had to hear everything. The three teens approached the bar.

Keith: And then he would usually surprise me to a lunch date when he visits me at work. *sobs while taking another drink* Such a wonderful man and now… *hiccups* He’s not even here with me. 
Leonard: Oh damn. You have a bad case of love sickness.
Keith: *nods* I do and I hate the fact he’s out there somewhere miles away and I’m here like a mess. *turns to his side and sees a girl* *cups her face and leans in*
Hunk: Is Dad drunk?! *shocked* He would NEVER do THAT! 
Pidge: Dude, we gotta do something!
Lance: No no, wait, you guys. Let’s see what happens first. *amused* I’ve never seen Daddy Keith drunk—ever.
Girl: *smirks at Keith* Hey, pretty boy.
Keith: *scrunches his nose* Pretty boy. You’re not Shiro. *frowns* He calls me pretty boy when we snuggle at night. *cries* *hugs the girl* I miss him so much. I want to see him. *turns to another person* Do you know where Shiro is? He’s the most beautiful man I’ve ever seen. Have you seen him?
Pidge: Wow. He got drunk because of Daddy Shiro.
Keith: *gets up from his seat* *wobbles as he walks towards the dance floor*
Hunk: Uh, guys, should we do something now?
Keith: *walks randomly to every guy and cups their face to look at them* *shakes head* Nope. Not Shiro. Not you. Too short. Too tall. Too lanky. Not my type. Leave. 
Lance: Are you guys seeing this? *laughs* This is GOLD. 
Hunk: No. This is horrifying! Daddy Keith’s so broken.
Some other random dude: *walks up to Keith dancing* Hey, sexy.
Keith: *glares at him* What are you doing?
Some other random dude: *chuckles* Thought we could have some fun tonight. *touches Keith’s arm*
Keith: *grips the guy’s hand* Don’t. You. Dare. Touch. Me. Only one man can touch me.
Some other random dude: *grins* Shit, that’s hot. I could be that—
Pidge: Dad! *shouts and approaches Keith*
Keith: *turns head* *smiles* Oh, baby girl. I came looking for you and *sees Lance and Hunk* your brothers.
Some other random dude: *looks at the three teens* Hey, I saw him first.
Keith: No, you didn’t. *glares* Shiro saw me first.  
Some other random dude: Who the heck is Shiro? 
Hunk, Lance and Pidge: Our Dad.
Keith: My husband.
Some other random dude: What the shit, dude? You’re married?!
Keith: I am. *teary eyed* And I miss him. I miss my husband. *sobs as he wipes his tears* I… *walks wobbling*
Hunk: I got you, Dad. *catches Keith and embraces him*
Keith: *sobs* I miss Takashi Shirogane. Bring me Takashi Shirogane. I love Takashi Shirogane. *clings to Hunk*

Hunk drove them all back home and they put Keith to bed. The following morning, Pidge handed him the phone. Shiro was on Skype.

Shiro: Hey, sweetheart. Good morning.
Keith: Shiro. *whispers*
Shiro: I heard what happened last night. *frowns*
Keith: Oh my god. *groans* 
Shiro: *chuckles* Hey, I think it’s nice to know you rejected everyone’s advances because they weren’t me.
Keith: *whispers not looking at Shiro* I only want you.
Shiro: *flushes* Keith, you’re not playing fair.
Keith: It’s true though.
Shiro: Why don’t we go out tonight on a date?
Keith: *shocked* *looks up* Tonight?
Shiro: *smiles* Yeah, I’m coming home, pretty boy.

The Librarians Sentence Starter
  • 1: "You people... DON'T APPRECIATE ART!"
  • 2: "That this house is the Star Trek transporter or maybe even the TARDIS!"
  • 3: "Just out of curiosity, what roles are you playing?"
  • 4: "Are there any languages you don't speak?"
  • 5: "Why in the hell should I listen to you?"
  • 6: "How about we just all hold hands, bow our heads and be grateful that we're all here safe together."
  • 7: "Love is the supreme power! It trumps everything!"
  • 8: "And you're willing to risk your life for him?"
  • 9: "I never know what I'm doing. That's my superpower."
  • 10: "You know what I'm thinking?"
  • 11: "I'm thinking that I can can run faster than you 'cause you've been stabbed."
  • 12: "Who's up for movies? I've got "Night," "Day," "Dawn," "Land," and "City" of the Living Dead!"
  • 13: "Your mother did not hug you enough, did she?"
  • 14: "You have an incredible talent for turning a bad situation into a worse-case scenario."
  • 15: "Excuse me, I'm going to take care of my desperately not wanting to be here."
  • 16: "I've gone into the field with experienced soldiers with a good plan, good Intel, and still come home with nothing but dog tags."
  • 17: "It wasn't your fault. You did good but sometimes, you just lose."
  • 18: "Again? This is the third time this place has been attacked since I started working here. We need to have a serious talk about the so-called security."
  • Gavin: I don't feel good.
  • Ryan: You don't?
  • Gavin: Nah, Michael made me feel all funny earlier.
  • -Ryan and Geoff laugh-
  • Michael: Woah, Woah! Woah! Woah! What the hell does that mean?!
  • Gavin: You made me feel all sort of...-gagging noise-
  • Michael: What does that mean??
  • Ryan: Was it a finger or something?
  • Geoff: What did you do to him man?
  • Ryan: Was it odd positioning?
  • Gavin: Nah, he just put me in a...ya, know.
  • Ryan: What??
  • Geoff: Gavin, did he touch you?
  • Michael: Stop stop stop
  • -Gavin laughs-
  • Michael: Use more words!
  • Geoff: Can you draw a picture of where he touched you?
  • Michael: What is going on here?!
  • Gavin: I like that I can use less words, it makes you sound worse.
  • Michael: No! I know what I've done sir, and it's not what you're making it out to be.
  • Geoff: Was it in the bikini area?
  • Gavin: Nah it wasn't as bad as that.
  • Michael: I did you a fuckin...I did you a favour.
The Stanley Parable Sentence Starters.
  • ((Feel free to change pronouns as needed))
  • "You heartless bastard."
  • "Well, I've come to a very definite conclusion about what's going on right now. You're dead."
  • "Whatever you do choose it! Don't let time choose for you!"
  • "Okay, yep, it's worse."
  • "Good job [Name], everyone thinks you are very powerful."
  • "I'm not your enemy, really, I'm not."
  • "I think I feel... happy. I actually feel happy."
  • "Oh... thank god. You lived. You had me worried there for a moment."
  • "Even the diamonds couldn't save this one."
  • "[Name] was so bad at following directions it's incredible [he/she/they] wasn't fired years ago."
  • "Just walk around in circles for a minute."
  • "We're intelligent people, right? Why can't we make up our own story?"
  • "Make sure you study it closely and remember it carefully."
  • "Onward, [Name], to destiny!"
  • "You're not supposed to be here, yet! This is all a spoiler! Quick, [Name], close your eyes!"
  • "I want to watch you for every moment that you're powerless, to see you made humble."
  • "It's your time to shine! You are the star! It's your story now; shape it to your heart's desires."
  • "My life is normal, I am normal. Everything will be fine. I am okay."
  • "No, this couldn't go any way except badly."
  • "Do you have zero consideration for others?"
  • "And this time, suppose we don't wander so far off track, hm?"
  • "Yes, this is exciting! Just me and [Name], forging a new path, a new story!"
  • "Now, I'm not asking for me, I'm asking for her."
  • "Oh look at these two! How they wish to destroy one another! How they wish to control one another! How they both wish to be free."
  • "Ah, second player! It's good to have you on board. I guarantee you can't do any worse than the person who came before you."
  • "Sorry to break it to you, [Name], but that lift isn't coming back."
  • "I'm going to try to make this as miserable as possible and we'll see how long you can maintain."
  • "Nope! Still on board with death."
  • "I wanted us to be happy here, [Name], I really did."
  • "Don't tell me you're scared; that's not the [Name] I know!"
  • "Do it! Do it! DO IT! Do it, do it, do it, do it!"
  • "Oops, looks like I was wrong. How clumsy of me."
  • "I'll say it: This is the worst adventure I've ever been on."
  • "If I can make it through this door I can make it through them all."
  • "Isn't this a fun and unique place to be?"
  • "I'm at the mercy of an entire species, of invalids."
  • "Can you see? Can you see how much they need one another?"
  • "Ah, now this is making things a little more fun, isn't it, [Name]?"
  • "This is not a challenge. It's a tragedy."
  • "Ah, yes. Truly a room worth admiring."
  • "You need to be the one to do this, to reach out to [him/her/them]."
  • "Who'd want to commit their life to you?"

anonymous asked:

What also makes me so mad is how easily Vilde not only threw Sana, her bestfriend, under the bus, but the balloon squad, Elias mainly, as well. She was the one who was so intent on hanging out with them in the first place, called Elias hot. But she only used them because she was so intent on getting Noora a bf, so she wasn't the only one w a bf. But as soon as they were deemed useless to her, she made them seem like bad guys for her benefit. But not only that, she brought race and Islam into it.

fuck vilde, man. she just keeps getting from bad to worse.

‘If I never loved you, if I never felt your kiss.
If I never had you. I know that I...I still would have mourned you. 
I would have missed your smile.
If it wasn't so worth it, this wouldn't be...
Oh this wouldn't be.

The bad before the worse and the storm before the storm.
I haven't even hit the bottom of this ocean floor.
This is the bend before the break.
This is the mercy not the grace.
This is the proof and not the faith I try to find. 
There shouldn't be a good in goodbye.’

-Jason Walker

anonymous asked:

Do you think Raven attended Summer's funeral? At least in the shadows, we see she left the team to go back to her tribe, meaning she wasn't there for Summer. I know we talk a out Qrow feeling bad because of his bad luck, but Raven might feel worse

I think that she waited the end of the funeral to cry on her tombstone alone,Qrow probably didn’t attend either,although i think she probably wished to cry over her funeral together.

I believe Raven suffered a lot,not only because she was her teammate,she probably was her “family” too. The only moment we see her smile (not in a mocking way) is on the team photo,so i think she was honestly happy with her team or on those times in general.

anonymous asked:

Whenever customers make me feel bad and I wanna make it Worse, I'll lol at reviews online of stores. This example wasn't a review of my store, but some guy apparently got 2 stale buns on his burger, and literally in the review wrote that he wished whoever made it went to war and died so they know what it's like to have pride or some shit

This is horrible.

Alright everybody, listen up. Not many people have heard of asriel-and-multiverse, but this is a warning.

IF THIS BLOG APPROACHES YOU IN ANY WAY OR FORM, BLOCK THEM.

Seriously, there are MULTIPLE reasons why you shouldn’t interact with this blog.

1. THEY DON’T TAG NSFW

2. They don’t know the concepts of In Character, and Out Of Character, meaning they just do whatever.

3. They have made multiple posts about killing themselves then, after people started caring, said “haha, it was all just one big lie just to test u.”

4. WHEN SOMEBODY COMPLAINED, THEY SENT HATE MAIL TOWARDS THEM.

5. They don’t read about OR rule pages.

6. They are a may or may not be a minor, judging by pictures of them, and they roleplay NSFW with no problem.

7. They will most likely try to guilt-trip you into roleplaying with them.

8. They don’t really know how to roleplay, they just want to have all of their characters have sexual interactions. EVEN IF THE MUSE IS A CHILD.

9. Just take a look at this: http://asriel-and-multiverse.tumblr.com/post/139265249593/beautywolf307-cocoa420-beautywolf307. I think this pretty much explains what goes on here.

A major warning to those who might be or are contacted by this blog! @exclxded-qxeen, @tylersjunk, if you can, help me here. This needs to be spread.

anonymous asked:

Do therapist ever think that someone's abuse wasn't that bad, I'm worried to talk about mine to my therapist, what if she thinks I'm over reacting, that it wasn't bad

there’s this really great post floating out there somewhere from another therapist. to summarize, it says something like “all of my clients with trauma believe that there are other people who have it worse- their trauma isn’t that bad. that’s true for clients who come in with all kinds of trauma, from sexual victimization to combat trauma to tragic accidents.” (if anyone has the link, please feel free to add it!)

I think that’s totally true. I find that there are usually two groups of trauma survivors: the people who think their trauma just isn’t a big enough deal to qualify for therapy, especially compared to others who might need it more, and the people who think their trauma is so terrible that no one will ever understand it and so therapy won’t work. the interesting thing is, the kinds of traumas these people have overlap a lot. It’s not the case that the “my trauma isn’t that bad” people have less severe trauma than the “my trauma is the most terrible” people. it’s just opposite reactions to the same thing- experiencing a trauma and not knowing how to deal with it yourself, let alone allow someone else to help you deal with it. 

so, what I’m saying is- your trauma doesn’t need to meet some kind of “bad enough” criteria. there’s no standard you need to live up to. it’s enough that you were traumatized by it. it’s enough that it’s negatively impacted you. it’s enough that you want to work on it. take care, anon. 

anonymous asked:

I wish my boss wasn't such a cheapskate and would hire another worker because if someone calls in sick, then we are screwed for the rest of the day. I had a really bad cold which has now turned into a throat infection (meaning I'm coughing non-stop and can barely talk after 2 hours at work) and I can't even call in sick because we will be short staffed and I feel like I'm letting the team down.

Call in sick I’m sure they’ll understand. It seems that they should have noticed how bad sick you are at this point and you’re only going to get worse if you don’t rest. -Abby

anonymous asked:

About Kishimoto and romance: While Kurenai-Asuma was sort of alright, it bothered me that Kurenai stopped being a Ninja. She was also the only teacher who never got to do anything. For Kishimoto it's mother = housewife, which is alright if the children are really young (or if it was established that this is what the character wanted all along). The stalking thing also bothered me, but the anime and fanon made that much worse that it actually was (esp for Hinata, who wasn't actually that bad).

This is very true. Honestly I would probably be able to accept more of the epilogue pairings if all the women weren’t immediately shunted into the role of housewife, but also I do agree: the romance is lacking in believability. 

anonymous asked:

See other/fictionkin wouldn't be nearly as bad if it wasn't for the entitlement. Like, you wanna believe you're a cat? Fine and dandy but don't go hissing at random people n shit like some lunatic. Spirituality is one thing, but to genuinely believe you are something you're not, like fuckin Naruto put in the wrong body- Whoo buddy i got somethin to tell ya. Its worse for fictionkin since they're essentially stealing someone's character, too

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anonymous asked:

Ok,I get it: you're a meme. That doesn't excuse the fact that the description to your video was offensive. Idk if Easter is sacred to you, but it is to a lot of people. To curse in the same sentence as Easter is rude, bro. The whole thing is mocking Christianity. (I know it's a meme, but s was an inappropriate place for one.) I don't mean to come off abrasively and I'm sorry if I do, but I hope next time you can be a little considerate concerning religious stuff.

anonymous asked:

Me and my grandfather are historians and I told him about sally, and of course he knew. Well he told me that at the time, Jefferson's cousin was at Monticello. And so its more likely the younger cousin of Jefferson raped her and its his kids. The DNA shows blood of Jefferson but thats because it was Jeffersons blood cousin. So spread the word that maybe it wasn't jefferson. He still he a bad guy so i still hate him but maybe we are wrong about this one?

While this may be true, he was only there for 15 months, equalling only one child, Miss Hemings had six, and honestly that just.. Makes it so much worse. To quote my dear friend, @delinquent-heritage, she suffered at the hands of two redheaded bastards. Also, and this isn’t being said in a cynical manner, had that been the case, there would have realistically only been one child and Jefferson wouldn’t have seemed so guilty about the sudden appearance of mixed children in Monticello.