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macnkeith  asked:

✂️ if ur still doing them ahh :00 (its aleesha pngpotpies omg theyre so pretty im in awe!!)

I made you one for your main blog and one for your art blog because you are just so awesome, Aleesha! I also made them gifs to give them a little flare in case you want to use them as headers (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*:・゚✧


Send me a ✄ and I’ll write your URL in my handwriting.

anonymous asked:

Hi! I'm a nt singlet trying to learn about neurodivergence (and systems) so I can be a better ally. If you don't mind me asking, what do you think I should know about bpd (and anything else you have, because a lot of people seem to have multiple diagnoses)? Like the basics of what it is, how I can be an ally, and how I can be a good friend if I meet a borderline irl? I hope this wasn't invasive or rude, also feel free to correct my terminology because I'm really new to all this ❤

do my eyes deceive me??? a nice neurotypical in my ask box??? of course i will help u….(besides im bored and have nothing better to do)

firstly, being in a system is neurodivergent. you sort of separated the two, idk if u meant to do that.

i think u what should know is that borderlines are people too. people love to condemn us and say we’re manipulative, abusive. in reality, a lot of borderlines have high empathy for others (to the point where it hurts us if we see someone else in pain). we’re not bad people by default.

even doctors and psychiatrists call us abusive and manipulative. the belief actually comes from them. back when bpd was first coined as a disorder, it was seen as “the borderline between psychosis and non-psychosis” hence the name borderline. doctors back then couldn’t understand why borderlines kept ending up back at hospitals treatment after treatment, how we were so driven by emotion, why regular therapy would not work. they concluded that borderlines were manipulative, sought attention, and were on the borderline of psychosis and non-psychosis, deeming us “hard to deal with.”

ive heard so many stories about borderlines being treated extremely negatively back then, to the point where doctors and psychiatrists would give up on their cases, tell them they were unfixable and manipulative. if they wanted help, they wouldve worked for it by now.

thing is, borderlines don’t respond to cbt/talk therapy. psychiatrists failed to see that we weren’t failing on purpose. their treatment was not up to par. from the cbt i’ve worked with, ive noticed that cbt assumes one has a stable identity and is always aware of themselves. borderlines are not.

dbt was created by marsha linehan. dialectical behavior therapy was made specifically for borderlines. it combines elements of cbt, behavioral science, and zen buddhism. and serious…this stuff is amazing. it works. dbt is split up into four modules: mindfulness, interpersonal effectiveness, distress tolerance, and emotional regulation.

mindfulness is the teaching of always constantly checking if youre in the present. it is by far the hardest module to master, but it’s extremely rewarding once you understand it.

interpersonal effectiveness is on interpersonal relationships. y’know, because abandonment.

distress tolerance teaches you what to do in a crisis. and it isn’t cbt crap docs hand you and expect you to master in a day. whereas cbt tells you “just breathe, count to ten” when you’re distressed, distress tolerance teaches you three steps: distract, relax, and cope. distract yourself from the situation, relax using your five senses, and cope with the situation by weighing the pros and cons. i use this nearly everyday.

emotional regulation teaches you to do the opposite of what your negative emotions tell you. it teaches you that you are more than your emotions. while you may not be able to control them, you can certainly stop the snowball effect of emotions that trigger thoughts, which then trigger more complex emotions, and more complex thoughts, and so forth.

being a good borderline ally is simple: dont spread needless hate about our disorder, don’t infiltrate our spaces, and advocate for fair treatment.

if you meet a borderline in real life and you are even just a smidgen nice to them, congratulations: that borderline is your new friend. also in retrospect, don’t be mean to them. they will hate you very much.

if you ever become the fp of a borderline, always try to be there for them when they need you. encourage them to talk to you about their emotions. some borderlines are quiet and won’t talk about their negative emotions, even if it hurts.

also, they are constantly afraid of you abandoning them, it is a constant fear. reassure them as often as you can that you do not have plans to. also, don’t ever tell them they’re a handful, or “a lot,” even in a joking manner. they most likely have heard so many borderlines like them being called “abusive” and will wonder if “they are too,” because of their emotions.

well, that’s what i have to say. i might do another thing like this on systems. maybe. depends.

That is her confused face tbh,
I’m super surprised that you guys are all here, like, I’m not actually sure how to handle all the cool people. When i first started in the sherlock fandom WAAAY back in 2013, playing John at first and then adding Sherlock, I was actually chased out of the fandom by people bashing a CERTAIN character and trying to shove a certain ship down peoples throats all the time.I was super nervous about coming back, but literally everyone has greeted me with kindness and the fandom on whole seems to have grown up a little bit. 
This is just a little list of some of the people who have been fantastic to me.

The Assistants - People I pretty much interact with every day. {The poor bastards}

@victorredbeardtrevor- My fantastic wife, Shilo who loves me and made Victor simply to rp with me and meet the new and awesome friends I’ve made.. We’ve been together for three years and actually met through tumblr rp. I love that we can keep up what we both love and what brought us together in the first place. You mean the world to me, and I will follow you to the ends of this earth and back. Through every life, every existence, I will always find you, I will always love you. insert i’m with you until the end of the line gif here lmao
@cansprainpeople - YO MIKKI U SO FINE, YOU SO FINE U BLOW MY MIND EY MIKKI.
But no, Mikki is a star and I’ve been talking to her and tricia every day since i rejoined. The two of them have adopted me as their daughter (Since, as we discovered I am basically the two of them as one person). Mikki is a sweet all around caring person with a bad ass side, just like her john, though she’s less crabby than him most days. ;D
@toldabetterstory - TRICIA WROTE ME A NOTE TO GET OUT OF WORK AND IS THE BEST MUM OKAY. She’s so incredibly sweet and she deals with my dumb twin headcanons and ideas, Sherlock/Scotia and Sheryl/Scotti get into so much shit and it’s great. She’s up at all times of the night usually, and she’s always really comforting when I need someone to talk to. I don’t think we’ve ever had serious chats, but some times I wake up and just need to know that someone else is there if everyone else is asleep.
@julietthotelwhiskey - Michelle is such a sweetheart. She’s someone who I message at least once a day (we would talk more often but the damned time zones get in the way). She’s just so easy to talk to and constantly shares adorable headcanons and painful gif and image sets. They always make my morning/day when I see them. Or some times I wake up or come home to these cute little random edits that make me screech like a banshee. I’m fairly certain it was Michelle who introduced me to Mikki and Trish too, so It’s her fault those two have to deal with me.
@pullingrank - I followed kai because of a ridiculous thread with Michelle (so it’s also her fault you have to put up with me, lmao) but it was john meeting john for a date and i’m like??? THis is both fantastic and a little scary. That was just a few days ago, but already they’re becoming one of my favourite people. They talked to me a lot while my gran was in the hospital and it really meant a lot. I can’t wait to get a proper thread going with you, if you’rse interested, but for now, you can expected the occasional meme, message, and ask for sure!

The Yard - People I talk to quiet often and absolutely adore (and would love to do more with

@mollv @storyspinningspidcr @abhordull/@bbcmary/@bbcmycroft @dyingmagpie @gcvrnment @ytrairomsemaj @traiinedassassiin @hisjiminycricket @notelementary @isaidfocus @goodshxt

Colleges - People I admire from afar

@mvcrofts @photographcr @doctxrwatsxn @blackvclvct @poxsonmenace @jawnlovesjumpers @dcntcount @wasadrinker @amongdeadthings @amanandgoodatit @britishnation @watsonofagun @jxhnwxtsxn @deadcentred @xnotourdivisionx @ofdeductions @psychopatx @grcy

You’ll have to forgive me if i’ve forgotten anyone! It certainly hasn’t been done on purpose. I really appreciate all of you that have stuck around despite Sherlock’s character in general. I may be doing a little give away for icons or a banner of sorts, so keep an eye out for that!

BTS REACTS TO: s/o being flirted with but not knowing

Obli Anon Asked: So my friends have told me that I’m oblivious to most things especially like when someone is flirting. If you could please do a reaction when their s/o is being flirted with and they don’t notice. (Sorry for English) of it’s too much trouble you don’t have to 

This is me asf. It honestly flies right over my head. Sometimes, I even start flirting back and I won’t even know that I’m flirting. - Admin Dayna


Seokjin

Once upon a time, when you and Jin had been in the earlier stages of dating, it used to deeply annoy him how naïve you were in terms of flirting. It took forever for you to pick up that he was interested in you. But when it came down to actually dating you, it annoyed him how naïve you were to others flirting with you in front of him. He used to get the urge to grab your shoulders and rattle you up a bit. Now that the two of you were a couple months into officially dating, Jin got used to it and eventually found it a little funny. Especially when someone else would flirt with you. You’d stand there pretty much clueless to the person’s advances, and Jin would watch as the person’s pride withered and their hope of getting anywhere with you disappeared. It was a good little show. A popcorn-worthy spectacle. 

Originally posted by softfluffytae

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Bendy: “Cuphead!! What are you doing in my Bed!?!”

Cuphead: *starts singing* “ Lately, I’ve been, I’ve been losing sleep-

(Continues) Dreaming about the things that we could be-

But baby, I’ve been, I’ve been praying hard

Said no more counting dollars
We’ll be counting stars…

Yeah we’ll be counting

stars…”

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Scene from an old ed,edd,eddy ytp

(Took forever to edit this! X0! )


well it was wort h your time dear because i lo v e this,, , makes me wanna watch ed, edd, and eddy again - mod straw

A New Way Of Life ch. 17

Warnings: Language. Negan. Smut (unprotected sex).

A/N: This took forever to get out….. I’m sorry I made y’all wait for this suckish chapter, I had the flu. Have a good day! Thank you for reading!

Originally posted by negandarylsatisfaction


When you came to, the truck was stopped outside of another department store. Your head was still resting on Negan’s shoulder. He had his window rolled down. His arm was resting on the window seal. You heard the barely audible sound of him lazily rubbing his beard. His eyes were focused on the store. His men were walking to and from the store collecting valuable items that were needed in the sanctuary.

You lifted your head off his shoulder, yawning on the way up. His quickly turned to look at you. His brown eyes finding your (y/e/c) ones. “Good morning sleeping beauty. Did you fuckin’ sleep good?” he asked while you were stretching.

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Well I’ll Be Damned (Donald Pierce x Reader)

Pairing: Donald Pierce x Reader

Word Count: 2,319 ( what can i say? i love details lmao)

Warnings: Cussing, slight violence and that’s pretty much it (:

A/N: Here it is! It took me forever because I originally wrote a different one shot but I’m going to save that one for another time. Hope you like it and please let me know what you think.(:


Originally posted by dracarysandbrimstone


You tried to throw Donald and the rest off of Gabriela’s trail but it wouldn’t be long before they figured out who she’d gone to for help.

You were one of the main reasons the kids and most of the nurses even got out in the first place. You had a change of heart and a long talk with yourself about  who you’d become in the short span of two years. You were never this heartless and you wondered (more like hoped) if there was truly a God that they’d forgive you for what you’d done. Maybe this act would somehow absolve you of this sin but even if it didn’t, it did help you sleep a little better at night knowing those innocent children were spared.

The bed moved a little, the mattress dipping and a pair of arms circled your waist.

“Ya up baby?” Donald’s breath fanned over the crook of your neck.

Oh yea, you were also secretly dating the leader of the Reavers, Donald Pierce, that you were also apart of.

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anonymous asked:

solangelo and #60? your writing is so good omg im jealous ❤️❤️❤️

Aaaaah! Thank you! I’m so sorry this took forever, I’ve had a crazy week this week and I haven’t had anytime to write! But, here it is!

Prompt: “If I didn’t know any better, I’d say you were trying to seduce me.”

Nico’s lungs filled with the choking scent of cigarettes and alcohol as he made his way to the bar. The pounding beat of a techno song reverberated through the oppressive crush of hot, sweaty bodies and into Nico’s skull. He finally reached the other end of the room, where a long,  forlorn-looking counter sat entertaining its few occupants.

Nico took a seat on one of the neglected barstools and asked the young woman behind the counter for a glass of water. She returned less than a minute later and handed him a glass, which he thanked her for before swiveling around to observe the activity at the opposite side of the space.

Drunken laughter mingled with the rumbling bass of the music. The crowd swayed and knocked against each other in a sort of joyful, haphazard dance. Slithering tendrils of purple-gray smoke rose from the assembly, while empty beer bottles rolled underfoot.

“I’ve not seen you here before,” an unfamiliar voice said. Nico whipped around to locate the source, and found himself face to face with a man who couldn’t have been much older than him.

He had golden hair that curled slightly and round blue eyes that glimmered with amusement. Freckles dusted the angular plains of his face, and a thin, white scar cut across his pointed chin. “You don’t come around here a lot, do you?” he asked. His voice was warm and mellifluous, almost musical.

“No, I’m not really one to frequent bars and clubs much,” Nico replied.

The boy raised an eyebrow, “Then what brought you here? Rough week?”

“No,” Nico replied, shaking his head. “More like my friend’s birthday.” He jutted his chin in the direction of the crowd, where Percy, Leo, and Jason were busy toppling over each other as they tried to keep up with the speeding rhythm of the song.

“Ah,” the boy replied.

Nico sipped his water and faced him, “So, what’s your name?”

“Will Solace,” the boy–Will–answered.

“And how’d you end up in this place?” Nico inquired.

“I’m a med student and finals are coming up, that’s all you need to know,” Will said. Nico chuckled and rested his elbow on the bar. There was something captivating about the way the light danced on Will’s sculpted features that left Nico unable to tear his eyes from him.

“How about I buy you a drink. Cheers to finals?” Nico offered.

A smirk flickered across Will’s lips. “You know, if I didn’t know any better, I’d say you were trying to seduce me.”

“S-so what if I am?” Nico stuttered, his cheeks coloring.

Will leaned forward. The glimmer in his blue eyes seemed more pronounced now. “Well, then I’d consider myself pretty damn lucky.”

Nico’s blush deepened, and his heart hammered in his chest. He opened his mouth to respond, but his voice died in his throat.

Suddenly, Will averted his eyes and ran a hand through his hair. “Shit, did I go too far?”

“No, no. You just caught me off guard that’s all,” Nico replied.

Will’s face relaxed into an easy smile, “What, you aren’t used to being flirted with?”

“People tend to avoid me,” Nico answered, shaking his head.

“You’re kidding me!” Will exclaimed. “With a face like yours I’d think you’d be fighting men and women off with a stick!”

Nico laughed. “No, they don’t seem to notice my natural charm,” he joked. 

“Well, their loss, then,” Will answered. He yawned and stretched his arms. 

“Tired, Solace?” Nico asked. 

“Yeah,” Will answered. “This place is exhausting.”

“Then go home,” Nico said. 

Will suddenly perked up at Nico’s words. “Oh, hell no,” Will replied. “Not without getting your number first!” He drew his phone from his pocket and held it out to Nico. 

“You want my number?” Nico asked in surprise. 

“Of course I want your number,” Will countered. 

Finally, Nico took the phone from Will and punched in his number before returning it. 

“I’m expecting a text from you sometime tonight, doctor’s orders.” Will said in a playful tone.

Nico rolled his eyes, “Whatever you say Will.”

He grinned, “Good night, Nico.” 

Nico smiled in return, “Good night, Will.”

With one last wave, Will turned and disappeared into the haze of smoke and bodies on the other side of the room, leaving Nico’s heart pounding louder than the beat of the music.