As a feminist I think Kara has the right to make her own decisions
Monel changed his entire view towards women he has treated her with nothing but respect
Were both stated in the same comment I just read. Have we been watching the same show?? Did you watch the last episode??
Because continuously being told that Kara is self centred for wanting to use her powers to help people seems pretty disrespectful to me. Continuously ignoring what Kara asks and going off to try and fix things himself instead of saying how can I help you, seems pretty disrespectful to me. The two of them yelling at each other when they are angry and then making up two seconds later without actually talking about their problems doesn’t seem very respectful (or healthy) to me. And as feminist you don’t think it is the right of those in the fandom to express their issues with this relationship and to take it up with the writers of the show? Especially when they see that these decisions seem so out of character? And to do so without having people make comments that seem to have the intent of making other feminists doubt themselves for wanting Kara to re-evaluate the decisions she is making.