this means a lot to me guys

1K CELEBRATION!!

so here’s how it works: send in a description of your personality to me (in my ask box) and what group you want to be shipped with. i’ll read your description and decide on the member you would be a kyoot couple with.

ex. “hi my name is bob & i’m shy around new people but loud around friends. i like to…….etc. can i be shipped with someone from MONSTA X?”

i’m accepting these groups: ASTRO, BTS, MONSTA X, GOT7, EXO, SEVENTEEN, DAY6

send in your personalities and groups now! :) this will be going on for a whole day!

anonymous asked:

so i live in berlin and occasionally end up in gay bars with gay guys who propose we go there (me being a straight-ish girl) and like there's SO many here with all kinds of out-there stuff like drag shows and dark rooms etc. so i just wanted to ask what the scene is like in london if ur even into that kind of stuff!

I mean you’ve got a few places like that with dark rooms etc and there’s a lot of different drag but most places I go are just bars and cabaret shows cause like honestly i don’t wanna go to a club to have sex it’s bad enough I’m being dragged out in the first place when I could be in bed let alone walking home covered in semen

WAFD

Alright so the general consensus is that people are prepared to wait which I’m pleased about. I honestly want to tell the whole story I was just getting concerned and worried that as it’s taking me so long, that people would simply get bored and lose interest.

So I’m plodding onwards with my original plan which means we’ll definitely be here until next year (unless something major happens and I’m somehow able to get back to writing a chapter a day.) I do feel this story will be my longest yet but I’m also hopeful that it will be my best piece of work. It’s certainly overtaken a lot of my other complete works on ao3 and we’re only about halfway done?

Anyways, thanks for sticking with me guys. I appreciate the love and support you have for this story especially as I originally thought it would be hated. I do seem to have had a burst of motivation and managed to complete the chapter I’d been working on since August and I’m probably amount a third of the way through the next. Once I’ve finished this next chapter then I’ll be in a position to post some more :)

Much love

Cher 💜

anonymous asked:

mom, i like a guy and the guy likes me, but we haven’t really addressed any titles/labels. we have a date though, and i’m v excited but i’m (very loose) not supposed to date. i’m kind of stumped on where to go next and a little scared of commitment, any advice?

i mean i would just see where it goes and have fun. you dont need to put a label on everything and a lot of relationships are kind of in a gray area. after the date you can ask him where you guys stand and see whether he’s wanting an actual relationship or what. tbh i wouldnt worry too much about what you guys are and just enjoy hanging out with him

Strong disguise

genre: a mixed of angst and fluff

member: daehwi

- not requested -

side note: can’t stop thanking you guys for reading my scenarios, it really do mean a lot to me :’) i’m still improving and i’m sorry if my stories sound boring ;~;

- so here’s the story

- daehwi is a popular kid at school because he’s an all rounder

- as far as you remember, he was never a 2nd ranked student before

- he is also the head of the student council

- he got the looks too

- everyone likes him including the teachers

- even though he’s a popular kid at school, the only interaction you have with him is just hey bye and see you

- so you don’t really know him other than his appearance

- you just finished studying and you are on the way to grab your dinner before heading home

- it is currently 8pm and when you’re at the cafe you go to usually go to, you noticed daehwi is there too

- not as a customer, but as a waiter

- you got a shocked because you have never imagined him working

- but he never noticed you are there too

- anyways

- you grabbed your dinner and while you are eating, you heard customers shouting at daehwi even though he did nothing wrong

- “can you clear all these plates faster?”

- “you’re just a student, what does it take for you to even work here?”

- and after all those rude words came out bluntly to daehwi’s face

- he is still smiling, like how he is in school

- you only heard him apologized and didn’t even try fighting for himself

- just before you leave, you heard another voice shouting at daehwi

- “how many times must i tell you? move your hands faster! such a simple instruction yet you can’t even understand. you’re only book smart, i wish you are more than that.” his manager screamed at him

- and guess what

- daehwi is still putting a strong front, not even a change in his expression

- even though you are not very close to him but your heart went soft for him

- so you decided to wait for daehwi to knock off and walk home with him

- “hey daehwi”

- “y/n? i didn’t expect to see you here!

- “me too actually, i have been here a lot of times but i never see you work here before”

- “are you okay?” you asked

- “yeah of course! Why wouldn’t i be okay?

- “you know what i’m talking about, how can you still be okay when the customers and your manager were screaming at you?”

- “no, i’m fine. it’s my fault anyway.

- “you don’t have to be fine all the time. I’m pretty sure you have tons of expectations you have to meet and not being okay is fine. you don’t have to be strong all the time.”

- he gave you a weak smile and he said, “thanks y/n. those are the words i really need. i always pray that i don’t have to meet all these expectations from everyone but everyday is just the same old shit. no matter how tired i am, i still have to smile.”

- you pull daehwi to a hug and you told him, “i can’t promise you that things are gonna change but at least you can put your strong disguise away when you’re with me. the darkest time will eventually pass.”

anonymous asked:

Hey! I've recently been identifying as demi/bisexual. When I first started questioning, I identified as bi, and then pan. Then, I realized that I wasn't really attracted to ALL nonbinary people. I'm mostly attracted to girls, and some ninbinary people and guys (its not super often). Is it okay for me to identify as bi if I'm mostly attracted to girls, but also like nonbinary ppl/guys? I feel like it fits me better, but im afraid my depression is also influencing it a lot.

Okay, first of all: Bisexaulity does not exclude non-binary people.

Bisexuality means “attraction to more than one gender” - this can be two genders, or three, four, ten, all… whatever you want. As long as it’s more than one you can call it bisexual. Even if you have a strong preference for one gender over the others you can still call it bisexual.

So if you like the word “bisexual” then go with the word “bisexual” - it’s your label so only you get to decide if you wanna use it.

Here’s a list of reasons why people may choose bi over pan or vice versa.

Maddie

Thank you guys sooo much for following me!! Every single one of you means a lot to me and I absolutely love reading your tags under my gifs or seeing you guys in my notifications!!

Now I hit the next 100 and I don’t want to make a big deal out of it but I want to give a quick shoutout to my favs on here so maybe you can go check them out!!

@werenskheeyyy @boochnevich @reidspook @drai-29 @antoinerouss @radicalradek @pyatts @motoleafs

itsmarshalltime98  asked:

Hey Lillian, I know you're about to go to sleep. Before you do though, I just wanted to say I love you and all that you do for us in this this fandom. I know life and school kicks your ass sometimes, but I know things will get better for you. I hope they do. You deserve it for putting smiles on all of our faces, despite all those times life decides it wants to try you. Anyway, sweet dreams love!

Thank you so much, that really means a lot to me. You have no idea.. You guys are so kind to me, honestly, you make it worth the hardship of squeezing in writing between school work. You guys make it enjoyable to write so thanks to you too.

~Mod Lillian

sO I HAVE SOME GAY ASS NEWS MOTHERFUCKERS

so i was with this boy i like this weekend and holy. fuck. he is so fucking nerdy and attractive i cANT.

but anyways we were in this foresty time area behind his house. we were climbing through the area giggling and flirty a lot. he grabbed my hand to help walk me across a log. these group of guys our age come to us and start sayin shit like “faggots” and “pussies”.

then one boy said, “Are you here with your boyfriend *guys name*”

and the boy looked him dead in the eye. grabbed my hand, and basically fucking growled, “yeah? got a problem with asshole?” and men’s mugged the fuck out of them while my twink as was like a tomato.holy fUCK IT WAS ATTRACTIVE AND IVE NEVER SEEN A BUNCHH OF BOYS AFRAID.

after the guys walk away, i turn to him and was like “so we are dating know then?” and he jUST FUCKIN WINKS AND I DONT KNOW WHAT THE FUCK THAT MEANS AND ASSFGHJKD I REALLY LIKE HIM? bUT I DONT KNOW IF HES GAY OR NOT? SO IM LOST

Help put a queer/trans person of color through college

Hey guys, so I’m going to be a freshman in college soon, and I live in a large family. My parents can’t afford to help me pay for college, and while I do have some money saved, I want to be as debt-free as possible, and I have no guarantee that I’ll win the scholarships I’m applying for.  

This is my paypal: paypal.me/RashmiPhillips 

Anything, no matter how small, would help lighten the financial burden. If you can’t donate, please signal boost! It would mean a lot to me! Thank you for taking the time to read and reblog this!

Peace,

Rashmi

NaNoWriMo Hiatus

Hey guys! I wont be as active in the next few months as I am currently writing a novel (and @samijen is creating the art for it) about the FAHC for this years NaNoWriMo! I’m extremely excited for it and have had in in planning for AGES. I’m excited to let you guys know but unfortunately that means I am going to be away for a little over a month and for the entirety of November.

Once it’s finished I will be sending it to AH for them to read (I actually told Michael and Lindsay about this when I met them and they were both blown away by it, Lindsay called me talented and yes, I internally screamed) but I will also be uploading it on Ao3 for you guys to enjoy!

(I’ll be queueing a LOT of posts and even making some sets that will post during the month but I will not be around to reply to any messages that you guys send)

Happy writing to anyone else taking part and I’ll see you guys in December!

Y'all, I’m back and about to be really controversial but I think what upsets me most about this fandom is how Keith’s emotions and struggles are handled verses how the rest of the character’s emotions and struggles are handled.

There’s such a lack of empathy for the things that Keith goes through, it’s unreal. If what happened to Keith had happened to any other character- pushing themselves away from the team, the team not speaking up against them leaving after they didn’t need them anymore, being excluded from the rest of the Season only to show up and display self-sacrificial, suicidal tendencies? You know how crazy the fandom would be if any other character had done that? Especially Lance?

But because it’s Keith, not only have I not seen very few (almost none) posts worrying about his mental state, I have seen multiple posts disregarding his mental state. Keith’s perfectly good with leaving the team to join the BOM guys! Leaving the first family he has had since he was in the Garrison is absolutely the emotionally healthy thing to do! It didn’t hurt at all that no one really tried to talk him out of it once they had Shiro back!

Shiro at least hugging Keith and letting him know he would be there for him which was the only nice thing, next to the group hug. But the above picture proves that Keith didn’t want to leave and probably thinks they don’t care.

And please, please don’t get me started on posts where they call him leaving selfish, because how. HOW?! By making sure none of the rest of the team had to give up their Lions? By making himself more tactically useful by joining the BOM? Just how?

Then you get to the posts talking about how Keith sacrificing himself is just him following the BOM way, which, while true, completely ignores the emotions that Keith must have been going through. For Keith to have been willing to sacrifice himself, that intrinsically means that he believes his sacrifice brings greater worth to the team then him being alive. It means that he feels like the team will be just fine without him. It means that he has a very small perception of his personal worth. It means that he only values himself (and believes himself valued) for what he can contribute to the mission.

I’m going to piss a lot of people off with this, (and I’m genuinely not trying to upset you, but it has to be said) but what really kills me is that Klance, the shining mega ship of this fandom, the one that loves angst when it comes to Lance, is… completely ignoring Keith’s emotional state. I have seen 1000% more posts about Lance’s air show and how Lance must feel with Keith gone then I have posts even hinting at Keith’s emotional state. Even posts bashing him for leaving because it hurts Klance. This is worrying, because fandom? They think that Keith gets fandom focus because he’s part of a mega ship. But really, 90% of Klance focus is on Lance.

I’m not trying to be mean, Klance shippers, because besides how some of you act I have nothing against your ship. Though it’s not my OTP, I even consume your content sometimes, because Klance can be really cute and a lot of you are really talented. But sometimes I think a good majority of the Klance fandom actually hates Keith. Not only have I seen Klance fans post anti-Keith things now and in the past, a lot of you seem unable to bring yourself to care when Keith is going through an emotionally dark time, whereas Lance would have you all in tears. Maybe I’m wrong, and maybe as y'all have time to think about this Season you guys will surprise me and actually start focusing as equally on Keith’s emotions and struggles as you do on Lance’s? I hope so, but I’m only hesitantly optimistic.

So fandom, please don’t think that Keith being part of a mega ship means he’s handled with care in this fandom. Please don’t ignore his struggles, ones you would feel empathy for if they happened to any other character. Please don’t look at this character and write off his emotions.

Because for the people that identify with him, it hurts.

Motivational Mango

Hello, I am Mango, birb of the internet, and I have heard that you have a sad. 

Did you know that I am professional sad fighter? It’s true! Mango will show you the way. When you has a sad, you may feel like doing this: 

As you can see, Mango has been there too. But I can offer you some solutions. 

Sometimes it can help to talk to a friend. It can be hard to reach out, but sometimes expressing how you feel and commiserating makes you feel less alone. Hiding in hair is optional. 

You can talk to friends online if that makes you more comfortable. Computer is also good for viewing birbs. Good for combating a sad.  

If you’re having a rough time, it’s ok to take a break and enjoy a favorite activity. Don’t feel guilty! We can’t be 100% work 100% of the time. You’re allowed to have fun! 

You could get some rest, take a walk, or fix yourself a favorite snack! Sometimes you need to treat yo self. You deserve it because you’re awesome. So remember to be good to you. 

You just take that sad and you give it this look to let it know you mean business: 

You examine this sad and tell it that it has no power here. Give it a real good look with your birb eye and remember that you are worth more than any momentary despair this sad could bring. Here, Mango show you how: 

If all else fails, Mango will get real puffy at the sad for you to ward it off. Sad has no room when Mango is poof. 

But of course the best cure for a sad is looking at pictures of birbs. 

Hang in there, birb! You’re gonna make it. 

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the road so far… 

(cover by my brother maximilian ♥)

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Summary: college!au Where Tom is a genuine sweetheart trying to make it through college without completely losing his mind; his three close friends make it easier though. However, there’s one girl who wears the big sweaters and seems to have her head more in her sketchbook than anywhere else who changes him after he gets caught blatantly admiring her from afar. Tom takes it upon himself to make her problems his problems, but sometimes it’s just better to not stick your nose where it doesn’t belong. Emphasis on the sometimes though.

Pairing: Tom Holland x Fem!Black!Reader

Word Count: 1,255

Warnings: Swearing & Staring

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here she is, the tangerine dream!! 

i think even if jasper and pearl originally fused for battle, once the fight was done tangerine would just want to dance and play for a bit anyway /o\