So in my language "they" is divided on "male they" and "female they" aka there is no neutral "they". I don't know how to adress nb friedns from tumblr cause using "it" seems rude. What would you suggest?
It is the same in french, there is no “official” neutral pronoun. What a lot of us do to use a neutral pronoun is mixing the equivalents for “he” and “she”, respectively “il” and “elle”, to create new pronouns (the most commonly used one is “iel”, but there’s also “ielle”, “ille”, etc.) they’re not very used apart from certain circles, but they’re starting to spread!
You could try doing something similar in your language if that’s possible, and talk to your friends about it to see what they’re comfortable with!
Once you get rid of the line between magic and mundane, coming up with ideas is much less of a challenge. There is no “normal” you and “witchy” you. It’s all a conglomerate that creates the way you experience life as a whole.
It’s ironic that people call Taurus a boring sign when they literally embody what most people in society try to aim for: luxury, comfort and money. At the end of the day, most people would want to be comfortable in their house, eat some nice food, and dress nice. Not a bad thing at all.
People with Taurus people are completely capable of embodying the qualities of a rich person. They’re calm, steady, and they have great taste, but they’re also accused of being lazy and overly indulgent, which can be true but… Like, I feel like most people who follow societal norms would aim to do that, yet they will call Taureans boring at the same time. Do you see how it’s not making any sense at all?
People strive to be what Taurus embodies, but they will also turn around and call them boring at the same time and it literally makes no sense.
Executive dysfunction tip: Instead of going into things thinking you have to finish it or get as much done as possible all in one sitting, take a “foot-in-the-door” approach and make your main goal to just start the bare minimum of it! If there’s a paper you’ve been meaning to write, don’t set out to write a bunch of it at once, start by just opening the program and seeing where that takes you! If you’ve been wanting to play your favorite game, just turn the console on first and see how you’re feeling after that! If you’ve been meaning to make snacks, just walk to the kitchen first! If there’s a book you haven’t been able to get to that you’ve been meaning to read, just read a couple sentences!
Once you start to do something, you’re more likely to follow through and keep working on it, bc you’ve already started it so you may as well keep going! And in most cases, even if you still don’t get much (or any) done, it’s better to have started and tried than to not have even started at all, y’know? Baby steps!
i rr like ur art and i was wonderin how you pick out your color schemes when you draw? like do u just kind of yolo it or do u have like a thing u do lol
thank u !!! actually i already tried to explain one way i pick colors here , tho thats pretty old and only refers to analogous color schemes so… im gonna try to update it a lil bit! (btw everything ill say from this point on is just based on my own experience, im no art student and im sry if anything i explain makes no sense….!! ANYWAY moving on)
1) probably the thing i use the most are analogous color schemes bc theyre easy to do and look very calm and harmonous:
the two colors i show on the color pick thing are the ones farthest to the left and right, every other color is somewhere between them! bc of this the drawing looks calm and natural. most of the different colors u can see are created by playing around with the saturation!
2a) something i only recently started using frequently is the analogous color scheme with a highlight:
the most part of the drawing is done in analogous colors, but i added a highlight to kinda of… “break open” the closed off feeling that analogous schemes usually have! for that highlight i tend to use a higher saturated color on the other side of the color wheel, or at least one that doesnt “match” the other colors.
2b) most of the time i do the highlight not like this tho, but in the lineart:
Real shit who gives a fuck if young girls on the Internet dress/act/resemble Lindsey it’s called developing an identity. People have been taking bits from their idols for decades. I can’t tell you the amount of Frank Iero, Kurt Cobain, Robert Smith lookalike boys there are on the Internet but yet I don’t see people giving them too much hassle?? And on another note Lindsey didn’t invent jumping on stage and wearing plaid skirts. Bottom line is let kids do whatever the fuck they want while they can, nothing is orginal and enjoy life damn