this literally made me nauseous

ursacolossus  asked:

Thank you so much for reblogging all of this Dr**m D***y shit, my friends are like 'ah look at how cool and progressive this game is!' and I'm struggling to find the words to tell them how it's wrong and you've really helped my argument. Cause jeeeeeesus. Yikes. Anyway, thank you!

hey, no problem. i was playing the game today and got really excited because it seemed like something genuinely good and fun. when i found out the “gay dads” thing was supposed to be this shitty gimmick you aren’t supposed to believe in, hatoful boyfriend style, it literally made me ill. i’m still kind of nauseous if i’m honest.

i’m not really into BL that much because there’s …. not a lot of good rep of older gay men, pretty much. i was excited about a mainstream VN featuring gay fathers. it could have been a really good piece of representation, while also having content that isn’t about fucking teenagers For Once.

i try to be an optimistic person but so many times i’ve had my hopes thrown in my face in this way. it’s disheartening on top of making me feel physically ill because i was played so thoroughly. 

the game grumps played me, and they’re profiting off their homophobic bullshit to straight women who, let’s all be fuckin real by putting the microscope on how straight women have been interacting with mlm shit in fandom for the past forever, don’t give a shit and will not call out GG for this.

anyways i’m sorry this answer got a little out of hand. i’m very tired. as a trans dude, i was really excited about being able to play a trans dad AND date a trans dad so it’s like……. i don’t know

it’s a waste. it fucking sucks.

Abuse tw.

I’m wondering if my first ex was abusive. At least a little. He would call me fat whenever we argued. He would threaten to break up with me just because he knew it made me feel nauseous. He literally said that I wouldn’t make a band I was trying out for. I don’t remember everything since it was about 14 years ago, but still.

I seem to remember intentionally being made jealous of other girls. Feeling inferior to them or sometimes to him. It’s adding up.

Just a reminder:

West and Maison are NOT public property and you don’t have permission to touch them. As a parent I can guarantee you if someone I didn’t know had touched my kid like that they’d have lost a hand.

We’re lucky @mishacollins shares his family with us, it’s a privilege not a right, and it certainly doesn’t entitle ANYONE to touch them.

Watching that video literally made me feel nauseous, because I know how uncomfortable my own kids would have been with a stranger touching them like that.

It’s not a hard concept people: Don’t touch other people’s bodies (especially children’s) without their permission (and their parent’s if they’re a child). Just don’t.

Link if you wanna see what I’m talking about

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This literally made me nauseous and light headed

FYI:  there’s a film competition at a local venue and the people who run it  had a little seminar on how to make a film but they were a bunch of white dudes who made really offensive terrible shit that made me literally nauseous to watch and basically for the next two weeks i’ll be creating and submitting a film that’s gonna be a huge FUCK YOU to the creators and the entire competition itself and its going to be about a woman who discovers feminism and decides fuck white ppl and fuck all ur shit and she joins a girl gang and takes over the world and its gonna be loud and bad ass and hopefully make them really uncomfortable B-) so jsyk i’ll probably be posting a lot about this