this isn't even a quarter of it

yanaaugust  asked:

Hi Mister (love ur blog) I'm a little. I've known since last year. I have been trying to learn as much as I can about dd/lg. The daddy I have isn't workin with me. I asked him after a few months of us talkin. I wanted him to learn how to be a proper daddy. I have to give hints I want his attention or affection more & more lately. When I came out to tell him, it's like he's ignoring my questions. I don't even do a quarter of the things I see other littles & daddies do. What should I do?

It can be difficult sometimes when we are blindly following our heart instead of our mind.

A person can have a lot of great qualities, they can be attractive… make us feel good… have a great personality. But that doesnt mean they are cut out to love us.

Ask yourself… why am I really wanting to be with this person?

Is it because they are or can fulfill my needs?

Is it because they make me feel good about myself?

Is it because they are attractive and send great pictures of themselves to me?

One of the absolute first things I always used to do with a new sub/little when I had them standing in position in front of me the first time was simply ask… “Why?”

Why are you here… right now.. in this moment? Why have you chosen to submit to me? Why have you decided I deserve this great honor and gift of your submission? and have you even asked yourself… why?

A sub once told me that one of my best qualities wasnt in how hard I could spank, or the looks I gave, or even my voice… it was that I was constantly making her think.

A daddy should be growing you… bringing you into a better place each day. Focusing on your needs and wants.. giving them the attention they deserve.. and building you up. 

Ask yourself…. Why? Why do I want this person? Why them? and if the answers you give yourself back dont begin with positive growth within your mind, emotions, mental state and overall well being first…. then you need to consider moving on.

All too often we get lost in the focus of the aesthetic.. of being lonely… of being desperate… of just wanting someone there… of compromising our  own limits, needs, wants, etc just feel any kind of love we can get our hands on… and ultimately that leaves us worse than we were before. 

Its okay to be alone.

Its okay to wait.

Its okay to have goals and standards and morals and wants and needs and desires that are selfish to you…. because its certainly ok for you to stand your ground to get what you actually deserve and not settle for less.

A real man.. a real daddy… hes going to fill all of those things for you without frustration, laziness, or apathy.

you want him so badly to be something hes not becoming… and nothing but himself is going to change that. will you still be happy with this a month from now?

anonymous asked:

If she's built for fighting, she really doesn't have the attitude at all. She flies away from the flashback fight before Bismuth hits her while wearing a worried expression, and in Jailbreak she flies away from an upcoming confrontation before Jasper grabs her leg and pulls her down. Compared to holly blue , another blue aristocrat who isn't shy about 'doing it herself'. In general most of the fight gems like fighting, even rose(if we assume she's indeed a Quartz) so why wouldn't Lapis?

…Pardon my attitude, but, it isn’t as if Holly Blue is a close-quarters melee fighter, while Lapis seems to fight at medium to long range, so as a result we usually see Lapis fall back or try to escape when someone is getting really close to her, while she is much more confident about holding her own if she has the advantage of range, which is a good strategy that makes perfect sense for a longer-range fighter who is probably much less of a melee combatant.

Or, y’know, like we actively see Lapis repeatedly and aggressively applying tactics to the tune of “keep hostile entities The Hell Away From Self And Allies” such as intercepting the Roaming Eye in Barn Mates, or fighting from the top of the ocean tower in Ocean Gem.

Lapis tried to evade Bismuth and Jasper, both of whom were practically right on top of her. With Jasper, as soon as Jasper crossed a line, Lapis intentionally manipulated her to turn the situation in Lapis’s advantage and punish Jasper for a transgression, which is not the behavior of someone who doesn’t think she can hold her own against Jasper. And we later see in Alone At Sea Lapis has no qualms taking Jasper out with a one-hit punch powerful enough to sink the ship.

We’ve also seen that Lapis had no qualms putting her back, with her gem, to Garnet and calmly, slowly walking away into the sea with Garnet rushing her, which tells us something important, I think: Lapis only tries to flee a close-range opponent if she’s not confident she can get water in the way and intercept them fast enough. In Jailbreak, Jasper was between Lapis and the ocean. In Same Old World, it seemed like Bismuth engaged Lapis in a dry area- very likely the Beta Kindergarten which is in the middle of the desert.

Just some RyderxLiam fluff

or read it on AO3, if you like

Ryder’s gender is unspecified

“So, a land claim? Something with a view?”

They were on the couch in Ryder’s quarters, getting ready to watch a vid, pocorn and sodas and all. Ryder almost gave Liam the old fist-bump on the shoulder, feeling uncomfortable even considering such an adult concept.

It’s not that I don’t want to get more serious, really.

Liam just seemed so confident and nonchalant, even when mentioning things like marriage, or kids. Ryder didn’t feel nearly as composed when it came to anything concerning Liam Kosta.

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Not loving this tbh
  • Cora: FYI, I am not entirely sure why your dad made you Pathfinder when I was literally trained and primed for this exact thing, but rock on, I got your back.
  • Also!Cora: *makes snide comments about your decisions IN MEETINGS, in front of the crew, once you have taken feedback and made a choice already*
  • Also!Also!Cora: *wants you to find the Asari ark because they have a pathfinder who "really knows what they're doing"*
  • Also!Also!Also!Cora: *keeps calling you into her quarters to tell you how everyone rejects her, up to and including your father, but really, she's totally cool with it*
  • Also!4!Cora: *keeps calling you into her quarters to remind you it was supposed to be her as pathfinder, but she's totally cool with it*
  • Okay, we get it, this super sucked for you. Maybe talk about it with someone who's not Ryder, idk? Maybe actually act like a second instead of undercutting everything Ryder does in front of the crew? (And this isn't even touching on the Asari stuff.)

i know this seems a bit…out of nowhere, but i want to nip this problem in the bud before it becomes a huge issue and causes drama.

so, to my followers who practice kink, are in dd/lg or c/gl(re) (and in some cases even sfw blogs):

please check the tags on my posts for the “no nsfw op” tag. if you see it, don’t interact with it. that is the entire point of the tag, just in case the op doesn’t have a banner to warn people. i get that you might not have as much access to stimming than people who don’t practice kink, but in many cases, it’s there for the comfort of the op.

many stim blogs are run by minors (including this one). while i know kink followers don’t personally bother me, i know they bother others and interactions with them.

this is a two-way street: i have a responsibility to check if the op doesn’t allow kink or nsfw interaction and tag it as such, and you have a responsibility to see if i’ve tagged it and not interact with it.

so please, i ask this as a sort of peacekeeper, if you will. i don’t know how many times this has happened in the past, but one instance this morning got me thinking about the topic.

if you’re upset about not being able to see stims you can interact with, i get that. but there are plenty of stim blogs where they say anyone can follow, which often includes people like you. hell, there’s quite a few of them on my aspec-safe blogs page, if you have trouble getting started.

just…respect the wants of the op and don’t interact with it if i’ve tagged it as such.

what the strings think during rehearsal
  • first violins: oh god oh god this is too many sixteenth notes and way too high and I sound like an owl screeching please rescue us
  • second violins: this isn't too bad. that's kind of a funky rhythm oh no the entire section is lost again. ok, I guess we'll all just play quietly and let the first violins do the things. it's not like the conductor even acknowledges our existence anyway.
  • violas: ha ha guess who didn't get the melody AGAIN. oooh exciting quarter notes. come on, give us a challenge and OH GOD THERE ARE SIXTEENTH NOTES NOW I AM NOT OKAY and back to quarter notes, come on this is baby stuff and HOW DO I READ TREBLE CLEF I AM NOT A VIOLIN STOP TORTURING ME
  • cellos: this is alright, I guess. kind of boring when we're just keeping the beat but ok. ooooh the shifty thing. more vibrato. always more vibrato. yes. *inhales deeply* yes.
  • bass: I'm hungry lol

whenever i feel unproductive, i try and remind myself that i have posted 58k words on ao3 in the first quarter of 2017. sure, i have unfinished projects i could be working on, but i have also done so much, and i should be proud of that too.

anyway. i feel like i’ve been more productive this year than last. then again, i also have been less fueled by grief (which bogged me down last winter) and have instead been fueled by sheer escapism. so that’s cool 👍🏼

so in 2012 I started a massive harry&louis folder on my laptop full of gifs, and I haven’t properly gone through it in aaaaages…. shall we reminisce on how completely embarrassing they were? I think we shall…

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tygermama  asked:

Obi Wan isn't sure what's going on but Master Qui Gon burst into the creche & asked him to be his padawan with hope in his eyes & Obi Wan said yes & now he's getting carried around over a shoulder & he thought being a padawan would be more dignified

Obi-Wan is confused but honestly he won’t say anything because he’s a padawan now! That’s exciting!

And Master Qui-Gon is super nice to him and rearranging his entire quarters for him even though Obi-Wan said he didn’t have to. And he knows stuff about Obi-Wan he hasn’t even told him yet????? But Obi-Wan is just glad he has a master and he won’t be sent off to the corps.

(So is Obi-Wan 12???? When you first sent the message I imagined Qui-Gon kidnapping a toddler Obi-Wan and Tahl is like “why do you have a four year old” and Qui-Gon is like “I GOTTA START EARLY”)

  • Aries: "This is ridiculous... I would've just punched the serial killer in the face."
  • Taurus: *Isn't really paying attention*
  • Gemini: "I'm not even scared. Scary movies aren't even scary." *Hides behind pillow a quarter of the movie*
  • Cancer: *Hidden behind a pillow the whole time*
  • Leo: "What is she doing... This is so dumb." *is lowkey scared*
  • Virgo: "This might be the dumbest thing I've ever seen... There's so many holes in the plot..."
  • Libra: "DID Y'ALL SEE THAT?! OMG."
  • Scorpio: "That's a high quality butcher knife if I do say so myself."
  • Sagittarius: "RUN INTO THE WOODS! RUN!"
  • Capricorn: *sleeping*
  • Aquarius: "This is so creative... What do you think they used for the blood?"
  • Pisces: *Nervous laughter* "I'm not even scared!" *Uses a night light for the following two years*

“Excalibur was always destined for the hands of a true hero […] You’re a brave woman, Emma Swan. But it might not work. […] Well that blade. It chooses whom it finds worthy. And it chooses it’s miracles.” - Rumplestiltskin

Clinging to the hope that this show might redeem itself from the crap they’re putting Rumple’s character development through, and have him be the one person who can finally balance darkness and light.  

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