this is why i was being such an instagram stalker

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Have you ever wondered what it would feel like to watch someone? To invade someone’s privacy? Do you wonder what secrets you might uncover? What skeletons you might turn up? Well, for this next one, you’re about to find out. Now, don’t say you’re too afraid or that you don’t feel comfortable doing this kind of thing, because guess what? You spy on people every day. We’re always watching someone. Following someone. And being followed. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram they’ve made us a society of stalkers. And we love it. Of course, stalking someone in real life is a whole ‘nother thing. That’s right. I had a stalker. And if you’ve made it to A-4, you’re outside his window. Just like I am right now.
13 Reasons Why: Tape 2, Side B

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   Tape 2, Side B » We’re always watching someone. Following someone. And being followed. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram they’ve made us a society of stalkers. And we love it. Of course, stalking someone in real life is a whole ‘nother thing. That’s right. I had a stalker. And if you’ve made it to A-4, you’re outside his window. Just like I am right now.

anonymous asked:

How do you think Tom, Hazzison + the twins are like in Real life?

I had this question in my inbox for so long, ughhh

Tom:
I think Tom is very versatile person, like he succeeds in everything he does. But he’s also super clumsy and awkward. He can go from “I can do everything, wow I’m so good” to “I can’t even walk straight without stumbling in my own feet”. He’s also super ironic, he uses irony also to keep himself grounded. He’s a very sweet guy with a big heart, have you seen him at the hospital with kids? Or him with Tessa? I can imagine him also ambitious and professional (when he doesn’t spoiler his movies). Idk I think he’s a giant kid in a super toned body and I love him so much for this ???
I bet he is really good at listening to people, he doesn’t like to talk much about himself he rather listen to people and learn from them.


Harrison:
Harrison is less exuberant than Tom. I think it’s Tom who drags him to do things. Honestly, idk I spend my life daydreaming about Tom, so I don’t have much to say about Harrison. I think he is a very good friend, the type of friend who gives the best advices, the one you can call at anytime and he’d cheer you up. He’s also the sneaky party animal. Like, he seems so shy to me but he goes from “cute shy lil baby” to “Mr. Harrison is ready to see you” (if you get the reference, lol). Don’t forget he’s my champagnepapi heucuejcje
I think he’s also pretty vain? Idk I have this feeling but unfortunately I don’t know them so I can just imagine how they are.


Harry:
Ok Harry is a lil dork, all right? When I see him I imagine lots of teasing, jokes and sarcastic comments. I think he is the most observant. Like, he has been staring at you for a while before coming to you and starting a conversation. In my opinion he’s also the most up-to-date about social/political issues, also the most likely to start a debate and I bet my ass he would have the last word because he looks like a lil shit who wants to be right 24/7;

Sam:
Sam is the sweetest, don’t fight me because I know my man. To my eyes, he is very romantic and cheesy, also shy ??? like he would blush a lot around the girl he likes. Stalkering his Instagram page, I saw he has lots of female friends and this foment my idea of Sam being 100% sweet and caring boyfriend material. I think he’s into scientific subjects but also into arts, like poetry and music.


Jacob:
Ok girl, you can’t forget my sweet Jacob.
I think Jacob is a mix of all the guys, that’s why he gets on so well with them. Jacob is a very down to heart person, I strongly believe he can get on well with every kind of people (men, women, children, adults) because he seems very sweet, a good listener, always up for parties and to help who faces difficulties. He puts other people before him because he’s happy if the people around him are happy, just like Ellen, you know? He should have a show, everyone would watch it. Or, he can be a sort of ambassador of happiness in the world, idk you guys but when I see him I always smile, he’s just so pure.

anonymous asked:

harry x pansy social media au headcanons ? <3

This is a muggle au for the @slytherdornet and @hprarepairnet Summer Vacation Challenge!
You can also find this drabble on AO3.
Note: I HIGHLY enjoyed writing this. It was very humorous for me, and Harry James Potter is clueless. I love my son, and I love my daughter. This is dedicated to @provocative-envy cause I know she’ll appreciate this. 

Harry didn’t understand social media, just like he didn’t understand girls. He was awkward, and he knew it. But Ron insisted that he needed to find someone and try one of the popular dating apps. He needed to get laid this summer; it was finally time.

The only problem was that Harry didn’t know what social media apps were actually dating apps and what ones were strictly for over-sharing your life to strangers. He was too embarrassed to ask Ron for clarification, because he learned quickly that he actually did in fact live under a rock. He didn’t want to deal with Ron’s shocked expression and the constant teasing for months to come.

So, he scrolled through his new iPhone’s app store, and he rubbed his temple in frustration as he downloaded all the free popular social media apps he could think of. He took a drink from his black coffee and concentrated on how it felt flowing down the back of his throat. It was a nice distraction for a moment, before he decided to open up Instagram.

He heard this was the app that people his age liked to post pictures of their Cappuccinos on, and he stared at the Starbucks cup in his hand. 

People found this entertaining? He thought to himself. Why would anyone want to follow this pointless trend?

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Health Update/Mental Health and Bullying PSA

Hi friends.

I know I’ve said this so many times but I’m sorry for no new content. We won’t have any for a while. Early this morning, both my cousin (who is a nurse) and my dad contacted me and said they had a bad feeling and to go to urgent care. The last time my dad “had a bad feeling” was when my mom suddenly had brain hemorrhaging and died.

I waited until it was open and went in to see the doctor to talk about my panic attack from Anime Expo because I still struggle talking/I stutter a lot or talk slurred and slow, I have loss of vision, and the left half of my body has been numb for a week. I had my suspicions, but because the police and paramedics told me it was just a panic attack I didn’t want any more unnecessary medical bills on my father’s hands.

It turns out the police mistreated me again. The doctor informed me that what I had was actually a seizure and possibly a stroke. The police at the scene told me “it’s just another panic attack, just breathe and walk it off” and left me. The doctor was appalled by this and stated that they should have taken me to the emergency room right away.

I’m scheduled for an MRI to rule out if it was a stroke or not, but she says that I definitely have nerve damage that may or may not be treatable, and may or may not get worse over time (which would mean there’s a chance I may become paraplegic if the numbness spreads). I will also be more prone to seizures/strokes from now on.

I am afraid, mostly because I experienced things my mom did just before she died. However, I’m going to continue to do my best to live a good life.

That being said, I wanted to take this chance to say that this is all a result of bullying and that mental health should be taken seriously. I wanted to never bring this up again but this is important because other people could still get hurt. A lot of you know about my stalkers and what happened here on tumblr and instagram a few months ago and why we left. Truth is they haven’t stopped and that has definitely added to the stress. Many people tell others who are cyberbullied to just “let it go and not mind them” but especially when you have severe anxiety/depression, that is close to impossible, especially because we’ve been bullied, stalked, and threatened for over a year by multiple people. 

However, at Anime Expo I was ALSO physically confronted and verbally abused, which is what finally caused me to go over the edge. Bullying is no joke. It can seriously harm you, not just mentally/emotionally but physically too, and I’m still suffering from it and will now be suffering from it for a long time. All social media support teams as well as the police did not help me. This is a possibility of what could happen to others too. Social media support, get your shit together. Seriously. These people are all still active.

I’m going to do my best, even moreso now, to spread awareness about mental health and to promote anti-bullying efforts. Thank you if you have read this entire message. 

Another rant about stalking

I’ve covered the theme of stalking within this fandom a few times on this blog, but the topic has come up again and I feel that there is still more to say.

I understand that this fandom likes to know the boys’ whereabouts whenever we can.  It helps to ease anxieties and create the narrative.  But because we have ways to know where they are, stalking happens.  And it’s never, ever okay.

Stalking is illegal.  It is disrespectful.  It is invasive.  It is wrong.  Celebrities are human beings.  Is that picture (probably the 50th that you have with them) really worth knowing that inside, they are probably thinking that you are super creepy and making them uncomfortable?  We are so lucky to be fans of a group of guys who are so damn nice.  And that means that they deserve even more respect.

Stalking is prevalent in fan culture in general.  I’ve seen it at comic-cons, I’ve seen it at concerts, I’ve seen it in my own professional experience.  And it makes me so incredibly sad and uncomfortable.  These people are already constantly being watched; by the media, by their team, by the public.  So as fans, why should we add to that?  

I know that some people say that some of the known “stalkers” in this fandom could really be friends of the guys.  That could be but in my experience, a friend of a celeb doesn’t need to show up at their place of work or where they are having lunch.  A friend of a celeb doesn’t need to post countless pictures with them on instagram, especially in a setting where it is obvious that other fans are around.  That is not being a friend.

I know that as a fandom there isn’t much we can do to stop the actions of a few people who do these things.  But please, unfollow the update accounts.  Unfollow the known stalkers.  Don’t post their pictures.  Don’t give them the attention that they crave.

We are so fortunate to get to see images of the guys very often, especially with a huge tour ahead of us.  Let’s enjoy the moments where pictures are taken in a less invasive way, where the boys look happy, and where their privacy is being respected.  Treat others as you’d like to be treated.  Remember that celebrities are human beings.  Be kind, be respectful, and please, do not stalk.

anonymous asked:

danielle instagramming every square inch of whatever house is currently attached to louis is honestly hilarious because imagine if this were real, what popstar with notoriously invasive stalkers wants his fans to have enough material to recreate an exact replica of his house for their sims lmao but please @danielle @everyone keep being obvious

you’ve nailed it. i was gonna write a long-winded answer to another anon about why louis is never seen in the houses the is attached to but this is the strongest point. sure, we got one or two IG posts that were supposed to lead back to the rental but everyone else is doing the heavy lifting for him when it comes to the houses. and it’s working, it’s enough. it doesn’t matter that this situation is actually really far removed from reality. everyone and their grandma knows the address of that house, various publications have written about it - detailed photo spreads included but sure, let’s have live tours via danielle and her friends too (always with friends, always).

louis is actually quite private (due to the heavy stunt situation plus his closet in my opinion), everything we have seen in the past year and a half has been carefully orchestrated and he is removing himself from that situation as much as possible. sure, i wouldn’t be surprised if we got an IG post here and there to ‘legitimise’ everything like we got with the rental but let me just say that i can’t help but chuckle at the discrepancy between those posts and the one with the rose and dagger that wasn’t immediately retraceable to one of the stunt houses.