this is ugly but who cares right

I really don’t wanna dwell too much on that disgusting article, but I’m about to turn 19. I started questioning my sexuality at a pretty young age and I only became 100% comfortable with actually saying the word bisexual this year. There are days when I feel like I’m lying to myself and other people, so when I read the words flip flop all those ugly thoughts returned.

I just want to remind everyone who feels the same way, you are valid. Your sexuality is valid and there’s no right or wrong way to be bisexual. There’s no such thing as “flip flopping” or “picking a side”.

Take care of yourselves. ❤💜💙

i hate this. i hate this with every part of my being. the local FOX station is live blogging the trial. people are cracking jokes like taylor isnt an actual human being and the point is………….you dont have to like her at all. you dont have to like her music, what she wears, who she’s dated, etc. the point is, she is a woman going through a sexual assault case in which there is aCTUAL PHOTOGRAPHIC EVIDENCE OF THE ASSAULT……and she still apparently doesnt deserve an ounce of respect from the general public for that? even the fans who see this as an opportunity to see her in person? absolutely atrocious and inconsiderate. sexual assault is nasty, horrifying, despicable, and downright degrading and you have the nerve to……just,,,,,fly right over all of that and go straight to violating privacy and posting memes and ugly headlines because of some nonsensical drama or some beef you have with her? what kind of world do we live in now. this isnt a fucking joke. i dont care who taylor is. where is your feminism now?

Taehyung takes being mean to you too far. Part.3

[Part.1] [Part.2] [Part.3] [Part.4] [Part.5] [Part.6] 

Originally posted by sweaterpawsjimin

Taehyung’s p.o.v

I don’t know what I’m doing here. I don’t know how I suddenly ended up walking my way here. But here I am, standing right in front of her front door. I knocked and I heard slow shuffling on the inside, I could’ve sworn she took five minutes just to get to the door. I hear the door unlock and the door handle turn. 

“Ya-” I cut myself off from telling her how she took so long to open the door. “You look like shit, what’s wrong with you?” She honestly looked as though she was about to pass out any second now. So I held her arm. 

“What are you doing here?” She slowly spoke out, obviously didn’t have the energy to fight back when I said that she looked like shit.

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Punk (Chap. 7)

Originally posted by miamirasmus

Summary: You’re head over heels for your best friend Bucky and hate the nickname he gave you as it doesn’t exactly scream romance.

Word count: 2510

Warnings: Same as always

A/N: Thank you for all of the feedback again I’m completely blown away.  Sorry that tags have been finicky, not sure what tumblr’s deal is lately.  I hope you like this chapter, thanks for sticking around!

The crisp, cold air outside the club was a welcoming relief but did little to halt the burning tears cascading down your cheeks or the hot waves of mortification and shame radiating out from deep within your very being.  The cold air bit at your nose and throat as you allowed yourself to suck in great gulps in attempts to keep the impending panic attack at bay.

This can’t be happening, this wasn’t supposed to happen.  Ethan stood at the curb, attempting to hail a cab while you toiled over your interaction with Bucky.  This wasn’t like how it was in the movies.  Wasn’t Bucky supposed to be completely awestruck with your transformation? Shouldn’t he have been at a loss for words? Instead he was completely taken aback for all the wrong reasons. He’d looked at you with utter confusion, probably wondering what the hell you were doing in a dress, wearing makeup, sporting heels, like he couldn’t believe what he was seeing…and he didn’t like it at all.

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You Are My Happily Ever After - Harry Hook x Reader

Originally posted by interwebber

Requested:Hi, i was wondering if you could write an imagine about Harry. Where you are jays younger sister and you went to auradon with the vks but dont feel like you fit in and want to go back to the isle. You go back with mal and run into an old friend and crush, Harry Hook. When the others come you help with ben you and jay get into a fight and you stay on the isle with Harry? Sorry its so long. Thank you if you can write this. i love your imagines, thank you for doing what you do!! :)

A/N I’d like to thank @kaylantus for the request. Hope you enjoy !! (:

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This all thing with acowar is making me so sad and angry. What’s happening with this fandom honestly? We’re all at each other throats, saying rude things about each other.

Why do people care if someone still ship Moriel? I’ll ship Nessian till the end of my fucking life, I don’t care if it’s canon. Why do people care if someone ship Elriel? I’ve seen soooo many ugly posts about calling elriel shippers such a rude names. This is a fucking book guys, you have no right to say that someone is not normal or that everyone ships Elriel because of this or because of that. Feelings of a real person is more important than your ship sinking.

People calling others out for liking Jurian, Keir or Eris. Who are you to decide who is to like? I can like whoever I want to. We all know they’re not heroes. And I’m intrigued by them and a lot of people are.

I know this is my fault and that I’m to blame because tumblr ruined my reading experience. Honestly I wasn’t even anticipating it so much because all of the drama before. I’m really thinking about deleting this shit

i have literally lost friends and family members because of this presidency and all of the ugliness it has brought out in people’s hearts

i have been told that my passion for fighting for the gay community (which i identify in) along with many other minority groups is “stressful”, “annoying”, or somehow dictates an “agenda”

i have been told that when i cry for my fellow human beings who still face discrimination that it makes me an “emotional snowflake” and that i need to find my “safe space” all because i shed a tear for humans that SUFFER and DIE

i have been told that being homophobic, sexist, or racist must be accepted now because “people are entitled to their opinions”

excuse my language, but, fuck that

you are allowed to have an opinion, but you are not ENTITLED to it. whatever you think or feel, good or bad, you can’t always control. we’ve all made a judgmental comment in our minds from time to time. the difference here is that while you have the free will to think, you do NOT have the ENTITLED RIGHT to act on it in a negative manner that can/does harm other human beings

i know a man who had an opinion once. i know others who shared that opinion. they took that opinion and turned it into power. they took that opinion and as a collective whole, murdered millions of people. because they believed something. that man with an opinion was Hitler, the people who shared his opinions were called Nazi’s, Nazi-supporters, White Supremacists, etc.

so no. you are not entitled to your opinion. if your opinion is an ugly, evil, disrespectful, immoral, unethical, uneducated, hateful, harmful one… you do NOT get to speak out on it and perpetuate it into society and fuel the chaos.

so if you’re reading this or any other political (or frankly human rights) posts and you feel annoyed or angry and just want nothing to do with it, remember what exactly that is called. being able to stay out of politics and live your life is privilege in action. not facing oppression/discrimination because of your skin color, wealth, gender, sexual orientation, religious preference, etc IS a privileged advantage in this world.

every time you turn your face the other way, you’re part of the problem. self care is important, i know this. we are not all capable of the same things, i get that. it’s scary and exhausting and sometimes dangerous to get involved. but purposefully ignoring evil and injustice that is happening all around you every single day right before your eyes is honestly condoning the bad. you might not be doing it, but you’re not trying to stop it either.

no, you don’t NEED to march. you don’t NEED to post something everyday on social media. you don’t NEED to be a physical activist in the streets. there are millions of us already doing that, and i understand the fear and risks involved with that. but what you SHOULD do is not turn a blind eye to it. if you see someone being racist, call them out on it. if you see someone facing discrimination, comfort them. If your loved ones are marching, support them. if you’re afraid to speak up, pray.

you can get involved on the right side of history by just simply being a decent, compassionate human being.

stay kind. stay informed. keep educating yourselves. keep communicating. love one another.

we are all in this together.

Sincerely Three x Chubby Reader Head Cannons

My first set of HCs, requests are open!


- He’s just so happy to have you and he doesn’t really notice your squish because YOU’RE SO BEAUTIFUL!

- One day you guys go to the mall and you go to try stuff on, he realizes you’ve been gone for a bit and looks for you.

- He finds you sitting in to dressing room on the verge of tears and you tell him that you’re upset because nothing fit

- He takes you to a different store with a wider variety and forces you to try on clothes till you find something you LOVE

- When you step out of the dressing room and he sees you he starts blushing and stuttering

- “You- you’re, wow. You look beautiful. I mean you always look beautiful, like wow your like like a goddess but but in that you-”

- “Thank you sweetheart”

- he buys it for you even though you told him not too

- He loves to cuddle you and just gently drag his finger tips over your skin.

- He always tells you that you’re gorgeous and that he loves you regardless of how you feel.

- He also takes the time to kiss and caress your stomach when you’re having sexy moments.

- He just wants you to love yourself as much as he loves you


- Jared actually made fun of you in grade school because he’s a shit

- He apologized when he became your lab partner in Junior year, because after puberty he got some chub too

- He realized you were insecure when he decided to get a bit handsy one day at his house

- You were making out on his bed and He began lifting your shirt

- you instantly pulled it back down and moved away from him

- “Awe come on babe”

- “Fuck you”

- He instantly sits next to you and cuddles into you. “What did I do wrong?”

- You tell him about how insecure you are and that you’re really not comfortable with him seeing you shirtless yet.

- He nods and you guys cuddle and he repeatedly whispers how beautiful you are

- He does this a lot

- He slowly tries to make you more
comfortable around him by joking about himself

- “BABE LOOK AT ALL THIS JIGGLE” he screams grabbing his belly and jiggling it around.

- He also makes his belly button talk. (It’s weird but you laugh anyway)

- But after awhile confides in you that he also is hella uncomfortable with his own body

- When you guy are both comfortable doing more,,, R rated deeds, he’s shocked that you’re the first one to take off your top.

- he’s not complaining.

- There’s a lot of ‘I love you’s’

- Also after sex cuddles are 10/10

- Also he totally makes “more cushion for the pushin” jokes.


- He was so fucking shocked when you talked to him that he couldn’t find a flaw in you considering you’re literally his only friend

- He heard some kids making fun of your weight and he was P I S S E D

- After scaring the shit outta some teens he hugged you so tight and told you to ignore them.

- He took you home and you cuddled in your bed even though he wasn’t the best with touching

- “You know, you’re 1000x more attractive than any of those asshats”

- You smiled gently and kissed his cheek, you didn’t believe him but it was the sweetest thing he’d said about you

- When your go out in public he always had an arm around your shoulders or waist and literally growls at anyone who looks at you wrong

- He loves to lay his head on your belly while you play with his hair

- Also he loves seeing you in his clothes because they fit you so nicely

- He may or may not has yelled at customer service in one store because they refused to carry your size.


- “Connor please”

- “In a moment love, WHAT GIVES YOU THE RIGHT-”

- You’re not allowed in that store anymore but you don’t care cause watching Connor blow up was kinda funny

- He loves to hold you and cuddle you

- He loves to hold you after sex and cuddle you and tell you how amazing you are

- He also makes sure you never stare at mirrors too long alone

- He loves the squish

Listen up new SBs


If you feel like you’re about to settle, ASK for what you want or drop that cheap piece of shit!!!!

I am tired of these girls who are too afraid to speak up for themselves and get stuck in $200 PPM overnights for months and then ask for help on how to get more from their “SD.”


I was new once. I was afraid to ask for money. But guess who wasn’t afraid to ask for my time and my body? LITERALLY EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THESE MEN. Whether they could pay or not.

So I started asking for compensation. The ones who never wanted to pay disappeared. The ones who were willing, paid.

Stop fucking playing yourself! These men can tell you that you’re beautiful and smart and not like those other greedy girls but do you really want to fuck somebody too old or too gross to be seen with in public FOR FREE because YOU don’t want to be MISTAKEN FOR AN ESCORT?

Well consider yourself conned because you have fallen for a common trap these ugly fools will play on everyone but only the girls who care about the reason why they got in the bowl in the first place will see right through.

I don’t care WHAT these guys call me, as long as I get my money. And if I don’t get my goddamn money, then that guy can bite the curb. He means nothing to me.

This is the attitude you need if you want to get half a stack for coming to breakfast with no makeup.

Fuck all that being charming and coy shit, you will actually lose money wasting gas driving to these meet ups without speaking up for yourself.

Seriously, speak up or leave. Because you are giving the impression that 45-65 year old men that they can manipulate a college girl into sucking their shriveled dicks dry by promising imaginary money.

And making it harder for the rest of us who have goals to achieve.

✰ * º ❛   that 70′s show sentence starters   ❜

‘  you know what your problem is? i’m too good looking.  ’
‘  god, what did you have for breakfast this morning? carnation instant bitch?  ’
‘  oh, is this what we’re gonna do today, we’re gonna fight?  ’
‘  because you’re breaking up the band, yoko!  ’
‘  an apple? where’s my candy, you son of a bitch.  ’
‘  she told me she loves me and then i told her i loved cake…  ’
‘  how’d you’d like to own a little bit of my foot in your ass?  ’
‘  look, if i could run across the beach into my own arms, i would.  ’
‘  you know he never liked phones. he said he could hear voices in ‘em.  ’
‘  when my time comes, i wanna be buried facedown so that anyone who doesn’t like me can kiss my ass.  ’
‘  you know what your problem is? you’re really cute… so no one ever told you to shut your pie hole.  ’
‘  god, we are such the… perfect couple?  ’
‘  you’re cold? well damn, i can’t control the weather!  ’
‘  the gym, or as i like to call it, the institute of things i can’t do.  ’
‘  well, i’d like to help but… not as much as i’d like not to.  ’
‘  don’t put me in your fantasies. i don’t even like being in your real life.  ’
‘  i don’t like people. i like rock n’ roll, sex, and pizza – in that order.  ’
‘  i’m not loving anybody that i’m not legally required to.  ’
‘  and if somebody doesn’t tell me i’m cute in the next five minutes, i’m gonna scream!  ’
‘  don’t hate me because i’m beautiful.  ’
‘  i can’t count on much in this crazy world, but i can always count on you.  ’
‘  i’m going to go out, meet some boys and crush their hearts one by one.  ’
‘  where zen ends, ass kicking begins.  ’
‘  you guys are fighting like cats and whores.  ’
‘  cake is good, but you cannot have sex with cake.  ’
‘  well, my head says no, but my heart says no.  ’
‘  the three true branches of the government are military, corporate, and hollywood.  ’
‘  hey man, if you don’t get caught, everything’s legal.  ’
‘  yeah, but god didn’t see that. i was in my van, and he can’t see through lead.  ’
‘  college is for ugly girls who can’t get modeling contracts.  ’
‘  college is for women who don’t want to marry the first idiot they meet and squeeze out his bastard moron children.  ’
‘  i was never happy. i was just less pissed off.  ’
‘  sometimes when i’m alone, i just love to cuddle.  ’
‘  i have a definite opinion on this… i don’t care.  ’
‘  when he’s unhappy, i know our relationship is in good shape.  ’
‘  all right, sleep tight and don’t let the bedbugs put their foot in your ass.  ’
‘  that’s your brain trying to comprehend its own stupidity.  ’
‘  we have some breaking news: i’m toasted.  ’
‘  but i don’t want to go outside. there are people out there.  ’
‘  oh, please. i’m a hot-looking, smooth-talking, frisky-assed son of a bitch.  ’
‘  no, i’m not pouting. that would upset our routine. god knows i wouldn’t want to move in a new direction and accidentally slip in a puddle of fun or anything.  ’
‘  i’ve just decided being sad is a waste of my time.  ’
‘  he called me ugly on the inside and the outside. i’m sorry, but he’s just wrong about the outside part.  ’
‘  i don’t really cook much. i just plan on getting by on my looks.  ’
‘  no, no, no, you just don’t move on from me. i’m like alcohol. you need a twelve-step program to break my smell.  ’
‘  you know, being here under the stars, sitting on the grass makes me really glad i’m not poor.  ’
‘  the person i love the most is me!  ’
‘  i was voted most popular, best legs, and now godmother? what can’t i do?  ’
‘  why am i alone and all of you less attractive people are happy?  ’
‘  it’s better to have loved and loss than to be butt ugly.  ’
‘  okay, i’ve said it before and i’ll say it again: everyone loves me.  ’
‘  why get out of bed when you can read about people who got out of bed?  ’
‘  i got a lot of free time. i mainly use it to nap and cry.  ’
‘  i’ll just curl up in the fetal position and think about pancakes.  ’
‘  have you been in bed all day?  ’
‘  last night i only slept like… nine hours.  ’
‘  i pity you because you’re dumb.  ’
‘  responsible people don’t go around getting their nipples twisted.  ’
‘  they want to kill rock n’ roll because they know it makes us horny, man.  ’
‘  i would love car sex… or just sex… or just a car.  ’
‘  no, i don’t feel bad. i don’t feel anything.  ’
‘  man, think about it. we hold information that could crush the very heart and soul of one of our best friends… i live for days like this!  ’
‘  it’s like we’re too old to trick or treat and too young to die.  ’
‘  talking isn’t gonna help me, okay? what’s gonna help me is, like, drinking.  ’
‘  hey, yeah, that’s the worst idea i’ve ever heard!  ’
‘  i wish i was an octopus.  ’
‘  thanks, but i’ve gotta go to sleep because i have a big day of misery ahead of me.  ’
‘  life is too short to spend it with people who annoy you.  ’
‘  well, for your information, i’m already sorry i was ever born.  ’
‘  i don’t have a hickey. i was using a curling iron.  ’
‘  give me a reason why i shouldn’t set you on fire.  ’
‘  i’m a hottie, you’re a nottie.  ’
‘  prison is not an option for me, okay? i can’t pee in front of other people.  ’
‘  man, time really flies when you take two naps a day.  ’
‘  oh, no. now i have to act normal.  ’
‘  oh, i just remembered i can’t loan it to you on account of i hate you.  ’
‘  i’ve been diagnosed with a disease that makes me irresistible to women.  ’
‘  you know what the best thing god ever did was? boobs.  ’
‘  i’m like ketchup. i go good on everything!  ’
‘  when we were about to fool around and i said that i washed my hands, but i really just got done playing with like six dogs.  ’
‘  there’s a rabbit stuck in a tree and i want to return that rabbit to the wild so it can lay its eggs.  ’
‘  if this is about maturity then i want nothing to do with it.  ’
‘  a wedding without a trampoline? that’s crazy talk.  ’
‘  i don’t wanna blink ‘cause i’m afraid to miss even a second of your cuteness.  ’
‘  you seem normal around your family, but out in the real world, you’re kinda nuts.  ’
‘  i could get arrested. i could go to girl prison. this freakin’ rocks!  ’
‘  my parents are fighting all the time and they want me to choose sides, but i can’t because they’re both idiots.  ’
‘  why would sally sell seashells down by the seashore? i mean, that’s a terrible location for a seashell stand.  ’
‘  i’m not strong, but i know a lot of ways to destroy men emotionally.  ’
‘  i don’t have feelings for him. i just hate that bitch for making him happy.  ’
‘  i’m not jealous, i just want to pop that inflatable bitch and watch her fly around the room.  ’
‘  hello, it is me, the object of your desire.  ’
‘  i’m a beautiful girl with a shrill, demanding voice. i’m pretty hard to ignore.  ’
‘  a gold digger is what these idiots call a woman who knows that love eventually wears off, but money is forever.  ’
‘  you see, a more productive use of my time is revenge.  ’
‘  i cannot be held responsible for the things that come out of my mouth.  ’
‘  i don’t answer stupid questions.  ’

Bedroom Church Choir



Pt. 1 (can be read as a standalone)

Melissa sang in the church choir.

She stood front row, sang first soprano, and always got the best solos. She’d had a gift—an uncanny ability to carry a multitude of emotion with a single syllable. A man who had never been fed a drop of religion in his life could know what it was like to know God, just by hearing Melissa sing.

Scully sat in the pews.

She’d be the first to tell you she couldn’t carry a tune. Her musical résumé included a few simple hymns she sang under her breath on the rare occasions she actually made it to Mass, and a monotone rendition of a Three Dog Night classic; she never wanted to be in choir.

But still she envied Melissa.

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K-Drama Starters Part II:
  • “Don’t give me that face.”
  • “I’m sorry to say that I’m still alive.”
  • “Were you always so heartless?”
  • “You might not know this but I used to hurt people with just a spoon.”
  • “I don’t like ugly people. It pains me to even talk to you.”
  • “He/she treats me like a sister/brother!”
  • “You startled me, you punk.”
  • “How can I get back at that jerk?”
  • “Not that it’s possible, but I’ll make myself even more beautiful.”
  • “Why are you here, you foxy lady/man?”
  • “How many children should we have?”
  • “Would you like some chocolate milk?”
  • “As expected, I don’t fit in.”
  • “I won’t wear it. Get rid of it.”
  • “I won’t get rid of it. Wear it.”
  • “This is the worst coffee I’ve ever tasted.”
  • “I tried my best to make this. Don’t be cruel.”
  • “Are you hurt anywhere?!”
  • “I’m proposing to you right now, you know.”  
  • “I could put you in danger.”
  • “Most people cringe when startled, but you get ready to punch.”
  • “I don’t care about who you were or what you did in a past life. I’d hate you just the same.”
  • “Hey, does my face look like this drawing?”
  • “I’m only sitting next to you because I have no other choice.”
  • “I thought you were only bad at singing but your sense of humor is also terrible.”
  • “Let’s go together. If we go together, it won’t be lonely.”
  • “You’re looking at me sensually, aren’t you?”
  • “It’s too dangerous. You can’t go.”
  • “You know that I like you, right?”
  • “Liking someone is a good thing. There’s no reason to hide it.”
  • “I’m going to become someone you can lean on.”
  • “It doesn’t matter who you are because I don’t care at all.”
  • “I made him/her cry.”
  • “I’ll protect you.”
  • “I wish I could have pizza until I feel sick.”
  • “I was passing by when I saw an ugly little girl. I called your name just to check.”
  • “I’m ashamed to be your friend.”
  • “What’s wrong with a motel?”
  • “My leg feels like it’s going to break!”
  • “Can I kiss you one more time?”
  • “It’s too bad we only got to do four romantic things.”
  • “What do you want to eat? Oh, right I forgot you don’t eat.”
  • “You forgot your hair.”
  • “You can give me back my sheets later.”
  • “You think I don’t know about your dark thoughts?”
  • “I just thought of one thing money can’t buy: your smile.”
  • “I’m going to become stronger so I can protect you.”
  • “Why are you being like this?”
  • “I just visited her fitness club, sweated a bit, and she took the bait.”
  • “Get lost; this is my house!”
  • “When did I eat all this?”
  • “Did you grab [NAME]’s hand and drag him/her by force?”
  • “I’d give you the world if you asked me to.”
  • “Shoot, I just made a cute face at [NAME]’s father.”
  • “He/she got 50th place.”
  • “I’m not manly.”
  • “Should I apologize or should I confess?”
  • “I can hear everything, you cheesy goblin!”
  • “Cut it out, you’re scaring me.”
  • “Put that back before you cause an international dispute.”
  • “Goodbye. Take care. Never come back.”
  • “He/she’s talking on the phone while driving. Please give him/her a ticket.”
  • “Black loafers with white socks? Are you Michael Jackson?”
  • “I got dressed up for nothing… I guess I should take some selfies.”
  • “You fall in love every time someone buys you food.”
  • “Your grades are really sad.”
  • “Let’s just say that you hugged me.”
  • “Your Mom says she doesn’t like me.”
  • “Go get your gun.”  
  • “We should do something special.”  
  • “Be careful. I’m a good fighter.”
  • “Congratulations on becoming a married man/woman.”
  • “How could you dump someone over text?!”
  • “Why are you laughing?”  
  • “How dare you?”
  • “You have no idea what I went through in the short period of an hour.”
  • “Where did you come from? I only closed my eyes for ten seconds?”
  • “Seeing your face makes me happy.”

‘5 years ago’


henlo moffat

henlo u STINKY moffat

bring back moriarty ugly

Dear pro lifers and pro choicers. Please stop doing this stuff asap.

Stuff that pro-lifers need to stop immediately:
• Screaming outside clinics that abortion is murder. Women who are getting abortions are often making that decision out of fear. There is no need to make them even more frightened, and then expect them to come running into your arms for support after you just told them that they’re going to burn in hell. I’m looking at you, Christians.
• Shaming young unmarried women for having children out of wedlock. If you claim to be pro-life, this literally has the opposite effect on women and will probably make them more likely to choose an abortion. God’s not cool with sex before marriage, but He actually loves kids a lot, especially since they have no part in the sin that caused them to come into this world, so please please stop.
• Causing discourse just for attention. I love getting angry fan-mail as much as the next guy (I get to use my snappy Judge Judy gifs) but being controversial to get reblogs…isn’t cool?? You should be building bridges and finding common ground and dare I say…compromising! (DUN DUN) There are women out there who need our help (AND WHEN I SAY “OUR” I MEAN BOTH PRO LIFERS AND PRO CHOICERS)  and your intentional discourse posts aren’t helping anybody. Try reblogging hotlines for abortion counseling instead ;)
• Please stop distancing yourselves from the LGBTQ community. I know, you don’t agree on everything…but I know a buncha atheist, lesbian pro lifers and they are some of the most passionate people I’ve met regarding this topic and they have important things to say. Please don’t dismiss their discussion as irrelevant. (This also means stop preventing from gay and lesbian couples from adopting btw…)
• PS there are people who have worked in abortion clinics that need a lot of healing and help. Don’t forget about them or dismiss their stories. Again, pointing fingers at the wrong people is just really really destructive to your cause.
• Realize that no matter how many abortion clinics you shut down, there will always be women who think that abortion is their only choice. I used to get so offended by people who would say “If you make it illegal then women will just do it in their bedrooms with coat hangers!” I’ll admit, I was wrong to be offended. I don’t know how much truth there is to that statement because it’s hypothetical but if there is then everyone needs to get together and make abortion unthinkable, not illegal. That means erasing every fear that a woman has which might make her get an abortion. That means supporting her financially (REGARDLESS OF WHETHER OR NOT SHE’S MARRIED??) and emotionally and pointing her to a local pregnancy resource center which will be filled with people who will BE THERE FOR HER.

Stuff that pro-choicers need to stop immediately:
• Trying to pass abortion off as painless and having no detrimental side-effects. This is baseless…and it belittles all of the women who have been affected by abortion. Studies have shown an increase in depression and even suicide after abortion procedures and there’s a reason for that. It’s a very big decision and there is a lot of weight to that. I know 3 women personally who are very close to me who have had abortions when they were younger and nothing would be more horrifying to them to be told that abortion is nothin’ to sneeze at (emotionally, mentally, or physically). You’re doing nothing for your cause by perpetuating this. And that includes making movies (gag) or writing articles in teen magazines that make abortions seem like fun, (double gag)
• Telling pro-lifers that they need to keep their Bibles “out of my vagina.” First of all, ew. Second of all there are a lot of pro life atheists out there! Check out New Wave Feminists and Rehumanize international! The pro life stance doesn’t really have anything to do with religion. (People like to make it seem that way though unfortunately…-____- ) A lot of times pro lifers will claim to be religious because Christianity backs up the pro life stance but that doesn’t make it an exclusive group. So please, can we…ditch this phrase asap? Unless you want to completely ignore all of those LGBTQ pro lifers out there?? Cause that’s not cool bro!
• Please stop pushing back with the “I hope you’re ready to adopt a million children then! Who’s going to take care of all those kids!??” argument. People aren’t rats that need to be dealt with. This makes you sound awful…and I’m not saying that to be controversial. It’s just…bad. I’ve heard this a dozen times from pro choicers and I still don’t really know what kind of answer they expect from me. Who’s going to take care of all those “extra” kids?? ME. And people. People are. People who care about those kids. Pro choice, pro life, pro whatever. They’re out there I guarantee it. I always have to tell people that my family tried to adopt but we had too many kids in our family already. If you’re pulling this card you might as well be telling my that my tie is ugly and you don’t like my face. Instead of using this as a reason in your discussion, why not bring up how you’re working towards improving the quality of foster care systems or helping to lower the cost of adoptions? (Because you’re doing that right?? wink winky) This discussion needs to be more constructive.
• Please stop telling women that motherhood is the end of their careers. I know…pro lifers are the ones telling women “no” but guess what? Women are strong as hell. Yes, motherhood changes you. But find me one woman who, while holding their own child would rather have had an abortion and I’m pretty sure they would choose motherhood every time. (Ask your own mother if you like!) Historically women spent too long being told that they can’t have things in this world - why should we tell them that they can’t be moms and have a beautiful life? I know…it’s ironic coming from someone who thinks abortion isn’t cool but regardless of my beliefs if you’re all for choice then you should be promoting choice, even if it’s motherhood. 

Stuff that pro choicers and pro lifers can do asap
• Be. Nice. To. Each Other. STARTING NOW.
• Stop playing tug-a-war over women. Get out there and realize that regardless of your stance, abortion is an important topic about a procedure that can actually affect women negatively, and then decide what can be done to minimize that.
• Go be a part of the solution and support a local crisis pregnancy center. If you claim to be for a woman’s choice then start standing up for the women who don’t feel like they have a choice. These women are out there. They exist. Do not silence them please. I’m talking about the women who got knocked up and are being scared into and driven to abortion clinics by their boyfriends (”because who wants to pay child support??”) or their parents (”No unmarried daughter of mine is going to church [or school] 9 months pregnant”)
• Wanna do something radical? Get together (THE BOTH OF YALLS) and debate civilly. Like, talk it out. Build bridges. COMPROMISE A LITTLE. Yes, it’s true. Pro choicers and pro lifers are not going to agree on the personhood of the child. That’s the root of the conflict…and for the most part it’s just not going to happen. But pro choicers and pro lifers can both at least agree that abortion is a symptom of something larger. And with that in mind there can be progress! No little girl grows up dreaming to one day get an abortion. We both know that it’s not the best choice but some of us believe it’s the only choice, and that it’s honestly necessary despite the risks. 1 in 3 women get an abortion by the time they’re 45. That’s staggering. Why have we failed women so? It’s time to actually start making practical solutions to this problem without name-calling and mud-smearing. There’s just way too much at stake.

- a ticked off jakey

PS there’s a bunch more for both sides but i’m trying to keep things balanced and these are the ones that tick me off the most. i also don’t represent either group as a whole. i’m just me and these are my thoughts.
PPS please read the whole post before reblogging in case there’s something I said that you don’t agree with. i wouldnt want you to get nasty hate mail for something i said.

Don’t Deserve You

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Title: Don’t Deserve You

Pairing: Dean x Reader

Word Count: 1,255

Warnings: angst, fluff

A/N: This was not requested, but I felt the inspiration to write this fic from THIS song! I hope you all enjoy this! Feedback is welcomed and appreciated! I love you all so much! <3 I am EXTREMELY proud of this one.

Dean Winchester was the first face you saw when air found its way back into your lungs.  He was the one who saved you; he was the reason you were alive.  It was the day your father took his own life.  He set the garage on fire.  Dean was the one who pulled you out of the garage.  Ever since that day, your bond with Dean changed.  It was much stronger.  Sometimes you felt like you didn’t deserve Dean, even though you couldn’t imagine life without him.

There were countless times where Dean had been there for you.  When you were falling apart, Dean was always there to help you.  He was always there, without question.  Even when you tried to fight it, he never let you down.

Dean grabbed your arm as flames engulfed half of the room.  “[Y/N] come on,” Dean shouted in desperation.  “We gotta get out of here!”  

“Dean I can’t leave my mom,” you cried, your eyes glued to the fiery ceiling.  “She’s the only family I have left.”

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Ya’ll always fucking sleep on the fucking sunshine that is Jung Hoseok, when there is a good fucking chance that Bangtan would not be as great as dancer’s without him.

He literally helps everybody with the choreography. He’s extremely talented, someone WHO learned how to rap just so he could be in Bangtan. He’s got a beautiful singing voice, fuck I’m so just peeved right now.

I’m tired of people fucking sleeping on him because he’s, “ugly,” or “extra,” etc. He’s not fucking ugly, and who cares if he’s extra? That’s his personality - he’s extra to try to make his fans smile. There’s a reason he gave himself the nickname, “Jhope.” He wants to be your hope, your angel when you need it and one.

C'mon people. Wake the fuck up.

anonymous asked:

I know you said you don't want to talk about this topic anymore but you hace always been balanced, you have never written hateful things about Sam (or Cait) so I would like to read a post of yours about all of this. Because I know I won't read anything hateful or disgusting but something that comes out from the heart of a kind person. And God knows how this shipper community needs more kind people right now.

Thank you, anon. That is nice to say.

I’m actually in the situation that I don’t know how to proceed. Reading what was said here over night, was like looking into an ugly mirror. I don’t want to be that person, who makes derogatory comments about a young woman. Calling her “crosseyed”,  with “no neck” and “fat shoulders” etc etc. 

Disgusting. And the reason? She might be a person Sam cares about. Maybe even loves. Maybe is very serious about. Or not. Who knows? In any case it is no reason to insult her.

For the record: I love Sam and Cait. I love Outlander. I think Sam and Cait are wonderful people. The might not always make wise decisions, but it is not our business how they live their life, with whom they’re in love and with whom they’re not. We might live in our own little fantasy world and wish for a fairy tale, because WE think the fairy tale would be wonderful, but that doesn’t mean it IS going to happen. 

I know I’m terribly curious. There’s no other excuse for my shipping. I also know it is not my place to be curious. I know I shouldn’t ship real people, because they’re real people with real feelings, but I thought it was okay, as long as I did it respectfully. I just love them together. They’re so cute, so wonderful, they glow, they make me happy. They’re a way to forget my own problems, to push worries away and frustrations. 

I think most people in a fandom have a reason to be there. We don’t need to pretend, that we’re all successful, happy, attractive women, who just happen to have this little obsession with Outlander and the two actors in it. I think we all know, that this little obsession is an escape for many of us. Not all probably, but a lot of people. And probably even more so for the most active people in this fandom. An escape from whatever trouble and problem and depression is in our lives and that is perfectly OK. We need it and it is good for us and it helps us to cope with really difficult times.

But real life shipping gets difficult if the real story doesn’t match the fantsy and we can’t cope with that. We have to realize, if the real story is a different one, then so be it. Where is the tragedy in it? Where does it really affect me whether Sam and Cait are together or not?

It doesn’tl. I’d need another hobby, that’s all. Because I’m a shipper mainly because it offers entertainment. It keeps me busy all day and the great thing about it is: It never ends. No hiatus, no Droughtlander. Sam and Cait are always there, always available for my shipper entertainment.

I thought it was okay, as long as it was done respectfully.

But for me the line was drawn tonight. I didn’t see much respect. It got nasty and ugly and I don’t want to be part of this.

Sam and Cait just live their life with or without other people in it. Who knows and who cares?

I’m undecided how to proceed. Maybe just concentrate on Outlander? I do love the show, but it is off air for another 6 months! And I don’t watch any other show. Not one. I just don’t watch TV. 

Maybe I should try to hold back more. Just try to create my own little bubble of shippers, who love Sam and Cait and love the fantasy, but are able to talk about the other people in their lives without malice and who can accept that there might be no truth behind our shipping. There are a lot of shippers, who don’t participate in the nasty. Maybe I should concentrate on those.

I really don’t know.