this is the best post on my blog okay

anonymous asked:

Truth or dare, 19 and 24?

19: (truth) What is the first thing you remember having to keep secret? Haha, my sexuality and gender. (dare) Tag five bloggers who you associate with being obsessed with something particular, and list what each of them is obsessed with. @fandomsandanythingelse being amazing! @pirate-patton hatred of sweet potatoes @thelogicalloganipus being the best Logan @here-to-vent being awesome @alivingfandomreference being gay


24: (truth) If you could only own five material objects (not counting life necessities like food/water/a house/etc) what would they be? My electronics Does internet count? My books My instruments Drawing supplies (dare) Put your music player on shuffle. Post what the first three songs are, and for each one, tag a blog that the song reminds you of. -Alex Goot, Breathless- damn okay hit me with a really hard one… @thelogicalloganipus sorry you were the first that came to mind. -Waving Through a Window from Dear Evan Hansen- STOP GIVING ME HARD ONES- oh wait this is easy @alivingfandomreference -Swan Song Set it Off (Nightcore)- aw geez… Nope, noppity nope nope, NOT DOING IT.

Just Remember

Alright, so, this is probably going to be my last Fic post in THIS blog, it will still be active, it will still post Voltron stuff, I just start posting the fics from my WRITER Blog, so everything is orginized and stuff :D

Anyways, I was having a shitty morning with myself so, I wanted to scream but I couldn’t bc I was in traffic and like, so many people around so I did the best thing: I wrote. 

Langst but also happy langst. Even Lance have these moments guys, they are valid and okay. 

Ps. Hope it’s not too hard or stressful to read? 

Disclaimer: Voltron dosen’t belong to me. 


Shiro’s disappointed glare.

Lance punches the bag.

Pidge’s annoyed roll of eyes.

Another punch followed by a kick.

Keith’s exasperated scoff.

Kick, punch, shout.

Hunk’s exhausted sigh.

Punch, kick, punch, tears.

Coran’s shake of head.

Tears, punch, shout.

Allura’s skeptical frown.

Screams.

Lance screams and shouts and curses. He lets it all out. He lets his words and shouts echo around as he falls to his knees in the middle of the training room. He hiccups as sobs shake his body. He doesn’t bother to wipe away his tears, he lets them fall to the ground and stain the mat below him.

He curses loudly and lividly for every part of him that makes him feel unworthy. He weakly punches the mat as he whimpers and his shoulders lose their strength.

Shiro’s disappointed glare turns into a concern one once he catches Lance’s weak whimpers as he cradles his own hand to his chest.

Frowning in worry, Shiro steps into the training room and takes a seat besides the brunet as Lance tries to hide his injured wrist.

“Lance, buddy, there’s no need to push yourself, I told you.” He reprimands gently, giving him a look when the brunet doesn’t allow him to get a better look of his wrist, “This training is new, you don’t need to be an expert the very same day you learn it.”

Lance sighs as he lets Shiro takes his wrist into his hands and the older teen inspects it carefully. and just hums dryly as an answer.

“Buddy, you’re already our sharpshooter, it’s okay to take your own pace as you learn to improve yourself.” Shiro says quietly after a few minutes in silence as he wraps Lance’s wrist in a white bandage, “You are getting used to the new form of your bayard, these things take time.”

“I know.” Lance answers softly, a small frown on his face, “But I feel like I’m letting you all down if I don’t learn to use it fast enough. What if we are in the battle field and because I still don’t know how to use or if I shot someone innocent or worse, one of you guys, by accident and -”

“Lance.” Shiro cuts off, not unkindly, “You’re our sharpshooter. The entire team and I have full faith in you.” He offers a proud smile at the brunet, “You would never miss a shot.”

Lance takes a deep breath as he let go of his abused lower lip. He sighs, wiping the thin line of blood coming from the corner of his mouth as he raises his head.

“It’s all in your mind.” Lance tells himself, placing a hand over his eyes to block out the light. “It’s all in your mind, it’s all in your mind. It’s okay. It’s valid. Just remember.”

The brunet takes a deep breath. “Just remember.”

He stays in silence for a little longer.

Pidge’s roll her eyes annoyed as Lance cheers in victory when the screen in the break room flashes the words of ‘Victory For Azul’ in big gold letters.

“Yeah, ok, you win this round, Mister.” Pidge says, shoving him by the arm, smirking when the brunet’s laughs, “I will win the next round, for sure.”

Lance chuckles as he raises his hand and ruffles Pidge’s wild bed hair. “We have been playing this game for like two hours, Pidge, aren’t you tired of me already?”

Pidge scoffs as if the mere question offended her. “Pick up your controller, Mr. Spanish; I’m kicking your ass.” She declares as she presses a few buttons and the screen shows the announcement of Round 4.

Pidge wins until Round 10.

Lance’s mouth twitches as his brain keeps filling him with the missing scenes with his team.

Inhale. Hold. Exhale.

He falls back on the mat and lays down, closing his eyes as he repeats his breathing exercise.

“You’re okay.” He breathes out softly, “You’re okay, you’re okay, you’re okay.”

Keith scoffs exasperated as he watches his boyfriend hog the entire blanket in their bed.

“Lance, no.” He whines, stomping his foot against the floor, “Stop hogging the blanket every time I go take a shower.”

“Nop.” Lance replies from the bottom of the mountain of blankets, “You’re the one who wants to train so late, bear the consequences, buddy.”

“Babe!” The black haired man shouts annoyed and Lance suppresses his snickers as Keith’s pouts.

“Nope.” He repeats gleefully before yelping in surprise when a body slams itself from above, successfully crushing him, “Keith!”

Keith laughs playfully as he lays above Lance comfortably on his stomach, meeting Lance’s bright blue eyes easily even in the darkness around them, “Hi there.”

Lance snorts before he smiles. “Hello, hello.” He answers softly, reaching towards his boyfriend and Keith quickly meets him halfway.

“You’re comfy.” Keith confesses quietly against his lips and Lance laughs.

“Oh, hush.” He says as he smiles and nuzzles his face against Keith lovingly.

Lance hums quietly under his breath as his breathing goes back to normal after a few minutes.

He taps the surface of the mat he’s lying in with the tip of his fingers, following the rhythm of the song he’s humming.

Hunk sighs exhausted as he takes in the sight of his best friend covered in food goo.

“Lance, buddy, what’cha doin’?” He asks, fighting back the grin that threatens to appear as the brunet blinks surprised.

“Uh…” He starts, voice trailing unsure, “The mice made me do it?”

Said group of mice squeak at the accusation before Hunk accepts his losing battle as he laughs.

“Let me guess?” Hunks say and Lance nods, waving his hand as permission, “You tried to make my goo cookies?”

A pause.

“No…?” Lance answers, smiling innocently as some goo falls from his hair and Hunk shakes his head.

“Dude, if you wanted some you could have just ask me.” He says, stepping into the kitchen and wiping some of the goo from his friend’s hair and then grabs a clean cloth from the counter.

Lance pouts as he accepts the cloth and wipes his face. “I didn’t want to bother you.” He confesses softly.

Hunk snort amusedly. “Buddy, baking, food and you will never be a bother for me.” He reassures, smiling big and bright at the sheepish brunet, “Now, come on! Let’s do some baking!”

“I heard baking!” Shiro’s shout echoes around them as the leader of Voltron slides into the kitchen with a bright smile, “I call dibs on Lance’s biscuits.”

“No, no, those are mine, Shiro!” Come Keith’s shout as the younger brother jumps on Shiro’s back to fight him.

Lance and Hunk start baking, ignoring the wrestling brothers on the floor.

The brunet takes his training gloves as he sighs calmly when the door of the training room opens and closes and steps makes their way towards him.

He doesn’t need to open his eyes to acknowledge the warm body lying beside him.

He takes Keith’s hand into his own in silence.

Coran shakes his head and Lance’s face fall.

“Hey, come on, now.” Coran says as soon as he notices the brunet’s sad eyes, “You are doing great, Lance! You got 9 out of 12 correct!” He praises, smiling big and proud at the brunet sitting in front of him.

Lance pouts. “Well yeah, but still, I’m still nowhere good. I can barely understand it! I will be a miracle if I’m ever able to speak it with you guys.”

Coran’s face softens at the words. “Oh, Lance, the mere fact you want to learn Altean is enough. Allura and I are so grateful that you are giving us this small time of normality that allows us to remember our roots.”

He leans forward to ruffle Lance’s head. “You’re doing great, mikró ílio.”

Lance blinks before he beams. “Little sun.” He translates softly and Coran smiles back just as brightly, pride clear in his eyes.

He doesn’t know how long they have been lying there, but at some point, Lance’s humming had stopped but Keith’s voice had filled in the silence, singing softly and quietly under his breath,

Lance allows himself to smile.

Allura’s skeptical frown turns into a confused one as Lance points at the corner of the screen.

“Okay, I understand your point, but wouldn’t it be easier to create a distraction and then just take the quintessence?” She asks and Lance taps his chin in deep thought.

“Well,” He starts, “It’s an option, but remember that the quintessence is something real valuable to the Galra, specially to Lotor now that Zarkon is out of commission. Their guards have been doubled since out last attack.”

Tapping twice into the screen, the video of their last mission appears. “See? The room is filled with druids plus some Galra Soldiers and the occasional Supervisor making rounds. A direct attack would only put them in higher alert even when some of us are sneaking in.”

“So sneaking in from the start is the best option.” Allura muses and Lance shrugs.

“It’s our best shot.” Lance declares, smiling when Allura nods her head at him and smiles.

“Well, you’re our sharpshooter, there’s no way we’re missing this.”

“Thank you, amor.” Lance says softly, turning his head to meet Keith’s face and his heart flutters when Keith’s blue eyes meet his own.

Keith stops his singing to smile gently at his boyfriend, “You okay?” He asks quietly, reaching out to brush Lance’s bangs away from his face and his eyes turn tender when the brunet nuzzles his face against his hand.

“Nah, my mind is still being a bitch.” Lance confesses, turning slightly to drop a small kiss against Keith’s palm, “But you being here kicks its ass, so I will be.”

“And I will be here.” Keith says, leaning forward to drop his own his against the brunet’s forehead.

“Thank you, amor.”

How Dan and Phil probably broke up #43
  • Dan: *sacrifices Phil to Satan*

It’s funny how personal stimming can be. This is my best imitation of one of my mom’s favorite stims, which she highly recommends for self soothing.

It doesn’t work for me at all. Doing it feels forced, not like my own stims, which feel like breathing.

And yet I’ve “tried out” other stims and had them seamlessly integrate themselves into my body language and sensory diet.

Every autistic person is unique. If your stims don’t look like the “common”/expected stims, it’s okay. You’re okay, and you’re still autistic.

If your stims are exactly what you’ve seen in scaremongering videos, articles, and blog posts, it’s okay. You’re okay, and you’re not a freak, annoying, or a tragedy.

If you’ve started stimming more or differently since finding out you’re autistic, or picked up stims from other people, it’s okay. You’re okay, and you’re not faking.

Happy Autism Acceptance Month. You’re okay, and you are loved.

(reblogs encouraged)

hi, hey, hello it’s me, emma, here again! i decided it was once again time for me to host a new studyblr awards as i recently discovered that i have a total of 10k friends. yes, 10,000 people are enjoying my blog and can you even imagine how weird that feels?

okay now on to the rules:

— be mostly a studyblr
— there is no need for you to follow me but it would be nice if you do
— if you are a side blog, please mention your main in the tags
— you must reblog this post at least once

categories:

— fave small blog( under 1k)
— fave medium blog(1k- 3k)
— fave large blog( 3k+)
— best overall
— best theme
— best original content
— sweetest blogger

prizes:

— mentioned in a post that shows up on 10k+ dashes
—  a genuine follow from me ( i follow from @humina )
—  you can request shout outs and subtle promos 3 times
—  if you want you can request moodboards, name aesthetics or anything similar

disclaimer - this is not indicative of how good a student, blog, or person you are! these are merely my own opinions and favourites okay?

the deadline is july 31st so you have plenty of time to enter! please enter and don’t let this flop lol.

Here’s a reminder to anyone here who is new or who doesn’t know, or even those of you that have forgotten, that the submit for this blog is permanently open to suggestions for gentle reminders. And if this is being posted, the queue is almost empty! 

Despite the entirety of the GRSHN being run and administered by one person, that doesn’t mean that my journey to spread positivity is walked alone; thanks to this blog and all of you, it never has been.

Any and all suggestions for posts will be extremely appreciated, however it’s okay if you don’t want to or can’t submit anything, or if you would rather your submit come through as anonymous; I’ve tried my best to offer as many options as I can to include everyone who wants to help out. I appreciate all of you, no matter what. However please be mindful of the rules of submitting before you send anything in.

This is a great way to be involved with the GRSHN, this blog, and the community’s efforts towards spreading positivity. Thank you all so much for the continuous and overwhelming support since day one; let’s continue to make dashboards a brighter place!

I hope you have a lovely day today. :)

submit a reminder

Haikyuu!! boys on first dates
Haikyuu!! boys on first dates

Hinata: Kageyama thanks for taking me on this really romantic date. And to top it all off with sitting on the hillside and watching the stars, you know Kageyama, I-
Kageyama: I need to pee is there a bathroom anywhere around here
Hinata: Way to ruin the moment

Daichi: So your profile listed your hobbies as, uh, me.
Sugawara: You know it
Daichi: How can you… have you been stalking me?

Kuroo: So, do you come here often?
Tsukishima: No. Never. I travelled hours to see you. Why would I come here often?

Oikawa: Can you believe that it took us this long to go on a date, Iwaizumi?
Iwaizumi: This is our wedding. We’re getting married. What the hell are you talking about?
Oikawa: All those years waiting for you to take me on a date. Wow.

Nishinoya: Where should we go on our first date? What about an amusement park? Or the movie theatre? Or maybe we should-
Asahi: These all sound like things you’re too small to get in to and you need an adult looking person around to get in to
Nishinoya: Nuh uh
Asahi: Are you dating me to get in to R rated movies
Nishinoya: …..maybe

Akaashi: Bokuto-san the whole point of a petting zoo is that you’re supposed to pet the animals
Bokuto: There was absolutely nothing on the farm that said you can’t take the animals home
Akaashi: Look, I can understand you trying to get away with stealing a hamster, you literally tried to hide a goat in your backpack
Bokuto: Yeah, so? He wanted to come with me.
Akaashi: You were leading him on with a handful of food
Bokuto: WELL AT LEAST SOMEBODY WANTED TO HOLD MY HAND

Mattsun: So, date, where are we going?
Makki: It’s 2017 Mattsun everyone just @#:$’s on the first date now.
Mattsun: Oh. Well. Yeah okay. Okay I’ll give you that one.
Makki: I don’t know what you expected off of grindr
Mattsun: Look don’t think about it

anonymous asked:

hi senpai! what are your recommendations for skk and fyoya fics? love your blog!

OKAY IT’S THAT TIME OF THE MONTH AGAIN RUBS HANDS HERE WE GO

I’ve already made 2 fic rec posts HERE and HERE but because I lurk like a loser here are some more recs:

- Anything and everything by Kuranoa. Hands down one of the best fyoya + skk combi writers in my book, really lovely humor but when she angsts it smashes you until you’re a pile of dust and you hate yourself but you keep reading. And my god her Chuuya is badass adorable

- Anything by Memos. Not even gonna lie I cry over her nsfw at least 30 times a day then cry some more in the bathroom then cry some more before I go to bed because her fics are just that good

- Anything by AnonLearnsToWrite. Their humour is grade S excellent I laugh everytime, it’s really so on point and their plots are so damn precious and I really love their characterizations of Dazai. But can they please update Three’s a crowd because I’m dying. 

- Anything by writingfromtheshadows. Especially if you’re a fan of mafia boss Dazai and badass Chuuya. The ust can drive you nut at times but they do compensate with… several pieces of delicious nsfw and generally I just want more but pls stop killing me with the ust.

- At this point, deep sighs, sells soul to devil, anything by Kibasix. But everyone and their fifth removed cousins know I’m blatantly a Kibasix fangirl so what else is new really. 

- All the skk fics by WhisperingWinds99 because I’m kind of a loser and haven’t really read their sskk ones. BUT THEIR FICS ARE REALLY ADORABLE AND PRECIOUS AND IT SOOTHES MY SOUL EVERYTIME MY FLUFFY ANGEL AMONG ALL OF YOU ANGSTY DEVILS. 

- I generally really love hitherelovely’s fics because mmmmmmm their Dazai is delicious and just KDSJFHAKJFHAKF FANS SELF but their themes might be a bit heavy for some of you so this is a rec but rec with caution please read tags carefully before proceeding.

- Noir. This fic is one of the rare instances where I have to say that the portrayal of Chuuya is perfect. It explores his relationships with other characters in such a good way that it makes everything in my soul hurt. And the realistic ending of it makes me cry all the way until this day. Please. For the love of God. Read it.   

- Touch me. AKA THAT ONE TEACHER! DAZAI/MILITARY!CHUUYA THAT I FINALLY GOT HOLY SHIT INCOHERENT KEYBOARD SLAM. Very detailed setting, Chuuya is the cutest, Dazai is a little shit just like how I want him to be, and the smut… oooooh boooooooy. I’ve already recced her in my last posts and there’s a sequel in progress as well so tbh just check out her profile

A Spring Without You is Coming. Aka that one fic that made me curse three times in the span of 2 minutes 48 seconds because WOW WHO AUTHORIZED THAT HOW DARE  YOU WHAT THE FUCK. No seriously what the fuck. What. Who hurt you.

Mommy Is Daddy’s Only! THIS ONE HAS BABY SKK AND IT’S REALLY CUTE AND IT ALSO HAS FYOYA AND TACHUU IN IT SO HELL YEAH. Or you can just read it solely for Akutagawa throwing his milk bottle in Fyodor’s face.

- 1893. Oh my god. Dazai’s POV in this. I’m just. I have no words. Actually I have one word. Gorgeous. Absolutely stunning. Wow that’s 3 words but okay it’s so good it would deserve 3 thousand words but I’m just mostly speechless.

- Eight time’s the charm. Ever feel like being cockblocked? Then cockblocked some more? Then cry because you got so cockblocked you don’t know what to do? This is just the right fic for you. Just. Trust me. Go for it. 

- The Courtesan. Let’s see. You have Fyoya and SKK. You have courtesan Chuuya (whisper through gritted teeth yes holy shit). You have your one and only Moulin Rouge AU. And the writing is gorgeous. Need I say more chop chop get on it but BRACE YOURSELF FOR THE FRIGGIN PAIN BECAUSE MOULIN ROUGE. 

gentle reminders from you

Here’s a reminder to anyone here who is new or who doesn’t know, or even those of you that have forgotten, that the submit for this blog is permanently open to suggestions for gentle reminders. And if this is being posted, the queue is almost empty!

Despite the entirety of the GRSHN being run and administered by one person, that doesn’t mean that my journey to spread positivity is walked alone; thanks to this blog and all of you, it never has been. 

Any and all suggestions for posts will be extremely appreciated, however it’s okay if you don’t want to or can’t submit anything, or if you would rather your submit come through as anonymous; I’ve tried my best to offer as many options as I can to include everyone who wants to help out. I appreciate all of you, no matter what. However please be mindful of the rules of submitting before you send anything in. 

This is a great way to be involved with the GRSHN and the community’s efforts towards spreading positivity. Thank you all so much for the continuous and overwhelming support since day one; let’s continue to make dashboards a brighter place!

I hope you have a lovely day today. :)

[[ THE ADVISOR SPEAKS ]]

-slowly peeks out- 

Is it…is it finally time for me to come back…?

//looks around// Is this fandom…still alive….?

… 

No promises but…

There will be activity here again :DDDDD

whatamidoinidk  asked:

(please bear with me) Okay, so, I'm a 15 year old freshman in highschool, and I've wanting to create some sort of series, whether it be a comic, or something else for a few years. I haven't too serious about it, but after one my of my friends showed me your video, for some reason, i was especially inspired. Now, I already have one character... but that's all i got. How did you come up with the things in your film? And did you ever experience "writer's block"? and if so, how did you deal with it?

No worries dude!  So okay, I’m gonna’ be honest, when I read this, I was hit with such a weird mix of, like, “god this is literally impossible to answer”, and “man I remember feeling that way when I was 15″.  So I guess the best thing I could do is elaborate.

<ENTIRE poorly-structured NOVEL BELOW THE CUT.  I MISTAKENLY THOUGHT THIS WAS BEING POSTED TO MY PERSONAL BLOG.  YOU’VE BEEN WARNED.>

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Aro-spec Awareness Week 2017

Hey everyone :)

As you might (or might not) know, Aro-spec Awareness Week will be from 19th till 25th February this year - less than a week from now!

I really wanted to do something for Aro-spec week this year, but sadly it’s still exam season here, so I barely have any time for tumblr. Since Aro-spec Week is only once a year I didn’t want to miss it completely, though - and this is where you come in.

If you want to celebrate Aro-spec Week 2017 on this blog, share your ideas/thoughts/art/puns/… with me!

I’ve drawn up a quick plan for posts (though this isn’t written in stone, so if you have any suggestions for other themes or have a post that doesn’t fit the theme of the day, please submit anyway):

Sunday, 19th February: Aro-spec headcanons!
You know that one character who is totally aro-spec? The one you could relate to immediately or read that one fanfic of and headcanoned them as aro-spec ever since? Whether you have drawings, stories or just write the character’s name (and series/movie/book) in my submission box, it will be highly appreciated!

Monday, 20th February: Aro-spec Art Day
Quick aro doodles and art of your favourite character or the aro flag or whatever you can think of! Or do you have a favourite piece of aro-spec art on tumblr? Tag me and I’ll reblog it!

Tuesday, 21st February: How did you find out you were aro-spec?
Whether there was one specific event you can recall perfectly or many small moments that still sometimes make you realize that you’re way too aro-spec for this sh*t - share them here!

Wednesday, 22nd February: What I like about the a-spec community
What is says in the title - what do you like about the aro-spec community? The chatrooms, the puns, this very blog? ;) (Okay, I was just kidding with that last one, but really - submit away:D)

Thursday, 23rd February: Intersectionality
Aro-spec and asexual, bisexual, heterosexual, homosexual, pansexual…? Tell me about your struggles or experiences, share art, jokes, whatever!

Friday: 24th February: Aro-spec recommendations
A book/tv show/movie with an aro-spec character? Your favourite aro fanfic? A cool playlist? Share your recommendations here!

Saturday, 25th February: Aro Jokes and Puns
Everyone knows we have the best jokes - of course this had to be part of aro-spec week!

I’ll try to fill my queue with posts related to these topics, but it would be super awesome if you could share your own ideas etc. - either by submitting something to this blog (whether it’s a page-long rant or two words - I’ll happily take it) or tagging me in your posts so I can reblog them!

The earlier you submit, the more time I have to sort out my queue, so submissions start right now - but if you find/make something on the last day of Aro-spec Week, please submit anyway :) I’ll use the hashtags ‘#arospec17′ and ‘#arospec awareness week’

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time for some late night body positivity. because this is my blog and I do what I want.

so here’s me. no makeup, no filter, nothing. I have really bad skin. redness, acne, and psoriasis all over my face.

this post is just to say that even though i’m really dang self conscious about my skin, it’s still me. and I will love it, whether or not others consider it worth loving.

[shaky off-tune kazoo version of the jaws theme playing in the distance]

Hello, everyone.

First of all, I’m so incredibly sorry for just vanishing for more than half a year, especially because I realized my last post was about a hospital stay (which I did mention was harmless, but probably still looks pretty ominous as a last post.)
I feel terrible for making people worry, especially since there’s already enough upsetting stuff happening :c 

To be honest I’m a little nervous writing this post right now after being gone for so long, but I really wanted to give a life sign! This weekend I finally checked my inbox, and I was incredibly touched by all the sweet messages. I can’t get back to everyone so let me just thank all of you who sent messages or replies, or even just thought about me! I cannot put into words how much it means to me ;-; It made my heart hurt in a good way, and I hope good things happen to you!

(Personal stuff behind the cut)

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While eating breakfast...
  • <p> <b>Mom:</b> *looks over my shoulder to see that I’m reading* I still don’t understand how you can’t help yourself from reading this early in the morning. I understand that books develop the mind, but at 6am?<p/><b>Me:</b> *shrugging nonchalantly while trying not to look amused at the fact that I am currently reading smut* I mean…<p/><b>My sister:</b> *eyes me suspiciously*<p/><b>Me:</b> I guess you could say that I like Lemon with my morning Tea<p/><b>My sister:</b> *chokes*<p/><b>Mom:</b> <p/><b>Me:</b> <p/><b>Mom:</b> *passes the lemon*<br><p/><b>Me:</b> *sips tea with immense satisfaction*<p/></p>

anonymous asked:

Heyy, I was wondering when having sweet cheat meals, is there a maximum of sugar you'd say would be okay so I wouldn't ruin my gains? Also, what is the best way to have a cheat meal? Pre/post workout, in the morning... :) Fantastic blog btw!!

To answer your question there is no “maximum” amount of sugar, but you should please yourself without having a food coma :).

With years of experience, I would highly recommend you to find the right balance in your nutrition plan.

Instead of having a restricting diet and craving for the next cheat meal, simply include things you like on a daily basis. Let’s say you love cookies. Instead of waiting for the next cheat meal to eat 20 cookies in a row. Why not simply include 1-2 cookies on a daily basis. Even better, why not take them before exercising so it will give you the energy to kill your workout.

Find what works for you best and stick to it!

More info on the 80/20 rule:

https://www.gymaholic.co/articles/the-80-20-rule

Hey artsy wlw!!!! Please read! ❤🌸

Hi!!! If you’re interested in having your art/poetry/whatever featured in something, read on….


So for one of my art classes, I have to make a 10+ page zine on a topic that’s important to me.

I’m making mine about the importance of unity & sisterhood between women (trans women included obviously!!!!), the experiences and struggles of womanhood from all different backgrounds, and *especially* the experiences of wlw/queer girls/sapphics/questioning/whatever label you use (or if you don’t like labels and just ambiguously like girls).

✔Some things to know:✔

- you will ABSOLUTELY get credited in the zine, and I’ll include any of your social media platforms, whatever you want

- this is just for my art class, I will NOT be manufacturing or profiting off your work

- but if you’re interested in a free copy of the finished product (esp. if you contributed), just message me and we can probs arrange something!

- a lot of the zine content will have to be my own work, so depending on how many submissions I get, I may not be able to accept all. I had originally planned on only asking one of my poet friends as a feature, but decided to open it up publicly for fun, so we’ll see how this goes!!!?

- mostly bc the whole feeling of this zine is supposed to be community, unity, & girl-love, and it felt disingenuous trying to pretend like I could be the voice of a whole vast community


✔What can be submitted:✔

- practically any media you have made if you’re a female artist/writer/etc., this 10000% includes trans women and other woman-aligned ppl, your voices are so important

- bonus points if you’re wlw or questioning, but it’s not a deal breaker if you aren’t, since not everything in the zine is gonna be a strictly queer issue (though it’s an important theme)

- so we’re talking illustrations, poems, mini-essays, personal reflections, messages to other girls, something you wish you could say to someone/your younger self/etc, collages, thoughts on current events, etc., etc, just go wild

- as long as it has something to do with the experiences of women/queer women

- a big focus here is how important girl-love (in all its forms) is, and how we are each-others best support, and how we shouldn’t let society pit us against each other

- sensitive topics are okay as long as it’s not too graphic

🌸🌈❤so yeah!!! That’s it I think!! PLEASE reblog, tell your friends, ~message me~ if you’re interested or need clarification!!❤🌈🌸


I will be posting updates on this blog so stay tuned!

GET TO KNOW KPOP’S NEWEST BAND: IZ (아이즈)

hello guys! so this was kind of requested and I have been asked a lot of questions about them..so let me finally (and briefly) introduce them to you!

INTRODUCTION:

IZ (아이즈; pronounced ‘EYES’) is a new kpop band that consists of 4 members, who debuted on august 31st, 2017 under MUSICK Entertainment. They have been training for 3 years and has performed at many high schools (even their own) and busking events. 

Some FAQ:

1. What does ‘IZ’ stand for?

it’s a combination of the first roman numeral ‘I’ and ‘Z’ being the last letter of the alphabet meaning, as one member (Hyunjun) said: it means that we will always honor our passion for music and love our fans from beginning till the end.

2. Do they have a slogan?

yes they do, “OPEN YOUR IZ” I love it, they are so unique.

3. What is their fan club name?

ILUV (아이럽) ; meaning IZ LOVE UNTIL FOREVER :)

4. How old are they?

* their average age is 18, just finishing high school, but considered minors so i just wanted to say please don’t sexualize thank you. 


IZ debuted with a wonderful song called ‘다해’  (All you want) please watch and stream it as many times as you can on youtube and vlive!!! share it with your friends!!!


now, the moment you’ve all been waiting for

MEMBER PROFILES:

JIHOO (지후)

real name: lim/im soojung (임수정)

position: leader and vocalist

birthday: august 5th, 1998 (oldest)

hobby: reading

HYUNJUN (햔준)

real name: lee hyunjun (이현준)

position: guitar, ‘happy vitamin’ & visual

birthday: december 21st, 1999

hobby: watching movies

WOOSU (우수)

nickname: ‘smiley’

position: drums (sometimes mistaken as maknae ㅋㅋ)

birthday: november 23rd, 1999

hobby: watching movies

JUNYOUNG (준영)

position: bass guitar (maknae)

birthday: september 23rd, 2000

hobby: listening to music

here’s a random photo of them holding a rose lol, so ethereal

and also, mark your calendars because IZ will perform their ‘HOT DEBUT’ on Music Bank, tomorrow at 5PM KST! (170901)

ive could have done my formatting better but its okay lol..

i’ll try my best to keep you updated with their activities ‘n stuff here while posting gifs (so im kinda a gif blog/sorta fanbase like) but if you have any more questions, feel free to ask me anytime! thank you guys and continue to support iz! 아이럽~

anonymous asked:

Reblogging those beautiful women makes some of us feel like crap we can never be that way so stop reblogging it please and thank you otherwise I'll have to unfollow sadly.

Originally posted by orchid-bud

Okay first things first

1) This is my Blog I will post whatever I like as long as its not too graphic
(hence my special blog) and its part of my personal interests. Who the hell are you to tell me otherwise? You CHOSE to follow it

2) Don’t take your insecurities out on other people if it really bothers you that much. Hell work to be the BEST YOU, YOU CAN BE! But don’t go 

“Oh theyre so pretty I’ll never be like them” Blah Blah Blah Then Don’t be like them, BE PROUD of who YOU ARE! and if you wanna work on being better than work on being better. 

If you need to talk to someone talk to friends, your family or a Professional therapist but I’m not the one to take personal insecurities out on. Like I’ve said many times before I have my own personal insecurities that I acknowledge and actively work to fix daily. Hell if I see some Handsome ass muhfugga with 8 pack abs and money and hot women that doesn’t make me feel insignificant it makes me want to work harder to better myself.

Matter of fact here is a Quote I frickin love from one of my Mentor’s Books. That really hits home for me

“Here’s the thing,
when someone has accomplished
something you want to accomplish,

the best thing to do is
not hate on them
or try to marginalize them.

“They are rich”

“They were born with great genetics”

“They have an easy life”

“they dont know what stress and pain is like”

“they are on steroids”

“They were handed these qualities and didnt work for them”

They’ve got all these advantages BLAH BLAH BLAH

you know what you are doing right?

You’re trying to mitigate feelings
of inadequacy you feel when you see
someone more successful.…
.
Thats a total Bitch Move to be honest.

Whatever advantages someone has over you
It DOES NOT Exonerate you from the
responsibility of having to accomplish
YOUR OWN GOALS.

Hating on someone/ Talking shit
about someone who is doing better
than you
DOES NOT HELP YOU ACCOMPLISH your GOALS.

In fact it will only hurt you
and diminish the energy you have
for your goals. Focus on them
and nothing else and the right people
will come into your life
and you’ll find that
your own success is so worth it
that you’ll forget about them”

So Anon you can be great too stop comparing yourself to others and work on being the best you possible. 

Originally posted by doafhat