this is the best post on my blog okay

anonymous asked:

do you think cole Sprouse is problematic? I saw it on a post

Is it the post from that blog that tries to pull receipts out on celebrities’ problematic-ness? I saw that awhile back. Like I’m okay with calling out truly reprehensible behavior that they don’t amend or learn their lessons from (Donald Trump, Mel Gibson, Johnny Depp, Roman Polanski, Azaelia Banks, my best friend’s physically abusive ex bf are a few that come to mind), but the Cole post is so much reaching it’s embarrassing. Like they claim he doesn’t want Jughead to be asexual but the interview link they provide has him saying how he doesn’t think it’s what the writers are going to do but he thinks it would be good to have Jughead be asexual and have that representation.

The Debbie Ryan thing is also a reach. She doesn’t say which friend was manipulating her, so to say it’s Cole is all speculation (and if it was Cole, why are they still hanging out and friends today?)

The gf stuff, idk maybe he was a douchebag emotionally. We’re not part of that relationship, we don’t know what it was like. It’s possible.

The Tumblr sociology experiment and his comments about race all sound like he’s talking from a sociological and anthropological perspective (which was his focus in college). He comes across as intellectual hipster type (also how he came across to me in person) but not a terrible person.

Saying he called BLM activists “cannibals” is also a reach. He was saying them stopping Bernie’s speech was counterintuitive. Like way to crucify him for a metaphor and not liking his word choice for it. He didn’t say “I think BLM activists are like cannibals”

I don’t remember the rest of the claims. Anyway, I’m not saying Cole isn’t problematic, I’m saying he just seems as problematic as most of us are.

Like I recently found a bunch of tweets of mine from high school that were insensitive to the trans community (misgendering people, using terms that are probably considered offensive). I didn’t do it out of intentional prejudice, but out of total ignorance of knowing appropriate terms and words to use. It was 2007 and I was a sixteen year old idiot who had never even met an transgender person before or even talked to one online. But after joining my school’s GSA, I was educated on terminology. And I’ve never made that same mistake again.

But if I was a celebrity, I can guarantee the receipts would be pulled and I would be “forever” cancelled even though I’ve learned from my mistake.

I just hate how everyone on Tumblr is on some mission to permanent cancel™ people 24/7.

thenorthernicewing  asked:

I saw your most recent post and I think maybe it could be for the best if you took a break from Tumblr for a while. Take a little vacation, spend some time cooling down and enjoying the things you love without all this negativity wearing you down. It could even be just for two or three days. It's just that you really do sound like you're worn thin and I'm a little worried about you. I'm sure your followers would understand if you needed to take a brief break.

Oh it’s okay, friendo! I know when to take breaks!!

This blog actually runs on a queue that posts between 2PM-3PM EST, even though I’m usually here 99% of the time while it’s posting anyway. But whenever I do need to step away, I do so easily, ‘cause the blog keeps running just fine while I’m gone.

I just … don’t have the best personal life, y’know? And since SU is one of my coping mechanisms, sometimes even dealing with the yucky crit stuff is better than dealing with real life.

Thank you for worrying, though! That’s so sweet of you!

(I definitely recommend following this gem’s advice if any of you out there need some time away. It’s really worth it, you’ll feel tons better!)

anonymous asked:

Hey, I just saw the post about the tattoo and was wondering if you have already done it? If you haven't it's okay, this is just simply 100% out of curiosity. Love your blog tho <3

Hey!! I actually haven’t done it yet for two reasons:

1. I was in need of a design. I wanted it to be something special that I adored and not printed from the interwebs.

2. I’m broke right now (my best friend is getting married next Friday and I’m her Best Man. So, all my money has been funneled into paying for my suit, shoes, the bachelorette party and wedding gift.

But I am still getting it. Literally once I’m passed this wedding stuff, I will be freshly inked again!! I’m actually really excited for my fifth tattoo. I truly do love the people I have met because of SuperCorp and that’s what my tattoo will really mean to me. Other than the fact that I’m the idiot who made a poor bet with the internet lol

To everybody who messaged me via chat and wrote notes on last post about the voice acting thing...

Thank you so much for your nice words lovely people!!

Definitely this place is better than others, you can realize which people deserves my gratitude. Thank you so much guys, I’m so happy and glad because of your support. 

I’m sorry for filled this blog with unnecesary thoughts. I know where I want to go, and who listen to: You guys. You all are the best people I met, and I’m so glad again for your words ^^.

Let’s just the X-Event continue, okay? OKAY!!! :D

gentle reminders from you

Here’s a post just to remind you all (a gentle reminder, if you will, hehe) that the submit for this blog is permanently open to suggestions for gentle reminders.

Even if I am the creator and only admin of this blog, that doesn’t mean that my journey to spread positivity is walked alone. Any and all suggestions for posts will be extremely appreciated, however it’s okay if you don’t want to or can’t submit anything, or if you would rather your submit come through as anonymous; I’ve tried my best to offer as many options as I can to include everyone who wants to help out. I appreciate all of you, no matter what.

The community’s efforts towards spreading positivity have been absolutely overwhelming and amazing since day one, so thank you all so much, and I can only hope that the success of us all will continue. 

I hope you have a lovely day today! :)

Hey guys!!

A little unrelated to Steven Universe (cuz I know that’s what this blog is about), but my absolutely amazing boyfriend isn’t doing so well..

We’ve always stuck together through thick and thin! We’ve been best friends for two years, partners for almost a year, and soul mates for life! ~ <3
Lately he’s been feeling really depressed and he’s been telling me very terrible things about himself that are absolutely not true at ALL…

I’m only asking for one small favor:
Can you give this post a like and/or reblog if you support him?
I think he can do ANYTHING he puts his mind to, and hopefully you guys will think so too!
Thank you guys for taking the time to read this! <3

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take a look 👀👀👀 at this! that ➡️right ➡️ there is a good tag. ✉️✉️ can we talk about artemis ✉️✉️ please, @macdenniss ? i’ve been dying 🤒🤢 to talk about artemis ✉️✉️ with you all day, okay 👌🏽? glenn 🐸🐸 howerton. this name keeps coming ⬆️up ⬆️ over and over again. every day, posts ✉️ about glenn are getting sent 📪 all over my dash . glenn 🐸🐸 howerton. glenn 🐸🐸 howerton. i look 👀 on my dash ✉️, well ALL THESE BLOGS 📦 ARE GLENN 🐸 HOWERTON !! so i say to myself, i gotta 🔎find 🔎 someone else. i gotta get ⬆️over⬆️ this guy 👨🏻 i gotta put someone else ✉️ on my goddamn blog ✋🏽otherwise i’m never gonna get over it. he’s gonna keep coming ⬆️up⬆️on my dash . so i sit ⬆️back⬆️ and think . and what do i 🔎find🔎 out, mac 🍔? what do i 🔎find🔎 out? thes best solution is to pretend that THE 👨🏻MAN 👨🏻DOES NOT ❌❌ EXIST. okay, so i decided ohhh 💩shit💩buddy. i gotta ⚒dig⚒ a little deeper📉. there’s no 🐸glenn 🐸 howerton? you gotta be 😂kidding 😂 me. i got a dash 📝 full of 🐸glenn🐸. alright, so i start 🏃🏽marching 🏃🏽my way ⬇️down ⬇️to the artemis tag . and i 🔎look🔎 for blogs about her 🚪 and i say “💁🏽💁🏽ARTEMIIIIISS💁🏽. 💁🏽💁🏽AAAARTEEEMIIIIS. 💁🏽💁🏽 i gotta use you to get over glenn 🐸.” and when i open the 🚪door, 🚪what do i find? 🤔🤔🤔there’s ❌not ❌a single goddamn 🗄blog 🗄about artemis🏢! THERE. IS. ❌NO. ❌ARTEMIS 💁🏽FAN💁🏽 BLOG. 🍔mac💻, half the posts on this 📌tag 📌have been mistagged. this tag is a goddamn 👻ghost👻 town.

3:07pm: needed a change of scenery so I moved down to the kitchen for the afternoon; it’s a bit chilly, but it’ll do. Things are going okay — not really well but ‘okay’. Still stressed about my exams and I still don’t think I’ll do the best I could do, which is annoying, but really, I just want to pass and for these exams to be over. Revising this much material almost non-stop for 4 whole weeks, is very exhausting. Don’t try it kids.

gentle reminders from you

Here’s a reminder to anyone here who is new or who doesn’t know, or even those of you that have forgotten, that the submit for this blog is permanently open to suggestions for gentle reminders. And if this is being posted, the queue is almost empty!

Despite the entirety of the GRSHN being run and administered by one person, that doesn’t mean that my journey to spread positivity is walked alone; thanks to this blog and all of you, it never has been. 

Any and all suggestions for posts will be extremely appreciated, however it’s okay if you don’t want to or can’t submit anything, or if you would rather your submit come through as anonymous; I’ve tried my best to offer as many options as I can to include everyone who wants to help out. I appreciate all of you, no matter what. However please be mindful of the rules of submitting before you send anything in. 

This is a great way to be involved with the GRSHN and the community’s efforts towards spreading positivity. Thank you all so much for the continuous and overwhelming support since day one; let’s continue to make dashboards a brighter place!

I hope you have a lovely day today. :)

you !! guys!!! i have recently reached 3k and that is like.. so cool !! unbelievable !! thank you all so much!!! anyways i was thinking of the best way to celebrate and thank you for sticking with me and following this mess of a blog and i decided why not do it all? okay not all. but all i can the plan used to be archive moodboards but i am currently unable to edit, so here we go!! also sorry for the terrible banner i am photoshopless

> the rules:

  • must be following me (as this for my followers)
  • reblog this post (likes don’t count)
  • maybe check my aesthetics blog? (not necessary, but nice)
  • maybe check my (pink) aesthetics blog? (again, not necessary, but nice)
  • be patient because this might take a while (and i won’t post it all at once because i don’t want to spam my followers)
  • don’t want these in your dash? blacklist #julias 3k celebration

> your options (yes!! you can go for them all!!):
(if you don’t know how to make the symbols, try copy&paste)

  • send me a ♥ for a blograte (format under the cut)
  • send me a ❉ for an aesthetic rate (format under the cut)
  • send me a ☽ for a compliment + an advice
  • send me a ♚ + your name for a name aesthetics
  • send me a ☀ for a 5 song playlist
  • go over to this post for my saved urls giveaway

please don’t let this flop!! so enter and have fun i guess ?

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let’s all just ignore the terrible header okay

So I recently hit 3k followers (what. how. I love all of you so much 💜) and I thought I’d do a follow forever! I follow a lot of lovely people whose posts always make my dash beautiful, and I always enjoy seeing their wonderful creations. 💕

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Okay so I usually don’t bother much with follower count and such but I just wanted to give all of you a huge thank you, from the bottom of my heart. I was actually considering letting this blog die once 2017 rolled in, but then Yuri on Ice happened and I gathered the courage I needed to try and blog about something else besides Tolkien and it’s one of the best decisions I’ve ever made with this blog. In the past month my posts have accumulated around 370 000 notes which is so INSANE I can’t believe it. December was definitely one of the best months ever for me, and I’ve been clinging to this damn website for more than 4 years now. I’m extremely flattered by this amazing response, and never thought it would happen again after The Hobbit was done with all its movies.

So THANK YOU to everyone who followed me recently and THANK YOU to everyone who followed me exclusively for Tolkien and who still sticks around. Everything I’ve done in the past month has been met with overwhelming positivity, be it gifsets, metas or silly memes, and I haven’t had this much fun in ages! 2016 was a very trying year for most of us, and I lost someone very dear to me that meant a lot as I grew up, and only a short while after my girlfriend broke up with me and I hit a wall where I thought I would never be happy again. That’s the reason my blog started dying, I just didn’t have the energy to do anything in that period and I was ready to give up.

But I’m so glad I stuck around and didn’t give in, because in the past 2 months everything started to turn around and I managed to get out of my depression and finally found a new passion in YoI, and at the same time I met a lovely new girl who I’m now proud to call my s/o. I want to thank everyone who stuck by me and sent me positive vibes during the period when I was the most down, it made a world of difference and for the first time in years I can actually say that I’ve been feeling genuinely happy lately. And you’re one of the reasons I can say that.

SO, ONCE AGAIN, THANK YOU EVERYONE FOR THIS OVERWHELMING SUPPORT. It truly means a lot to me. Thank you. I hope you all have an incredible year!!  ♡

When in doubt end cheesy post

if u thought this banner was bad… should’ve seen what i tried to do before… 

we’re all free of 2016, right?? we’re all good?? okay cool

hi my name is halcyon i use they/them pronouns and like so many of you i am celebrating the end of the hell year and i thought, what better way to start the new year than by promoing some of yalls!! so here it is. my first promo yikes.

rules:

must follow me (idc if youve never seen this blog, feel free to follow me just for the promo)

reblog this post (obvi) you can like to bookmark but those dont count as an entry

that’s basically it i think

categories:

best url

best icon

best mobile theme

best desktop theme

best single band blog (like just mcr, just panic, i dont wanna separate it until i see who enters)

best mixed band blog

best dnp blog

best miscellaneous/other blog

favorites overall

favorite mutuals

i may add/take away categories as the need arises. every category will have one winner and an infinite number of runner ups. favorites overall will have tow runner ups and favorite mutuals will have no winner and an infinite number of slots

what you get if you win:

a follow from me if im not already

a spot on my winners page

every winner (not runner up) gets a solo promo upon their request

my undying love and friendship

that’s it!! the deadline to enter is gonna be january 31st and winners will be announced within the week!!

💖💖💖

okay uhh … i’m going to do my best to describe what has just happened in my presence, to me, and im gonna post this on my proper blog so i can link to it without linking to my personal

anyhow

so i head out a little over an hour before time of writing and i make it as far as the intersection at the top of the hill when i hear a crow cawing really loudly

i, being myself, it being a beautiful mid-morning, having just sat on the shore of a lake calm enough that no waves were breaking at all, decide to stop for a sec, enjoy the morning air, and stop to see what this crow’s up to.

i guess people don’t usually do that and it immediately took interest in me because of it, i guess. it jumped down a few branches till it was directly over me and then began to intently and precisely snap twigs with leaves on them and drop them down, so they caught the air and helicoptered down, into my hands. i identified it immediately as play behavior, since there was always a moment where the crow watched to see if i caught it after it was thrown.

once this crow caught on to the fact that i was ready and willing to play this twig drop game, i could hear it adjust its caw, and sure enough, a second crow that had i guess been paying attention or half-paying-attention from a tall tree across the intersection swooped directly over to the branch beside the first one, with no hesitation in direction whatsoever, and then immediately started playing the twig drop game too.

assuming that there wasn’t enough time to transmit any complex instructions, presumably they were both familiar with the game, although they weren’t exactly seasoned pros, either, because they both kept intently trying to ‘woodpecker’ branches that were too big for their beaks to reasonably break off without the twisting motion they can snap smaller branches with.

presumably they were just a little over-eager.

i spent a good hour on that corner, neck craned up, and they were just as fixated on the moment as i was. i’ve never seen two crows brimming with enthusiasm like these ones were. after a while they were just sort of yelling at each other and at me, but they didn’t seem angry at any point, they didn’t try to drive me away. in fact, to be sure of that, i intentionally faked having lost interest a couple of times and walked in either directions. they both followed without hesitation to land in branches above me.

like i said, i spent a good hour there. i came home with a handful of twigs and branches, plucked out of the air, given to me intentionally by a pair of crows. i don’t know if the idea that i would keep the twigs and leaves ever crossed their minds or if it was just the simple thrill of watching them fall and be caught by one of the big weird walking ones who don’t really ever interact with you. but i *could* understand a lot of the other cues they were giving me. we were interacting, we had taken mutual interest in each other and, essentially, broadcast that interest to each other.

i had no idea when or how the interaction would end but at some point, one of the crows i guess had some other business elsewhere and took off abruptly, the other stayed but fell back vertically, to a rooftop, i figured they were both done, so just for closure i nodded and parted ways as well (crows don’t nod and probably don’t understand nodding – that was just out of habit) 

anyway i had a big bundle of twigs and leaves in my hands and i wasn’t going to continue downtown and get breakfast carrying them so i 180′d and headed back down the hill home, sort of baffled at the real thing that had just transpired in my life.

i didn’t realize that on the way down the hill i’d be crossing the second one’s line of sight on the rooftop again until i was in the clearing where that would happen, and just as i wondered if the second crow would watch me walk home or not i felt an abrupt rush of air and heard feathers ruffle behind the nape of my neck, and i just immediately turned to the tree across from me where he landed and just flat out said “oh my god” out loud, but like the “don’t do it–oh my god” brand of oh my god. he flew back to the roof and i just walked home in absolute disbelief and it still feels a little bit like a dream.

you know what i also have among the sticks and leaves? one of them dropped a crow feather. i was paying attention to the other when it happened so i don’t know if it was already hanging loose or what, but the one who dropped it sure did watch me with the same intent as i went to pick it up. anyhow, now i have this bundle of stuff that crows gave me:

 pay … attention to crows. that’s all. wow. over and out.

Okay, look. If you ever want to complain about the things I choose to post on my blog, I want you to stop and think about something first. I don’t blog for your entertainment. I run this blog for exactly one person:

My best friend, and I hope she’s having a good day.

astrcnette  asked:

Please post Mr Tumnus content so I can drown my blog in him and live up to my url xx Isa aka tumnusses 💙💙💙

OH MY GOSH YESSSSSSS

I freaking love Mr Tumnus actually, and I wish the fandom talked more about this character because goshhhhhhhhh

I really like him cause, even if he did mistakes (like I dunno, TRYING TO KIDNAP A CHILD) (bad goatie) he redeemed himself and tried his best to be a better person, and I’M SO PROUD OF HIM ALL RIGHT.

So time for random headcanons shall we

  • he loves knitting
  • problem: he’s really bad at it so all his scarves and beanies and socks always look strange and weird
  • but honestly, Lucy doesn’t care at all and she totally wear them all the time, even if it’s not winter
  • Susan likes these too actually
  • they’re still super ugly and clumsy but she always wears the little beanie he knitted for her years ago when she goes for a walk in the wood in winter
  • the four Pevensies all befriended him and they actually enjoy having a quiet tea-time with him (it reminds them of England) after royal meetings about Narnian politics
  • with time and age, he broadened the teas and infusions he have, always curious about new beverages
  • he’s seasick everytime he gets on a boat and his face turns green in like what? ten seconds?
  • firm groun is better for fauns uh
  • most of the fauns are good dancers; not him
  • his second name is Clumsy okay
  • he never got married
  • despite Lucy’s attempts to find the perfect partner for him
  • (I totally headcanon him as asexual okay)
  • and since C.S. Lewis never said his name, I headcanon him with the name Cornibus (latine for horns)
  • Lucy always call him Corn when she’s using his forename
  • Ed calls him Cornie when he is with Peter but he’ll never dare to call him like this in front of the faun
  • they respect him very much
  • when they left the country, he and Philip the horse came back to the Lamp Post
  • and they waited
  • and waited
  • and nothing happened
  • Philip finally choose to go back to Cair Paravel, accepting with a lot of pain the fact that they were gone
  • he didn’t
  • and he waited more
  • he stood by the Lamp Post everyday, waiting to spot Lucy’s smile again
  • always keeping hope that one day they’ll return
  • they did, but he was dead a long time ago when the Pevensies saw Narnia again

I’m still in shock that 100 people actually follow me?? Like guys, I don’t even think that many people like me irl lol okay so thank you to each and every one of my followers I love you all sm and cannot express how much y’all mean to me! So the best I can do for you all are some headcanons (lol does anyone still remember that I’m partially a writing blog too??), blog compliments, and name aesthetics

Rules (cause we are civilized people and not like Voldemort)

  • must be following this random awkward potato
  • reblog this post
  • send me an ask with which ones you want
  • send me a 📖 for personalized headcanons (please read under cut before requesting!)
  • send me a 💕 for a compliment
  • send me a 🌸 and your name for a name aesthetic
  • Optional: give me recommendations for themes with cool update tabs and bigger fonts because I’m searching for a new one but can’t find any that i like
  • you are allowed to send all three if you may like!
  • message me if there are any questions!
  • optional: maybe check out my writing (just remembered that I still need to set up an about me page and a page for my edits)(well I’ll do that later)

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Hello Dreemurrkin! (Frisks too)

Like and/or reblog this post if you’re

Asrielkin

Torielkin

Asgorekin

Friskkin

or Charakin (and are okay with doubles!)

I’d love to follow and maybe meet more of my family and best friend (Frisk), (even if they’re not from my cannon) and following/meeting other Chara’s would be cool too. So like and/or reblog this if you’re kin of these characters. (Unless you don’t want to, then that’s cool too, you do you)

(also just a ps, that this isn’t my main blog, so if you see “crisy1001″ following you, then that’s me)