this is seriously making me ship them

caitieberrie  asked:

On your ask about shipping real people: my rule of thumb is to ask if publishing their diary makes me a historian or an asshole. If they've been dead long enough that their diary would be of historical interest and not be looked at weird in Barnes & Noble, it's fine to ship them or write fanfiction about them or whatever. If they haven't been dead long enough, or they're not dead at all, and publishing their diary without their go-ahead makes me a douche, then it's not fine. Just my thoughts.

This is… actually a really brilliant way to think about it WOW. Thank you SO much for sharing your thoughts with me I’m gonna adopt this line of thinking ahaha.

emojlover101  asked:

dear mun: thank you for getting me through hard times, and being a great friend, and making my day by posting keep up the good work!

Thank you, I appreciate being a ‘highlight’ of your day and all or whatever, but you seriously need to stop harassing other people, just because you got a little upset that people didn’t support a ship or whatever doesn’t mean you can speak for them or strait up be rude. And calling someone a liar because they said they’re gay? Really? You need to either get ahold of yourself or leave us alone because people are getting tired of this.

@bennyhacker @jeffkillz @inkydevotee

raredelightfulloveoak  asked:

For the hate thing: elementary, scorpion (you have a lot to choose from there lol) aaaaaaand...fandom life in general my dear miss kat


the lack of storylines and emotional resolution for Joan. Give me some depth; give me Joan being put in complex situations, give me her crying over all of the danger she has been put through, let her make friends/visit old friends and bring them into the circle. Just let Joan… be.



THE LACK OF LGBT+ REPRESENTATION. Seriously, there hasn’t even been a damn mention in this show. WTF @ the nicks.

Fandom life:

the fighting, especially between shippers. Ship what you want to ship, but don’t disrespect those who don’t see what you see. We all have different opinions and views, and some of us need to learn to except that. (not naming names but there have been a few fandoms that have made me hate a show because of the shippers.)

send me literally anything + i’ll tell you something i hate about it:

Let me make one thing clear:

We’re not into KS because of the ‘yaoi’.

We’re into this manga because of well-written and developed story which is interesting and creates fear and suspense greatly, nice art style and well-written characters.

We’re not promoting abusive relationship. We’re perfectly aware how fucked up both of them are, and we do not ship them. So stop insulting the fandom for it. 

I have to get this off my chest

I’m genuinely curious why people have such an issue with people shipping Tarjei and Henrik.

Shipping is not stalking. I do not spam their social media asking about it (I have never even asked once) I respect their privacy.

All I am doing is simply appreciating their chemistry and thinking they’d make a cute couple, what’s wrong with that!?

I’m seriously wondering. The only argument I’ve seen is that they’re real people; NEWSFLASH! People fall in love literally every single day. Why does them being actors make it any different for them!? Do you know how many co-stars have fallen in love for real? Thousands. If not hundreds of thousands. Hell, it might even be millions! They are not robots. They are capable of love, why is me thinking they are in love such a horrible thing to some of you? I truly don’t understand…

i’m taking pre-orders for my spd/autism noise muffling beanies/headbands

YO I am so autistic and SO PUMPED that I came up with this product. earbuds and noise cancelling headphones are sensory hell for me, but I have finally figured out how to use only fabric to block out between 50% of sound. but if you order custom, I can adjust the amount of fabric to allow the amount of sound in you want.

the beanies and headbands are made of recycled sweaters!!!

i’ll start making them march 11th and i can have them shipped by march 12th seriously im hyperfocused

plain beanies are $15. plain headbands are $10. beanies with designs are $20. headbands with designs are $13. shipping is free because GREECE but it will also take about a month to get there because GREECE

you can pre-order a plain one, a space themed one, a plant themed one, or an animal themed one (my special interests lol)

OR you can custom order one in your special interest! i’m already making one for someone who really likes monsters and it’s going to have horns and lots of eyes so basically tell me what you’re interested in. custom beanies are $25 and custom headbands are $17. i can also change the fabric or add zippers or snaps or tassles or fringes. really just let your sensory desires run wild my buds

in conclusion i am SO FREAKING HAPPY. i see so many products for autistic people made by allistic people and it’s like??? no. i’m autistic and can’t hold down a job because of my anxiety disorder, so this is my only source of income. i’m also trying to save up money to buy a retired greyhound that is dying so i can give them a good home

etsy shop will be up tomorrow. PLEASE message me with what you want and i will mesage you because i’ll probably have made it in 1-3 days

please sign boost for autistic/spd people who shouldn’t have to deal with uncomfortable and unstylish ear protection!!!

I have never seen three characters more in love with each other. Honestly, Dorian x Celaena x Chaol or nothing. 


So, I was inspired to make this post, because I know many people want to watch some queer storylines that aren’t just queer baiting. Plus, I just want to spread the gay goodness around! So, here we go! 

(In no particular order)

1. Drew and Rick (The Night Shift) 

This story line is gives me so much joy. Seriously, it deals not only with a gay couple, but with them being gay in the military and adopting a daughter. 

2. Ben and Paul (Eastenders)  

Okay, so I don’t like storylines that end in death, but this one is fantastic and they deal with Ben dealing with Paul’s death in a really realistic way. Plus, they are just to cute together. Paul really brings back the sweet side of Ben that we all thought was lost. 

3. Isak and Even (Skam) 

If you are on tumblr, you know about this show. Just do yourself a favor and go watch it. One of the most realistic and heart felt gay story lines ever. Deals with mental illness in a real and compassionate way.

4. Christian and Syed (Eastenders) 

HAPPY ENDING!!!! Also deals with Islam and what it means to be gay in that faith, very powerful story. 

5. Robert and Aaron (Emmerdale) 

These boys have been through so much, and seeing their wonderful character development has been amazing! These boys have some of the sweetest soap moments ever! (HINT HINT SUPER SOAP WEEK 2016) 

6. Charlie and Matteusz (Class BBC) 

THEY ARE SO PRECIOUS AND IN LOVE <3 My sweet gay alien prince and his polish consort. Seriously, this show is great. Doctor Who spin off with a gay main character, whose boyfriend deals with being kicked out by religious parents.

7. Claudio and Sandro (Italian soap. Only on Dailymotion) 

Super sweet boys with a happy ending. Lots of dramatic moments! 

8. Magnus and Alec (Shadowhunters) 

They are super cute and super flirty. I honestly adore both characters and how their relationship has developed. The show did a great job in doing these characters justice, more than the books ever did. 

9.  Eric and Aaron (The Walking Dead) 

Okay, so they are like barely in the show, but they are to precious for this world when they are. I love their friendship with Daryl and Eric is seriously such an adorable ginger. 

10. Lito and Hernando (Sense8) 

Really well done and really explores the idea of coming out when you’re in a position of fame. Plus, they are so cute and in love <3 

11. Tinco and Francis (SpangaS)

They are really adorable and the show delves into the world of coming out in high school and the rewards of being yourself. 

12. Tristan and Miles (Degrassi) 

I absolutely love these two! This third season was everything I wanted <3 They start off shaky and I’m not in love with how they treat Miles’ bisexuality, but the way they have grown as characters and how they show their relationship changing in tandem with that is awesome. 

13.  Paulo and Miguel (O Beijo do Escorpiao) 

Very cute and full of drama. Actual kissing in this one (that has been censored on other Portuguese TV shows). Happy ending that is so perfect for the end of the show. 

14.  Lukas and Philip (Eyewitness) 

BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN <3 Seriously, the way they wrote these characters was perfect and they really made the story flow so well. It was amazing to see a show centered around gay youths in love. 

15. Brian and Justin & Ben and Micheal (Queer as Folk) 

Just watch Queer as Folk. It’s a gay classic and it deals with all kinds of issues within the LGBT community. Plus, omfg how cute are Brian and Justin…I can’t they are the original gay power couple. 

 16. Carsten and Lenny ( Gute Zeiten, Schlechte Zeiten) 

Totally cute couple that deal with a lot of trauma together. Deals with Lenny coming out after dealing with bullying in army training. 

17. Christian and Oli ( Verbotene Liebe) 

AHHHHH my feelings for this couple…I can’t. They were meant to be, it was true love! ( I can only watch so far into this story line because of how it ended). Again, did not like how they treated Christians bisexuality, but the couple are seriously to perfect. They have some of the best scenes of any gay story line. 

18. Ianto and Jack (Torchwood) 

IANTO DESERVED BETTER! Okay with that out of the way, this is a great story line with lots of good relationship development and Ianto and Jack being sweet and beautiful. I would also recommend listening to the radio plays after watching the show, as it clears things up and made my heart feel better. :P

19. Max and Iago ( El Cor de la Ciutat )

Okay, so I adore this soap, it has amazing story lines and character development for these two, and there are so many sweet and heart wrenching scenes. I adore this couple and have re-watched their story like 6 times. 

20. Fer and David (  Física o Química ) 

LOVE LOVE LOVE!!!! Same as #19. Awesome character development and lots of drama and loving moments between our beautiful couple. I adore them, even if the ending of the show makes me cry all the time just thinking about it. 

21. Jude and Zero ( Hit the Floor )

They are soooooo goooodddd! I cannot even begin to describe all the things that are perfect about this couple and their story line. They are the gay kings of L.A, who got their happy ever after. 

So that is it for now! Go out and have your eyes filled with the beauty of these canon ships! I may update this when I find more story lines so be on the look out :) 

  • Me: Hey, look, this ship looks funny! Aww, look, this fic is really cute! They're holding hands, and wow that kiss was adorable.
  • Me, later: [Realizes I've been scrolling in the tag for hours] Oh. Well, just a couple more. This ship makes me laugh.
  • Me, a couple more hours later: This fanart is amazing! Seriously it is so good! [Sees another ship's fanart with one of them] Oh hell no! Not happening, no way no how!
  • Me: ...
  • Me: I'm so gone aren't I?

I realized me and My Woman watch anime the same way hardcore football fans watch football. We have snacks and make an event out of it. When our pairing interacts, we cheer. If something particularly slashy happens between them, we raise our hands and shout. Then we back it up and watch the “instant replay.”

If something EXTREMELY slashy (too slashy to handle, they’re-so-canon-omg-how-can-anyone-not-see-their-love) happens, I seriously run around the house screaming doing victory laps.

Okay  honestly I know Legends has been awesome in providing crack episodes to us but really they’re missing out on some great stuff: 

  • It’s great and all that they’re traveling to different places but when are they gonna travel to ancient Greece? Or Rome???? GIVE IT TO ME. 
  • Forget space pirates give me pirates pirates. 
    • You KNOW there’d be a badass lady pirate and Sara def is into her.
    • Mick is probably made captain of a pirate ship somehow. 
  • Seriously. I just - cannot believe that they put the historical periods into a montage (besides Camelot). Just give me ALL the historical periods and “Sometimes I Remember I’m A Historian” Nate going “mmm….not historically accurate.” 
  • What’s that? Them going into space and fighting/being friends with aliens? 
    • Ik we kind of went into it in Invasion but like, let’s make it more explicit this time. 
  • @hedgiwithapen has de-aged headcanons like??? Imagine teen Martin comforting 3 year old Jax and then they merge by accident and now you have a 3 year old Firestorm lighting shit on fire while teenage Mick finds more stuff for them to blow up. 
    • Good god I’d watch a WHOLE episode of toddlers running the Waverider and ykw?? It probably wouldn’t be that different. 
    • Fine okay so this REALLY only works with Firestorm, Nate, and Amaya but it’d be fun, or if the team somehow found themselves with each other’s weapons I’d start laughing. 
      • Amaya and Sara can now merge which is great. 
      • Ray is left alone on the ship and is like “OH SWEET I GET TO BE CAPTAIN AGAIN”. 
      • Jax has Mick’s heat gun and Mick has the steel powers and both are thriving. 
      • Nate gets Amaya’s powers but for some reason can’t figure it out and ends up running away from danger half the time. 
      • Stein grabs the atom suit and for all his knowledge can’t figure out how to use it, and ends up destroying it. 
        • Mick laughs because he remembers Ray told him an idiot could use it.
  • Where. Is. My. Bodyswap. Episode. 
    • As per @calmandcalculating Mick and Sara swap bodies and have the same stance. 
    • Jax and Rip probably swap and they’re like “………….great”. 
      • “If you damage my body I’m killing you Rip.” “No worries, Mr. Jackson.” 
    • Nate and Ray swap but they’re pretty much the same person so does it even make a difference lmfao. 
    • Somehow Stein/Amaya/Gideon all swap and now Gideon is in Amaya’s body, Amaya is in Stein’s body, and Stein is an AI and he’s startled but now keeps annoying people by popping up with his unwanted opinions all the time
    • It all starts when Ray Palmer and Nate Heywood, Horror White Boys ™ bring a Ouija board on the ship. 
      • Ray thinks it’s ridiculous and Nate just laughs because he doesn’t believe in it so both are down to play it. 
      • Sara doesn’t know if she believes or not but honestly she thinks she can kick a demon’s ass so it’s okay. 
      • Stein and Mick probably end up possessed. 
      • Actually tbh maybe this wouldn’t happen because Jax is smart and would break the board. 
        • He probably does this every time Ray & Nate bring something stupid on board. “Oh a tape that kills you if you watch it? Yeah okay HOW ABOUT NO”.
        • Oh you went to an antique shop and found this creepy puppet??? “Nope, nope, nope, not today. Hell no, you two are out of your minds, get that shit away from me, nOOOOPEEEEEE-”
Ship shaming

I always love to see people shaming a ship tbh. Like, people taking things so seriously makes me crack tf up, because its just like, what? I’m being respectful. I’m not forcing it on them, or you, or anybody, I’m just over here, thinking these two would be a cute couple. What am I doing to disrespect you, honestly?

I especially thing it’s funny as fuck when people from similar ships shit all over each other. Let’s say, septiplier, for example.

Septiplier is a nice ship. I ship them, alot of other people ship them. And then some people will either take it too far, or over generalize and think I’m some kinda demon septiplier shipper, just because I think they’d be a good couple?

Shipping, for me, doesn’t mean I believe they should be together, it just means, I think they’d be a cool couple. Shipping ALSO doesn’t mean sexualizing, you fuckin pricks. Of course there are people who sexualize ships. That’s not evedybody though, and isn’t a direct attatchment to a relationship anyway.


However, gimme some otp, and im suddenly this guy 👇

Originally posted by lpstreetsoldier13

An actual conversation I had

Sister: So what do you think of those ships where one of the boys is protective over the other and will keep them safe so no one hurts their baby?


Sister: So you like those kinds of ships then?

Me: ……yes.

True story XD

My thoughts on tops and bottoms in BTS

To be honest almost all of Bangtan would be considered both… they could either top or bottom or even be one of those ships that just flips almost all the time.

*this is my opinion*

Jeongguk: With him the fandom literally makes him out to be a top only. In my opinion I think it depends on who he’s shipped with… like with Taehyung they would be the type of ship to flip often. Them being close friends and all and teasing each other to the core there is no certain titles that they would go by. People tend to forget that he’s very reserved as well. For me he tops in Jikook but bottoms in Kookiemonster (Rapkook).

Taehyung: I seriously don’t get why in almost every ship he’s always played out to be a bottom that can’t ever top. When in reality when he’s on v lives and such he isn’t anything like how he’s written in fanfics. He’s often portrayed as this ditzy guy who acts childish in fanfics. Now I know TaeTae is playful but he is very smart as well and can be snarky I mean Jeongguk and him learn alot from one another XD. For me he could be a top and a bottom. I think he would top in Taegi… and Bottom in Vhope.

Jimin: Does anyone think this boy can power bottom because I sure think it’s possible ^^. Anyways with him I think for the most part he’s a bottom. Except for Vmin which are that one ship to practically flip.

Namjoon: for the most part in fanfiction he’s topping and it’s really hard for me to see him as a bottom but I’m open to anything for him.

Hoseok: the only ships I read with him are Vhope and sometimes Namseok. I’ve seen fics where he tops and ones where he’s a bottom and I have to say that he’s very well written in any way,shape or form.

Yoongi: I don’t understand the whole “he’s the cold one” and “ He tops in everything because it’s right” kind or arguments. I mean if your searching for bottom Yoongi you literally have to dig to find it. I think Yoongi is both a top and a bottom. It depends on who he’s shipped with. For me he tops in YoonMin and YoonJin, flips with Hoseok and bottoms to everyone else. But hey I’m alone on that one XD.

Seokjin: For the most part the most fanfics I read of him are NamJin (literally don’t know how someone can not ship it). I personally see him as a bottom but like I said with the others I’m open to just about anything with him.

Just hate stereotypes that some of the memebers have especially Yoongi’s I mean come on he’s very generous and caring.

I absolutely agree that you probably shouldn’t leave 18+ comments on your idols’ social media accounts. However, the amount of people being so stressed about fans simply writing “chanbaek” seriously makes me laugh. Idols aren’t dumb, they are very aware of the activities their fans engage in, including shipping. They have been receiving tons of these kind of comments for years and people still make it sound like it’s a secret that cannot be exposed to them when it already is. Do you really think Baekhyun didn’t know what kind of comments he would receive before posting his greetings for Chanyeol? You think he hasn’t received comments about him and Chanyeol before? The fact that he doesn’t refrain from still posting his greetings in such a cute way shows that he is probably less bothered by it than some of you guys are. Comments do have a limit - I agree with that. But getting so damn worked up about people commenting a ship name under a picture that was obviously meant for one of the people involved in this ship is seriously unnecessary in my opinion. Rather than worrying about shippers, we should worry about those “fans” who considered dropping Baekhyun for his well-meant post just because they found it “too weird”, who told him to “delete” his post for the same reasons. If commenting 18+ stuff is rude then telling Baekhyun what to do is not better. Stop trying to control him. He is an adult who is free to post whatever he likes. Well, this was my attempt at seeing things from another perspective. Hope nobody feels attacked by this.

I'm sick about all the messages i receve from the antis so PLEASE JUST MAKE THIS STORY END HERE, WITH THIS POST.

“Billdip reminds me how i’ve been abused” “i’ve panic attack” “you are the worst”
Are you serious…?
I’m really sorry for what happened to you but…. If Billdip make you feel in this way so why you are here? Why you pay attenction to this ship? Why you’re on my blog or on this Tag??
I had a lots of problems in my life, just like you, but i don’t follow things that make me feel unhappy.
And i don’t bother other people for what i think is right or wrong.
You don’t win nothing doing that, you just annoy other people who want to come here and relax, you make them feel bad and you earn just hate.
Your actions are childish and you’re seriously the worst side of tumblr.
We all have problems, not only you. So please stop cry and found a better hobby.

Sometimes I forget Qrow and Winter only had two scenes together. The FNDM ships them so hard, painted their complicated relationship in bright detailled colours, with so much depth I sometimes really forget literally none of it is canon. Especially blogs like @asksnowbird. Just like @ellelehman makes me literally forget the relationship between Qrow and Summer is not canon all the time (wait, it’s not?).

Gotta love the FNDM. 

(Seriously check out the art if you’re at least a bit into those ships it’s great.)