this is seriously making me ship them

I have never seen three characters more in love with each other. Honestly, Dorian x Celaena x Chaol or nothing. 

I think I’m going through a little bit of an art block *sigh*

Dear rest of the Spn Fandom,

What Destiel is NOT about.

1. Hating Sam/Jared
Okay, I have no idea where this one started, but honestly I don’t care what you ship if you hate on either of my tol cinnamon roll babies, YOU WILL BE FACING MY WRATH. ALL 5'2 OF IT.

2. Hating the women that they were with.
Personally, I love Jo and Lisa. Cassie was just there for an episode, so I don’t really have any opinions on here.
I don’t like Meg for other reasons (her character inconsistency was annoying and her voice got on all my nerves) but hating her just because she kissed Cas is pretty shallow.

3. Two hot men kissing.
Right. This. Look, if the only reason that you ship them is that it would be hot to see them kiss, I’d just like to tell you that YER A FUCKBUTT, HARRY. Other people can probably explain this better, but you’re fetishising a whole community and you need to stop. Now.

4. Hating on their wives.
This is probably more of a Cockles thing than a Destiel one, but most of the Cockles shippers that I’ve encountered were all awesome people, so I’ll say it on their behalf, we don’t hate Danneel and Vicki, okay? Seriously, why would anybody, when they make Misha and Jensen so happy?

5. Making everything gay/The gay agenda
No. No. Say it with me, no. We do not ship them because they’re both men
We ship them because they have amazing chemistry and it makes sense that Dean and Cas be together. And it would obviously be the bisexual agenda, if it was an agenda. Which it’s not. At all. *Cackles in the distance*

• What Destiel is about

1. Unconditional Love
2. Dean finally realizing that he's​ not damaged and deserves love. Also realizimg that he’s not the perfect manly man soldier that John raised him to be, and that’s okay.
3. Cas understanding that he will always have a home with Dean (and Sam, by extension)
4. Two people who help each other to be better people.
5. Two people who constantly screw up, but forgive each other, because that’s what love is about.
6. Seeing people at their worst, and still loving them. (Dean forgiving Cas after he becomes God and Cas telling him that he deserves to be saved)
7. Unconditional love (I’m sorry, I’ll never be over the “I’d rather have you, cursed or not.”)
8. Both of them, giving up so much for each other.
9. Sticking up for each other

• Obviously I can’t speak for the entire fandom, but these are my views, and generally the views of people that I’ve encountered. Thanks for taking the time out to read it!

Sincerely,
A Destiheller

matt was not taking anyone’s shit and was being so defensive over malec and literally attacked anyone who dared insult his ship plus he called out not only clary but clace and wants alec to set up luke and mama lightwood and he’s so tired of alec always taking the heat for everything and tired of people not taking his orders seriously and he literally did a psa so everyone would know to yell at farm animals as you drive by them because it makes them happy and wow i stan the right man

An actual conversation I had

Sister: So what do you think of those ships where one of the boys is protective over the other and will keep them safe so no one hurts their baby?

Me: I LIVE FOR THOSE KINDS OF SHIPS. THEY ARE THE MOST ADORABLE THING EVER AND THEY MAKE ME THE HAPPIEST HUMAN. DO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE IT WHEN THE BOY WILL PROTECT MY CHILD?? I WANT TO DROWN IN THOSE TYPES OF SHIPS. YOU DON’T EVEN KNOW.

Sister: So you like those kinds of ships then?

Me: ……yes.

True story XD

i’m taking pre-orders for my spd/autism noise muffling beanies/headbands

YO I am so autistic and SO PUMPED that I came up with this product. earbuds and noise cancelling headphones are sensory hell for me, but I have finally figured out how to use only fabric to block out between 50% of sound. but if you order custom, I can adjust the amount of fabric to allow the amount of sound in you want.

the beanies and headbands are made of recycled sweaters!!!

i’ll start making them march 11th and i can have them shipped by march 12th seriously im hyperfocused

plain beanies are $15. plain headbands are $10. beanies with designs are $20. headbands with designs are $13. shipping is free because GREECE but it will also take about a month to get there because GREECE

you can pre-order a plain one, a space themed one, a plant themed one, or an animal themed one (my special interests lol)

OR you can custom order one in your special interest! i’m already making one for someone who really likes monsters and it’s going to have horns and lots of eyes so basically tell me what you’re interested in. custom beanies are $25 and custom headbands are $17. i can also change the fabric or add zippers or snaps or tassles or fringes. really just let your sensory desires run wild my buds

in conclusion i am SO FREAKING HAPPY. i see so many products for autistic people made by allistic people and it’s like??? no. i’m autistic and can’t hold down a job because of my anxiety disorder, so this is my only source of income. i’m also trying to save up money to buy a retired greyhound that is dying so i can give them a good home

etsy shop will be up tomorrow. PLEASE message me with what you want and i will mesage you because i’ll probably have made it in 1-3 days

please sign boost for autistic/spd people who shouldn’t have to deal with uncomfortable and unstylish ear protection!!!

The 100 Hellatus Survival Kit

Since I know all of us will be in various stages of mourning and death over the next 9ish months, here’s some fandoms to fling yourselves into to cope! (WARNING: There’s a lot of books..)

* = (post) apocalypse / dystopia setting
** = relationship dynamic reminiscent of bellarke
*** = both

Television

**The Expanse

Want to fantasize about the delinquents in space? This is basically the S5 au you need.

  • kick ass space opera
  • diverse af cast
  • Nolden = Space Blarke (not kidding, this is what would’ve happened if she went to space)

**The X-Files

I know I never shut up about this show, but it’s for a good reason. Are you sad about Bellarke and need a long ass show to invest yourself in? With a slow burn couple, built on trust and respect and support? LOOK NO FURTHER!

  • government conspiracies
  • sad space parents
  • the longest slow burn that will renew your faith in blarke (its literally 7 years)
  • 10 seasons worth of content so you won’t run dry
  • MULDER AND SCULLY ARE LITERALLY BELLARKE I STG YOU CAN ASK HAILEE AND GRACE

Sense8

Looking for another “diverse group of misfits that create their own family” to cry over?

  • 8 people share a psychic link
  • the bad government want to experiment on them
  • the most diverse cast i stg (gay ships! trans characters! poc!)
  • ships that will make you cry for 17 days 
  • so many people sleep on this so and i not qu(white) understand

***The Walking Dead

How about another power couple leading a rag tag group of peeps through the apocalypse? (Yeah I’m talking about Richonne)

  • zombie apocalypse
  • i don’t think i really need to explain this
  • but ana would literally kill me if i didn’t include them on this list
  • richonne = bellarke material

**Lost

You can thank Mik and April for this one. In case you’re wondering what’s in store for blarke next season, or if you’re wanting to imagine that reunion.

  • DESMOND AND PENNY 
  • bunch a strangers plane crash on a magic island
  • it’ll melt your brains (I’ve watched it twice and I’m still not sure i completely understand everything)
  • but seriously ask mik about desmond x penny because she’ll make you cry about s5 blarke

Stitchers

Just want a cute feel good show with just enough angst and a ship that will cause you only minor pain?

  • girl with a made up brain condition “stitches” into the minds of dead people to solve murders
  • camsten gives me butterflies
  • its just really cute

Honorable Mentions: *Attack on Titan, *Psycho Pass, The OA, ***Battlestar Galactica (I’m still crying about lee and starbuck ok?) *Firefly, Teen Wolf, Glitch, Agents of SHIELD, Roswell, *3%, *Falling Skies, American Gods (SUPPORT RICKY)

Movies

***Pacific Rim

Stay with me here. How about a visually stunning movie about the people fighting monsters in giant robots? But with important character backstories, diversity, and Idris Elba?

  • giant godzilla like monsters crawl out of the ocean and terrorize the world
  • special pilots operate huge transformer like robots to fight them
  • watch and just imagine blarke isn’t drift compatible (can’t relate)
  • a sequel starring John Boyega

*Goodbye World

Still feeling that apocalypse vibe?

  • group of old college friends try to ride out the apocalypse in a cabin
  • its simple but dramatic

*Tomorrow, When the War Began (also a tv show and book series)

How about some Australian teenagers fighting back against a country on the brink of war and chillin’ in the outback?

  • its basically Red Dawn in Australia
  • its v dramatic 
  • based on the book series by John Marsden

*The Stand

I mean technically it was a mini series, but whatever. Down for the film version of Stephen King’s greatest work about the battle between good an evil across a pandemic ridden America?

  • a virus kills almost everyone in literally a couple days
  • survivors are called from all over to join either the good guys or the bad guys
  • its much cooler than it sounds
  • I’d recommend the book but its 1200 pages and I know y'all don’t have that motivation

*How I Live Now

Have a need for even more teenagers at the end of the world? 

  • political / nuclear apocalypse
  • group of kids try to survive in the english hills or whatever
  • ft. baby tom holland and a weird cousin relationship that i don’t get
  • its still good though

Honorable Mentions: Ginger Snaps, *Resident Evil (but just the first one), Electrick Children, *The Matrix, 28 Days Later, Children of Men

Books (this is gonna be a long one)

lets get the obvious ones out of the way…

**Six of Crows duology by Leigh Bardugo

If y'all haven’t heard of this yet between me, Ana, and Delaney in the past month where have you been?

  • ragtag (diverse) group of criminals misfits band together to pull of the ultimate heist
  • lgbtq+ characters! characters oaf color! disabled characters!
  • the ships will literally tear your actual heart out (*whispers* kanej)

A Darker Shade of Magic (and sequels) by VE Schwab

pretend to be shocked for a minute… are you in the market for a soul crushing series, with morally grey, but entirely lovable characters, and relationships (romantic and platonic) that make you cry?

  • parallel londons, blood magic, pirates, and princes
  • lila bard
  • bisexual prince and his pirate privateer lover
  • lila bard
  • otp thats meets when person a robs person b and leaves them bleeding in an alley 
  • seriously if you take one recommendation from this list make it this one
  • LILA BARD

ok on to the ones i haven’t spent the last month yelling about

Mistborn series by Brandon Sanderson

book hangover after you’ve finished the first 2 books? well here comes the perfect combo of both!

  • fantasy dystopia? basically a fantasy world if the dark lord had won
  • alchemy magic!
  • group of misfits come together to perform a heist

***The Shatter Me series by Tahereh Mafi

Does the absence of blarke have you longing for an angsty, enemies to friends to lovers ship?

  • dystopia where some people have super powers
  • girl who can kill people by touching them (she’s basically Rogue)
  • aaron warner <3
  • the angstiest shit i stg
  • its a romance hiding behind a dystopian storyline
  • i think warner has elements of S1 bellamy so I’m considering a similar dynamic, deal with it

*This Savage Song by Victoria Schwab

I couldn’t not include more from my queen. Looking for a book about monsters, and music, and the end of the world?

  • a future where  every violent act a human commits manifests an actual living breathing monster
  • the city of verity is controlled by 2 warring families, (August’s and Kate’s)
  • Kate and August come together to battle the big bad that’s threatening their town
  • the writing is so. fucking. poetic.
  • also no romance!

Truthwitch by Susan Dennard

do you love witches? and kickass female friendship? and love interests that stab each other in the heart?

  • witch best friends (aka threadsisters) on the run
  • a complex af magic system (truthwitch-sense lies, windwitch-control wind/air, you get the idea)
  • seriously the female friendship tho
  • angsty ships that try to kill each other!!!
  • ongoing, but book 2 just came out

*On the Beach by Nevil Shute

Can’t get enough of people dealing with the impending end of the world?

  • last survivors of a nuclear apocalypse sit on an australian beach and wait for their death basically
  • how people handle knowing they’re about to be wiped out
  • be prepared to cry

***The Lunar Chronicles by Marissa Meyer

More. Space. Stuff???

  • fairytale retellings in space??
  • cinder(ella) with a cyborg arm
  • + red riding hood, rapunzel, snow white
  • its been 84 years since i read, but i think cinder/kai reminded me vaguely of blarke so I’m counting it

*The Long Way to a Small, Angry Planet by Becky Chambers

I actually haven’t read this one so I don’t know if there’s a Blarke-esque relationship, but are you on the market for a book about gays and aliens in space??

  • space opera
  • introspective look at humanity and alien shit
  • some AI drama
  • f/f relationship (party!)

The Wrath and the Dawn (and sequel) by Renee Ahdieh

How do I open this one? Maybe you’re down for a retelling of 1001 Arabian nights?

  • such poetic writing
  • as i mentioned, retelling of 1001 Arabian Nights where this dude takes a new wife every night and kills her every morning
  • but then our salty heroin marries him and because she’s amazing she tricks him into keeping her alive through stories
  • and the romance is so angsty
  • i just started this so idk much else

Fangirl by Rainbow Rowell

Looking to find a book basically about all of our lives?

  • fan fiction writer goes to college 
  • social anxiety is a bitch
  • theres a cute boy
  • its so fluffy it’ll make you smile

**Saga by Brian K. Vaugh and Fiona Stable

how about a few comic books? maybe one about a man and a woman from 2 warring intergalactic species on the run from their people?

  • forbidden romance between a bad ass black woman with wings and her kick ass asian husband with horns
  • running from both their governments that want their “abomination” baby dead (not a spoiler the first panel is literally her giving birth)
  • theres people with robot heads and alien orgies
  • its so fucking good
  • i feel like this is how 30 yo blarke would handle this situation

Teen Titans by Geoff Johns

On the look out for a superhero comic? Maybe, oh, ANOTHER ragtag group of misfits?

  • I know this isn’t everyone’s favorite iteration, but it’s mine and I love beast boy and raven so deal with it
  • robin, beast boy, raven, cyborg, etc.
  • just read it

Honorable Mentions: Labyrinth Lost by Zoraida Cordova, The Raven Cycle series by Maggie Steivfater, Not Your Sidekick by C.B. Lee, The Infernal Devices by Cassandra Clare (listen, she’s trash, but Jem is my son and I love him), An Ember in the Ashes by Sabaa Tahir, ***Red Rising by Pierce Brown,

I hope this helps everyone out! I tried to think of as many similarities as I could and then threw in some that are worth the interest! Happy Hellatus lovelies!

hobilu  asked:

i can't believe yooki are real and in love wow my pores have decreased in size, my skin is clear, ship yooki ppl

PLS SHIP YOOKI. YOU WILL NEVER REGRET IT.

crossover ships are the most beautiful things ever, and i just… I JUST I LOVE IT SO MUCH BECAUSE YOU CAN DO SO MUCH WITH THEM, and that’s what i do with Yoongi and Kihyun :”)) i’m so glad to have created them when kihyun touched the suga butt. 

They are clearly a match made in MY HEAVEN LOL

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them laughing super hard

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  • and how they’re ‘93 
  • friends before debut
  • still friends after debut
  • yoongi mentioned of a friend being in a hip hop group (he talked about kihyun ; _ ;)
  • KIHYUN FOREVER TOUCHING THE SUGA BUTT LOL
  • yoongi is rapper
  • kihyung is singer
  • and they can make beautiful duets together and kill me
  • kihyun probably featured in yoongi’s mixtape 
  • yoongi is older but shorter
  • kihyun is younger but taller
  • and their height differences arent very different but it’s so cute because kitty can have turtle lean against him when they’re standing at a bus stop together after their cute little dates because turtle is tired and kitty doesn’t mind having his adorable manly turtle leaning against him and i am crying because I SHIP YOOKI SO HARD.
  • BE A NUMBER ONE FAN LIKE ME LOL
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P4 anime cast’s thoughts on Yu and adachi, from Kaleidion’s post

Daisuke Namikawa is Yu Narukami’s JP voice actor.
Mitsuaki Madono is Tohru Adachi’s JP voice actor.

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Jack and Ashi: Have been around each other for almost all of two episodes, have good chemistry, share a lot of similarities yet still have differences to balance each other out, have saved each other’s lives, worry about each other, both have hallucinations/PTSD, have had several instances of foreshadowing and romantic implications together, and have probably gotten to know each other better than anyone else yet in the series.

Tumblr: LmAO JAck aNd asHi TotaLLY haVe a FAtheR/daUGHteR reLATionShiP bECAusE iT’d bE PEDOPHILIA AnD INCESTUAL iF thEY wErE iN a ROmanTiC reLATionShiP EveN thOUGh tHEy’Re BOth conSENtinG AdULts AnD tHERe’s nO EVIdenCE tHAt JAck iS asHi’s bIOLoGIcaL FAtheR LoL!!1!!

Jack and Aku: Hate each other and their ultimate goals are to destroy one another.

Tumblr: OmG thEY cOMpleTE eaCH oTHeR thEY mAKe sucH a GReaT cOUPle!!1!!

Ashi and Flora: Literally have never interacted or even know of each other’s existence.

Tumblr: thEY aRe sO GAY fOR eaCH oTHeR thEY GEt aLong sO wEll I caN’t WAiT fOR TheM tO faLL iN LOve!!1!!

Me:

Jm hangout with TM
Some fans : his a slut ….etc
JK playing with BG
Some fans : oh he make T jealous
Seriously?
Why is every thing have to be about shipping?
They are a humans after all they can hangout , dating who ever they want is non of our business because we are just a fan of them this fandom is stress me up more than my haters every day drama no wonder other fandoms called us drama queens because we believe in everything and doesn’t care about what the members feeling that they got attack by their own fandom, some time I which they didn’t become this popular so they can do what ever they want sigh
+ have u ever thought what is the members feeling when they got called slut, attention seeker….. Etc by their fans I don’t think because if u thought about it u won’t called them by that

anonymous asked:

Can u do a post about Hinata on team 7 vs Sakura on team 7? I am v tired of ppl saying Hinata would've been a better fit just bc of her backstory or whatever (let me get my violin out)

Uh I don’t really like boosting sakura while shitting on hinta since that’s the desperate shit they like to pull but for you anon I break my morals

1) Aesthetically pleasing team 7 cannot be matched

Like seriously the balance of colour scheme is iconic. Match any of them together and it’s gorgeous. Sakura and Naruto? Lemon and strawberry pastel aesthetic. Sakura and Sasuke? We all have a pavilovian response to red and blue ships anyways and the pink and blue aesthetic is so iconic it almost makes me angry remembering gender roles. Sasuke and Naruto? Blue and orange are literally complimentary colours. Hinata has a muted appearance like imagine–orange, dark and muted, dark and muted. Boring as shit. I am here for the Halloween pumkin, the spring in Japan and muted asian prince aesthetic.

2) Power balance. With 2 assholes like OP my eyes can shoot fire and I have a fucking demon within my stomach who watches me masturbate you need someone who can catch up and fight with them back to back. Only Sakura was capable of doing that because of her tHIRST to prove herself and actually not giving up. 

3) They need a medic. Okay but Naruto and Sasuke are constantly almost getting themselves killed and they need someone to tend to their asses. @ karin thanx 4 doing that in shippuuden boo

4) They need someone loud to set them straight. Remember when the bad boys were throwing up and wasting food and sakura yelled at them to stop? These 2 would not listen had it been told to them all ‘please stop :(’  

Also when Naruto was making fun of Lee and Sakura punched his rude ass, Hinata would not be able to make that bitch know his place.

When she encouraged Sasuke to get fired up by calling him a coward, he needed to face his fears and someone being upfront with him was what he needed.

5) Personality balance. This whole Hinata is so similar to sasuke and her story is so tragic :( garbage is hilarious to me. Sasuke did not grow from a rich privileged clan and the reason his dad was absent was not because sasuke was weak, it was because his dad had the fate of an entire clan resting on his shoulder. 

If you want to talk underdog because those folk like saying hinata is the underdog who aligns with naruto? Lmao NaruSaku has you. Sakura is the real underdog of the series to be honest. She started with 0, honed her skill in order to grow, never gave up on the people she loved and her ambitions and in the end became a flower more beautiful than the cosmos.

The underdogs always cheering for each other :’)

and reaching their goals together

The whole felt insecure in their own skin and tried to be like someone they greatly admired aligns with SasuSaku way more than s*

Bonus:

Heck, sakura grew up with a family but aside from Ino she has no friends and was a bullied child. In comparison to Sasuke it’s not that grand but who she was then inspired who she is now and that’s what matters. Who she is now fits like a puzzle, 3 lonely kids, hungry for acknowledgement finding home in one another. 

Team 7 is the hype of Naruto, Sasuke’s battle skills and Sakuras intelligence- it’s a perfect combination. She is the mediator. Among 2 very distinct energy types she is the median we find. Hot blooded, yet responsible. Rowdy, but obeys orders. Fun but can be serious. Compassionate but easily annoyed. If Sasuke is 0 and Naruto is 10, Sakura is the 5. They are a balanced power house of chemistry and love, the scale can’t be tipped in another direction…Hinata is like a 3 and that just won’t do.

Thanks for the ask anon.

Papa Winchester - Jeffrey Dean Morgan x Reader

Title: Papa Winchester

Pairing: Jeffrey Dean Morgan x Reader

Word Count: 3,529

Warnings: None really

Prompt: YN and Jeffrey met on season 1 of SPn where she played his daughter(the middle Winchester sister) and have been together ever since,they'r married with kids by now, and the fans (specially the cast who’s her family) always makes fun of that during interviews and pannels,but it’s always cute because Jeffrey likes to surprise them ,specially when the fans are involved,and they all love and are very supportive of their relationship

A/N: Thanks RLS for proofreading this!

“Oh and your husband totally got married to your daughter a couple years later, but no big deal!” Jensen said with a shrug and wave of his hand.

Jared chuckled next to him “I seriously thought he was gonna say this, and you know what would be even more creepy? Him being completely in character!”

“Absolutely! Oh and let’s not forget the whole zombies thing!” Jensen added with a playful grin as both he and Jared burst into laughter.

“Hey mom, dad married our sister and she made you a grandmother in the meantime!” Jared said in a deep voice, mimicking Dean as they chuckled “That would be one hell of a blooper, how the hell did you miss that chance?” he asked the older man who just shrugged.

“Don’t know, I was a little into character I guess.” Jensen shrugged “But oh, with Jeffrey visiting the set so often to see (Y/n) we are so going to do something with Samantha for next season!” he wiggled his eyebrows as Jared shook his head.

“Well, you guys really seem to have fun on set, don’t you?” the interviewer chuckled “But I think we all can understand you, I don’t think there is a single person I have personally met that watches Supernatural and doesn’t love them as a couple!”

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anonymous asked:

I don't know if you're still into servamp and the c3 ot3 (was that what you called them? lol). And I also don't know if you read fanfiction, but there is like one now on ao3. I just thought I'd let you know about that

Thank you!!!!! For letting me know!!!!!!!!!! Holy heck I’ll be sure to read it asap!!! *O*

Anon said: the other day I was listening to the weather forecast on the radio and they talked ab it very poetically, at some point they said “we might get the appearance of a shy lightning in the afternoon” and I just… Denki.

This is THE CUTEST THING I’ve read all week thank you oh my g o d …………. a shy lightning……………………… so cute…………………….h e c k I’m smiling so hard r i p

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anonymous asked:

Are there any adults in this fandom that we can trust?

there are, but i find that it defeats the purpose to just give you a list of people and say they are trustworthy, bc then it’ll just keep perpetuating the cycle of “well they’re supposed to be trustworthy and so it must be me that’s the problem if something happens that makes me uncomfortable.”

  • first of all, there is nothing wrong with just not following adults or associating with adults. the internet is a very casual place and it’s very hard to set up proper boundaries. there’s no way to guarantee that you’ll know or be able to control who’s following you, but there’s nothing wrong with being wary. people who are trustworthy will understand if you say you’re not comfortable with them following you, and people who get angry or whine and act hurt that you don’t trust them should be blocked.
  • pay attention to who they ship. seriously. it’s not normal for a 30 year old woman to be so invested in a fourteen year old boy and a fifteen year old boy dating. it’s also not normal for a 21 year old woman to be invested in shipping a a man who is roughly 25 years old with a bunch of teenagers. and it is REALLY abnormal for her to throw a hissy fit, and say that it’s legal and that she doesn’t care if it makes minors uncomfortable when confronted.
  • if an adult in the fandom does something that makes you uncomfortable, make good use of the anon feature and confront them about it. how they react is extremely telling. “sorry you got upset” is not an apology. an apology is along the lines of “i didn’t realize, that was ignorant of me/you’re right, i should have been more careful”. it’s not necessarily that just because you’re uncomfortable means that they’re wrong, but if someone confronts you about your behavior and your instinct is to just get angry and lash out rather than thinking critically about yourself to make sure that you’re not inadvertently doing something that’s inappropriate—that’s a problem. (use common sense too like i’m clearly not talking about someone getting mad when they get the ninth anon about something they’ve explained repeatedly. i’m talking about “you tagged a picture of nico as ‘omg that’s so hot’ and it really bothered me” kind of a thing).
  • people on the internet are people. if someone is overly familiar with you in a way that would be unusual or impossible given your ages irl, there is something wrong. at some point, the adult should show some awareness that they are an adult. you cannot be their confidant, you cannot be the person they turn to when they need help, you cannot be responsible to handle their problems, and they should not guilt you for not doing so. like, you can be friends with people who are older than you—but there should be boundaries there, too. if there is a much older person routinely unloading a lot of heavy issues on you, you need to get some distance from them. it doesn’t mean that they’re abusive, necessarily, but just that you have to look out for yourself, too. you’re not an adult yet, and therefore it’s not possible for you to be equipped to handle the problems that arise from adult life. basically: if you’re regularly having conversations with someone that you couldn’t or wouldn’t have with a teacher, an older sibling (ie: sex life, or something. some siblings are close but generally speaking….you’d be weirded out if your sister regularly complained to you about her sex life, right?), an older coworker, without arising suspicion—there is something wrong, there.
  • if you find yourself going out of your way to hide your online relationships with adults from the trusted adults in your life, there is something wrong (i say “trusted” because like, you could easily have people irl who are abusive as well. i don’t mean like, if you’re closeted and discussing being gay with someone older online. i mean like, you’re a minor and they’re an adult and you’re discussing nico and will having sex, or something along those lines.)
  • be wary of someone who primarily communicates with young teens despite not being a teen themselves. like, the mutuals i spend the most time talking to are within a year or so of my age. i have mutuals who are young teens who i love very much, but i don’t spend most of my time speaking with 15 y/os. i’m 19. like, i’ve followed and been followed by a lot of adults in my time, but the difference is that they always primarily blogged with/about other adults, if that makes sense? i don’t know if this is clear enough but like if there is a 20+ y/o person whose mutuals all seem to be around 16, that’s weird.
  • don’t trust fandom adults who don’t seem to recognize or care about the impact they have on younger people
  • be wary of fandom adults who are involved in long strings of discourses and seem to be at the heart of most of them. like, i’m fully okay with including myself in this—i’m not saying outright disregard anyone who starts discourse, i’m just saying pay attention. be wary. what is the discourse they participate in about? do they ever explain themselves, or do they just act deliberately vague and refuse to engage publicly? like, i’m involved in a lot of discourse. if someone approaches me about it, i explain myself, publicly. i give a list of reasons why i’m upset and i leave people to make of that what they will. my mutuals will do the same. mary won’t hold public discussions. she won’t explain her behavior. she doesn’t defend herself, she just makes deliberately vague statements about forming your own opinions of her and not believing people who want to “smear her name”. like, look, if you can’t give a public explanation for why you are behaving the way that you are—something is wrong.

this isn’t exhaustive but like as a general rule, trustworthy adults will be fully okay with you asking questions to make sure they’re trustworthy.

7 Minutes in Turbolift Heaven

Jim Kirk x Female!Reader

Warning: fluffy, smut

A/N: Reader has a British accent! Commissioned by @storiesofthefandomlovers

Summary:  You are a translator for the Enterprise and you love your job, you really do. But there is one downside, one big pain in your ass - Captain Kirk. Jim and you are constantly straddling the lines of love and hate - sometimes blurring the whole mess. The two of you are always bickering, always mocking each other, always getting under each other’s skins - everyone has noticed. In fact, you two tend to draw a curious audience. It’s a final blow up over Jim sending another translator down to a mission that erupts all the emotions - good and bad, that you have for the man free. Spock calls it intervention, Bones calls it 7 minutes in turbolift Heaven.

Originally posted by michaelburham

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Okay  honestly I know Legends has been awesome in providing crack episodes to us but really they’re missing out on some great stuff: 

  • It’s great and all that they’re traveling to different places but when are they gonna travel to ancient Greece? Or Rome???? GIVE IT TO ME. 
  • Forget space pirates give me pirates pirates. 
    • You KNOW there’d be a badass lady pirate and Sara def is into her.
    • Mick is probably made captain of a pirate ship somehow. 
  • Seriously. I just - cannot believe that they put the historical periods into a montage (besides Camelot). Just give me ALL the historical periods and “Sometimes I Remember I’m A Historian” Nate going “mmm….not historically accurate.” 
  • What’s that? Them going into space and fighting/being friends with aliens? 
    • Ik we kind of went into it in Invasion but like, let’s make it more explicit this time. 
    • LET JAX KISS A CUTE ALIEN 2K17. 
  • @hedgiwithapen has de-aged headcanons like??? Imagine teen Martin comforting 3 year old Jax and then they merge by accident and now you have a 3 year old Firestorm lighting shit on fire while teenage Mick finds more stuff for them to blow up. 
    • Good god I’d watch a WHOLE episode of toddlers running the Waverider and ykw?? It probably wouldn’t be that different. 
  • POWERSWAP POWERSWAP POWERSWAP
    • Fine okay so this REALLY only works with Firestorm, Nate, and Amaya but it’d be fun, or if the team somehow found themselves with each other’s weapons I’d start laughing. 
      • Amaya and Sara can now merge which is great. 
      • Ray is left alone on the ship and is like “OH SWEET I GET TO BE CAPTAIN AGAIN”. 
      • Jax has Mick’s heat gun and Mick has the steel powers and both are thriving. 
      • Nate gets Amaya’s powers but for some reason can’t figure it out and ends up running away from danger half the time. 
      • Stein grabs the atom suit and for all his knowledge can’t figure out how to use it, and ends up destroying it. 
        • Mick laughs because he remembers Ray told him an idiot could use it.
  • Where. Is. My. Bodyswap. Episode. 
    • As per @calmandcalculating Mick and Sara swap bodies and have the same stance. 
    • Jax and Rip probably swap and they’re like “………….great”. 
      • “If you damage my body I’m killing you Rip.” “No worries, Mr. Jackson.” 
    • Nate and Ray swap but they’re pretty much the same person so does it even make a difference lmfao. 
    • Somehow Stein/Amaya/Gideon all swap and now Gideon is in Amaya’s body, Amaya is in Stein’s body, and Stein is an AI and he’s startled but now keeps annoying people by popping up with his unwanted opinions all the time
  • HORROR AU!!!! GHOSTHUNTING ON THE WAVERIDER!!!
    • It all starts when Ray Palmer and Nate Heywood, Horror White Boys ™ bring a Ouija board on the ship. 
      • Ray thinks it’s ridiculous and Nate just laughs because he doesn’t believe in it so both are down to play it. 
      • Sara doesn’t know if she believes or not but honestly she thinks she can kick a demon’s ass so it’s okay. 
      • Stein and Mick probably end up possessed. 
      • Actually tbh maybe this wouldn’t happen because Jax is smart and would break the board. 
        • He probably does this every time Ray & Nate bring something stupid on board. “Oh a tape that kills you if you watch it? Yeah okay HOW ABOUT NO”.
        • Oh you went to an antique shop and found this creepy puppet??? “Nope, nope, nope, not today. Hell no, you two are out of your minds, get that shit away from me, nOOOOPEEEEEE-”